Showing posts with label independent woman. Show all posts
Showing posts with label independent woman. Show all posts

Friday, October 2, 2009

Wonderwoman


An Imanginary extraordinary kind a woman and angel from heaven a dream i pray i never wake from . Wonderwoman is the girl of your dreams and the woman of your fantasies all in one. she is a woman in the streets and a freak in the sheets.


She is god fearing but also heavenly . she is amzing but yet so unique, she is beautiful but also beyond it .


Her smile alone can spark your fire and desire she is a gift from the man above . who knew i would find my wonderwoman in you !

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Be Brave




~This woman is frought with warring emotions, laced with a multitude of contradictions..She is steady in all things, straight on..whether it be the hand that rocks the cradle, presses up close to her man of sits down to hold the hand of a friend in need of a friend..or simply to sit down and go to war with balancing the checkbook..her determination makes it balance..She stays focused even while losing control..


She will smile even when she is upset because she knows she is free to let go and go where no one else is brave enough to go or let you see her tears or witness her pain when she does...These things are hers alone and she is careful who ever will see or know the full extent of them..Most will be driven away by the sight of her own undoing..yet they will know that as sure as she breathes or lives, so must she come undone now and then..

This is a woman who is fierce in her relationships..who will often give so much more than she receives and doesn't mind..who sits in the dark of midnight and mulls over all she might have done better that day..

She will fight to the death protecting her loved ones and her friends..and believes a stranger is a friend you simply haven't met yet..and so hopes and keeps trying..Her pain is private..she grieves in silence and screams it out when it threatens to take the rest of who she is away for all time..hoping for a savior on a nearby ship to throw out a life preserver..blowing kisses of IOU on the wind back to them..

This is a woman..who never stops trying, never will..inside where it counts she has the proof that it is all worthwhile..every single moment~

Monday, February 2, 2009

"What Type Of Wowen Are You?

?H3i what type are you?

1. Ms. Gold-Digger

Ms. Gold-Digger
ADVANTAGES
a. You have some one to manage your money.
b. She always looks good.
c. She makes your friends jealous.
d. She makes you look good.

DISADVANTAGES
a. When you get broke she'll be gone and take what you have left.
b. She makes sure she has a child by you to sue you for child support.
c. Once your rich friend comes up she'll be on his arm the next day.

2. Ms. Freak (secret lover)
Ms. Freak
ADVANTAGES
a. She knows all the right positions.
b. She'll try everything more than once.
c. You're never unsatisfied.
d. She'll do all the things your girl won't do.
e. She doesn't mind being your freak, as long as she catches one too.

DISADVANTAGES
a. Eventually, b/c she's a female, she'll end up catching feelings.
b. She starts to act like she's your "main".
c. She messes around with your friend and act like you are in the wrong for telling her that she's a freak.
d. Eventually her stuff gets old. And you need a replacement.

3. Ms. Independent
Ms. Independent
ADVANTAGES
a. You don't have to worry about buying her anything. She's already got it.
b. She's intelligent, sassy, confident and determined.
c. She's great for (business) conversation.
d. She keeps it real and has goals.
e. She knows how to please a man.

DISADVANTAGES
a. She will continuously let you know that she can handle it on her own.
b. She will eventually say screw you and get a dildo.
c. She will consider you another one her play toys, or goals.

4. Ms. Dyme
Ms. Dyme
ADVANTAGES
a. She's top of the line.
b. She stays looking like a fantasy.
c. She has the body of a goddess with the face to match.
d. She considers herself a "model"
e. Gets turns you on whenever you see her.
f. All the girls envy her, but she doesn't care.

DISADVANTAGES
a. She's superficial. She cares only about her looks.
b. She honestly lacks confidence and will annoy you about the way she looks.
c. She's probably dumb and if she's not, her personality is dry.
d. You have to constantly keep your game up b/c every guy is gonna try to get her.

5. Ms. Tomboy
Ms. Tomboy
ADVANTAGES
a. She's cool and laid back.
b. She'll be willing to play rough with you.
c. Of course, she loves sports.
d. Her body is athletically divine.
e. She's easy to talk to and fun to be around.
f. She's a diamond in the rough.

DISADVANTAGES
a. She'll remind you too much of your friends.
b. She might not want to change her appearance.
c. She might actually beat you in basketball, football and track.

6. Ms. Rebel
Ms. Rebel
ADVANTAGES
a. She's not afraid of any other female or male. She will fight to keep you.
b. She's down for you. She'll be there to bail you out of jail.
c. She strong and a true individual.
d. She can make the best out of a bad situation.
e. She keeps it real and keeps you satisfied.

DISADVANTAGES
a. She doesn't know how to act in public.
b. Your mama can't stand her.
c. You get into it with her every other second.
d. She's willing to fight another girl looking at you or her PERIOD.
e. Her hair colors, tatoos, and or piercings are distracting and her vocabulary is minimal.

