The True Essence Of Friendship

" GENERAL TRAITS OF A FRIENDSHIP "

Perhaps the one relation that has survived the trials and tribulations of time and has still remained unconditional is friendship.

A unique blend of affection, loyalty, love, respect, trust and loads of fun is perhaps what describes the true meaning of friendship between two individuals.

Similar interests, mutual respect and strong attachment with each other are what friends share between each other. These are just the general traits of a friendship.

To experience what is friendship, one must have true friends, who are indeed rare treasure.

"The Colors Of Friendship"

If I Could Catch a Rainbow

If I could catch a rainbow, I would do it, just for you,And, share with you, its beauty, on the days you're feeling blue.




If I could, I would build a mountain, you could call your very own.A place to find serenity, a place just to be alone.If I could, I would take your troubles, and toss them into the sea.


But, all these things, I'm finding, are impossible for me.I cannot build a mountain, or catch a rainbow fair;but, let me be, what I know best,A Friend, who's always there.


I promise to defend you, should the occasion ever rise,And, I promise to wipe away the tears,which might stream from your weeping eyes.


Let me be the trusted Friend, the one that you know best.I will never leave you, on that, you can surely rest.

"Be Desirable To Every Men"

How to Get a Guy to Always Want to Talk to You

It's a great feeling and a boost for your self-confidence when you see a guy approaching you, smiling and hoping to continue a conversation you started earlier. Try these tricks to get someone you like to want to talk to you as much as you want to talk to him.

Step1Discover what topics he's passionate about. If you're enthusiastic when listening to him discuss his favorite sports teams, card collection or life ambition, he'll always seek you out (particularly if his friends are tired of hearing about the subject).

Step2Demonstrate that you're trustworthy. A guy will only be willing to divulge his worries, hopes for the future, troubles in school and his true feelings if he knows that you won't immediately run to your friends to discuss what he said. Keep the personal topics you've discussed between the two of you.

Step3Be yourself, but also be "one of the guys" sometimes. Let him know he can talk to you just like he talks to his friends, including a little swearing if he's prone to the habit. A guy will be more open and at ease if he doesn't have to continually censor his comments.

Step4Make him laugh. Get a feel for his sense of humor so you'll know if you can be sarcastic or even make fun of him in a good-natured way. Discover what movies and one-liners he finds funny. Develop a few inside jokes to strengthen your bond.

Step5Get his friends to like you. Winning the approval of his friends will allow him to talk to you often without them pressuring him to stop. You may even be able to continue your conversations while you're hanging out as part of the group.

"Friendship To Lovers"

How to Turn a Friendship Into Something More

Turning friendship into something more is tricky, but it can be done.

Step1

Spend more time together. Time allowed you to discover your true feelings for your friend, so it stands to reason that may be true with your friend as well. The more time you spend together, the better you can get to know each other. Quality time is the foundation of any successful relationship, so the more of it you have together, the better your chances at romance.

Step2

Find out what they look for in a partner. Just because you have a friendship doesn't mean that you fit your friend's requirement for a romantic partner. Before you make a move, you should find out what type of girls or guys your friend likes.

Step3

Be open with your friend. Before your friend can see you as something more, you have to open up and allow them to see you in a different light. Show your friend vulnerability and emotions and allow them to come to the realization on their own.

Step4

Be available when your friend needs you. The best way to show a friend that you are someone they can rely on is to be there when they need you. Being reliable and trustworthy in a time of need will allow your friend to see how much you care.

Step5

Show your friend how great you'd be as a girlfriend or boyfriend. Make dinner for them after a long day of work, or soup when they are sick. Don't be too obvious, but make small gestures typical of a significant other to get your friend to see you as something more than a friend.

"About Friendship"

"Friendship & Life"

Life just seems, to be an wreck less journey,

With your friendship, as sugar and honey,

It can be cool, it can be sunny,

You can't compare it, with gold or money.

Before we met, I was so lonely,

I thought I was, alone and only,

I had few friends, to call them only,

Who never turned up, when needed them badly.

