"Feeling's for your ex!"

Your ex still on your mind?

Are you still in love?Should you tell them?Did they move on?


These are some of the main questions after a break-up that Ive had to ask myself a lot. Im sure a lot of you out there have the same questions that you wish someone could just answer for you,but as we all know it doesn't work like that....sucks I know! When you split up with someone you have been in a long lasting relationship with, it can be very difficult to stop some of the feelings that you have for him or her still. Sometimes even though you know that the split is for the best, your mind might still continue to wonder and think about your ex. There is no easy or magic formula for getting him or her out of your mind. However, there are a few steps listed next that may or may not help.

1.Think Back!!!

-Think of all of the things that made you split. When your mind goes down memory lane...make sure that it also travels the rocky and bumpy road that caused the break up. Then remember all of the reasons that made you decide to part ways to begin with. Another thing put away things that remind you of him or her. Things he or she gave you (especially pictures of them or the both of you).

2.Your freeeee!!! Like free Willy!!!! :)

-Enjoy your newly found "freedom". There are many previously forbidden things that you can do now that he/she won't be around to tell you not to do them. Indulge in as much football watching, beer drinking and pool playing that your heart desires, because you are now free to do them without repercussions and girls do as much flirting, partying, hanging out with who ever, and so much more as well.

3. Stay Away!!!!!

(I mean it)-Find different places to hang out. Try to stay away from places that you went together, bcuz if you...you'll be sitting there like "DAMN!" Any mutual friends should also be off limits just for now though. (Not a permanent thing) You should still go out with your friends and have fun!!! Even if you may not think that you feel up to going out, seriously go ahead and make your absolute "best" effort to have a good time. Listen to me! I'm not lying!

4. Get yourself together!!!

-Repair your damaged ego. Your ego may have just taken a heavy blow if you were not the one that wanted the break up. Start slowly in getting yourself back into dating shape again by doing some fun activities like taking dance lessons or get a membership at the gym. This will let you get back into physical shape, build your ego and you could possibly meet new people in the process.

5. PEACEEEEE!!!

-Think about the positive things to come. If your ex did things or had faults that made life difficult for you, just imaging the positive things that will be in your life without the mental stress that he/she had once created for you. Once you can get out of the limbo state of wanting him or her back, you can finally get some closure and peace of mind to move on in peace.

Are you making these mistakes?

Calling your partner constantly after the break up.
Saying “I Love you” over and over and how much you can’t live without them.
Trying to convince them that you’ll change and everything will be different this time.
Begging and crying, acting out of desperation in the hopes that they will feel “sorry” for you and take you back.

Trying to use reason and logic to get them to come back.

Resorting to arguing, blaming and guilt trips when all else hasn’t worked.
Doing absolutely nothing because you’re afraid to make things worse!
If your doing any of those things make sure you are to try and stop yourself. Your not helping the situation at hand any easier on yourself...you know the saying if you set it free and it comes back, it was always yours and if it doesn't it just wasn't meant to be. Its pretty much like that. Which isn't always such a "BAD" thing! And that's something that some ppl need to realize.Okay, now this part is for those out there that are searching for guidance when it comes to confronting their ex about their feelings. If your ex happens to already be moved on and in a new healthy happy relationship...plz do not tell him/her. The reason I say this is bcuz you might ruin something he/she is sharing with someone. Telling him or her you love them will be selfish and could cause problems between you too. Rly think about some things:"Do you think you would feel the same about him/her if she didn't have a new significant other?"Maybe, just maybe you really do still love him/her...but maybe you are just in love with the "idea" of her.Don't sit there and tell your ex you still love them or that you want them back if they already have a strong,happy,healthy relationship...that could start problems between the both of you or between ur ex's previous relationship! "Why would you want to come between that?"............................................................................................

If you rly love your ex, you will be strong enough to let him/her be with the person that makes them happy. You will sit there and just be happy that they found happiness! :)Here's another situtation: Ex is single still!I feel that if your ex is still single and isn't kind of seeing someone already, then you should go straight ahead and tell them how you feel. I believe in fighting for what you love. I mean thats what I did. Im not gunna sit here and lie to you saying I won him back, bcuz I didn't...don't get me wrong I fought long and hard. I put up a pretty good fight if you ask me, but not everything can go back to the way it was.

And that's when we need to face the facts that its over. I did and now look at me...im still HAPPY! I mean me and my ex still to this day talk and have a very healthy relationship. We still are in love, but we don't let that interfere with our lives and friendship. We just came to terms that we were better off friends. If we can do it so can you!!!"From all that though I learned that no matter what he will always have a place in my life and heart. I will carry him with me forever and into every relationship I have." "So it comes to the last question""What are you going to do?"

