What Do Women Really Want

So what do women really want from their man?

The top 6 things women want FROM MEN, in order, are:

1. Women want men who exhibit confidence (or power)
2. Women want men with a sense of humor (fun)
3. Women want men with money or the things money can buy (sense of security)
4. Women want men with looks (protection and attraction)
5. Women want men with a bit of "Bad boy" qualities (mysterious and independent/strong)
6. Women want all the other stuff they typically list (varies - sensitive, caring, etc.)


1. Women want a man to be confident! Confidence is the number one quality women look for. Don't be wimpy. Don't apologize for everything. Be real. Be you.

2. Women want a man who makes her feel like she's the only one. Women go nuts over a man who will go the extra mile. For example, he opens the door for her, he walks on the right side of the street, he helps her shop. I'm talking about being a GENTLEMAN! If she is cold, offer her your jacket. If she is in trouble, protect her. If there is danger, put your arm around her. Be a real man.

3. Women want a man with a sense of humor. A woman will almost always love a man who can make her laugh. If you are dull, you are boring. If you make a woman laugh, you're halfway home. Take a chance, be real, but be funny. There are several seduction experts who claim that being "cocky" and "funny" are the two most important qualities to attracting a woman. I agree.

4. Women want a man to listen to them (yes, even to the gripes and details of all the craziness) and not necessarily give advice. Many women love to complain about their problems; however, they complain not to receive advice, but merely to sound off. I know it's hard to nod and be supportive, because you want to watch ESPN or do something that to you may seem more exciting, but the fact is, your woman will go to the ends of the earth to love you when you truly listen to them and acknowledge their needs. You need to understand that women need to VENT. Allow her this, and she'll allow you in. Nod. Get involved and provide active listening feedback. Be truly interested in what she is saying without worrying about what you're going to say next. Then, watch what happens as your woman opens up to you more.

Women want men to listen to them, because they have a need to be heard. And, women want their man to express his feelings and trust her with his intimate side. Real listening, with real intimacy, is rare. Real listening is suspending thinking about what to say and being deeply engaged in what she is talking about. Listening requires actively paying attention -- shutting off the chatter mind.

5. Women want men to treat them like they are the sexiest woman on the planet and that no other woman compares. Talking about your ex-girlfriends is not going to score big points with your new woman. Treating her like she's the ONLY one will make her smile for quite a while.

6. Women want loyal men. Women want to know you will be faithful. Don't tell a woman how you cheated on your ex. It won't make her think you are wise, loyal, or trustworthy. I'm not saying to lie to her -- just don't go there. Don't cheat on your woman. She will not think you are a better man for doing this. Just like you want think you are the only man she's ever loved, well, that's the thing she wants, too. The key to faithfulness comes from your own inner character. Be a man of character and you will reap a relationship built upon trust. You gain respect through consistent committed action. Respect backed up by love builds trust, trust builds a strong relationship that can stand the tests of life and time.

7. Women SAY they want a sensitive man. Truth is, if you go around apologizing all the time and crying frequently then a woman will abuse you. Trust me, it is NOT wise to do. This was well exemplified during the beach scene in the movie Bedazzled, where the main character in the film was trying to woo his love interest, his advice had been to "be more sensitive." Well, he went so overboard, was so sensitive, that his love interest ended up walking away with another dude with the assumption that they'd have meaningless conversation and casual sex! Boy was HE surprised! Being overly sensitive is a quick way to get shown the door. It is important to strike a balance. Be strong, be there, yet share your emotions. Speak up and be real. Let them know you care. But don't be a sissy.

Women say they want to be treated like an equal. This is not true. Women want to be treated like a WOMAN. Not like a man. If she wanted to be with a woman, she'd do that. She wants to be with YOU. Therefore, be a MAN. This is not to be confused with being treated like a piece of property, not to be confused with being treated with disrespect. Women want to be respected! A woman wants to be respected for being feminine, being a woman. Women are quite different from men. A man who takes the time to understand the difference is a wise man. Bottom line here: NO MORE Mr. NICE GUY. Be a REAL MAN, not a sensitive NICE GUY. Because the nice guys usually do finish last.

You still don't get it? Ok, then try this: be your own bad self. I will say that some women are attracted to "Bad Boys". I think there is a certain ruggedness to the bad boy - they break rules, they sometimes behave rudely. But the true gentleman always remembers what matters most. Have an air of mystique, but definitely be you. If, on occasion, that means doing what you want, rather than what she wants, then do it. Just don't make a continual habit of it - that's rude.