You showered your friendship, in to my heart,

And it's a feeling, which should never depart,

You are my life's, most beautiful part,

A chapter I know, not to end but start.

You gave me the meaning, which I never had,

Before this feeling, I was so sad,

It's only with you, that I can never be bad,

Cause of your friendship, which I never had.

You are most beautiful, by soul and heart,

You are the sunshine, of my heart,

I can't deny, that I love your heart,

Cause it's a friends, most beautiful part.

I never thought, that this friendship will,

Turn me upside-down the hill,It has changed,

my heart my will,It's your friendship,

that I can never kill.

Your heart is just, as crystal clear,

Cause I can see it, through my dear,

What I saw is, truth no fear,

I always feel, that your heart is near.

You only bring, smiles on my face,

When I think, Life has lost it's pace,

Life just seems, to be an endless race,

You always help me, ease my ways.

You have changed, my life again,

Cause I thought, it was only pain,

Doesn't matter to me, if I loose or gain,

Cause things can never, be the same.

I wish to HIM, this should never end,

Cause I thought, HE was my only friend,

You made me know, what is a friend to be,

They are always one, and they are meant to be.

I thanks to HIM, that I found you,

And an honest friend, inside of you,

Life has no meaning, without a friend,

Cause everyone dies, in the lonely end.

Sometimes it's HI !!!, and sometimes HEY …..,

But never give up, to things anyway,

Friends tell true, but they sometimes lie,

I see their pictures, when I close my eyes.

I started with you, and ending with friends,

They never live up, at two different ends,

Friends are the only, food for soul,

I love them more, by (all) things you know.

Words fall short, for the friends of mine,

Their heart is diamond, which would ever shine,

A little smile, from a friend of mine,

Reflects my true love, from heart of thyne

"Be Friendly No Matter What Race or Ethnicity,Friendships Has No Bounderies"

"Friendship Makes Our Lives Easier"

Its great to be able to meet people from all over the world. I love making new friends and learning more about their cultures and beliefs. I feel that if more people talked to each other throughout the the world we would be able to understand more and have better feelings towards our fellow countries.



We all may have our differences but we are all human and live under the same sky and breathe the same air. And we all have the same maker. And I know we have different beliefs in who that is. But I really hope to make many new friends. Peace and Love to all and God Bless You Always.

"Girlfriends,through tough & crazy times!"

"My Girlfriends"

A young wife sat on a porch in Waycross, Georgia on a summer day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her mother. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter."Don't forget your girlfriends," she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. "They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you'll love the children you'll have, you are still going to need girlfriends. Remember to go places with them now and then; Do things with them. And remember that girlfriends" are not only your friends, but your sisters, your daughters,and other relatives too. You'll need other women. Women always do.

What a funny piece of advice.' the young women thought. 'Haven't I just gotten married? Haven't I just joined the 'couple' world? I'm a married woman, for goodness sake... A grown up... Not a young girl who needs girlfriends! Surely my husband and the family we'll start, will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!

But she listened to her mother. She kept in contact with her girlfriends and made more each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her mom really knew what she was talking about. As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, girlfriends are the mainstay of her life.


After 50 years of living in this world, here is what I know about girlfriend

Girlfriends bring you casseroles and scrub your bathroom when you need help. Girlfriends keep your children and your secrets.Girlfriends give advice when you ask for it. Sometimes you take it, sometimes you don't.Girlfriends don't always tell you you're right, but they're usually honest.Girlfriends still love you, even when they don't agree with your choices.Girlfriends laugh with you and don't need canned jokes to start the laughter.Girlfriends pull you out of jams.Girlfriends help you get out of bad relationships.Girlfriends help you look for a new apartment. Help you pack, then help you move.Girlfriends will give a party for your son or daughter when they get married or have a baby. (No matter in which order that happens!)Girlfriends are there for you, in an instant, when the hard times come.Girlfriends will drive through blizzards, rainstorms, hail, heat, and the gloom of night to get to you when your hour of need is desperate.Girlfriends will listen when you lose a job or a friend.