Beautiful women in the eyes of Indian men

In India, the fashions, the History, and the culture affirm man's fascination with narrow waist line of a woman. Men in all cultures world wide have lusted women for their hour glass shape involving the narrow waist.

I will limit discussion to the body, not the skin color, or facial features. My teen years were spent in Rajasthan. The hormones were at peak as I used to eye slender young women wearing Choli and Lehanga revealing their bellybutton, carrying water in an earthen pot on their heads.

Fashions
In India women wear a Choli to cover the top. Below the waist, they would wear a long skirt-like Lehanga, Ghagra, or a Petticoat. Saree is wrapped around the petticoat. Choli is a tight fitting short blouse that ends just below the bust. These combination outfits are designed to expose bellybutton and bare waistline for the pleasure of men. Original Choli were open in the back to reveal more skin.

History
The sculptures outside the Ancient temples, and the pictorials in Kamasutra depict woman with narrow waist, firm round breasts and slightly protruding hips. Old Hindu epics such as Mahabharata, and Ramayana mention the narrow waistline of some of the Goddesses to describe their beauty.

Culture
In the olden days, parents chose the brides with narrow waist for their sons. It was believed that narrow wasted brides will bear sons to carry family names. The larger hips will make it easier to fetus during pregnancy. Larger bust will hold plenty of milk to feed the infant. In a way they were right. Estrogen levels effect the size of hips and thighs. Larger hips have higher level of estrogen, and estrogen influences the fertility. Androgen effects the waistline. For the same waist size, a woman with larger hips is more fertile.

Parameterization of Hour glass shape
Beauty Ratio Calculator

The bust, waist, and hips form the so called hour-glass shape. These three characteristics form two ratios: Waist Hip Ratio (WHR), and Waist Bust ratio (WBR). The waist is measured around the narrowest section below the rib cage and just above the bellybutton. Hip circumference is measured around the largest protrusion of the buttocks. The bust circumference is measured around its largest protrusion.

In 1993, Professor Singh set WHR ratio as 0.70. This is a well accepted preference in United States. Other studies have set ideal WBR as 0.76. After analyzing sculptures in Khajuraho and other temples in South India, one may conclude that Indian men prefer slightly more protruding hips and bust. I would suggest the following parameterization:

American preference
WHR = 0.70, WBR = 0.76

Indian preference
WHR = 0.66, WBR = 0.72


Body Mass Index

The BMI reflects the fertility and health of the women. BMI less than 18.5 is underweight and not acceptable for health reasons. Elevated BMI can cause menstruation and fertility problems. In United States, the models are tall and skinny. Indian women are not tall. Indian beauties are neither skinny, nor fat. Indian beauties are slender. For American preference, I suggest optimum BMI of 19. For Indian woman, I would suggest an optimum BMI of 19.5.

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Do you sometimes wish that men could just be moreHONEST with you?Do you feel discouraged by dating because the menyou meet actually LIE about what they want fromdating, what their background is, what they do fora living and sometimes even lie about whether ornot they're AVAILABLE?

To where sometimes you end up involved with a man who is already seriously dating another woman, orworse - is married?

Not good.If these are situations that you run into a little more than you'd like, then keep reading because in this topic I'm about to reveal the "MAGIC ATTITUDE" that actually inspires a man to be completely up front and honest with you about such things as:--

If he's looking for something serious or casual-- If he's seeing other people -- If you're the kind of woman he's drawn to -- If he's ready to"settle down" or not As a matter of fact, with this magic attitude, you may be able to get a man to reveal a lot more than he would ever reveal on his own, without prompting, and the ADDED BENEFIT of this is tha the will feel more "connected" with you because he'll feel he can tell you just about ANYTHING.

He'll feel more attracted to you because he'll feel more understood and appreciated by you.This is why I call this attitude "magic." It not only inspires honesty from a man, it makes him feel
more connected to you at the same time.Nice.I

If you're single and dating right now, this mindset or attitude can actually help you qualify the right man and avoid Mr. Wrong as early in thedating process as possible, perhaps even before youmeet in person for the first time (if you'reonline dating).And if you're in a relationship, it can help you get to the bottom of what he's thinking and feeling, so you can know why he's with drawing, ifhe's open to taking things to the "next level," orwhat's holding him back from fully committing to you.But first, there's a fundamental question that seems to bother a lot of women.

Why does this even have to be an issue, anyway?

Why can't a guy just be up-front and honest with you?Why, for example, is it so hard for a man to tell you why he's not calling as often or why he stopped asking you out, especially when he seemed so "into you" in the beginning?