8. Women LOVE a man with a plan. Women love men with ambition. Men who know who they are, what we're doing tonight, and what we're doing with our life. If you don't have a plan, get one. I have a plan (a) and plan (b) ready at all times, so that no matter what, it will appear I'm fairly spontaneous, but reality is I usually know where, when, and how the evening or date could go. In dating, it is extremely important that you have a plan when you ask a woman out. They will judge your sense of confidence by how well you have thought out where you will take her and what you will do together. So, think ahead, have a plan, then work that plan. While you're at it make sure you have an alternative plan, too, in case she doesn't like the first one!

It is equally important for a man to know when to call a woman's bluff and let her know when she is pushing his limits. A man who just falls over and laps at his woman's feet is a man who is called "whipped" for a reason. An example is as follows: she asks, "what do you want to do tonight," he says, "whatever you want to do." If this is his consistent pattern, he's whipped. She won't respect him in the end.

9. Women want generous men. Don't be a tight-wad. Give the woman in your life gifts. Like the Chairman of the Board, Ol' Blue Eyes, Frank Sinatra, used to say, "you gotta gift 'em." Well, I figure good enough for Frank, good enough for me. After all, Frank was a MASTER SWOONER. Guys, get this: Frank Sinatra went to Hollywood with a plan to take a lengthy list of top actresses in his movie studio to bed at some point during his career. As the story goes, he pretty much succeeded. Some women will frown when they read this - but guys, I know what you're thinking: "who did Frank get together with?" Well, how about Gina Lollobrigida and Ava Gardner, for starters (I believe it was Angie Dickinson who claimed to abstain). That's like saying Jennifer Lopez, Halle Berry, and Charlize Theron to today's younger actor.

So, maybe giving a gift once in a while isn't such a bad idea. Just don't go broke trying to impress her! After all, Frank Sinatra also had a stellar voice, plenty of swagger, and loads of star power to go with his ability to buy a gift or two. Nevertheless, small gifts, especially gifts that show you were listening when she mentioned her favorite candy bar, or when she stopped at that jewelry counter to admire those earrings (but put them back without buying them), or how she commented on how she'd just love that dress in the window of that snazzy clothing store. Well, use your own imagination. But if you don't gift the woman in your life you'll probably be referred to by the woman you love as "cheapskate".

Now, "why," you ask, "do women care about gifts?" Good question. The answer is that one way women relate is through giving gifts - especially when you've paid attention to what they want. Women will gift exchange compliments with each other, too. So just trust me and surprise her with a gift every now and then and see if she doesn't respond favorably.

10. Be a true friend. LISTEN TO HER. Let her share her good times and problems with you. Be there, rather than just promising to be there. Consistent committed positive action is a definition of love. How do you show you are a friend? Are you there when it matters most? Are you there for the small stuff, too?

11. Women want to be loved, despite their flaws, and need to be satisfied mentally, emotionally, and spiritually as much as physically. Unconditional love would be ideal love. How can you love a woman without judgment, conditions, or rules? How would you like to be loved?

Sexually speaking, women define great sex differently than men, using words like soft candlelight, light touch, then becoming more aggressive as their mood rises to the occasion. A man, on the other hand, instantly rises to the occasion. Women want men to be their lover instead of obsessing over their body to just get sex. Rather than treat women as sex objects, treat them as someone to relate with; in other words, a real person! That means taking your time, showing extra attention, and being tender in ways with her to let her know she is special.

12. Women appreciate a man who is creative. Roses are nice. But sometimes it is extra special to think of something that most guys wouldn't do for a woman. It could be something frivolous, but if it is something that you think SHE would like, then why not do it? You might have just made her day.

13. Women want men who offer a sense of security, to know that her partner will be there if she becomes sick or when she grows old or flabby. Giving a woman security is being there through emotional and physical support. An example might be if she has to have surgery. Take the day off and be there for her, hold her hand, and give your full support to her. In other words, postpone that "tee time"! Security comes from trust. Again, this is about being able to rely in your strength of character.

Women Reveals....

9 Things Women Want...

1. Respect. Show us through your actions that you respect our opinions, careers, interests, friends, bodies, and minds. You don't have to agree with all that we say or do, but try to honor our opinions as valuable contributions. Follow the golden rule and treat us as you would like to be treated: Be honest, fair, kind, and considerate.

2. Romance. It's another night on the couch with takeout and TiVo? Just because we're staying in doesn't mean the evening can't be romantic. Light a few candles and see where the night leads. Treat us like your girlfriend, even after we become your wife. Date nights, physical affection in the car, kissing like when we first started dating -- all of the things that made us fall in love with you don't have to stop just because now there are bills to pay, a house to be cleaned, and kids to be bathed. Bring home flowers for no reason. We're not talking $100 bouquets of roses here. Even the $10 bouquets from the supermarket are enough to make us smile.

3. Time. We understand relationships can't be all wine and roses; simply making the time to be with us and treating us like your top priority says "love" more than all the fancy gifts and lovely letters ever could. This includes helping around the house. The realities of a 21st-century relationship are that both partners probably work. If you happen to get home before we do, why not vacuum the living room or throw in a load of laundry? If you take the garbage out without being asked, chances are you'll be getting a big ole smooch when you come back.

