My love, your angel
(retribution)

I

Angel, said she, where could he be, my lover?
Will he know my face, will we still know each other?
Is he waiting for me? Is he happy to see
that I finally saw him through forever?
I have waited so long, to go where he had gone
I'm excited to see us again, together.
They journeyed long, no word nor song from angel nor her
no answers given, angel not spoken but of tear
angel was speechless, her mind was restless to wonder
cherubim! She shouted, she she she shocked him with what she said
he turned his head and to her said, my name, where did you hear?
That name to me was given by an artist I delivered.
So long that name not spoken and now from you it's heard.
Tell me how you know this name and artist, in the lady's eye, a tear.

II

“This artist you speak of, was he all of good sort?
Did he speak of love and asked you for your part?
If so he is my lover. If so, he is my heart.”
The angel's head hung lowly, for he tore their love apart
who was he to sunder, wondrous love and art.
The lady then, took angel's hand, and said “you did your part.
Our love is more than life itself, it beats without a heart.”
Now lift up your head, and walk me ahead from this earth
lead me to where my love stands bare in all its worth
you are the hand that mends all hearts in death.
So again they walked, now about love, they talked
'bout arts and beauty and wine, 'till they stopped.
I bring you here unto this place, but woe I cannot enter
Go, seek him there, but not his face, your love will see him better.

-Orville “pervy” Basas-

Earth Angel
(to Sam)

I
angel on earth, of splendor and grace
what have you seen on this sinner's face
that you so enjoy my awkward ways
that you so blessed me with your endearing gaze?


II
you blessed me so with your love unconditional
that 'though far apart, you are true and loyal
what do I have that you see me beautiful?
And as I have you, to God I am thankful

III
I love you with my heart's every beat
that if it ever stops beating, to you I will give it
all that I do, every face that I meet
It's you that I think of, from your head to your feet

IV
I always think of you, all day and night
and to dream of you is a glorious sight
to again hold my angel in her radiant light
and with love to you, I offer this write

V
I give you my all and all I could muster
and I'm sorry for all that I couldn't amount for
“I love you so much” my heart thus roar
and the love you give back is more, much more

VI
thank you for everything that you have given
and I know my gratitude needs more to be spoken
please keep this write as a sign or a token
of my gratitude, fidelity, love and devotion

VII
I love you so much with all that is in me
I miss you so much that it's driving me crazy
I love you so much at the risk of sounding cheesy
you are the love of my life; you complete me

VIII
I wish to kiss you and hold you all through the afternoon
and star gaze at night and laugh at the moon
I wish to grow old and wither by your side
that when I broke something, to you I confide

IX
I wish to hold you in a spoon and slowly drift to sleep
to keep you warm and feel you breath and feel you close and deep
the thought of your smile and sparkling eyes, an image I'll always keep
I love you so, I miss you so, too much it makes me weep

X
I love you so much and you miss me, I know
but I'll see you again and that radiant glow (wink!)
our distance on hand is making my love grow
bit i can't help but miss you, I miss you so

XI
I love you, earth angel, with all that I am
I miss you, earth angel. I love you so much, Sam!

PERVY ARKNOW

night fall

Would you believe
“In times of trouble, times of dread.
“I love you still” the lady said
as he lay his weary head
the young man sleeps alone in bed

“I feel your pleasures, I feel your pain”
the lady's voice in his head remain
closed his eyes, he ignores the joy of rain
the young man ,oh, sleeps alone again

she reaches out to hold her man
but to her woe, she touches none
she knows her man, away had gone
so in their bed for two... there's one

“I miss you so” she whispers out loud
she finds herself lonely in a crowd
the eternal love he gave and vowed
she hears as she sleeps, his words resound

his music and notes, their song begins
the words that she wrote, she knew it by heart
she smiles at him teasing and he grins
song of two hearts. Swore never to part

they fight and strive, together they win
they fought for dreams and love they were in
party for songs for tonic and gin
and awake in the morning alone again

By: Pervy Arknow

KISSING

What is romance without a kiss?

When wishing for romance, your kisses had better be good to make a favorable impression. It may not be fair, but some will judge you on your first kiss as to whether or not they will want to see you again.

In other words, there needs to be good chemistry when kissing.A good kiss delivers a powerful impact! If you're a great kisser, you're going to turn your date on and you will have a definite edge.