You go out on a few dates with a guy, and you think everything is going great.then he stops calling. He doesn't respond to your emails ortexts. It's like he's dropped off the face of the earth. Maybe you even realized that he was a nice enough guy, but you didn't know him well enough yet to fall in love or anything.But still.you wish you could at least hear WHY he stopped calling, stopped asking you out, stoppedr esponding to your messages.You just wish he could be HONEST with you.

It's no big deal - you can handle it. Right?Hmmm.perhaps, but that's not how HE may be seeing things.

WHY MEN WILL LIE TO YOU

Imagine this scenario:You're on a first or second date with a man and it's going really well.You're laughing, you're having a great conversation and you seem to have a lot in common, it's almost scary how similar your attitudes are about certain things.You feel an intense "chemistry" between you.



He's staring at you with that "look" that tells you he is very attracted to you.He even talks about places he'd like to take you to someday.You are almost positive that this is the beginning of something meaningful with this guy.But a day or two goes by after the date and you don't hear from him. Then a week, then two weeks.You send him a message, "Haven't heard from you in a while. How are you?"But he doesn't respond. You never hear from him again. You beat yourself up, analyzing everything you did and said on the dates to see if maybe you accidentally put him off.

Months later, you find out the truth from someone else. During the time he was dating you, he was also dating another woman, and was now getting more "serious" with her.You feel confused and disappointed, and a bitannoyed that he didn't just tell you the TRUTH about what was going on.Why didn't he tell you the truth - either before,during or after he went on a date with you?

The truth would have been a whole lot better than days or weeks WONDERING and beating yourself upover nothing. Right? Of course it would.So why does a man lie to you? Why does he avoid telling you the truth about a situation?The answer is simple.A man will lie to you because he hates confrontation.He FEARS your emotional response. He fears your rejection of him. He fears that HE won't be ableto "handle" your response.He's imagining that you're going to cry, scream,be disappointed, argue, or complain.

He fears being put on the spot or "attacked."Understand - I'm not saying you would do any ofthose things.I'm just telling you what that guy - who maybe doesn't know you all that well yet - is thinking.You may be a cool cucumber. Totally able tomaturely handle whatever he tells you.It doesn't matter - somewhere in his past, there was a woman or two who did in fact overwhelm him with her emotional response, and it FREAKED himout.He could have just said, "Hey, I am dating anotherwoman right now, and I've decided that I want toget to know her better. I think you're great, butI also feel that I want to give this other situation a chance.

"Instead, he tells you NOTHING--he avoids you,stops calling, and hopes that he won't ever haveto face your criticism and judgment.It's not a particularly mature and considerate thing to do, but that's the reality of how it is with a lot of men. Not all, but definitely a lot.They don't even realize in the moment how YOU'RE feeling.all they know is that they have to do whatthey must do to avoid that confrontation they fear.

Despite this, there's reason to be hopeful that you can create the space for a man to be honest with you with really no effort.And here's something else you need to know.there's a "window of opportunity" for getting the most honesty right away, so you can screen out the men who are Mr. Wrong from the start.Be sure to know when that window is open for you,and take advantage of it.

WHY FIRST AND SECOND DATES ARE CRITICAL TIMES FOR HONESTY his is an interesting fact: a man will be MOST HONEST with you when he is NOT YET emotionally engaged or invested in your relationship yet.In other words, you can probably learn a LOT abouta man on a first or second date, when you're just getting to know each other.This is a time when he's not so afraid to share,because he's not afraid of disappointing you(since you don't know each other well enough yet).

This is when you should be listening VERY closelyto what man tells you.This is when he'll tell you things like, "I'm just looking for something casual and fun right now. Ijust got out of a long-term relationship and not into getting into the same situation anytime soon."Or he might laugh and say, "I'm a lifetime bachelor. Settling down doesn't interest me in theleast."Or, he might reveal some other dark secret, "My ex was an unhappy woman. Always complaining about onething or another about me."And that's when you need to HEAR what he's saying.And take him seriously. Know what you're in for.The man you choose is the man you get.

THE ATTITUDE & THE THREE MAGIC WORDS THAT INSPIRE HONESTY

When you want to inspire honesty in a man, so that you let him know that he is "safe" when he shares with you, you have to have what I call the"Anything is OK" attitude.Now, this doesn't mean that anything is OK for aman to do, and that you're supposed to acceptanything he does and have no boundaries or limitations.The attitude is more like you thinking, "Anythingis OK for you to share with me, but I know what Iwill and will not tolerate in my life, and what Iwant. But you can TELL ME anything. I can handle it.

"How do you communicate this attitude?