4. Dinner. Of the homemade variety. You may not be good at cooking and you may not know how to boil water. But greeting us at the door after a long day with fish sticks (or whatever you can wrastle up) makes us swoon, because it shows that you've been thinking about us and our hectic day.

5. Communication. Women are vocal creatures. We know you love us, but it's nice to hear you say it, too. We can also be insecure. We wish we weren't, but the reality is that we often notice our wobbly thighs and forget about our gorgeous eyes. So let us know when you think we're hot. Tell us we're beautiful. It helps us feel good. Words of appreciation aren't half-bad either. Tell us you love the lasagna we made. Notice that we cleaned the bathtub. It doesn't have to be over the top, just let us know that you see the effort we put in, and you're grateful.

6. Consistency. This doesn't mean be boring and predictable. It means that we know you will (usually -- no one is perfect!) give us the love and support we need. Knowing that you're coming at this with the same desires and energy as we are goes a long way to making us feel secure.

7. Engagement. Of the mental kind, not the "I'm getting married in the morning" kind. You don't have to like everything we like (we might be a little concerned if you do), but showing interest in our passions, be it career-..related, a sport, or a hobby, goes a long way. Listen when we talk to you. We're not speaking just so we can hear our own voice; we want to connect with you and this is one valuable way we do this. This also means paying attention to the little things. Whether it's the name of your best friend's husband or the fact that you hate Nicolas Cage movies, it's the little things you remember about us that's so endearing.

8. Humor and Humility. These two tend to go hand in hand. This doesn't mean that you have to crack jokes or entertain us, but just being able to laugh at yourself is enough. Guys who take themselves too seriously bring everyone down.

9. Challenge. Not the kind that makes a relationship constant work, but the good kind that surprises and motivates us to do, be, or achieve what we desire. Studies show that partners who prod each other to meet goals -- in other words, don't support lazy or bad habits -- are ultimately happier than those who don't hold each other accountable.

"Forever Love"

Love stays when it would be easier to go. Love endures long past the point of lost patience. Love sees past physical imperfections and age to the beautiful heart of a person. Love says I'll stay with you even if your body is ravaged by disease, even though I feel like I might die of wanting to make love under a clear blue sky, but never will because you can't do it with me and I'll never leave.

Love stays past the point of frustration. Love tries again and again and again. Love is patient.

Love isn't infatuation or lust or a fuzzy, feel good thing. It's not comprised of candy coated words, nor does it need endless affirmation. Love can hurt like hell. It can sting. It almost always involves doing the hard thing and not what's easy.

Forever love only happens when two people endure and MAKE IT forever love. It's not something one can fall into or out of. It's something that we create over time, again and again, every time we choose to stay, until eventually the line between us blurs and we're so "one" we can't tell where you end and I begin and the skin on our hands is paper thin and spotted.

©Just Kate

I obviously can't encapsulate "forever love." This is simply how I see it today. ♥

"How To Secure Your Relationship'

Do you feel uncertain about the future of your relationship?

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Do you sometimes wish that men could just be moreHONEST with you?Do you feel discouraged by dating because the menyou meet actually LIE about what they want fromdating, what their background is, what they do fora living and sometimes even lie about whether ornot they're AVAILABLE?

To where sometimes you end up involved with a man who is already seriously dating another woman, orworse - is married?

Not good.If these are situations that you run into a little more than you'd like, then keep reading because in this topic I'm about to reveal the "MAGIC ATTITUDE" that actually inspires a man to be completely up front and honest with you about such things as:--

If he's looking for something serious or casual-- If he's seeing other people -- If you're the kind of woman he's drawn to -- If he's ready to"settle down" or not As a matter of fact, with this magic attitude, you may be able to get a man to reveal a lot more than he would ever reveal on his own, without prompting, and the ADDED BENEFIT of this is tha the will feel more "connected" with you because he'll feel he can tell you just about ANYTHING.

He'll feel more attracted to you because he'll feel more understood and appreciated by you.This is why I call this attitude "magic." It not only inspires honesty from a man, it makes him feel
more connected to you at the same time.Nice.I

If you're single and dating right now, this mindset or attitude can actually help you qualify the right man and avoid Mr. Wrong as early in thedating process as possible, perhaps even before youmeet in person for the first time (if you'reonline dating).And if you're in a relationship, it can help you get to the bottom of what he's thinking and feeling, so you can know why he's with drawing, ifhe's open to taking things to the "next level," orwhat's holding him back from fully committing to you.But first, there's a fundamental question that seems to bother a lot of women.

Why does this even have to be an issue, anyway?

