"8 Signs Women Want To Be "Just Friends"

A question that a lot of guys ask is, "How can I tell if a woman is interested in being more than just friends with me?"



That's a great question to want to know the answer to!

Based on my experience, and from talking with my ladyfriends, it really comes down to some normally obvious "signs" that you need to look for.

But it seems to me, the best way to know what is going on, is to know what "signs" indicate that she is NOT interested in being more than just friends.
Knowing these indicators, these "signs" can save you from mistaking a woman who likes you as JUST a friend for a woman who might be open to something more with you.


I am going to give you each "sign" followed by a more detailed example of each.

Alright, here we go...


She wants to be JUST FRIENDS if...


1. She rarely, if ever, lets you pay when you go out. Or she wants to always split the bill.

Today's woman is pretty smart, and getting more and more independent. So if she is out with a guy she is NOT attracted to, she does not want to be made to feel obligated to you. One way they avoid being in that position, is to either pay for themselves, or split the bill with you.
In her mind, if you didn't pay, there is no pressure or "leading you on" to expect something physical as a result.

With that in mind, also be aware of what it says to her if you try to INSIST being the one who pays? If you say, "I invited you out, I should pay" or "I am having a good time, so I want to pay" that in HER mind might trigger off the warning of "Uh, oh, he's doing this because he wants to sleep with me."

And to help guard herself from that, she will give you excuses for calling it a night sooner than planned.

Things like, "I promised some friends I'd visit with them tonight" and "I wasn't feeling good today and I didn't get much sleep. So I'm really tired now" are very common in these situations.
Keep in mind that if you are on a date with her, it is still somewhat normal for the woman to expect you to pay; so that would be an exception to what I have just shared with you.
This "sign" is primarily in regard to women you have been hanging out with for a period of time.

With the exception of "taking turns paying" a woman who offers to pay for your night out, and does so frequently, usually DOES feel an attraction toward you. This alone is not a definite indication of that, so just keep in mind in combination of other "signs."


2. She almost always wants to meet you at the location, instead of letting you pick her up and drive.

Meeting at the location of a date is becoming more and more common, however a woman who is attracted to a guy will often find reasons to have him pick her up. Not always, but frequently. The thing you want to look for here is, does she always (or almost always decline when you offer to pick her up on the date? A woman's safety is much more on her mind than it is on a guy's mind, so she will be more concerned about you knowing where she lives if she is not attracted to you.

3. Your time together is almost exclusively at public places (restaurant, coffee joint, park, mall, etc) She is rarely ever alone with you. This means no hanging out at her house or yours, unless someone else is around.

Like I said, a woman's safety is much more frequently on her mind, than a guy's safety is on his mind. She will walk an extra block to get to a location, simply because that route has other people around.

And another level of this "safety" is her level of security in being alone with you. A woman who is attracted to a guy, will FIND ways to get him alone with her. So a woman who seems to keep you in a public place of some sort, or at a location where her friends or other people are at, most likely sees you as JUST FRIENDS!

This does not mean that she is attracted to you if you both end up alone someplace. That would only be true if this starts to happen more and more frequently with you and she.


4. She hugs you briefly, is light on being an actual embrace, and she is almost always the one pulling away from the hug first.

A buddy of mine asked me if I could tell by a hug if a woman had attraction to me or not. While there is no absolute "yes" or "no" there are certain ways a woman hugs you that strongly point in the direction of "attracted to you" or "just friends."

Physical contact, by itself, does NOT indicate that a woman is attracted to you. Women are nurturing creatures by nature, so hugs are a sign of comfort not of attraction. When she gives you a hug goodbye, or hello, it does not mean she is attracted to you beyond just friends!
My buddy told me about a woman he had been "dating" for a few weeks, and he said that every time they went to say goodnight she would give him a quick and simple hug, and since he was much taller than her she would hug his waist. He wanted to know if that meant she might be attracted to him or not. I told him that if she leans in with just her shoulders, that is often a sign of "just friends" but that if she put her chest

AND shoulders into the hug that it might indicate some level of attraction. I also told him that if she does a quick rub or pat on his back during the hug, it indicates a level of closeness toward you but not neccessarily attraction. Also pay attention to how tightly she squeezes when she hugs you; it is likely a "just friends" situation if it is just enough of a squeeze to make it a hug, and potential attraction if it is a stronger squeeze where you are pulled toward her. Duration is also important; the longer it lingers the more likely it's attraction.