Easy.With the three little words: "I'm just curious."It can go like this."Are you seeing anyone right now? I'm justcurious?""What kind of relationship are you looking for?I'm just curious.""What kind of woman do you most admire? I'm justcurious.""Where do you see yourself in the next five years?I'm just curious."Using these three words not only lets a man knowthat you'll be OK with whatever he tells you, butthat you're not needy or too aggressive, and hecan feel safe telling you just about anything.Just don't stare at him, holding your breath,waiting for his answer. That defeats the purpose -BIG TIME.

Here's the deal.It's not that a man is afraid of certain questions. It's just that the WAY a womanasks those questions makes him feel strange.If a woman warns, "You're not seeing anyone elseright now, are you?"

It almost automaticallyinvites DISHONESTY in a man.If you want to inspire sincerity in a man, youmust have the "Anything is OK" attitude and usethose 3 magic words to get the most honestresponse possible.That way, you won't waste a lot of time going ondates with "unavailable" men, men who haveskeletons in their closet, aren't over their ex,or are actually interested in a different kind ofrelationship than you are.

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Long Distance Relationship

Long Distance relations:

Tips For Making Then Work

I’m often asked if long distance relationships can be successful. The answer is yes. But long distance relationships are complex and it to work; both partners must be on some page.

Here some tips for making it work:

Ask the important questions at the onset, to make sure you are both clear on the parameters of the relationship. These can be difficult and awkward questions to ask but will save you great heartache and misunderstanding down the line. for example, are you open to the possibility of relocating if the relationship should become more serious?

Communicate in some way every day- more than once if possible. Since you won’t be seeing each other, it’s important to establish and maintain an emotional connection. Those should occur something). Tell each other about your messenger program or VolP for real –time chat, or webcams for that visual connection. E –mail is great so make sure you use it, especially if long-distance phone calls put a strain on your budget. Write love letters. Send small gifts or flowers for no reason. In this case, quality is as important as quality. You may discover an advantage over others whose partner is close at hand –you don’t take communication for granted! For granted!

Recognize, and take advantage of, the benefits that long distance relationship offer such as more time with friends and / or family, no arguments over toothpaste caps, the pleasure of seeing your sweetheart again after a long absence. Most important, being far apart gives you a chance to maintain your individuality –something that can get lost n the shuffle when couples spend all their free time together.

Purse common interests, even if it means pursuing them apart. If there’s a movie you’re both interested in seeing, watch it individually and then call each other afterward and discuss it. Read a certain book at the same time. Stargaze while on you’re on the phone. Set your watches to go off at the same time every day, and synchronize your alarm with that of your partner. Make it point to think of each other when your watch goes off, and revel in the fact that he or she is thinking about you, too. Find creative ways to bond Avoid the temptation to be controlling. People have free will and no one can or should control another person a long as you are both interested in being in the relationship, you will stick with it and distance will not make a difference.

As soon as one of you decides the not make a difference. As some one else is a better match –your relationship ends, whether you live 300 miles apart, two street over, or share the same bed with your wedding picture on the wall. Most relationship advice boils down to common sense ; needles to say you are going to have to trust each other completely if this relationship is going to work .

Talk about your future together. Assuming that ultimately you’d want to live together, discussing how you’re going to get to that point will help you prove to each other that distance relationships can go some where and that your efforts and frustrations are not in vain.

Perhaps the toughest aspect of long distance relationship is this: know when to say good-bye. While this is tough in any relationship, this can be especially hard over long distances. When communication becomes one-sided or sparse for too long and for no apparent reason, when arguments (yes, you’ll have them) become too frequent, when the whole thing just seems like more trouble than it’s wroth, it’s time to re-evaluate the relationship. Either you’ll decide to go your separate ways, or you’ll get closer for having overcome another obstacle to your happiness together.

"Identify The Player,The Gamer,The Heartbreaker"

T h e P l a y e r

1.) The Player is charming. He has spent most of his existence learning what women like to hear. He will tell you that you are beautiful, and sexy and smart. He is sweet and considerate and pays rapt attention to everything you say so that he can bring it up again later, to impress you with how well he listens and remembers what is important to you. He more than likely pulls out chairs and opens doors. He is every romantic character you have ever seen in a chick flick. The Player knows how to make you feel special. After all, he has never met a girl like you, and he will be sure to tell you that.

2.) The Player is handsome. He takes care of himself and is well groomed. You can dress him up, dress him down, or undress him, and he is going to look good. He doesn't act conceited and may even be a little self deprecating. (Which could also fall under 'charming'.) His living space will also be immaculate. No socks on this guy's bedroom floor. Odds are, he has never missed a dentist appointment or a day at the gym. Appreciate the aesthetics, he works hard to look this good for you. It's the grownup version of playing with your Ken doll. Enjoy.

