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Strength Of A Woman

"WOMB"

In every woman's life

There are moments of pride

The challenges that made her stronger

The determination has remained steadfast

She work hard and never quit

The willingness to keep on the path

She gave her best stayed with her dream

There's nothing she can't do in her love will sustain

Motivation that she possess

Confidence that purpose has strong sense

Understanding to accept the benefits of criticism

Celebration of life and love has shown to her face

Behind her smile more pains to hide

Controlled emotions to let show her passion

Loving touch to satisfy the needs of innocent cry

Yet being true to herself unappreciated often times

She's an angel created with an amazing role

In her womb where human are place and formed

In her folded hands where immature faith be train

In her tongue words of wisdom to nourish innocent mind

In her heart finds greater inspiration

Every hope she seek comes unexpected miracles

Every challenges she meet petition for piece of peace

For every opportunity wants

Wishing an extra chances

She's the woman with dreamer's eye

To view endless possibilities to go on with life

She's a blessed woman with enough strength

Blessed heart with enough courage to succeed

Empowered with all the love and goals

She's focused on her unborn and born future

Brave enough to face both joys and struggles

Accomplishments keep and remembered forever

This special moment congratulate her

Do something meaningful she deserved

Remember many people smiling at her

Wishing and celebrating right along with her

She may be unknown by some people

Most oftentimes unnoticed and ignored

Yet so tough to decide when and where to hide

This place called home where little voices

called her "MOM"

I'm Not Complete Without You

When Tomorrow Starts Without Me

When tomorrow starts without me,

and I'm not there to see,

If the sun should rise and find your eyes,

all filled with tears for me,

I wish so much you wouldn't cry,

the way you did today,

While thinking of the many things

we didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me,

as much as I love you,

And each time that you think of me,

I know you'll miss me too.

But when tomorrow starts without me,

please try to understand,

That an angel came and called my name

and took me by the hand.

And said my place was ready in Heaven far above,

And that I'd have to leave behind,

all those things I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away,

a tear fell from my eye,

For all my life, I'd always thought,

I didn't want to die.

I had so much to live for, so much yet to do,

It seemed almost impossible,

that I was leaving you.

I thought of all the yesterdays,

the good ones and the bad,

I thought of all the love we shared,

and all the fun we had.If I could relive yesterday,

just even for a while,I'd say goodbye and kiss you,

and maybe see you smile.

But then I fully realized, that could never be,

For emptiness and memories, would take the place of me.

And when I thought of worldly things,

I might miss come tomorrow,

I thought of you, and when I did,

my heart was filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through Heaven's gates,

I felt so much at home.

When God looked down and smiled at me,

from his great golden throne.

He said, "This is eternity,

and all I've promised you.

Today your life on Earth is past,

and here it starts anew".

"I promise no tomorrow,

but today will always last,

And since each day's the same day,

there's no longing for the past".

"But you have been so faithful,

so trusting and so true,

Though there were times you did some things,

you know you shouldn't do".

"But you have been forgiven,

and now at last you're free,

So won't you take my hand now

and share My life with Me".

So when tomorrow starts without me,

don't think we're far apart,

For every time you think of me,

I'm right here in your heart.

Written By: My Gorgeous Knight

Business Ethics

Can you hear me now?

This morning while I was doing some research for an upcoming article, I had a few questions about the information I was finding. I clicked on the "Contact Us" button on the site, and up came the PR contact for the company. I got his name, address, phone, fax and e-mail.
As I picked up the phone to call him, I rehearsed what I would say in my head...
"Hi, I'm a writer for CareerBuilder.com..." no, that doesn't sound right. "Hey, I'm looking for some more information on..." no, not that either.

I hung up. As I clicked on the contact's e-mail address and I quickly typed out my request, I thought about my actions. Why couldn't I just pick up the phone and call the guy? It's not like I was in 6th grade and calling my crush or anything.

And then it occurred to me - I sort of forgot how.

When it comes to the phone, the only people I really talk to are my friends and family - at work, e-mail is my choice of communication. In a time where technology rules, this isn't surprising, so I thought that if I'm having a problem, other's might be too.

Here's a quick lesson in telephone etiquette from Marjorie Brody, author of "Professional Impressions: Etiquette for Everyone, Every Day."

When the telephone rings...

Answer all calls within three rings, Brody advises. When you pick up, smile (she says it will come through in your voice) and identify yourself. For example, "Victoria Smith speaking" or "This is Victoria Smith."

Screening your calls

Everyone is busy - there's nothing wrong with having your assistant screen your calls, or screening them yourself - as long as everyone is getting screened, and not just certain people.
If you use voice mail to answer your calls, Brody suggests keeping your outgoing message up-to-date with the time you expect to return or be available.

Calling back

The sooner, the better, Brody says. Always return a phone call within 24 hours. Even if the call isn't about something you can help with, let the caller know so he or she can look elsewhere for help.

