Showing posts with label purpose. Show all posts
Showing posts with label purpose. Show all posts

Monday, July 28, 2008

"Control Your Thoughts"

Change Your Thinking
(It will take just 37 seconds to read this and change your thinking)

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.

Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside. The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats.Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fineview of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man onthe other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Days, weeks and months passed.


One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed.



It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.'


Epilogue: There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations. Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled. If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy.

'Today is a gift, that is why it is called The Present.'

Sunday, July 13, 2008

What Is God's Plan for You?


Reflections on God's purpose in their lives.

What's God's purpose for my life? It's a question most of us have wrestled with at some time or another.- usually when we are facing a major transition in our lives.In the Fox Faith DVD release "Moondance Alexander", misfit teen Moondance begins to find purpose in her life when she befriends a horse named Checkers and his rough-around-the-edges owner, Dante.


As Moondance begins to work with Checkers daily, Moondance begins to wonder if she and the Pinto have what it takes to actually compete in a prestigious equestrian event and win against all odds.Beliefnet asked our readers to describe a time when they tried to discern God's plan for their lives. Some readers believe God has shown them very clearly the direction for their lives, while others believe God doesn't always speak directly or control the paths our lives take.

Charting a New Direction

When I was in seminary I had a professor propose that among God's traits is omni-competence, that is the ability to deal with what is happening in spite of plans. I prefer that over knowing there is some pre-destined course (this may be why I also don't use a gps thing). I believe thoroughly that God trusts us to set out on our own and is with us as we make bad and good choices. Conversion happens when our path and God's converge, and we head off in a new, untried direction.The greatest quest is one where you set out not knowing for what you look, where you will go to find it, or who might help or hinder you along the way. Open mind, open heart, open possibiities is the way to go.


Listening to A Still, Small Voice

My real spiritual journey started in 1998 and hasn't stopped yet on this journey I call life. I remember feeling lost and broken and then I had this strange encounter with [these] words:


"You are not a broken winged sparrow, but an Eagle ready to soar."I love to think it was divine intervention that spoke out to me that night, since then I have been one to turn inward and reflect and to self love myself enough to continue this journey on my path of enlightment...I find myself growing spiritually each day, and never doubt it.

A Spiritual Voyage

In 1996, while on a sailboat trip across the Pacific, I began picking up the strangest feelings - feelings I had no way of understanding. Then we reached Fiji. From the onset of sailing along the shoreline, and throughout what ended up being an extended stay there, bizarre, what some would call paranormal experiences, literally blew me away. I came home thinking I was ready for a mental hospital and the white coats were coming. Fortunately, I finally confided in a friend who told me I'd had a spiritual awakening.


Where Growth Comes From

I find it hard to believe that God has a detailed plan for our lives. It seems to me that "God has a plan for my life" gives us an excuse for failure and someone to blame when life gets out of control.I believe that there is so much more beauty than ugly in our world and any number of life choices will bring us joy and growth. I believe that growth comes from exploring many possibilities and joy comes from making the best of those possibilities. So often our choices are NOT between "two evils" but rather between "two wonderful blessings."


Still Waiting...

Today my mind is clear and I feel great. I have trusted God and obeyed Him and I have not been disappointed. I have always felt that God has something GREAT for me to do while on this earth. Over the years, I have searched for what this great task might be. It wasn't time for me to know, yet.


I still do not know exactly what this great task is, but God spoke to me a couple of months ago. He was very clear telling me that if I obeyed him and made a specific change in my life, he would reveal my great purpose. I am at peace, awaiting his call.

Answering A (Complicated) Call

I am approaching one year since I officially made my United Methodist Conference aware that I am wanting to travel down the road of discernment and candidacy toward becoming an ordained pastor.A year ago, it was very easy to put this at the top of my list and go wherever God leads me. However, almost 7 months ago God sent a beautiful woman into my life who I had know in high school. She and I have been dating since then and I have come to love her and her three children.


There are so many complications: attending seminary while raising a family and fostering a new marriage, the itinerant nature of how Methodist pastors are placed in churches, the financial implications of attending seminary, and the list goes on.I am very torn right now. I feel called to the ministry and to marriage and family life. I know that thousands of people have done this before me; but I haven't done it myself.


Saturday, June 28, 2008

"Life's Philosophy"

Philosophy of Existance

This doctrine is based upon long time of silence and hardly neutralized feelings towards all known human feelings like , love , hate , adimration, greedyness, selfishness. if you want to reach the truth of any meaning you should drop down any pre -judgment and look without any effects towards that meaning, all aspects will appear clearly the positive side and the negative as well.
but how difficult for us as human being to neutralize our feelings ? when we reach that then we can be near the core of life and we will feel actual meaning of life, there only we will reach the happiness , the peace of mind .


My own practice of this has taken me more than 6 years , during which I realized the exact road which we can go out throughly and make our life has meaning.

The phioosphy is based upon the unity and integration of , body , soul and nature , the tie between these three elements are the core of the matter , how we can realize and get back to integrate our bodies and souls with nature around us , our bodies are part of the existance which carries our souls and nature is the object which carries our bodies on.

Friday, June 27, 2008

"Life Is What You Make It"

Philosophy Of Life
Think freely
Practice patience

Smile often
Savor special moments
Make new friends

Rediscover old ones

Tell those that you love
that you do Feel deeply

Discard worry
Forget trouble
Forgive an enemy

Keep a promise
Take a chance
Try something new

Reach out
Have good ideas

Make some mistakes
Learn from them

Be crazy
Count your blessings
Observe miracles --
make them happen

Pick some daisies
Share them
See a sunrise
Listen to the rain
Look for rainbows
Gaze at the stars
See beauty everywhere
Laugh heartily
Spread joy

Reminisce
Give Trust,Give in
Slow down
Let someone in
Be soft sometimes

Hope ,Grow ,
Work Hard ,Be Wise
Try to understand
Cry when you need to

Trust life ,Have Faith

Enjoy wonder
Comfort a friend
Believe in yourself .......


Tuesday, April 22, 2008

"Purpose"





















Do you sometimes feel like you
are just working to pay bills?

Do you sometimes feel like you doing
something that is a waste of your time?

Do you sometimes feel you were
born to do something else?

Maybe you were.

Do you sometimes feel someone on the
inside is telling you to do something
different than those on the outside?

Do you sometimes feel like there is a
another part of you that is trapped and
can't get out?

Do you sometimes feel like someone
else is supposed to be doing what you do?

Maybe someone is.

Do you know what you were created to do on Earth?

Do you know what gifts and talents God
has placed inside of you?

Do you know how many people will be affected
by the power inside of you?

Maybe you should find out?


Are you scared to take a chance?
Are you comfortable where you are?
Are you uncomfortable where you are?

All changes involve risk.

Do you know where the road you are
on will take you?
Do you know where the road you could be
on will take you?
Can you see the future of your greatest potential?

Are you looking without or within?

Look at your fingertip, you have a unique
mark in all the world,
it remains on everything you touch.

Look at your iris, no eye on Earth sees what you see.

Listen to your voice, your words vibrate
a unique pattern that will only sound the
same coming from you.

Feel your heartbeat, it pumps blood carrying
a DNA (Destiny Now Authorized) that no
computer can decode.

There is no amount of money that can compensate
for not being in your destiny.

There is no amount of time that can pass that will
be too late for at least part of your destiny.

There is no one who knows better what you were
designed for than the original designer.

Do you know Him?

What you are is no accident.
Who you are is no mistake.
Where you are is no coincidence.
Why you are is all that is relevant.

What is the purpose of this moment?

When you discover your purpose you will know.