3.) The Player is smart. He has to be. It's like he is playing six games of chess at once, he has a lot of details to remember. He is knowledgeable. He knows a little bit about everything and a lot about a lot of things. If you have an interest, he will be prepared to discuss it with you. If he is not, he certainly will be the next time you see him. He isn't boring and will not embarrass you in front of your friends by saying something stupid. He is perfectly suitable to take to your parent's house or to your company party, where he will make you look good, by being his intelligent self. And the handsome and charming parts don't hurt either.

4.) The Player is adaptable. He is exactly what you want him to be. You like the outdoorsy type? He lives to hike and camp and fish. He has a standing once a year hiking trip with his buddies, and a million funny stories about the time they got chased by a bear and his friend got poison ivy in his boxer shorts. You like a family man? He adores his mom, and makes her breakfast every Sunday. You like good wine and fine dining? He can tell you the best and least known specialties of every chef and restaurant in the tri-state area, and probably a few in other countries as well. No matter what your ideal man is, he's it.

5.) The Player doesn't pressure you. Though he will more than likely tell you that the reason he has never settled down is because he hasn't found the right woman yet. He won't try to push you into a commitment because he never develops actual emotions, he is too busy trying to be who you want him to be to give a second thought into caring who you actually are. And a truly sophisticated player may very well be running his game on half a dozen other women also. That's a lot to keep track of. He also won't pressure you into sleeping with him, saying he is "patient". Which is easy enough if you are getting it elsewhere also. Which leads me to....

6.) The Player is good in bed. The man has skills. He has had lots of practice! He's got the moves down and probably a few signature tricks up his sleeve. It's all about you, Baby. He knows where, when and how often to touch you. He knows what works in general and is quick to figure out what works for you. He can be rough and kinky, or sweet and romantic. Whatever you are in the mood for, the Player can skillfully oblige. If you are looking for someone who can rock your socks and make your toes curl (multiple times), this is your man. Prepare to be pleasantly exhausted.

I highly recommend dating a player at least once in your life. Personally, I prefer the ones with dimples. They are the ideal guy to date when you are coming out of a romantic relationship and want an ego boost and just need to have some fun. However! There are a couple of rules to remember when dating the Player. DON'T expect him to be permanent.

This is a fun-for-awhile type of guy. Packaged for a few months of pleasure, max. DON'T fall in love. He isn't real, and you must remember that he really is just like that romantic character in the movie, he's an actor. (Yes, yes, we all fell in love with Hugh Jackman in Kate & Leopold. My point exactly.)

DON'T start to think you might actually be the woman to change him. Not possible. And even if you did succeed, he wouldn't be that guy anymore. He'd be the guy that does leave his socks on the floor and is more interested in watching the game than getting it on in the shower. He's the guy that forgets your anniversary.

So, remember the rules, date the most experienced Player you can find, and have the time of your life. For a limited time only. ;-)

"We crave what we can't have , We ignore what we have"

I WANT U BECAUSE SHE HAS YOU

He was a friend. Just a friend. Months, maybe even years earlier, he'd entered the "friend zone" and there was no way to come back from that. Well, maybe just one way. One thing sure to suddenly kick your interest in him into high gear. That thing? Well...it's easy... It's that new woman in his life.She's prettier than you, more fun than you, and everyone adores her. Especially your male friend.
You've never seen him look at anyone the way he looks at her, not even you.

And before she came along he'd had a crush on you forever. Everyone knew about that crush but now he's turned all his attention to her. He can't seem to take his eyes off her. It's disgusting.And you are suddenly, inexplicably, drawn to him. At first you're stunned. Where did this sudden attraction come from? But then, as you become accustomed to it, you begin to realize that your attraction to this person is completely unfair.

Now that he's found happiness, you've decided YOU want him?You have no right to tell him this. So you sit by and watch as the two of them grow closer and closer. You find yourself thinking of him all the time, wondering if the two of them are really happy together.It's not fair because YOU were there first. You are the one he's meant to be with. And then, one day, your chance comes. He confides in you.

You have a chance to steal him away.Of course you do. It's not the right thing to do, but he's already unhappy, so what can it hurt to guide him a little? To show him that he doesn't really belong with her?Eventually, he leaves her.But if you CAN win him over, what are the odds you're going to live happily ever after? What happens if you realize, once you've "helped" him leave his relationship, that you aren't so crazy about him, after all?

Suddenly, now that he's away from that other woman, you see him the way you saw him before. You see that the two of you don't have all that much in common, after all.But now you're stuck.Have you ever tried to steal someone away from another woman? Once you got him, did you still want him?