Scheduling a conversation

Scheduling a phone call is the same as scheduling a meeting, Brody says. You wouldn't ignore a meeting or appointment you made, so don't "stand up" someone who is waiting to speak with you.

Holding a conversation

Keep your full attention on the person you're talking to , no matter what else is going on around you, Brody says. Concentrate on listening - not on checking your e-mail, not doodling on a notepad - listening.

When you are the caller

Before calling, get organized. Know what you want to say and accomplish, Brody says. (This was my problem earlier!) Identify yourself immediately.

Oh, and never make any comments in your work area until after you've hung up, Brody says.

Even then, make sure it's on the hook - you don't want the other person to hear anything you say if they're still on the line.

Speakerphones
Plain and simple, unless you're on a conference call, using speakerphone is rude - don't do it, Brody says.
Voicemail

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You want your voice mails to be professional, Brody says. Keep the message brief; speak slowly and enunciate; and give your name and number at the beginning and end of the message.

Make Your Hobby Work for You

How to Turn a Pastime into a Career

Do you have a hobby -- something you really enjoy doing in your spare time? Do you love gardening, taking care of animals, dancing, or hiking? Have you ever wondered what it would be like if you could spend more time on your hobby and less time at work? Maybe it's not an either/or situation. Perhaps you can do both at the same time.

When choosing a career, one of the things you must consider are your interests. Why then do so many people not even think about their hobbies when a hobby is, in fact, an interest. Perhaps it's because even Webster's Dictionary defines a hobby as "a pursuit outside one's regular occupation" (Merriam-Webster Online). Maybe this is a rule you should break. After all, no one ever said your hobby had to stay separate from your occupation. In addition people are usually very skilled at their hobbies. The combination of interest and skill are very compelling reasons to choose a particular career.

"Who's going to hire someone who loves making beaded jewelry?" you may ask yourself. Good question. Don't wait for someone to hire you. Start your own business. That may be the best way to incorporate your hobby into your career. Those with hobbies that involve creating things, i.e. jewelry, clothing, or pottery, may do well to sell those items on their own. Before you go forward with your plans, though, you should find out whether being an entrepreneur is for you. About's Guide to Small Business: Canada, Susan Ward, has written an article that will help you decide.

Let's say you determine that running a small business isn't for you. You can still turn your hobby into a career, but you may have to get some formal training. Let's go back to the person who loves making beaded jewelry. That person probably knows the latest jewelry styles, has an understanding of what styles look good on different people, and also is skilled in using the tools of the trade.

A number of options exist for that person. He or she could go to school to learn how to be a jewelry designer. Alternately, that person could become a jewelry buyer for a department store or a salesperson in a jewelry store. He or she could also learn to become a jeweler by taking courses at a trade school or by learning on the job.

When you attempt to turn your hobby into a career don't forget to do your homework. Even though you may have enjoyed training your 34 parakeets to sing the National Anthem that doesn't mean you're cut out to be an animal trainer. Be sure to research your career choice thoroughly. There may be aspects of it that just aren't for you. In that case, stick to your day job, as they say, and save your hobby for your free time.

The True Essence Of Friendship

" GENERAL TRAITS OF A FRIENDSHIP "

Perhaps the one relation that has survived the trials and tribulations of time and has still remained unconditional is friendship.

A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship between two individuals.

Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship.

To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure.

Deep Emotions Waiting To Unleash

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH



* They didn't agree on much.In fact, they rarely agreed on anything.They fought all the time & challenged eachother everyday.But in spite of their differences;They had one important thing in common.They were crazy about eachother.

* I want to be the girl he is scared to lose.The one where he can't walk away from,knowing she is mad at him.The one who can't fall asleep withouther voice being the last one he hears;The one he can't live without.

* Love isn't finding someone you can live with...it's finding someone you can't live without <3>

* If loving you is wrong, then I don't want to be right.

* I love the way you smile at meand make me feel that nothing can go wrong.

* Love is the most cruelest form of affection,and the most sweetest form of torture.

* To the world you may be one person.But to one person, you may be the world.


* I have never been to jail.But that doesn't mean I've never stolen a heart.

* Love is when you don't want to go to sleep;because reality is better than a dream.

* I'm not asking for diamonds. I'm not asking for the world.I'm just asking that you hold me & call me your babygirl.

* Don't say you love me, unless you really mean it.Because I might do something crazy ... like believe it.

* You filled my heart with love and my world with happiness.

* You were everything I was looking for....when I wasn't even looking.

* If you love me, let me know. If you don't, then let me go.

* If you asked how many times you ran through my mind..I'd say once, cause babe, you never left it.

* The man that deserves you the mostis the man that thinks he doesn't.

* Love is like a mountain;smooth corners, rough edges, and hard falls.