5. She does not pay you very many compliments. And the compliments she does give you, are indirect.

Many guys seem to think that just because a woman pays them a compliment, that it means she might be open to being more than JUST FRIENDS.
But you really do need to pay attention to the CONTENT in the compliment.

If she says, "You are so funny" that is a compliment that MIGHT mean she is attracted to you, or might become attracted to you. But if instead she were to say, "That was so funny" she is NOT complimenting you...not directly anyway. And as such, it is in NO WAY any kind of indicator that she might be attracted to you.

Notice that in the first compliment, she said "YOU are so funny." That's a direct statement she is making about you. But in the alternate compliment, she said, "THAT was so funny." Notice how it's complimenting the content, not the person?

So be very aware of the compliments a woman gives to you. Look for the "YOU are..." compliments, so you don't misread the "THAT was..." compliments as indicators of attraction toward you.


6. She frequently interrupts you when you're talking.

One of the indicators of comfort, is that we will interrupt our friends alot. But we will do it far less frequently, or not at all, to someone we're attracted to.

In those initial steps of being attracted to someone, we will pay more attention to what they are saying. Part of that is in the form of not interrupting them.

So if your female friend seems to interrupt you frequently, the good news is she's comfortable around you. The not so good news is, she's not likely seeing you as more than JUST FRIENDS!
Sure, once you're in a relationship, you interrupt each other all the time. But until then, frequent interruptions by a woman, means NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU!


7. When you talk about what you like in a woman, she DOES NOT make comments of how she is like that.

This is one that many, MANY guys fail to notice. When you are telling a woman what YOU like in a woman that attracts you, that is very much like a "job interview." As such, any woman who is attracted to "applying for the position" will point out, even if only subtly, that she matches what you are describing.

So for example, if you were to say to a woman, "I like a woman who isn't afraid to be a dork around me" If she offers no reply in regard to how she is like that, or says what SHE likes in a MAN, or changes the subject entirely, she is most likely NOT attracted to you.
I was in a coffee joint recently, and I overheard a guy say to his female companion, "I like it when a woman is musically inclined." She replied, "Yeah, I like music. I dated this one one guy who played the trumpet..."

if that guy was attracted to that woman, she was NOT attracted to him in return! Notice how she even brought up ANOTHER GUY!

I have witnessed many conversations just like that, and those kinds of replies from the women, coupled with what I noticed about her body language, told me she saw that guy as JUST FRIENDS!
Speaking of body language....


8. She frequently positions her body "away" from you.

This one you really need to pay attention to. In fact, if you really want to know if that female friend thinks of you and her as JUST FRIENDS, have some pictures taken of you together.
Then notice her positioning in relation to you.

When a woman considers you JUST FRIENDS, her head will often tilt AWAY from you.

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If you tend to overeat, you can put this news to work in your favor right now by starting your meals with a low-calorie soup or a salad with low-calorie dressing first to help encourage a feeling of fullness without a lot of calories, and then by taking your time when you eat, which will give your brain more time to register satisfaction. Soon others will be wondering how you stay so "naturally" thin, too!

"Friendship never fades"

Maybe there is a plan in meeting a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!

Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy.

Always put yourself in another's' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying, that you appreciate their friendship.

"About CLAIRVOYANCE"

Clairvoyance

Clairvoyance is the art of 'seeing' beyond the five senses.Clairvoyance is often called the 'sixth sense' or esp. It is related to the images that are always present in our minds that bring messages from other frequency and realms. These images can be archetypes,colors, still frame, animations. They can be anything. They can remain on a few seconds or much longer. Initially its easiest to see them with your eyes closed. As you develop your psychic abilities will be able to look to higher frequency, with your eyes opened.