"Attract Men, Be Different"

Be A Man Magnet

1. GET OUT OF THE HOUSE.

First things first...you can't attract a man if he can't
find you, so you've got to pry yourself away from those
"Friends" reruns and get out into the world. I know that
it can be scary and sometimes it seems much easier to
stay in your protected little bubble, but the reward you
stand to gain is definitely worth taking the risk. So put
your shoes on and let's go!

2. STEP OUT IN STYLE.

If you really want to attract men, you might need to
step up your style a notch... and NOT for the reason you
may think. I recommend wearing a colorful and flattering
outfit not just because you'll turn heads (though you
WILL), but because of the way it will make YOU feel.

Here's an illustration: When I get up at the crack of
dawn to walk my dog, I usually roll out of bed into a
sweat suit, throw my hair into a ponytail, and hide
behind my biggest, darkest sunglasses. I KNOW I look
like crap, so I pray that I don't run into any neighbors
who want to strike up a conversation or pet my dog. And
usually, no one even looks my way. When you put less
than your best effort into your appearance, not only will
you blend into the background, but you probably won't
feel up to meeting someone new anyway.

When you look your best, however, it changes your whole
demeanor. You know the phrase "take PRIDE in your
appearance?" Well, when you're proud of how you look,
your posture will straighten up, you'll feel more
confident, you'll be much more likely to make eye contact,
smile, and possibly even strike up a conversation with
someone new. That energy (fueled by self-esteem) will be
incredibly ATTRACTIVE to others.

3. WALK THE WALK.

Have you ever seen the way New Yorkers walk? They stride
very quickly, head down, eyes on the ground (or anywhere
that will prevent them from making eye contact of any
kind), and plow through anyone and anything in their way
to get to their destination as quickly and directly as
possible.

Now I don't mean to pick on New Yorkers. In fact, there's a REASON why most Manhattanites seem to walk the same way. With overwhelming crowds,
crime, people begging for money, and solicitors trying
to sell them something on every street corner, they
don't want to ATTRACT any attention.

However, if you're in a safe, well-lit area and are
familiar with your surroundings, I want to encourage you
to remember the words "Don't walk like a New Yorker."
Try walking this way instead: shoulders back, head up,
straight posture, moderate (not fast!) pace, arms
swinging slightly. You want your walk to say "I'm
confident" and "I'm open to possibilities."

If you're finding it difficult to cultivate a confident
walk, try this exercise. (It might sound a little goofy
but believe me, it works!):

Pick a song with an upbeat theme and a good, moderate
beat. This is going to be your theme song. (Can't think
of one? Here are 3 suggestions: "Put Your Records On" by
Corinne Bailey Rae, "Suddenly I See" by KT Tunstall, or
"The Sweet Escape" by Gwen Stefani.) Load the song on
your iPod or pop the CD in your walkman and take it with
you for a "practice walk." Walk to the beat (this is
subtle- you're not DANCING, you're just getting a good
pace to your steps), breathe, enjoy the lyrics, think
positive thoughts, and smile. You'll be amazed at how
walking to your theme song will give you a boost.

Now the next time you're out and about, I want you to
remember how you felt with your theme song. Hear the
song in your head and walk as if it's playing. Pay
attention to how your face feels. Are you scowling
without even meaning to? If so, soften the muscles in
your face and allow your mouth to curl up ever so
slightly into an almost-smile. Widen your eyes just a
bit so that you appear awake, interested in your
surroundings, and excited about the world around you.

Now notice how people who pass you begin to take notice
of you. It's subtle, but I guarantee that those who
aren't completely lost in their own little worlds will
acknowledge you in some way. Men might even smile back
or say hello! (If this doesn't happen right away, don't
be discouraged. Just practice this confident walk
wherever you go from now on, and you will soon notice a
difference.)

4. BE A BILLBOARD FOR HAPPINESS.

When you're excited about life, it shows... AND it rubs
off on others. People gravitate toward happy people
because they want the contentment that they have. So wipe
that scowl off your face, curb the cynicism, and radiate
the most positive energy you can muster. (If you're
finding this difficult to do, start the day by making a
gratitude list of 5 things you're thankful for - it can
be your health, your charmingly crooked smile, or even
your dog's unconditional love. This will definitely
change your outlook.)

Men are much more likely to approach a woman who is
smiling, laughing, and happily engaged with her
surroundings (rather than the frowning, hunched over
lady muttering complaints under her breath... who'd want
to spend time with HER?). Like the "Got Milk?" ad
campaign, try being a walking billboard for "Got Joy?"