* Never say forever cause forever isn't real
Forever's what you think and forever's what you feel
So if you say forever please promise that you'll try
But never say forever cause forever makes me cry

* If you loved me like you told me
Be careful with my heartYou can take it, just don't break it
Cause my world would fall apart

* I want to be the seashell you find washed up along the tide.
Beautiful, flawless, and special in your eyes.

* Everytime I see you ... I fall in love all over again.

* I promise I will never forget the day we kissed..or the day we met. The sky may fall..and the stars may too.but in the end I will still love you.

* It takes millions of people to complete the worldbut it only takes you to complete mine.

* A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others.

* Nothing can explain this dream I had thatsuddenly came true...everything I've ever wantedI've found in you

* I wont mess with your head or play with your heartBecause I'm a real girl & I finish what I start.

* True love never dies. It only gets stronger with time.

* Being with you made me feel like...for once in my life
I wouldn't have to work so hard on being happythat it could just happen.

* Kiss me and i'll see stars......love me and i'll give them to you!


* You're just jealous because we are young and in love. <3>

* YOU are the first person I think of when I wake up......the last person I think of before I go to bed......and the only person I think of as I dream...

* The world is gonna throw us a million reasons of why this isn't gonna work out between us,but I am armed with one reason of why it will..I LoVe YoU

* Once in a while, right in the middle of life...Love gives us a fairytale.

* Love is a misunderstanding between two fools. * I'm not perfect, neither is he, but together we just may be!

Interesting True Words Coming from............(The Saints)

" SAINTS ARE ORINARY PEOPLE WHO DO EXTRAORDINARY THINGS "

"Who loves God, finds pleasure in everything;

Who not loves God, finds no true pleasure in anything."

-- St Alphonsus Liguori

"It is better to be the child of God than king of the whole world."

-- St. Aloysius Gonzaga

"God said: I have placed you in the midst of your fellows so that you may do to them what you cannot do to Me - that is, so that you may love your neighbor freely without expecting any return from him. And what you do to him I count it done to Me."

-- St Catherine of Siena

"It's true he was a sinner. But don't pass so final a judgement. Have pity in your heart and don't forget that he may yet be an Augustine, while you remain just another mediocrity."

-- St. Josémaria Escriva

"Oh how precious time is! Blessed are those who know how to make good use of it. Who can assure us that we will be alive tommorow? Let us listen to the voice of our conscience, to the voice of the royal prophet: "Today if you hear God's voice, harden not your heart." Let us not put off for one moment to another what we "should" do, because the next moment is not yet ours! "

-- St. Pio of Pietrelcina

"The way to Heaven is straight and narrow: they who wish to arrive at that place of bliss by walking in the paths of pleasure shall be disappointed; and therefore few reach it, because few are willing to use violence to themselves in resisting temptations."

-- St. Alphonsus Liguori

"True wisdom, then, consists in works, not in great talents, which the world admires; for the wise in the world's estimation ... are the foolish who set at naught the will of God and know not how to control their passions."

-- St. Bridget of Sweden

"It is certain that the love of God does not consist in this sweetness and tenderness which we for the most part desire; but rather in serving Him in justice, fortitude, and humility. His Majesty seeks and loves courageous souls."

-- St. Teresa of Avila

"Who teaches the soul if not God?"

-- Saint John of the Cross

"Be humble in this life, that God may raise you up in the next. Be truly moderate and do not punish or condemn anyone immoderately. Be gentle so that you may never oppose justice. Be honorable so that you may never voluntarily bring disgrace upon anyone. Be chaste so that you may avoid all the foulness of lust like the pangs of death."

-- St. Stephen of Hungary

"Those who wage war against the truth are powerless to win; rather they wound themselves, like those who kick against spikes."

-- St John Chrysostom

"When the Devil is called the god of this world, it's not because he made it, but because we serve him with our worldliness."

-- St Thomas Aquinas

"It is blasphemy if you pray before God while you are full of anger."

-- St. Ephrem the Syrian

"Good virtuous folks feel more pleasure in the sorrow over their sins and the affliction of their penance than wretches feel in the fulfilling of their obsessed pleasure."

-- St Thomas More

"We must understand then, that even though God doesn't always give us what we want, He always gives us what we need for our salvation."

-- St Augustine

"Everyone, past, present and future will be judged. Now, then, is the time for mercy, while the time to come will be the time for justice only. For that reason, the present times is ours to repent, but the future time will be God's alone for judgment. While there is breath there is hope."

-- St Thomas Aquinas

"Every virtue in your soul is a precious ornament which makes you dear to God and to man. But holy purity, the queen of virtues, the angelic virtue, is a jewel so precious that those who possess it become like the angels of God in Heaven, even though clothed in mortal flesh."

-- St. John Bosco

Love Is Timeless

Time and value

To realizethe value of a sister

Ask someone who doesn't have one.

To realizethe value of ten years

Ask a newly-divorced couple.

To realizethe value of four years

Ask a graduate.