Rules to developing and trusting your increasing abilities.

• Heal your issues and thus you will want to heal others
• Create balance in your emotional and spiritual bodies or your messages will be as jumbled as your thinking
• Your frequency will automatically raise and you will receive images
• Experience, test and explore what is shown to you
• The truth about reality will be given - your mission feeling here

In clairvoyance we 'see' with what is commonly called the third eye.In the human brain there is a gland called the pineal gland. It is located in the back area of the brain almost in the center of the head.This gland has degenerated from its original size comparable to a pingpong ball to its present size comparable to a pea, because we forgot how to use it a long time ago when our breathing patterns changed.

With our reality grid raising planetary frequency, people working out there issues, developing psychic abilities becomes easier in time. This is the Master Plan to awaken sleeping consciousness.

Some people become clairvoyant after a Near Death Experience, an alleged alien abduction, serious illness or accident, such as a blow to the head area, or opening the kundalini energies.

Some people use chemical stimulants or Psychedelics to heighten their awareness. This is something I do not advise as the in formation may not be accurate and physical side effects may occur later on.

Clairvoyance connects to the right side of the brain - the feminine, creative, and intuitive aspects. That explains the reason some people feel physical sensations in on the left side of their body. The energy enters in through the left side of your body so as to activate the right side of your brain.

Children can display psychic abilities leading parents to believe they are Indigo or Crystal Children.

Opening your clairvoyant gifts has to do with DNA activation of your encoded cellular memories, activation of your chakras, raising your frequency, balancing your energy bodies, your self esteem, the ability to trust in what you 'hear' and 'see', your emotional state, and expanding your knowledge base in all areas of physical reality.

You can't do a reading for read someone on a subject, or understand symbols on a specific subject, if you have no knowledge of that subject. The brain will have no way of interpreting the archetypal symbolism into something you can understand. You can explain what you see, but we meaning must accompany imagery.

Once you have opened your clairvoyant gifts, it is like any other exercise ... it gets easier and easier. Meditation and yoga help.

For centuries the gift of clairvoyance was forbidden and hidden in cryptic messages that few could interpret. People, and religious leaders feared the power of the gifted and the truth these people would bring to an enlightened consciousness.

Humanity has returned to an age of enlightenment in which we are all activating orDNA codes to discover who we are and why we are here. Clairvoyance is part of our total experience, the spiraling evolution of consciousness through the alchemy of time.

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Clairvoyance- a noun from late 17th century French [clair (clear) & voyant(seeing)] - is defined as a form of extra-sensory perception whereas a person perceives distant objects, persons, or events, including perceiving an image hidden behind opaque objects and the detection of types of energy not normally perceptible to humans (i.e. radio waves).Typically, such perception is reported in visual terms, but may also include auditory impressions (sometimes called clairaudience) orkinesthetic impressions.

The term clairvoyances often used broadly to refer to all forms of ESP where a person receives information through means other than those explainable by current science. Perhaps more often, it is used more narrowly to refer to reception of present-time information not from another person, there being other terms to refer to other forms: telepathy referring to reception of information from another person (i.e. presumably mind-to-mind); premonition and precognition that refer to gained information about places and events in the future. The terms clairsentience and remote perception are often used in reference to psi phenomena falling under this broader context.

As with all psi phenomena, there is wide disagreement and controversy within the sciences and even within parapsychology as to the existence of clairvoyance and the validity or interpretation of clairvoyance related experiments.