Why can't a guy just be up-front and honest with you?Why, for example, is it so hard for a man to tell you why he's not calling as often or why he stopped asking you out, especially when he seemed so "into you" in the beginning?

You go out on a few dates with a guy, and you think everything is going great.then he stops calling. He doesn't respond to your emails ortexts. It's like he's dropped off the face of the earth. Maybe you even realized that he was a nice enough guy, but you didn't know him well enough yet to fall in love or anything.But still.you wish you could at least hear WHY he stopped calling, stopped asking you out, stoppedr esponding to your messages.You just wish he could be HONEST with you.

It's no big deal - you can handle it. Right?Hmmm.perhaps, but that's not how HE may be seeing things.

WHY MEN WILL LIE TO YOU

Imagine this scenario:You're on a first or second date with a man and it's going really well.You're laughing, you're having a great conversation and you seem to have a lot in common, it's almost scary how similar your attitudes are about certain things.You feel an intense "chemistry" between you.



He's staring at you with that "look" that tells you he is very attracted to you.He even talks about places he'd like to take you to someday.You are almost positive that this is the beginning of something meaningful with this guy.But a day or two goes by after the date and you don't hear from him. Then a week, then two weeks.You send him a message, "Haven't heard from you in a while. How are you?"But he doesn't respond. You never hear from him again. You beat yourself up, analyzing everything you did and said on the dates to see if maybe you accidentally put him off.

Months later, you find out the truth from someone else. During the time he was dating you, he was also dating another woman, and was now getting more "serious" with her.You feel confused and disappointed, and a bitannoyed that he didn't just tell you the TRUTH about what was going on.Why didn't he tell you the truth - either before,during or after he went on a date with you?

The truth would have been a whole lot better than days or weeks WONDERING and beating yourself upover nothing. Right? Of course it would.So why does a man lie to you? Why does he avoid telling you the truth about a situation?The answer is simple.A man will lie to you because he hates confrontation.He FEARS your emotional response. He fears your rejection of him. He fears that HE won't be ableto "handle" your response.He's imagining that you're going to cry, scream,be disappointed, argue, or complain.

He fears being put on the spot or "attacked."Understand - I'm not saying you would do any ofthose things.I'm just telling you what that guy - who maybe doesn't know you all that well yet - is thinking.You may be a cool cucumber. Totally able tomaturely handle whatever he tells you.It doesn't matter - somewhere in his past, there was a woman or two who did in fact overwhelm him with her emotional response, and it FREAKED himout.He could have just said, "Hey, I am dating anotherwoman right now, and I've decided that I want toget to know her better. I think you're great, butI also feel that I want to give this other situation a chance.

"Instead, he tells you NOTHING--he avoids you,stops calling, and hopes that he won't ever haveto face your criticism and judgment.It's not a particularly mature and considerate thing to do, but that's the reality of how it is with a lot of men. Not all, but definitely a lot.They don't even realize in the moment how YOU'RE feeling.all they know is that they have to do whatthey must do to avoid that confrontation they fear.

Despite this, there's reason to be hopeful that you can create the space for a man to be honest with you with really no effort.And here's something else you need to know.there's a "window of opportunity" for getting the most honesty right away, so you can screen out the men who are Mr. Wrong from the start.Be sure to know when that window is open for you,and take advantage of it.

WHY FIRST AND SECOND DATES ARE CRITICAL TIMES FOR HONESTY his is an interesting fact: a man will be MOST HONEST with you when he is NOT YET emotionally engaged or invested in your relationship yet.In other words, you can probably learn a LOT abouta man on a first or second date, when you're just getting to know each other.This is a time when he's not so afraid to share,because he's not afraid of disappointing you(since you don't know each other well enough yet).

This is when you should be listening VERY closelyto what man tells you.This is when he'll tell you things like, "I'm just looking for something casual and fun right now. Ijust got out of a long-term relationship and not into getting into the same situation anytime soon."Or he might laugh and say, "I'm a lifetime bachelor. Settling down doesn't interest me in theleast."Or, he might reveal some other dark secret, "My ex was an unhappy woman. Always complaining about onething or another about me."And that's when you need to HEAR what he's saying.And take him seriously. Know what you're in for.The man you choose is the man you get.

THE ATTITUDE & THE THREE MAGIC WORDS THAT INSPIRE HONESTY

When you want to inspire honesty in a man, so that you let him know that he is "safe" when he shares with you, you have to have what I call the"Anything is OK" attitude.Now, this doesn't mean that anything is OK for aman to do, and that you're supposed to acceptanything he does and have no boundaries or limitations.The attitude is more like you thinking, "Anythingis OK for you to share with me, but I know what Iwill and will not tolerate in my life, and what Iwant. But you can TELL ME anything. I can handle it.

"How do you communicate this attitude?