To realizethe value of one year

Ask a student who has failed a final exam.

To realizethe value of nine months

Ask a mother who gave birth to a still born.

To realize the value of one month

Ask a mother who has given birth to a premature baby.

To realizethe value of one week

Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realizethe value of one hour

Ask the lovers who are waiting to meet

To realizethe value of one minute

Ask a person who has missed the train, bus or plane.

To realizethe value of one-second

Ask a person who has survived an accident...

To realizethe value of one millisecond

Ask the person who has won a silver medal in the

OlympicsTime waits for no one.

Treasure every moment you have.

You will treasure it even more

when you can share it with someone special.

To realize the value of a friend

Lose one.

"Being In Love Is Quite Confusing"

Is it Love Or Loneliness?

The concept as well as the feeling of being in Love has become so distorted and confused these days that few can really tell you, when asked, whether they are truly in love with their partner.

Why is that?

Well one of the most significant reasons is that true feelings of Love are often clouded by other powerful feelings, one of which are the deep feelings of loneliness that many also experience in tandem.

Often the murkiness is so great that the relief one gets from having their feelings of loneliness quenched on meeting a new partner are often confused/mistaken for true feelings of love. The need to have such lonely feelings kept at bay then become the basis and foundation upon which the relationship gets built. Do you see the problem with this picture?

If not let me elaborate.

The need to keep a relationship going based on the need to avoid ever feeling alone is based on feelings of fear. That fear being the fear of being alone. In the presence of fear true feelings of love actually get submerged and stifled. In other words they never get the chance to surface.

A relationship based on such feelings inevitably lead the "lonely" partner to begin exhibiting behaviors which are controlling towards their partner whenever their sense of security is threatened. Such behaviors will attempt to limit the healthy self expression of the partner solely for the purpose of keeping the lonely partner from feeling anxious or insecure.

So now I ask you, is that what you would call "loving behavior"?

I highly doubt it!

If you're with me then, if you wish, do the following:

Place one hand over your heart and simply assert to yourself, as if speaking from your heart, that a) this is not true loving behavior and b) you personally never desire to make feelings of loneliness the foundation of your relationship.

Next, if you would like to have more clarity on what the experience and feeling of Love really is, again with your hand over your heart, assert this to yourself as well.

Now notice how you feel inside. If you've followed me so far you may be feeling a greater sense of clarity, joy, lightness, inner peace, contentment, and yes feelings of love.

Finally, allow yourself to be inspired by your new state to begin imagining what you want your relationship to be and feel like. As you create this new picture, imagine that it is actually happening in your life right now. Then notice how you feel.

If this feels desirable to you, again you may wish to assert this to yourself via your heart and then again notice how you feel.

So in your contemplation of that question above you have been helped to awaken to greater clarity of what love is by asking you to look at what it isn't. This is your first step to putting your life and relationship on a strong foundation of Love.

Tweens and Cell Phones

Cell phones for kids are all the rage, but should your child have one?
It wasn't that long ago when tweens asked for walky talkies for their birthdays. A lot has changed since then. Todays tweens want cell phones and cell phone companies know it as they target the preteen market with phones that appeal directly to children. Family calling plans are reasonably priced and many have incorporated tweens and their cell phone habits into the package. It's estimated that approximately 10 percent of preteens already have cell phones, and you can bet the remaining 90 percent are jockeying to get one.

If your tween has asked you for a cell phone (and if she hasn't already, it's just a matter of time before she will) there are a number of considerations you'll want to mull over.
Does she really need a cell phone?

Probably not, but that doesn't mean that a cell phone is totally impractical. If your son has a very busy schedule, or a schedule that isn't always predictable, a cell phone could help you stay in touch and keep up to date on his whereabouts. The real question parents must ask themselves is whether or not their child has matured to the point where he can keep up with his phone and manage the plan's monthly minute limitations.

What are your rules and limitations?

Before you go out and purchase a phone and a plan you'll need to know about school rules regarding cell phones. More and more schools are not allowing cell phones on premises or are requiring that they be turned off completely during school hours, with consequences if they're not. If the whole idea behind purchasing the cell phone is to be able to contact your child at any time of day, you may decide the cost of the phone and the plan just isn't worth it.

Also, you'll want to consider appropriate disciplinary action should your child abuse his cell phone privileges or lose his cell phone altogether.

Does she know cell phone etiquette?

You're not doing your daughter (or society) any favors by buying her a cell phone and failing to educate her on appropriate cell phone behavior. Even tweens need to understand cell phone etiquette in order to save themselves from potentially embarrassing situations. Instruct your child on the basics, such as turning the phone to vibrate, excusing himself from others in order to carry on a phone conversation, and turning the phone off when in public settings. Incidentally, it's also important that your child understand that it's rude to take embarrassing pictures of his friends with his phone, or to use the phone to gossip about others, and otherwise behave badly.

Are they safe?