Clairvoyance through history

There have been anecdotal reports of clairvoyance and claims of clairvoyant abilities on the part of some throughout history in most cultures. Most of these episodes are experienced during young adulthood. Often these have been associated with religious figures, offices, and practices.For example, ancient Hindu religious texts list clairvoyance as one of the siddhis, skills that can be acquired through appropriate meditation and personal discipline. But a large number of anecdotal accounts of clairvoyance are of the spontaneous variety among the general populace.For example, many people report instances of "knowing" in one form or another when a loved one has died or was in danger before receiving notification through normal channels that such events have taken place.Similar presentiments that are not eventually fulfilled are soon forgotten, however. While anecdotal accounts do not provide scientific proof of clairvoyance, such common experiences continue to motivate research into such phenomena.

Clairvoyance was one of the phenomena reported to have been observed in the behavior of somnambulists, people who were mesmerized and in a trance state(nowadays equated with hypnosis by most people) in the time of Franz Anton Mesmer. The earliest recorded report of somnambulistic clairvoyance is credited to the Marquis de Puységur, a follower of Mesmer, who in 1784 was treating a local dull-witted peasant named Victor Race. During treatment, Victor reportedly would go into trance and undergo a personality change, becoming fluent and articulate, and giving diagnosis and prescription for his own disease as well as those of other patients, and forgetting everything when he came out of the trance state. All this is in a manner reminiscent of the reported behaviors of the 20th century medical clairvoyant and psychic EdgarCayce. It is reported that although Puységur used the term 'clairvoyance', he did not attribute any of this to the paranormal since he accepted mesmerism as one of the natural sciences.

Clairvoyance was in times following a reported ability of some mediums during the spiritualist period of the late 19th and early 20th centuries, and was one of the aspects studied by members of the Society for Psychical Research (SPR). Psychics of many descriptions have claimed clairvoyant ability up to the present day.

While experimental research into clairvoyance began with SPR researchers,experimental studies became more systematic with the efforts of J. B.Rhine and his associates at Duke University, and such research efforts continue to the present day. Perhaps the best-known study of clairvoyance in recent times was the US government-funded remote viewing project at SRI/SAIC during the 1970s through the mid-1990s.

Results of some parapsychological studies, such as the remote viewing studies,suggest that clairvoyance does not exist - the original "remote viewing" study was discontinued by the Stanford Research Institute dueto lack of evidence. However there are as yet no satisfactory experiments designed that cleanly separate the various manifestations of ESP. Some parapsychologists have proposed that our different functional labels (clairvoyance, telepathy, precognition) all refer to one basic underlying mechanism, although there is not yet any satisfactory theory for what that mechanism would be.

Clairvoyances a term has its origins from the French word claire, which means"clear", and voyance, "seeing". It literally means 'clear seeing' inFrench.

There is ongoing criticism and debate of all these results in the literature.

Developing clairvoyant abilities

Current thinking in clairvoyant circles posits that most are born with clairvoyant abilities but then start to turn them off as children are brought up to adhere to demonstrable social norms. Numerous institutes offer training courses that attempt to revive the abilities present in those early years.

Another school of thoughtclaims that our "sixth sense" grows when we do spiritual practice. Withregular spiritual practice done according to basic spiritual principleswe increase our spiritual level and are able to perceive and experiencethe subtle world to greater degrees.

"PORNO"

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To those who are posting their nude photos,is that all what you've got???Don't you have any personality or brains to flaunt so you resort to posting nude photos to attract attention!what a looser!!!

Those who post their naked pictures are those people who has a very low self-esteem & no self-respect & i assume they have no brains,maybe their brains are in their tits or penises.....MISERABLE LOoSERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"True Beauty"

BEAUTY is not based on how attractive we are to everybody else, but how attractive we are to ourselves, for one cannot think other people think they are full of beauty unless they know they are beautiful too. I believe the personality and the soul is what makes a person beautiful,it does not always have to be the physical appearance. Sometimes the best guy isn't always the hottest guy or the richest... sometimes he's the ugliest or the poorest. Don't go through life wearing shutters,learn to take them off. Beauty has to take a back seat to whatever else may lie in your heart. Sometimes love or something like it takes a form such as a thought across the internet. Real beauty is the beauty of soul and Beauty is like a tree; it grows from the inside out.. Try to put that in your heads.

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