Girlfriends listen when your children break your heart.Girlfriends listen when your parents' minds and bodies fail.Girlfriends cry with you when someone you loved dies.Girlfriends support you when the men in your life let you down.Girlfriends help you pick up the pieces when men pack up and go.Girlfriends rejoice at what makes you happy and are ready to go out and kill what makes you unhappy.

Time passes. Life happens. Distance separates. Children grow up. Marriages fail. Love waxes and wanes. Hearts break. Careers end. Jobs come and go. Parents die. Colleagues forget favors. Men don't call when they say they will... But girlfriends are there... no matter how much time and how many miles are between you....

A girlfriend is never farther away than needing her can reach.When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it for yourself, your girlfriends will be on the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley's end. Sometimes, they will even break the rule and walk beside you... or come in and carry you out.SO, to my girlfriends, cousins, and extended family.... YOU BLESS MY LIFE!

The world wouldn't be the same without all of you, and neither would I. When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other every day... And we need each other still.Love to you all.

"My Friend"

You my friend
You don't always show it
but I know that you care





You My friend
If I'd ever need you
I know you'd be there





You I'm glad you're my friend
Your smile makes me smile
Your pain makes me hurt





You My friend
I want you to know
If you need me--I'm there
make you happy, make you laugh





You My friend
Sometimes you make me mad
but I can't stay mad





You My friend
Sometimes I want to get away from you
And sometimes there's nothing I want more than
to talk to you, to tell you about my day
to hear about yours, to laugh with you
to tease you, to share an inside joke
that no one else would get
to argue with you, but know we're just kidding





You My friend
Do you remember the time when
There are so many times





You My friend
Don't ever lose the wonderful person you are
Stay happy. Stay healthy. Stay you





You My friend
I'll never stop being your friend
Don't ever stop being mine





You My friend
Just wanted to tell you

I care

"A JUST BUT FORGIVING HEART"

In every FRIENDSHIP or RELATIONSHIP with our love ones, friends, or to other people there are times when we are let down, disappointed, or HURT. Most likely there are also times when we ourselves cause disappointment or hurt to our love ones or friends.

Wt. hen this happens, how do we react or respond? Who do we turn to? Look at the friendship chart.

helpfulness

justice gentleness

patience sense of humor forgiveness

Do you think the key friendship words in the chart reflect realistically the real meaning of friendship? Human beings have the capacity for a full human interaction with one another. At certain times, we inflict pain on other people or even to our love ones or friends. But we also have the capacity and inclination to be just, loving and forgiving.

Forgiving those who do us harm give us a most rewarding feeling of peace. However, we must also be firm in seeing that there is justice in every relationship that no one is taken advantage of or abused.

"Friendship never fades"

Maybe there is a plan in meeting a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!

Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy.

Always put yourself in another's' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying, that you appreciate their friendship.

"PEOPLE TO BE REMEMBER"

People always we

remember & they are

all time in your main.

Those Nice One Who Love Us.

&

Care about Us.

Those Nice One Who Meet Us.

far from home

&

They keep Asking about Us.

Those Nice Creators Who Makes Life Wonderful For Us.

Those Nice Inventor Who Makes Life Easier For Us.

Those Nice Designer Who Makes Life Beautiful For Us.

Those Nice Scientist Who Makes Life Better For Us.

Those Nice Educators Who Makes Life Understandable For Us.......................

"BESTFRIENDS"

You are the best friend that i ever had & i will keep you in my heart forever!
Because you are my bestfriend i want to hug you to let you know how much i miss you.............


I want to give you a kiss on your chicks to say i do care for you & to let you feel that you are special



If you will allow me i want to kiss you on your hand to let you know that i respect you & i looked up to you as my inspiration



I want to hold your hand tight to let you know that i'm always there for you....................



You need to trust me............I'm not letting go.........NEVER in your dreams.

"FRIENDS FOREVER!"

"BESTFRIENDS IN LOVE"