The jury is still out on this. In Europe, parents have been warned about the potential dangers caused by cell phones and the electromagnetic radiation they emit. As researchers continue to look into the potential harmful drawbacks of cell phone usage, it's best that you talk with your son or daughter about cell phone safety and encourage them to only use the cell phone when absolutely necessary. In addition, headsets are a good idea for tweens or teens who spend a lot of time on their phones and should be an option to consider.

It's important to remember that cell phones can give tweens and their parents a false sense of security. Make sure your son or daughter understands that all the safety precautions you've taught them over the years still apply. Children need to know that they should never put themselves in a risky situation, such as walking alone at night or catching a ride with a stranger, thinking that the cell phone will provide them with a safety net. It won't.

Priceless Gifts‏

Eight Gifts That Don't Cost a Cent
In the economy of the heart, these presents are priceless.

"Each day comes bearing its own gifts. Untie the ribbons."

This simple checklist can help measure how you are nurturing your relationships.
The Gift of Listening
But you must really listen. Don't interrupt, don't daydream, don't plan your response. Just listen.
The Gift of Affection
Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and handholds. Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends. The Gift of LaughterClip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, "I love to laugh with you."

The Gift of Solitude
There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone. Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.

The Gift of a Favor
Everyday, go out of your way to do something kind.The Gift of a Written Note It can be a simple "Thanks for the help" note or a full sonnet. A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime.

The Gift of a Compliment
A simple and sincere, "You look great in red," "You did a super job," or "That was a wonderful meal" can make someone's day.The Gift of a Cheerful Disposition The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone.

Make Your Non-Committal Man Suddenly Need You‏

How To Make A Man Addicted To You

If you'd like to know the real reasons why so many men who never thought they'd want or need a committed relationship couldn't help themselves with the right woman...

And you'd like to make it easy for your man to know that being with you is much, much better thanever being apart, without convincing, arguing, orother unnecessary stress, then you need to read this:

http://www.CatchHimKeepHim.com/FCTC

What I'm going to share with you now could lead to the most important single decision you ever make in your love life.

Yes, even more important than saying "I do."

If you're open to it, what's in this email, and the other resources I include here for you to check out could literally "change your luck" for good.

Let's get started.

As a man, I hear and understand a lot of what you might call the "inside scoop" on what men think.

As a result, and after paying attention to this kind of stuff for the last several years... I've come to hear a few of the same things over and over from men and women about love, dating andrelationships.

One particularly fascinating aspect of this are the problems and complaints I keep hearing men share about relationships with women.

Now, why should this matter to you?

Well, because I'd assume that someday you'd like to have a real, loving, lasting relationship with you-know-who:

A real live man.
Which means...
You've got a decision to make.

You can either keep feeling frustrated that things haven't gone your way, and annoyed that men don't get it, or get you, and that they are all messed up.

In that case, go ahead become the forever single "cat lady" who has 8 cats that sleep in her big empty bed.

Or...

You can choose to find out what's really going on with men and how it's totally possible for you to have a healthy and loving relationship with a bona-fide man.

These men are out there.

And for what it's worth, with all my experience I believe a great man is INSPIRED to be the right man by the right woman.

Just as a great female character in a favorite movie of mine says-

"The wrong men can make women "messy."

So the question is... how do you become thatwoman who simply inspires her man to be the greatlover and partner you want?

Here's a good place to start to answer this question.

There's one thing I've found that amazes me most about why men become restless, withdrawn and leave great women and working relationships.

And this one thing is something that women often UNDERESTIMATE when it comes to what keeps a man feeling that intense passion and desire to be with a woman, and make their relationship keep growing.

For the quick direct answer on why men will beso burning with passion at the start of your relationship, and then seem to lose interest... you need to check out the secrets about men I share in my "From Casual To Committed" program.

Discover WHY a man will feel certain he wantsan exclusive and committed relationship with you one month, then doubt if he wants a future at all the next.
And more importantly...

Learn WHAT to do about it so that your man hasthat burning desire to stay close to you and keepyour relationship growing.

Go here now to get the answers you need on why a man makes the decision to commit for thelong term with a woman, and how to set your manand your relationship up for this kind of growth:

http://www.CatchHimKeepHim.com/FCTC

Or keep reading to get some free tips you canput to use now.
A GREAT RELATIONSHIP: LUCK OR SKILL?

I'd like to know what you believe about menand relationships.
There are really only two ways I see it.

You either believe that you're basically given a certain "luck" with men, and that you've eithergot it or you don't when it comes to true love?

Or...
You believe that it takes a certain set of "skills" to meet a great guy and make a realand lasting relationship work, and that, as an intellectually and emotionally intelligent woman, you can improve your own set of "skills."

Here's the thing...

If any part of you is still holding on to theidea that you have bad luck, and that you have been, and are destined to be unlucky, then I have to be honest.

