Take The InitiativeThe story is told of a man from among the Muslims of Madinah who came to the Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) and asked for some nourishment. The Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) was not one to refuse any request for help. At the same time he did not like to encourage begging or dependence. He therefore asked the man:"Don't you have anything in your house?""Yes," said the man. "A saddle blanket which we wear sometimes and which we spread on the floor sometimes and a container from which we drink water.""Bring them to me," said the Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) who then took the items and asked some of his companions, "Who will buy these two articles?""I will," said one man, "for one dirham."Another said, "I will take them for two dirhams.

You are required to take your initiative and whatever resources you have available to you to make an impact. If you fail to do so; for example, in working and earning a living, you face the prospect of "getting a blot on your face" or in other words, of suffering some form of disgrace through your inactivity and dependence.The story also points to the most effective method of offering aid and support. If you provide handouts to people who are well, able-bodied and have some resources, however small, you would not in fact be offering effective help to that person. You may help to meet an immediate pressing need, for example, but it will only be a one-off, short term remedy. You will in fact be encouraging dependence and the lack of self-respect and esteem in the person you wish to help.'Give a person a fish and you feed just one person; teach a person to fish and he can feed hundreds' says an apt Chinese proverb.Take the initiative. Don't rely on others to do the job for you. Do it yourself. Less talk, more action.
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