5. BE CONSCIOUS OF BODY LANGUAGE.

I read a surprising statistic the other day: only 7% of
communication is verbal (that means 93% is nonverbal
body language).

In other words, your actions (very literally) speak
louder than your words.

If a man spots you across the room but you have your
arms folded across your chest, that sends the
subconscious signal "Stay away. I'm closed off."

Conversely, if your posture is good and your shoulders are
back, opening up your frame, it sends the message that
your heart is open to possibilities (even if he's not
consciously aware of it).

When you're engaged in conversation, leaning in toward
him conveys interest (that's when being in a loud, crowded
bar can work to your advantage! It gives you a legitimate
reason to lean in and speak in one another's ear, which
creates a connection).

If you're seated, crossing your legs and pointing them
toward him also sends the unspoken message that you're
interested. Very literally, it is the act of aligning
your body with his that signals, "we're in line with
one another."

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I've got a fascinating story for you.

Tell me if it sounds familiar...

You're hanging out talking with some friends,
when all of a sudden the conversation turns to a
common topic - love and relationships.

And each woman at the table starts talking
about the situation she's in and all the amazing
things about it.

At first you're enjoying the stories and you're
happy for your friends.

But then it hits you -

You are the only person there who ISN'T in an
ongoing positive relationship.

Everyone else at the table has someone in their
life who they're excited and optimistic about.

Everyone else has something "real."

Everyone except you.

You're ALONE... and that guy who you "date",
without the relationship going anywhere, well - he
doesn't cut it.

So you stop for a second and think,

"Maybe it's me..."

"Maybe it's not all because of the way men are,
but how I am. That explains why I don't have real
love in my life."

As you think about this for a second, you can't
help but feel a little lonely all of a sudden, and
a small twinge of sadness wells up inside.

But as these feelings start to grow, you know
inside that you deserve better, and you wish the
feeling would just go away.

But it doesn't... and the last thing you want
to do is "go there" in front of your friends.

Especially since they just got through telling
all of their great stories.

You don't want them to know how you really feel
right now... and you wish this feeling and problem
would just go away.

You think to yourself:

"Why does love and a relationship have to be so
difficult?"

"If only men weren't so difficult to be with."

But then your "protective" side kicks in, and
you start fighting these feelings and tell
yourself:

"I don't need a man."

"I'm happy with my life as it is."

"I'm happy to be single and focus on myself
right now, instead of wasting my time and energy
in a dead-end situation with a man."

"Men are all screwed up and trouble anyway, and
I don't need that in my life right now."

Ahhhh... it starts to work and you calm down
and regain your "cool."

But somewhere deep down inside, you know why
you felt sad -

Seeing all your friends happy in their love
lives reminded you of something...

For all the reasons you have to be happy, and
all the ways you can convince other people (and
yourself) that you're fulfilled, you REALLY DO
want something much, much better.

You want a REAL CONNECTION.

You want to share REAL LOVE and BE LOVED.

And you wonder how long you can avoid the
reality that these things are MISSING from your
life by staying busy and taking care of other
areas of life.

You know you can't go on this way forever.

Something has to change.

There HAS to be something better out there for
you. Or else what's it all for?

But then you remember...

It's been months, maybe even years, since
you've actually made the time and space in your
life to meet and connect with the kind of man who
could bring great things back into your love life.

And in fact, the idea of "dating" sounds like a
complete and utter NIGHTMARE.

Sitting through a date listening to some bozo,
who has no idea how to really connect with you,
ramble on about himself, would just make you feel
even more hopeless and alone.

So you've basically shut out of your life the
idea of dating and going out with men for more
than friendship.

But then how are you supposed to meet and
connect with a great guy?

And how did EVERYONE ELSE around you manage to
become CLOSE and COMMITTED with a good guy, while
you're having an impossible time finding a guy who
isn't totally clueless?

Do they know something you don't?

Are you just UNLUCKY in love... and not meant
to have a great relationship for yourself?

Are they somehow more attractive than you are?

Why does it have to be so difficult?

And why does it have to be such a "game"?

***End of story**


Ok, I know I got a little "heavy" on you
there, but it's for your own good.

This story is basically a myth... a collection
of common situations, fears, beliefs, etc., that
women experience.

And in case you didn't notice, a lot of what
was going on here in the story had to do with a
woman's own limiting thoughts, frustrations and
negative beliefs about men, dating and
relationships.

If you identified with a few of these thoughts,
fears, etc., then I want you to recognize
something.

Some women have VERY FEW of these negative and
limiting thoughts.

While other women have TONS.

I'm talking 10, 20, 30 and 50 times a day here.