Easy.With the three little words: "I'm just curious."It can go like this."Are you seeing anyone right now? I'm justcurious?""What kind of relationship are you looking for?I'm just curious.""What kind of woman do you most admire? I'm justcurious.""Where do you see yourself in the next five years?I'm just curious."Using these three words not only lets a man knowthat you'll be OK with whatever he tells you, butthat you're not needy or too aggressive, and hecan feel safe telling you just about anything.Just don't stare at him, holding your breath,waiting for his answer. That defeats the purpose -BIG TIME.

Here's the deal.It's not that a man is afraid of certain questions. It's just that the WAY a womanasks those questions makes him feel strange.If a woman warns, "You're not seeing anyone elseright now, are you?"

It almost automaticallyinvites DISHONESTY in a man.If you want to inspire sincerity in a man, youmust have the "Anything is OK" attitude and usethose 3 magic words to get the most honestresponse possible.That way, you won't waste a lot of time going ondates with "unavailable" men, men who haveskeletons in their closet, aren't over their ex,or are actually interested in a different kind ofrelationship than you are.

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5 Ways to Get a High Quality Boyfriend

Women constantly complain that they cannot find quality men. Only last night I listened to a long time friend of mine mouth the recurring theme of "no good men left."

Well the truth be told, high quality things are not easy to find. High quality, valuable stones are not only expensive but very rare. Their value is proportionate to their scarcity. Gold, diamond and other precious stones are premium because they are not easy to come by.

Accept that quality men are a rare breed

My first suggestion in finding a quality man is to accept that he will not be waiting for you around the street corner or knocking on you door tomorrow. Understand and be prepared to sift through the rubble to find your diamond of a man. Most diamonds actually come in the rough. They have to be cleaned, cut and polished. I do believe that you may have to kiss many frogs to find your prince.

Quality men are not always "ready made."

Although many women would not admit many women behave as if the man they want has to be "ready made." That is they should possess with most if not all of the qualities they dream about.

"I don't want someone I have to work on," Ashley told me in no uncertain terms, after I pointed out that Chris is a work in progress. Ironically I do think the she needs some polishing herself as she can be very brash and blunt.

Be a high quality person

Well that brings me to my third point; in order to get a high quality man, you need to be a high quality woman. You cannot be a pig and expect to attract a peacock. That is not the way it works in real life. If you want an intelligent person, you need to cultivate your intellect. If want a person of class and dignity you need to be classy and dignified. I think it was Ghandi who said you need to be the change you want to see in the world.

While opposites attract it is similarity that binds people together.

Have many high quality friends and associates

A corollary point to this is that you need to have quality friends. Birds of a feather not only flock together but they attract similar birds that also bring their friends and family along. The important point here is simply to have friends and associates like the person you want to attract in your life. Each of these people, have a network of friends, one of whom may be the person you are looking for. Many people admit that they met their husband through a friend, colleague or family. Someone once said that you are only six persons away from what you want. In other words someone you know, knows someone, who knows someone else, etc who can put you in touch with who and what you want. Start expanding your base of friendship to include people of the same ilk of the person you desire.

Lastly but certainly not least, if you are looking for a high quality man, you need to go to high quality places. High quality places should not be interpreted to mean expensive places. It simply means you should frequent places where many of these types of people hang out. For example if you want an ambitious man you should going inspirational and motivational meeting or even meetings where investment and money making ventures are discussed and taught. If love and admire people who can speak elegantly maybe you should join Toast Masters International. The chance of you finding a compatible person in these meetings is significantly increased.

In summary, to find a quality man:

1. Accept that the process is not going to be a piece of cake. Good things are not easy to acquire. Good men are hard to get. Accepting this makes the process a lot easier.
2. Realize that the gem you are looking may not first appear like a polished diamond.
3. To get a quality man you must also be a quality woman.
4. To increase the probability of meeting a quality man have lots of quality friends and associates
5. To heighten your chances of meeting a quality man visit places where quality men gather.

A ladies guide to men...truth about men.

It's not what's in her that makes a man fall in love, it's what happens in him that makes a man fall in love with her. Men feel a woman on many levels, but are usually unable to express it in words. for those men who disagree, I'm sorry that your gay or a player.

A woman is a whole being sensation; not just the body, but the heart and soul as well.

Our body:

Our hearts race. we start to sweat. we get butterflies, even when we're not hungry. our fingers and toes a get numb. our breathing stops. our shoulders feel lite, almost like we're flying. It's no wonder we fall all over our selves when you're around.

Our mind:

Around you; we get nervous, and our minds flood with the feelings we have for you. making us forget any rational thought. It's no wonder we haven't the right answers when it's needed. we're not always absent-minded, if anything our minds are overloaded. sometime love is too strong for one man's mind to handle.

When you're not around our minds get lost, like there's something missing. most men don't realize that it is "you".