What distinguishes a good kisser from the kisser we all want to forget? The key is to be soft and gentle and follow their lead. Here are some good romantic kissing tips to enhance your love life:

STEP ONE

Be careful not to startle - watch and wait for the signal to proceedAvoid the ‘ambush’ kiss (although these can be exciting as your relationship progresses.)Look deeply into your partner’s eyes. This will send the message that you like them and want to be closer to them.

Look for their signals as well.Look for a warm, kind smile (even a slight smile is good; it doesn’t have to be BIG.)Pay attention to the look on your loved one’s face. This will indicate where they want to go with this kiss.

STEP TWO

Look for good balance. As you move closer to that magical kiss, you don’t want to be leaning too forward awkwardly to get there.As you move closer you are sending signals. You want your body to be in a comfortable position during the kiss, so you can enjoy every moment of it.Go for a light touch just before the kiss.

While a hand lightly on the face is a definite signal of intimacy, holding hands combined with eye contact and a warm look can indicate the beginning of a great kiss to come.Make sure you are aligned correctly at this point.

This means not only getting your lips on track with theirs, but getting the head tilted correctly as well.Tilt your head slightly to one side first. Your partner will likely react and tilt the other way. This is a mutual sign that the kiss will be very welcomed.

STEP THREE

Relax your lips, close your eyes.Move in slowly. During step number two you made sure the two of you were aligned correctly, now you can close your eyes as you’re just about to make contact.Relax your lips, not tightly pressed together. Give your partner the pleasant experience of feeling your lips softly against theirs.Your lips should be recently moistened, but not wet.

STEP FOUR

Relax your lips, tilt your head and breathe evenly.Moving in, you can part your lips slightly just before contact. Keep your lips relaxed, your tongue in your mouth.Keep your head tilted so both of you can still breathe comfortably on contact and as the perfect kiss is held...S A V O R every moment ... be slow, gentle, easy.

STEP FIVE

Keep it sweet, not too long and not too wet.Don’t pull away too quickly or make any quick movements. Savor. Savor. Savor. Feel the power and romance of the kiss.Enjoy the moment!

STEP SIX

Take your time and don’t rush. Make eye contact, nonverbal and verbal messages.To end, pull away slowly and make eye contact again. Show a satisfied, warm smile to reinforce how you feel.Enjoy the closeness, relax, and finish the kiss with a warm embrace.A few, thoughtful words, such as, “That was nice,” can be whispered.

Try to reinforce how you felt about your kiss with positive words. Your partner will appreciate this and this can break the ice a little.Now that you have mastered the romance of a kiss....you are well on your way to learn even more about how to enhance your romance life!

The world is confused today face of all these religions. Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, Judaism and many others have spread either by the coming of a prophet or by the dynamism of a divine message. Their sometimes called God Jehovah, Adonat, Allah, or Buddha or Krishna Their custom and their prayers strangely different from each other.

Their hargne destroying one another to confuse us, the story contains a wealth of examples such as the Crusades and the bloody battles between Protestants and Catholics, and even today the wars in the name of God. Who is right in this whole mixture of rituals, of arguments and principles?

We, the Muslims will answer me absolutely convinced that their faith is the path to liberation. With as much conviction and sincerity of the Jewish or Hindu proclaim that the only alternative its religions.

Who has never heard a Christian exclaim: Jesus Christ is the only way back to God, each in his own insistence hi granting any credence to what might be called, ironically, their opponents religious. Faced with such a phénomême it is not surprising of indifference and atheism raging on humanity.

That is why after having traveled extensively and carefully studied different religions, I have come to conclusions that I deliver to your criticism, not for the purpose of committing the same mistake in preaching to my parish, but to enlighten people who want to know the truth while remaining objective


Le monde est confus aujourd'hui face à toutes ces religions. Le christianisme, l'islam, le bouddhisme, le judaisme et tant d'autres se sont répandues soit par la venue d'un prophète soit par le dynamisme d'un message divin. Leur Dieu s'appelle tantôt Jéhovah, Adonat, Allah, tantôt Krishna ou bouddha Leur coutume et leur prières diffèrent étrangement les unes des autres.

Leur hargne à se détruire mutuellement nous déroutent, L'histoire renferme une profusion d'exemples tels que les croisades et les batailles sanglantes entre protestants et catholiques et aujourd'hui encore les guerres au nom de Dieu. Qui a raison dans tout cet amalgame de rituels, d'arguments et de principes ? Nous, me répondront les musulmans absolument convaincus que leur foi est la voie royale vers la libération.