All this really isn't for you, and I don't want you to waste your time or energy here.
You're not really ready to make a change in your life, because you still don't accept the simple fact that it is YOU and only you who holds the power to change things.

But if you believe that love and really amazingand exceptional relationships, like most other things in life, are created by the luck that happens when the right situation (man) intersectswith the right person who's ready... then keep reading.

You're going to get a lot out of this.

For most men, a lasting commitment isn't justa matter of choosing a woman and saying "Yes."
It takes a specific set of ongoing experiencesto get a man to keep opening up and to learn tolove and share more deeply as time goes on.

See... some women naturally understand whatthis "thing" is that I'm talking about and nevercome across some of the other common problems thatother women run into again and again with men andrelationships.

They have an actual SKILL that they useintuitively, which causes the men they're with toactually CHASE THEM and LEAD THEM into a committed and loving relationship.
Isn't that how it's "supposed" to be anyhow?

It is.

But as you may know all too well, it doesn'talways work this way for some women.
In fact, it only works this way with men if you know how to trigger specific emotions and responses inside a man.

And then keep those things going and alive in a long-term relationship.

Most women don't like to talk about it, andthey certainly don't like to admit it about
themselves... but there's a lot of women out there who just don't get how to do these things when it comes to men and relationships.

It's as though every woman is just supposedto know this stuff because she's female.
And while I believe that woman have many, manyamazing and natural gifts... not every woman in the world is born with the skill of knowing how toinspire a man in a long-term committedrelationship.

Not every woman naturally "gets" how to keep things passionate and growing with a man more than a few months or so until the guy predictably pulls away or becomes distant and starts doubting things.

It's at this moment that, for some women, the wheels come off completely... and they have no idea what to do about it to get things back on track.

And this is when women most often feel hurt, unappreciated and start doing and saying thingsthat come from a "lesser" place inside them andultimately pulls their relationship apart.
These things usually include:

-Saying negative and critical things about the flaws they see in the man
-Feeling sad and down about themselves
-Constant worrying, analyzing and feeling bad which gives them a heavy negative energy aroundthe man
-Becoming angry and blaming a man for not loving them or treating them the way they expect
- And a whole slew of what I call "Convincing Behaviors" that only push the man farther away and kill the love and attraction he was feeling

So let me ask you a very simple question...

Which situation sounds better to you-

A) Being a woman who "gets" certain things about aman that, in turn, gives you the ability to understand what a man is doing and why... and foryou to be the kind of woman in a relationship thatwill make a man KNOW, with his FEELINGS andEMOTIONS, that he wants to be close and connected with you, and only you.

Or...

B) Being a woman who just doesn't understand where a man is coming from and why everything has to beso difficult... and sensing that a man isn't"there with you"... and not having a man who"feels it" for you on an intense-passionate-gut-reaction-emotional-gotta-be-with-her-or-else kindof level.

Which situation sounds better to you?

And which has a higher potential for "success"when it comes to a real, loving, and lastingrelationship?

Obviously, the first one.

But which situation can you honestly identify with more?

Unfortunately, if you're like lots of womenI've talked to about men, dating and relationships, then you identify more with the second situation.

Well, guess what?

I've got GOOD NEWS for you...

There's a simple "skill" you can learn and become great at with men that often means the difference between you experiencing more of the first situation above, instead of the second,

Best of all, contrary to popular belief, this skill is NOT something you have to be born with or else.

The truth is, ANY WOMAN can learn these skillswho is opening to learning about men.
And any woman can quickly begin improving her dating life, or her relationship with that onespecial man with this one skill.

And how do I know this?

Because I've helped literally thousands ofwomen do exactly this - transform their love lifefrom a difficult and painful uphill struggle to anoften effortless journey filled with more love and fulfillment than they ever had before.

Regardless of where they were at to begin with.

So what is this one essential skill among the many relationship skills?

It's the skill of creating ATTRACTION insidea man, and making your man feel that intenseemotion of ATTRACTION when he's with you.

ATTRACTION, HOW IT WORKS FOR MEN, AND HOW TO CREATE IT AND KEEP IT GOING

What is attraction, and how does it work whenit comes to men?
Before you read further, I'd like you to take aminute and think about what the word ATTRACTIONmeans to you.

By the way, I'm talking about the FEELING of attraction here and what creates or destroys it.
See if you can WRITE DOWN exactly what youthink the word ATTRACTION means. (The process ofwriting down your thoughts helps you to organizethem, and I also recommend that you keep a journalof your experiences as you improve in each area ofyour life).

There are no right or wrong answers here, sothink about it for a few minutes...
And ACTUALLY WRITE YOUR THOUGHTS DOWN.
...
...
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OK, did you do that? Good.
So what did you come up with?

A lot of women seem to think that ATTRACTION is when one person wants what another person has.

Some think of ATTRACTION as the result of beinggood-looking or otherwise "attractive". In fact, Ithink a LOT of people confuse ATTRACTION with"being attractive."