Our heart and soul:

At first we let you into our lives, then our heart, and the our soul. You reach farther into us then just the body and mind, you become part of our soul. I guess that's why it hurt so much when we break-up. most men think that if we show you how we feel about you in it's entirety, that it would kill us when it goes away. probably self preservation of sorts, maybe I don't know.

I believe the we're born only half hearted, and the other half of us is out there waiting to be found.

WARNING: Feelings may vary from man to man, but it's usually like that.

The Man Women Really Want

The 10 Men Every Woman Wants

(If you only knew what she wanted all the time, you’d also know how to get what you want – all the time. BINGO!)She wants a man who…

1. Thinks she’s beautiful, no matter what.Any guy can pour on the compliments when she’s wearing that little black dress with the plunging neckline and the slit up to her ribs. Or pork chops. Or whatever. But the thing that will really keep her happy is making her feel beautiful at all times, like when she’s sunburned beyond recognition, or pale and sniffly from the flu, or suffering from cramps, or after a bus has run her over.

And remember, women can tell when you’re being genuine – if they don’t have heat stroke, vomit-inducing sickness or PMS, that is. Just don’t put her on an impossibly high pedestal. She’s scared of heights, you know. Appreciate her just as much when she’s in sweats as when she’s in stilettos. Living up to some ridiculous ideal just puts undue pressure on her and never lets either of you get fully comfortable.She wants a man who…

2. Is sensitive, but not a walking Hallmark card.The “but” part is key. And that key is being sensitive in the right way. For example:- Stop to scratch a Lab’s ears when you’re out for a walk.- Mention how cute your college buddy’s little boy is.- Drop a dollar in a street musician’s cup.

These kinds of understated gestures tell her a helluva lot more than a dozen roses – and best of all – they’re a helluva lot less expensive! She wants you to be able to express yourself and read into her feelings, but don’t get all sappy on her, it just makes you seem like less of a man.She wants a man who…

3. Is her biggest fan.You don’t have to suggest a ticker-tape parade every time she gets a pedicure (unless she got it on Mars). Instead, you just need to be verbally supportive of her ambitions and her triumphs. Why? Because in high school, she intimidated guys, and because she had that one boyfriend who tried to “punish” her because she wasn’t as successful.

Every girl has had one of those – it better not have been you. Brag about her accomplishments and don’t be threatened by her. Like her for who she is and don’t try to change her, even though she’ll always try to change you. She wants a man who…

4. Has outside passions.No – not a bunch of nymphos in a van down by the river. We’re talking about hobbies here. There is nothing much more excruciating than sitting across the table from a guy who is incredibly dull. A guy who doesn’t talk about anything but his incredibly dull job and says incredibly dull things like, “So that guy in Systems?

Who got called to the carpet? By that woman in accounting..?” She cares about your day and all, but spare her the play-by-play. Because a guy that who hangs out only with work people or who brags about how he’s saved up 26 months of vacation time is NOT a sparkling conversationalist. Even if he is decked out in rhinestones.She wants a man who…

5. Won’t cheat.Obvious? Not always. You’re innocent until proven guilty, right? Not in this case. In her court, you’re guilty unless you lay down the foundations of trust first. And you’ll want to do this fast, because her interrogations will make the Spanish Inquisition look like child’s play. She’ll get you when you least expect it too.

You can be out getting a coffee and she’ll be reading the latest copy of US Weekly and say something completely innocent like, “I can’t believe someone that looks like Jack Nicholson has the balls to cheat on his girlfriends…” – and she’ll wait patiently for the next few words that come out of your mouth. You just got pop quizzed big boy. WRONG ANSWER: “Hey, he’s Jack Nicholson, he can get any girl he wants.” RIGHT ANSWER: “I don’t get why people do that. Why bother being in a relationship in the first place?” Sneaky as hell isn’t she? She wants a man who…

6. Protects her.Even raging feminists were raised on stories of knights on white horses saving the day, which is why she’ll melt if you happen to be one of those knights. If your white horse was recently sent to the glue factory, try standing up for her in ordinary situations – to your friends, to your family, the maitre’d that just gave away your table, or the annoying Starbucks punk. But don’t go too far Rambo, there’s a fine line between chivalry and assault.She wants a man who…

7. Is a little unpredictable, in a good way.When you’re in a steady relationship, things can get old fast. That’s why you hate settling down and why she can’t resist a fly-by-the-seat-of-his-pants guy. If you’re spontaneous, you always keep her guessing, and THAT keeps things interesting over the long haul. A favorite of mine is to pack a bag for her – YES, YOU SHOULD be able to pack a bag for her and get it right – IF you pay attention. Pack her bag, throw it in the trunk out of sight, and take her away somewhere romantic for the weekend.Make use of every chance you get to show her some adventure.