Avec autant de conviction et de sincérité le Juif ou l'hindou proclamera l'unique alternative qu'est sa religions. Qui n'a jamais entendu un chrétien s'exclamer: Jésus-Christ est la seul voie de retour à Dieu, Chacun s'obstine dans son propre salut n'accordant aucun crédit à ce que l'on pourrait appeler, ironiquement, leurs adversaires religieux. Confronté à un tel phénomême il n'ya pas lieu de s'étonner de l'indifférence et de l'athéisme qui sévit sur l'humanité.

C'est pourquoi après avoir amplement voyagé et étudié scrupuleusement différentes religions, j'en suis venu à cette conclusions que je livre à votre critique, non pas dans le but de commettre la même erreur en prêchant pour ma paroisse, mais d'éclairer ceux qui désirent connaitre la vérité tout en restant objectif

"Traits That Men Look For To Be Their Girl"

10 Traits That Make You a Great Girlfriend

1. She makes you want to be a better man

Stop making that face... any man who has a great girlfriend or wife will tell you that she makes him want to be a better man. She doesn't have to say or do anything; it just is that way. If you suddenly feel bad about how you treated your sister or find yourself trying to get your finances in order, you might want to think about your motivation for doing so.
It could be love.Do you already have her?

So, if this list seems to describe your current flame, you, my friend, are styling. In fact, you are probably the envy of all of your friends, even if they tease you for losing your status as "king player."

2. She loves you
If you have found a woman who loves you for who you really are and not who you pretend or try to be sometimes, you should definitely hang on to her. A woman who
doesn't try to change you is hard to find. Of course, all women have their slightly annoying habits that their mate has to contend with, but if she really loves you, she will be able to cope with these.

Another way to know if she really loves you is by observing the way she looks at you and treats you on an everyday basis. If the sight of you doesn't seem to faze her either way, and she doesn't really seem to care about what you have to say, she's either playing very hard to get, or sees you as just some guy. But if a surprise visit or phone call from you makes her light up, there's no denying that she loves you.

3. She gets along with friends and family
A great girlfriend will not only help your mom in the kitchen, listen to your dad's stories and hang out with your friends, but she will enjoy it. She'll make a real effort to
get to know and love the most important people in your life. And she won't try to get you to ditch your best buds.
She'll actually empathize with your brother's getting dumped and suggest that you guys take him out to cheer him up. Not only that, but your friends won't roll their eyes and moan when you mention that she'll be joining you guys when she gets off work (yes, women like this do exist).

4. She's nagless

There is nothing worse than a nag! A great girlfriend knows this and
chooses her battles wisely. She knows when to speak up and when to let it slide. You don't want a girlfriend who will give you hell for leaving a couple of dishes in the sink occasionally.

However, if you live together and you stay out all night without calling her, and she lets you have it, then you're setting yourself up for disaster. This is a situation that nobody would let slide — not even a great girlfriend.

5. She lets you be a man
Do not — I repeat — do not get involved with a woman who tries to get you to eat cottage cheese and fruit for breakfast and insists that you give up poker night with the guys. You will end up resenting her more than you can imagine. A good girlfriend
lets you be a guy in all your glory, poker night and all. If she's a great girlfriend, she'll even bring you and your buddies a couple of beers and make you some of her famous sandwiches.

She has to understand that men and women are different and should allow you to be yourself. Just like you wouldn't deprive her of going shopping with her best girlfriend, she shouldn't expect you to give up the guys for her.

6. She respects you
This is a biggie. Your woman must respect you. This means that she listens to you, even if she doesn't necessarily agree with what you're saying. And, of course, she never tries to demean or belittle you in any way, shape or form.

A great girlfriend won't ever cause scenes in public or in front of your friends and family, and will always wait to discuss matters with you in private. If she respects you, chances are that she will behave in a tactful and diplomatic manner in most situations, which is definitely a good thing.

7. She's beautiful

I know, this one is kind of obvious, but important nonetheless. A great girlfriend will not only want to look good for you, but also for herself. She should always look her best and be well put together — matching lingerie is a definite plus.

You have to be proud to have her on your arm and enjoy the sight of her in any light. And this doesn't mean that she has to be a Heidi Klum clone. Remember that beauty is in
the eye of the beholder, so if you think her full bottom or uncontrollable curls are beautiful, you're allowed.

8. She's sexual
While we're on the topic, a great girlfriend has to be
sexually compatible with you. For instance, if you're into S&M and she's more the "fluffy lingerie" type, that's a problem. The two of you have to be on the same page — or, at least, she has to be willing to wear leather and use a whip from time to time.