7. Ms. Good Girl
Ms. Good Girl
ADVANTAGES
a. She's always there for you.
b. She's intelligent, classy, kind, sweet and cool.
c. Your mother loves her.
d. You can see yourself falling in love with her.
e. You are her first everything.
f. She makes you feel like a man.

DISADVANTAGES
a. She's an A or B situation either:
A. You're not gonna get any until ya'll are married or
B. She said she's never done - she said she's never tried - she's sitting there telling a straight out lie.

8. Ms. Main
Ms. Main
ADVANTAGES
a. She is the one you respect.
b. She probably may know about the others but might not care.
c. She has all the qualities you want in a female.
d. You've been with her forever.

DISADVANTAGES
a. She starts getting very suspicious and calls you every moment.
b. She will devise a plan to catch you in your act and then kick you out.

9. Ms. Psycho

Ms. Psycho

ADVANTAGES
a. She's fun and spontaneous.
b. She's down to earth.
c. She loves you unconditionally.
d. Everything about her is too good to be true, so everyone loves her.
e. She makes you feel loved.

DISADVANTAGES
a. Don't you break up with her. She will stalk you.
b. She keeps pictures of you everywhere and knows everything about you.
c. She can manipulate you.
d. She will consider herself wifey even if she may just be that chick on the side.
e. Messin' with her can make your life a living hell.

10. Ms. I have a Man
Ms. I have a Man
ADVANTAGES
a. She may have a man but she'll mess with you anyway.
b. She looks good.
c. You have an intense night of passion with her.

DISADVANTAGES
a. She'll always come crying to you about the problems with her man.
b. She'll get you caught up and then leave you anyway for her man.
c. If you piss her off she'll get her man to come beat you up.
d. She'll unofficially make you her man once she gets pissed off at her real man.

11. Ms. Tease
Ms. Tease
ADVANTAGES
a. She's tempting and a nice piece of eye candy.
b. She's intelligent, athletic, respectable and SEXXXXXXY.
c. She knows how to turn you on without touching you.
d. Everything she does is just so sensual.
e. She can bring you to that point and make you wait to get it.
f. Every time you see her you catch a mini orgasm.
g. Every guy wants her b/c she's so mysterious and that makes you want to get her first.

DISADVANTAGES
a. NO matter what you think or do you never get it.
b. She probably has a long distance boyfriend somewhere that you will never know about.
c. She gets you hard and leaves you like that. (Unbearable)

12. MRS. RIGHT
MRS. RIGHT
ADVANTAGES
a. She is not sexy, fine, or a dyme, but she is Beautiful and therefore encompasses all of these descriptions.
b. She is intelligent, sassy, funny, outgoing, determined, strong and classy.
c. She can cook or at least order a meal that is just like your mother's.
d. Her personality is just as beautiful as her body.
e. She believes in God and follows his virtues.
f. She knows that a relationship requires a 200% quota yet she gives her man an extra 10%.
g. She can please her man in anyway. Mentally, Spiritually, and Sexually.
h. She makes you recognize your full potential as a man and completes you.
i. She's always there for you, no matter what your dreams are.
j. She's not afraid to tell you the truth and set you straight.
k. You can talk to her and confide in her; she's your best friend.
l. You love being around her more than your boys.
m. You can share your most intimate moments with her without sex.
n. You can have a bad argument with her and have the BEST Mind Numbing and passionate love making fest ever.
o. She's always willing to find a way to work out your problems and will often take most of your *bleep*. But she's also intelligent enough to leave.
p. She's nothing like any other girl you've met. She's your woman.

DISADVANTAGE
a. You've probably met her, or had her in your life but got too consumed with all the other types that you let her go

Friday, September 26, 2008

"Traits That Men Look For To Be Their Girl"

10 Traits That Make You a Great Girlfriend

1. She makes you want to be a better man


Stop making that face... any man who has a great girlfriend or wife will tell you that she makes him want to be a better man. She doesn't have to say or do anything; it just is that way. If you suddenly feel bad about how you treated your sister or find yourself trying to get your finances in order, you might want to think about your motivation for doing so.

It could be love.Do you already have her?

So, if this list seems to describe your current flame, you, my friend, are styling. In fact, you are probably the envy of all of your friends, even if they tease you for losing your status as "king player."

2. She loves you

If you have found a woman who loves you for who you really are and not who you pretend or try to be sometimes, you should definitely hang on to her. A woman who

doesn't try to change you is hard to find. Of course, all women have their slightly annoying habits that their mate has to contend with, but if she really loves you, she will be able to cope with these.

Another way to know if she really loves you is by observing the way she looks at you and treats you on an everyday basis. If the sight of you doesn't seem to faze her either way, and she doesn't really seem to care about what you have to say, she's either playing very hard to get, or sees you as just some guy. But if a surprise visit or phone call from you makes her light up, there's no denying that she loves you.