TIP: A typical (not every) woman’s idea of adventure is a five-star hotel that serves frozen drinks with umbrellas, not driving fast while blind drunk and giving a hand job. To a hitchhiker.She wants a man who…

8. Tolerates her freakish quirks – and even thinks they’re cute.Does she buy handbag after handbag, all in similar shades of green? Refuse to pee on anyone’s toilet but her own? Mail letters one at a time? Get her tongue stuck in bowling balls? Let your strength be in your silence. She’ll infer tons simply from how you react to her oddly obsessive behavior. There’s no reason to ever make her feel like she’s not perfect, or damned close to it.She wants a man who…

9. Has a good sense of humor. (You thought I was going to forget this one didn’t you?)Every woman longs for a guy that can laugh – at himself and at life. It’s just more fun to be around someone who’s funny and easy and enjoyable. People, in general, who are funny usually have a good, upbeat attitude, which is more appealing than being around a grump. Just avoid laughing at her, which, for some reason, she won’t appreciate.

Here’s a few additional rules for this one:- Don’t be too self-depricating.- Keep the really gross-out humor to a minimum- Farts are not funny. Ok, they are, but not always…It’s also important to recognize her brand of humor. Just because her humor isn’t your humor, it doesn’t mean she isn’t funny. Furthermore, if she is funny, stop feeling so threatened and let her at it (read #3 again if you need to).But she also wants a man who…

10. Can be serious when it counts.On the other hand, when her appendix bursts, she doesn’t want you cracking jokes while she drowns in toxic bodily fluids. In a long-term relationship, women want a guy who’s solid, especially when the chips are down. And it isn’t just how you cope with the major crises.

Even if a minor mishap rocks her world, like her goldfish dies, don’t shrug it off or laugh. Instead, make it easy on her: She wants to know she can put her head on your shoulder. Without having to first remove it from her own.Yep. I think that about covers it. Just be ALL THOSE THINGS and I guarantee you eternal blissful happiness with SOMEBODY....

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1. Start by listening to him. Even if you do not agree with what he is saying make sure to listen to his point of view. This shows that you find him to be important and that it is not just about you.

2. You need to be different from other women and make sure to concentrate on him. However if it is all about him you have to be careful because you might end up with someone that does not care about you.

3. Regardless of what you are, who you are, what you look like, or what you think you are, just be yourself. You will never have a sucessful relationship unless you give him a chance to fall in love with you. Don't be fake because he will see right through it.

4. Make him smile. Have a sense of humor and making hims smile will win him over pretty fast. You don't want everything to be serious and you will want to flirt with him so he can develop feelings for you.

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6. Try to have a good attitude and stay motivated and cheerful. Happiness is contagious and everybody wants to be around it.You should also stay away from games. Do not try to be both the lover and the friend because this is just confusing for a guy. Also, make sure you are not after a guy no matter what the cost is and avoid trying to get a guy that is already involved with someone else.

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"Womanizer"

The Player

He has only one mission
One single task to complete
Capture the heart of his victim
For the player an easy feat

His words caress your spirit
His voice corrupts your mind
You'll tell him you want to take it slow
But he'll quicken the pace you'll find

He's desperate to find the girl of his dreams
That's what he'll try and make you believe
But never tell him you love him
That's his cue to leave

He will swear on a lie he's telling the truth
And you'll believe every word he mutters
Ignoring all the obvious signs
When he tells you there aren't any others

He will make you feel so special
You'll finally feel like you belong
But I'm afraid it will only last
Until the next one comes along

Shamelessly he flirts with every girl he sees
He says it doesn't mean a thing
He'll tell you you're the only one
But there's plenty more waiting in the wings

He may act like a monster
But it really isn't his intention
He is just so damn insecure
He'll do anything to get attention

So play his little game
If you're a player too
But if you have a genuine heart
Tell him to stay the fuck away from you

How can you tell if he is right for you?

Knowing a Guy/Girl Likes You Here is advice:

Men let women know they love them in different ways. Some men are very out-going and have no problem pursuing a woman and bluntly asking her out, while other men are either more cautious or very shy and find it difficult to ask a woman out for fear they are rejected. Many of us like to hold onto the fact and the "game of the race" that this person really cares about us, and to ask them out and be rejected could be a little much for some people because it means the end of it all. Young men will either ask you out if interested, or they may give you a shy smile, a quick nudge with their arm, even teasing you (but not hurtful teasing.) If you feel this person is shy there is nothing wrong in asking them out. Double date! This often makes both parties feel more comfortable.

You just know. You put one and one together and it becomes obvious. He tells you verbally or by his actions that he does. Just ask if you can't take the mystery.

He will give you subtle hints like wanting to be near you in a group. Talk to you and actually listen to what you have to say. He may go out of his way to be where you are. He might tease you and joke with you. He may be places that you are, often. He may look at you from a distance and turn when you see him. You should be able to tell that he act differently around you and to you than he does around others.