When I think of the concept of ATTRACTION, Ithink of it primarily as an EMOTION.
In other words, ATTRACTION IS A FEELING that weeither feel, or we don't.

And there's not much of anything at all in between when it comes to a man being at a placewhere he's ready to be open, loving and COMMITTEDwith a woman... long-term.

It seems to me that attraction is actually moreof a COMBINATION of powerful experiences andbeliefs that come together to form a very, veryspecial and all powerful SUPER-EMOTION.

However you think about it, there is a process that happens between men and women that keeps them connecting - to get together both physically and emotionally in relationships.
In fact, think about this...

You are reading this right now, which is a miracle.

Think of the thousands upon thousands ofgenerations of ancestors that you have had... andthink about the fact that EACH ONE WAS ABLE TOFIND A PARTNER TO MATE WITH.

And then think about the fact that you were thesole winner in a race of five hundred MILLION orso sperm trying to get to the egg and burrow inside.

You are the result of, and represent, probably the most amazing, delicate and rare process ever.

One of the parts of this process that fascinates me is how each pair of your ancestors decided to get together with THAT PARTICULARPERSON at THAT PARTICULAR TIME.

Your ancestors chose each other over other potential mates or partners for specific reasons,qualities and characteristics.

Most of which have been passed to you.

Now, I know that some women might be upset thatI'm talking about this whole concept in such ananalytical and detached way...

If you're one of those women, stop reading now!
lol...

The point here is that there is a LOT to learn from the underlying "biological processes" thathave ultimately resulted in you being here rightnow.

After working, studying and observing things in this area for several years, and listening and working with women, it finally dawned on me thatATTRACTION WAS BASICALLY EVERYTHING.

If a man feels ATTRACTION for a woman, on adeep emotional level BEYOND PHYSICAL ATTRACTION,then nothing else really matters.

Not looks, age, nationality, wealth, religion,etc.
Not peer pressure from friends and family.

Not even where a man is in his own life, which he often uses as an excuse - such as where his career is, his personal income, that he needs his freedom, he's too young, he needs to "have hisfun" before he settles down... all that stuff.

None of it matters!

On the other hand, if a man DOESN'T feelATTRACTION for a woman, then nothing else matters in that case either!

You can't "talk" a man into feeling ATTRACTIONany more than you can "talk" a person who has justeaten a huge meal into feeling hungry.

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Unfortunately, some women try all the things they can think of that would work FOR THEM,
andtry and make a man feel a certain way about them inside.

Think back to the "Convincing Behaviors" I listed earlier.

A few examples of Convincing Behaviors are:

-Calling a man when he's not calling you aftera great date and showing your frustration with him (it's an indirect emotional ploy that a manwon't positively respond to)

-Becoming upset or demanding that a man doesn't want more from your relationship because it's beenhowever many weeks or months

-Becoming intimate and sexual with a man early on and telling, rather than asking him, that this "means" that you're exclusive

All of these things are about as likely to work as a creepy guy buying bottled "pheromones" to try and pick up women.

Now, what is it that all of the things aboveare missing?
I'll tell you.

One, they don't show any thinking through of how the man is going to feel when a woman does these things.

And two, they not only won't make a man feel attraction... they'll literally kill any kind of attraction a man WAS feeling before.

In short, here's where I'm going with this-

If you don't know how to create attractionwith a man, and you keep doing things that aredriven simply out of YOUR own feelings, emotions,fears, desires, etc... you're not likely to getvery far with a man.

But...

If you can step outside yourself for long enough to understand a few of the things that are going to make him feel great, guess what?

Not only will you ATTRACT a man...
You'll also start getting all kinds of amazingthings back in return.
More affection.
More praise.
More intimacy.
More passion.
More more more!
Let me ask you... Do you know why men don't ALWAYS go for and marry the "best woman"? ("Best" meaning the woman who'sthe most generous, loving, patient, thoughtful, educated, successful, etc.)

It's the same reason why women don't go forthe "nicest" guy.

The reason men don't go for or stay with the better woman is that men aren't making theirchoices "logically."
They make their choices because of the way they are FEELING.
A woman can be honest, stable, attractive, and wonderful.

But a man won't want really want and need her unless she makes him FEEL the magical feelingsof ATTRACTION inside.

Think of ATTRACTION like a drug (which itreally is). If a man is under the influence of it,then he's gone. He'll do anything to get more.

If he's NOT under the influence, then YOU'REgone. Nothing you do will matter if he doesn't feel it.

If you doubt what I'm saying, ask the next 10SUPER-HOT men you see what they think of this.Read this newsletter to them, and watch theirreactions. You'll see.

OK, now that you've heard a little bit more ofmy personal perspective, I'd like you to look backinto your life and think about all thosesituations with men that made no sense at all...

