What Makes a Perfect Man?

What Makes a Perfect Man?

More than a few women have asked me what makes a perfect man?

My response... there is no such thing as a perfect man!

What there is, are great men!

Some women are under the mistaken impression that if they can find the "perfect man" life will be problem free forever!

The truth is, we are all human; we make mistakes, we are learning, growing, changing. We have our idiosyncrasies, issues, and difficulties.

What makes a great man is one who is willing to work toward greatness!

In other words, guys that are motivated to live a good life, who strive to be a good person, who are doing all they can to be a great individual are the great men!

Typically these guys are aware of their challenges, understand what it is that makes a good person, and work toward embracing goodness!

So ladies, do not think there is a "perfect" man. There are great men for sure! There are guys who are sincere, respectful, honest, caring, compassionate, committed, decent, and fabulous!

But if you are looking for a Prince Charming who will sweep you off your feet, carry you to a palace where you will live happily ever after, best stop reading fairy tales!

"Whose To Blame?

Who is to blame?




















We read it in the paper and hear it on the air
Of killing and stealing and crime everywhere.

We sigh and we say as we noticed the trend,
This young generation..where will it end?

But can we be sure that its their fault alone?
Are we less guilty, who place who place in their way?

Too many things that lead them astray?
Too much money, too much ideal time

Too many movies of passion and crime.
Too many books not fit to be read

Too much evil in what they hear said.
Too many children encouraged to roam

Too many parents who wont stay home.
Kids dont make the movies, they dont write the books

They dont paint the pictures of gangsters and crooks.
They dont make the liquor, they dont run the bars,

They dont change the laws, and they dont make the cars.
They dont make the drugs that muddle the brain;
Thats all done by older folks.. eager for gain.

Delinquent teenagers; oh how we condemn
The sin of the nation and blame it on them.

Instead of placing, lets fix the cause,
And remember as we pause;

That in so many cases its said but its true“
The little âdelinquent fits older folks too!

















"Why waste time in putting the blame on someone,why not use your time to look for a solution.To blame is not an act of bravery instead an act of cowardness."

-GMC

"TO LIVE WITH DIGNITY"

Have you known that more than half of the worlds population have long been disadvantaged and deprived of their basic needs in life?

For them staying alive on a day-to-day basis is a constant struggle. Many of them languish without seeing the dawn of a comfortable life.

But many, too, never lose hope as they struggle with courage and dignity. There are many lessons we can learn from the stories of our fellow human beings who have learned to build up confidence in themselves, break their culture of silence and find solidarity with the many others in their journey to a meaningful life.

All human beings deserve to live out their fullest potential and with as much DIGNITY as humanly possible. Thus, it is bith an individual and communal responsibility to see to it that people from all walks of life are allowed or enabled to live decent and humane lives.

So to our youths today, it is your RESPONSIBILITY to grow into self-respecting, caring, just and self-reliantadults. It is equally your respinsibility to help make everyone grow and live with DIGNITY as HUMAN BEINGS. . . .

"Awakening the society of the World"

Are the leaders that we had brought to the position to lead our countries,do really deserve the trust we had given them?Can they really lead a country & have a good governance?

Are they being a good examples to their countries?Are they really capable of the responsibilities that a good leader should implicate to the country that they are governing?or they are just in the public office for personal interest & power grabbing....what are their true intentions!are we aware about it?How can we identify a good leader?This are just some of the questions that we should know the answer a responsible citizens of our respective countries.

But first let me introduce myself I'm Rinrin from the PHILIPPINES & proud to be a filipina.I'm just a regular citizen & I have no plans to enter politics...I'm not aspiring any position in the public office either...I'm just a concerned citizen who just want to share my views about certain topics that affects the lives of many people bec. of negligence of the leaders that we had trusted to lead & govern our countries.I believe that in sighting my views maybe,just maybe i can contribute something to the world that has been blinded for so long....for them being a leader is POWER but it should not be this way if you really want to serve your country,you should share yourself by putting your heart in the service not getting what you can & abuse the priviledges.

Let's face it! Politics is a dirty business not the politics itself but the people who are abusing their power for personal gain.Do these leaders really know what they are doing?To tell you frankly, we really don't need a President & a Prime Minister who graduated from University of Harvard or have 5 masteral degrees bec. governing a country is not all about business!It is about the welfare of their countrymen.A good leader should analyzed every aspect of a problem & a good leader is not afraid & willing to step down his/her position if the situation calls for it.A good leader should always think the benefit of the greater good.A good leader should try his best to solve the root of the problem not just applying a temporary solution,if only our leaders put their hearts in their positions & really love their job then we will have a better place to live in..less violence, a more progressive country.A good leader is willing to accept his/her mistakes & willing to step down his/her position if there will be intances that the situation calls for it.A good leader is always ready to lend a hand to his countrymen not just to those they can bebefit but they should more focus to the less fortunate not by giving them food but by teaching them how to succeed in life. A good leader should have a strong dignity & principles so that he cannot be manipulated by others who want to take advantage his position . No Leaders should provoke or start a war or any kind of violence . To name in particular...like President George Bush of United States of America . I think he is not analyzing his decisions wisely,he is acting without thinking,maybe he is thinking but where he is coming from?I think from nowhere.....Starting a war is absurd!war is just a waste of money & come to think of the innocent lives that has been taken for....the fact ,it just started with two leaders who are selfish & inconsiderate ,they'll convince their followers that they are fighting for a reason.The problem is their reasons are not clear & not logical to start a war.I dare to those leaders that if they are really brave enough & claim to love their country & men, they should lead their troops not just commanding them to fight for your own idiot beliefs...you should join them in the battle to kill innocent lives,if that is really what you want . Bush is the President of America that is considered to be the most powerful & influential country.He should be analytical in all his decision-making.I know that it is still fresh in our memories,the tragic event that happened in U.S ,the Sept.11 terrorist attack(World Trade Center)I'm not an american but i got really affected emotionally by the tragedy that killed thousands of innocent people.