Some guys are weird about how they tell a girl they like her. There are the boyish ones who will make fun of or annoy you, and the shy, sensitive ones who will not directly ask you, but hang around you, and there is always some jerk who will call you hott and ask ya out. watch out for those,lol.

he will beat around the bush and act shy when you and him are around a lot of people. but then when you two are alone he wont act so shy. he will talk more and play hit you on the arm and stuff like that. or maybe he's not shy and just walk up to you and ask you out. he's got a lot of gut to do that so yes cause he probly took forever to get the nerve to walk up and ask.

Marcy Answer

You have got to be kidding. How you know, is the secret everybody is looking for. There is a thing called "vulnerability" and you must show it. Take out some insurance, but show this person that you are capable of going the distance. I mean, true love, all the way, vulnerability. When the person disappoints you, be ready to admit failure, and you have a right to stop loving this person; but remember there is forgiveness. How much do you have? The balance therein lies. If you have the strength to hang in there, because you understand this person's faults, and weaknesses, you may have a partner. This is the whole process, and you need to find out for yourself; how do I know if it's the right person. Have fun, most of all.

Answer:

If a guy likes you, he'll either be really nice, or he'll pretend to dispise you. Some guys will just click with you, agreeing with what you say (because they agree, not because they want you to think they agree) and generally just making you happy. The other kind will walk around, call you names, pretend you don't exist. But if you get a chance to get one-on-one time with this guy, go for it! He's probably really into you, and will be super nice to you if he gets the chance to be alone with you (away from 'the guys').

Otherwise, just do what your intuition tells you. There really isn't some miracle answer for this. But, if a guy's lying, his ears/face will get red, and his eyes will get big. That's about as good as it gets. Good Luck!

Answer

It depends on the boy- He either
gets really red- like a tomato LOL!
crackin jokes around you
makes fun of you
poking you so you can poke him back
acts really different when he knows you're around
stutters when hes talking to you
doesnt look you in the eyes OR does a lot
always asks you first to be you're partner in something
waves to you a lot
gives a teeny tiny smile
just a list of what I've been observing when i know the boy likes a girl ;)

Answer

He will "Show off", act differently and try to make himself known to you.

He pays attention to you, or ignores you.

He is kind, or pulls your hair.

He says nice things, or says mean things.

Seeing a theme? I'm sorry to say there is no easy way. I spent a year interested in a girl in high school before letting her know. Some people spend longer than that, showing their interest in the wrong ways or not at all. I say, ask him.

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It leaves you wondering: Was it something you did or said to change his mind about you? Or was he really that fickle? Maybe he's just bad at communicating his thoughts and feelings. Either way, it doesn't leave you feeling good. And it sits in your mind for longer than you'd care to admit. What's going on here with men? And what can you do about it? Here's the reality... If a man acts this way, he's either: A) Not interested in pursuing any kind of relationship with you Or... B) Not feeling much ATTRACTION for you. Now there's good news and bad news here. Let's start with the bad news. Both of these reasons why a man will stop pursuing you are things that practically NO MAN will tell you directly. Which means... Odds are you'll NEVER hear from him what in the world was going on. Instead, he'll tell you he's too busy, stop calling, not return your calls, or a whole list of other cover-up excuses guys use. 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This means that if you know to create a level of unpredictability so that he is constantly pleasantly surprised by you, it will work like magic to trigger his attraction. For example, instead of thinking or feeling so seriously all the time with men when you have something you want to say... use humor and teasing when possible. These 2 things are like MAGIC GLUE with a man that will make him want to stick with you. One fun and simple thing you can do is this- Tell a man the exact OPPOSITE of what you're really thinking, but smile when you say it. "I can't stand you." (wink) "You look awful in that shirt." (smirk) "Too bad you're no fun." (grin) Men love this kind of playful flirting. Why? Because rather than just complimenting a man or gushing about your feelings, you're creating some playful TENSION. And tension creates a great energy that a man will want more of. It's predictable that if you like a man, and you're looking for a relationship for you to say, "I think you're a great guy, and I'm looking for a serious relationship and life partnership." Not so exciting in the grand scheme of things- although it's heartfelt. It's fun and UNPREDICTABLE to instead say, "You know, I'm not so sure about you. (wink) I'll guess I'll have to wait and see if you're worthy of what I can share. (smile)" This kind of thing drives a man wild on several levels beyond just his Physical Attraction. One a basic level, men love to be teased by women they want. Teasing works so well for women who use it as an alternative to being so serious because it is one of the primary male languages for BONDING AND CONNECTION. You have probably seen this yourself. Think about all the weird nicknames your guy has for his friends, and how they like to crack jokes and make (good-hearted) fun of each other. Guys love it when you don't take yourself too seriously. 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