Of course, this doesn't imply that she has to know all the right moves straight away; it simply means that you and she have an undeniable attraction toward each other, and are able to communicate your desires verbally (or with physical cues). It is important that you please each other in the bedroom, or on top of the dryer — whatever the case may be.

9. She's intelligent
I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the bimbo routine gets real old, real fast. Instead of being the one in total control, you'll find yourself trying to figure out what she's really thinking behind those glazed eyes of hers — or if she's actually thinking at all.

An
intelligent woman will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes. She won't let you get bored of her. Besides, it's nice to have something to talk about between all that chandelier-hanging sex.

10. She's independent

No one wants a girlfriend they have to baby-sit. Once in a while, like if she's had a rough day at work, it's great to be her shoulder to cry on, but if she can't seem to function without you and is constantly after you, she will eventually make you feel like you're suffocating, which is a surefire way to get you running out the nearest exit.

On the other hand, if she has her very own personality and opinions, can
stand on her own two feet , both financially and emotionally, and is able to enjoy time away from you — while still missing you, of course — then she must be a great girlfriend.

Beauty Radiates From Within

Confidence Brings Out True Beauty

TELL ME I'M BEAUTIFUL. NOW!

She'd spent hours preparing for their night out. From getting her nails done to shopping for the perfect dress to carefully arranging her hair and makeup, the end result was that she looked great. They'd hired a sitter and for the first time in months, they would be a couple again. Not parents, but a couple. But it would only be one night.

She emerges from the bathroom to find him sitting on the bed, adjusting his watch band. It has been years since she's looked this beautiful. The baby weight is gone now and she looks almost as good as they day they met. In some ways, even better. She knows the instant he looks at her, he'll be blown away.

"Did you leave the emergency numbers for the sitter?" she asks, knowing that will prompt him to look up.

With a slightly confused expression, he lifts his gaze. He focuses on her, squinting a little, then shakes his head. Without a word, he gets up and goes to the kitchen to put the numbers on the fridge.

She follows him. Obviously he was distracted by her question. It hurts a little that he wasn't blown away by her on first sight, but she'll give him another chance to redeem himself.

"Did you call to make the reservation?" he asks as she enters the kitchen. He walks from the fridge and stops at the edge of the counter. He's looking directly at her but she may as well be wearing the sweatpants and plain T-shirt that have become her daily wardrobe around here.

"Seven o'clock," she confims with a nod. And she waits. And waits. Still no compliment. The sitter arrives and they head out for the evening. As he opens the car door for her, she becomes all too aware that this evening can go two ways. She can throw a fit and ruin the evening or she can just push back her pain and try to forget that her husband no longer even looks at her anymore.
We all know which option she will choose.

Sometimes it seems as though a man would be better off murdering the family kitten than neglecting to tell his wife she's beautiful. Or going more than three months without sending her roses. Or calling her when he's going to be late coming home. I'm going to be the first woman in history to outwardly admit, we don't want to be hysterical about these things. We really don't.

We know even as we're saying the words just how nutty we sound, but we can't seem to help ourselves. You didn't say we were beautiful and in that moment we have an almost exhilirated anger with you because we know...

For this, you shall pay. And you shall pay dearly.

In preparation for this blog, I consulted my friend Bud, who has been happily married for years. He and his wife have learned a few things the hard way. Whenever a situation like this arises, instead of saying, "You didn't compliment me," which just puts him on the defensive, she'll say,

"Tell me how beautiful you think I am, in your own words." Or, "Tell me how much you love me." Instead of starting an argument, it becomes a fun little game, and it keeps him from feeling like she's saying he's a bad husband.

Men are not mind-readers. They just aren't. Sometimes life gets in the way, sometimes he takes a look at you and thinks, "Wow, she's so beautiful," but he can't quite find the words to express how he's feeling. Or maybe something happens that distracts him from telling you. Whatever the case, the woman feels taken for granted. She longs for those early days when you did tell her you thought she was beautiful. Back then you didn't assume she knew it. Back then you actually felt you had to tell her for her to know.

If I'm dressed up for the evening and he hasn't complimented me, I'm not sure there's anything I could do that would turn it around. The thing about romance is, if someone has to be told to do it, it loses its luster. But what I'm suggesting is that maybe men just need a little nudge every now and then.

Something that lets them know you need something that he isn't providing. And since temper tantrums only serve to completely destroy the evening, maybe simply asking for what we want is a more productive solution. How about saying, "Look at me and tell me what you think." Or, better yet, how about complimenting him and seeing if he says something in return?

But whatever you do, asking, "Do I look fat?" is NEVER a good idea!