Think about the men that you treatedwonderfully that passed you up and went on to the"bitchy" woman... and think about all the male"friends" you've had... the ones who told you theywanted a "nice girl"... but kept dating the samekind of neurotic "bad girl" who didn't have herlife together AT ALL.

Is it all making sense now?

They didn't keep feeling that INTENSE ATTRACTION for you that they might have had ataste of when you first met.

And as time went on and your relationship started to seem less certain, you were not onlydoing less of the things that connected you andyour man on the physical and emotional attraction level...

You were also actually doing the things thatkilled these attraction feelings altogether.
The things you were trying to do to keep yourrelationship together were having the EXACT OPPOSITE EFFECT of what you wanted.

It's harsh to think about, but it's true.

If you don't do something to learn how tomake men feel ATTRACTION, and not just physicalattraction which won't last, then most likely,this is going to keep happening for you.

I have to point out one more thing. As Imentioned earlier, I think a lot of women confusethe idea of being "attractive" with the emotion called ATTRACTION.

You can make a man feel an INCREDIBLEATTRACTION, even though you're not what mostpeople would think of as "attractive".

But, of course, you have to know HOW.

The point is, that if you're not perfectlythin, "done-up" and "flawless" (and... who is!?),you can LEARN how to make men feel this wonderfulemotion called ATTRACTION.
It's a skill.

It's taken me YEARS to be able to even talk about this stuff in simple terms like this to make sense, and it's taken me the same time to figure out how a REAL woman, without giving herself away and wasting way too much of her time and energy, can make a man who hasn't seemed "ready" or "emotionally available", feel ATTRACTION in a way that will lead to a deep and lasting connection.

How, you ask, can this happen?

Well, you've read about avoiding the common and destructive behavior of trying to CONVINCE a manto feel any of these things "logically."

That's a part of it.
That's a small part of what NOT to do.

But there are several other pieces of the puzzle, from voice tone and body language, tosecrets of powerful and "opening" communication,to specific ways to respond and "challenge" a manto get him physically and emotionally engaged, and everything in between.

It's a system, and it all works together.

There are two KEY aspects of learning how to besuccessful with men, dating and relationships:

1) The "Inner Stuff"
2) The "Outer Stuff"

The "Inner Stuff" is all about learning how toTHINK and how to manage your thoughts, intentions,emotions and energy.

It's also about understanding how and whyattractive men feel that amazing emotion calledATTRACTION for some women, and not others.

The "Outer Stuff" is all of the how-to's: whatto say, when, how and why.

Which is more important?

Well, they're BOTH important.

But what I notice is that most women just wantthis whole "problem" of finding a great man andarriving in a close, secure, loving, lasting relationship, to go away.

They want to "arrive" into an unflinching lovewhere each person truly understands the other on a deep, deep level.

But the strange part is that they want to learn the "Outer Stuff" first because they believe that it's just a matter of saying the right things sothat there's love and understanding.

In other words, they want the female versionsof "pick-up" lines.

Except, the end goal isn't sex - like it oftenis for men with pick-up lines.

It's often wanting more of a deep, loving,lasting commitment built over-night.

Which leads us to the "Inner Stuff."
The REASON that the "Inner Stuff" is soimportant, is that attractive men don't judge youon what you can say about true love and how muchyou really want it in your life.

And just because a man talks to you, gets your phone number or email address, or takes you out on a date DOES NOT mean that he FEELS anything deep inside.

And even if you're in a relationship with a man, it doesn't mean he's feeling that "forever"feeling.

And here's where I draw an IMPORTANTdistinction for you.
There are 2 types of ATTRACTION a man can feel.

And for a man to become "serious" about awoman, he HAS to feel BOTH.
Men don't DECIDE to feel ATTRACTION for awoman.

ATTRACTION is something that happens on its own, for its own reasons.
Sure, it's relatively easy, in the grand scheme of things, for a man to feel "PHYSICAL ATTRACTION."

But having a man feel what I call "EMOTIONALATTRACTION" is a whole different story.
Earlier I mentioned that there's a reason why a man will commit himself emotionally to one woman, and not another?

This "other" kind of attraction is a BIG partof what's going on here.

The way to cause a man to feel ATTRACTION foryou is to UNDERSTAND how and why it works, andthen communicate in a way that makes it happenin a way that actually triggers the FEELING ofATTRACTION inside of a man on a deep emotional level.

In my ebook, I spend several full sectionsteaching the "Inner Stuff"... all those things that help you get the INSIDE together, so you will naturally pull the OUTSIDE (behavior and directcommunication) together.

Of course, I also pack in tons of specificsabout the "Outer Stuff" that men respond best toand that REALLY WORKS.

This stuff is CRITICAL to the quality of yourfuture love life and relationships.
I wouldn't have taken all the time, effort, andenergy to put this together unless I thought itwas important.

If you want to overcome your challenges andreally take your love life to the next level, thenyou owe it to yourself to check this out.

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