3. She gets along with friends and family

A great girlfriend will not only help your mom in the kitchen, listen to your dad's stories and hang out with your friends, but she will enjoy it. She'll make a real effort to

get to know and love the most important people in your life. And she won't try to get you to ditch your best buds.
She'll actually empathize with your brother's getting dumped and suggest that you guys take him out to cheer him up. Not only that, but your friends won't roll their eyes and moan when you mention that she'll be joining you guys when she gets off work (yes, women like this do exist).

4. She's nagless


There is nothing worse than a nag! A great girlfriend knows this and

chooses her battles wisely. She knows when to speak up and when to let it slide. You don't want a girlfriend who will give you hell for leaving a couple of dishes in the sink occasionally.

However, if you live together and you stay out all night without calling her, and she lets you have it, then you're setting yourself up for disaster. This is a situation that nobody would let slide — not even a great girlfriend.

5. She lets you be a man

Do not — I repeat — do not get involved with a woman who tries to get you to eat cottage cheese and fruit for breakfast and insists that you give up poker night with the guys. You will end up resenting her more than you can imagine. A good girlfriend

lets you be a guy in all your glory, poker night and all. If she's a great girlfriend, she'll even bring you and your buddies a couple of beers and make you some of her famous sandwiches.

She has to understand that men and women are different and should allow you to be yourself. Just like you wouldn't deprive her of going shopping with her best girlfriend, she shouldn't expect you to give up the guys for her.

6. She respects you

This is a biggie. Your woman must respect you. This means that she listens to you, even if she doesn't necessarily agree with what you're saying. And, of course, she never tries to demean or belittle you in any way, shape or form.

A great girlfriend won't ever cause scenes in public or in front of your friends and family, and will always wait to discuss matters with you in private. If she respects you, chances are that she will behave in a tactful and diplomatic manner in most situations, which is definitely a good thing.

7. She's beautiful

I know, this one is kind of obvious, but important nonetheless. A great girlfriend will not only want to look good for you, but also for herself. She should always look her best and be well put together — matching lingerie is a definite plus.

You have to be proud to have her on your arm and enjoy the sight of her in any light. And this doesn't mean that she has to be a Heidi Klum clone. Remember that beauty is in

the eye of the beholder, so if you think her full bottom or uncontrollable curls are beautiful, you're allowed.

8. She's sexual

While we're on the topic, a great girlfriend has to be

sexually compatible with you. For instance, if you're into S&M and she's more the "fluffy lingerie" type, that's a problem. The two of you have to be on the same page — or, at least, she has to be willing to wear leather and use a whip from time to time.

Of course, this doesn't imply that she has to know all the right moves straight away; it simply means that you and she have an undeniable attraction toward each other, and are able to communicate your desires verbally (or with physical cues). It is important that you please each other in the bedroom, or on top of the dryer — whatever the case may be.

9. She's intelligent

I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the bimbo routine gets real old, real fast. Instead of being the one in total control, you'll find yourself trying to figure out what she's really thinking behind those glazed eyes of hers — or if she's actually thinking at all.

An

intelligent woman will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes. She won't let you get bored of her. Besides, it's nice to have something to talk about between all that chandelier-hanging sex.

10. She's independent


No one wants a girlfriend they have to baby-sit. Once in a while, like if she's had a rough day at work, it's great to be her shoulder to cry on, but if she can't seem to function without you and is constantly after you, she will eventually make you feel like you're suffocating, which is a surefire way to get you running out the nearest exit.

On the other hand, if she has her very own personality and opinions, can

stand on her own two feet , both financially and emotionally, and is able to enjoy time away from you — while still missing you, of course — then she must be a great girlfriend.

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

"Believe In The Influence Of Feminity"

Who Better Inspire Women,
Than Women Themselves

It's so easy for women to slip into self-doubt and feeling inadequate.

After all, we shoulder a lot of responsibilities - being supportive of our mates, nurturing our children, stating in touch with extended family, holding down jobs while holding down the effort at home.



No wonder we sometimes feel anxious, exhausted, and insecure.
We Need To Know We Are Not Alone. We need to hear that other women share ourexperiences.

We need reassurance that there's someone who
understands - someone who's been there, done that.

As women, we take turns encouraging, supporting, and cheering one another on.

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

To Be A Woman

Is a person of strength. Yet it is in her weakest moments that is strongest.

is a person of intuition. She can "fine tune" her inner voice and find that place of wisdom within her soul.

is a person of independence. She stands proudly on her own, knowing she can always count on herself.

is a person of trust. Confide in her and she'll lock it in her heart forever. Betray her trust and you've lost a true friend.

is a person of vulnerability. She sees the world with a kaleidoscope of passion, inviting others to see beyoond the black and white.

is a person of emotion. She pours it in different quantities, but never runs out.

is a person of gratitude. She never takes for granted the beauty of human generosity.

is a person of wisdom and maturity. Through her maturity, she gains wisdom - and with that wisdom, she matures.

is a person of awareness and spirit. She flows with the universe... to be where she is meant to be.