And what do you think that does for a woman?

Or for you?

Let's try something new today - an exercise.

Take a second and imagine something for me...

Picture in your mind a woman you know who's
either single or in a "troubled" relationship.

Make sure you have a clear picture of her in
your mind.

Now I want you to imagine her having negative
thoughts and fears like the ones we've been
talking about here.

In fact, I also want you to give her some of
the fears and negative thoughts that you have.

And now... concentrate on how these thoughts
make her FEEL and ACT.

See how they affect her emotions, her attitude
and even her body language.

I'll give you a second to picture this clearly
in your mind...

Ok, now imagine a situation comes up for her
uncertain situation with the man in her life.

Picture her emotions, her thoughts and how she
communicates to the man in her life in your head.

I'll give you a second to think about this and
imagine it happening in your mind.

...

...

I'll give you another minute.

Ok, come on back.

Now, I want you answer a question for me:

How did all of her negative thoughts affect how
she interacted with her guy?

Did they help guide her to positive and
constructive communication that brought them
CLOSER together?

Or did it tend to make communication with him
MORE DIFFICULT and create DISTANCE?

I'm sure you came up with all kinds of
insights and realizations, but here's what I want
you to see:

Communicating with a man from a place of fear
and insecurity will more often create DISTANCE
than it will bring you and him together.

Unless the guy you're with is ALREADY an expert
at communicating and dealing with these things
himself.

If only men were experts when it came to having
open, lasting relationships and communicating in
ways that would bring you closer, right?

Wouldn't that be nice.

Well, the truth is men are RARELY experts in
these areas.

And sure... a man COULD come along and be such
a wonderful and amazing guy that he would help
make relationships and communicating easier.

But if that doesn't happen, or the great guy
you do find doesn't happen to have these natural
skills and abilities (and by the way, most men
don't)...

Then guess what?

It's up to YOU.

He's not going to make it work FOR YOU.

In fact, the reality is that as you are first
becoming close with a man, he's more likely to
trigger your own fears than to help resolve them.

I'm not telling you about this right now just
because I'm trying to teach you some "mumbo jumbo"
about how thoughts, energy and intention work
together...

(Which they do.)

But for another simple reason -

There's something you can do right now to
DRAMATICALLY improve the level of connection and
intimacy you have in your love life.

It all starts in one place.

Paying attention to HOW YOU THINK.

On a basic level, your own patterns of THINKING
and FEELING lead to the ACTIONS you take and the
BEHAVIOR you display.

And guess what can create a "negative filter"
on your THINKING and FEELINGS?

FEAR.

And if you're finding that your actions and
behaviors aren't "naturally" attracting good men
and creating healthy long-term relationships...
then you've got something to look at right now:

Your own thoughts and emotions, and your own
fears.

And, of course, you could worry about HIS
ISSUES too, but let's save working on him for
later when you're up to speed on all this for
yourself.


GETTING PAST FEAR, "CONNECTING" ON A DEEP LEVEL,
AND MAKING MEN ADDICTED TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP...

Ok, let's get to some real ANSWERS here.

What do you DO when you have negative, fearful,
limiting thoughts and situations going on in your
mind that are affecting your love life?

Well, I'm not going to tell you that all women
who are single or in "dead-end" relationships are
in that place in their life JUST BECAUSE they
think and feel in "fear-based" and "self-limiting"
ways.

But do the math.

What kind of women do you think men "naturally"
gravitate towards?

What kind of women do you think men
"instinctively" feel good when they're around,
even if they don't know why?

What kind of women do you think men understand,
on a subconscious level and make great long-term
partners?

Right again.

Women who are in CONTROL of their own fears and
emotions when it comes to men, dating and
relationships.

Why?

It's NOT because feelings and emotions
themselves are bad...

Feelings and emotions are probably the most
beautiful part of what makes us human and allows
us to experience the world in a deep and
meaningful way.

But, what I'm talking about here are NEGATIVE
feelings.

Because negative feelings, more often than not,
lead to NEGATIVE EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCES.

And women who are in CONTROL of their EMOTIONAL
EXPERIENCES and who have a handle on their own
emotional state, know how to do something that
other women can't and will never be able to
fake...

They know how to consistently create more
POSITIVE EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCES with men.

On one level, it really is that simple.

In practice, it's much harder.

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So let's get on now to ATTRACTION.

The truth is that men are attracted to one
woman and not another largely because of the way
that one woman makes them FEEL.

And NOT because of what logically sound
qualities each person and the relationship has.

ATTRACTION and CONNECTION have their own
"logic."

I'll say it again so you can really hear it
this time -

A man is attracted to a woman and wants to be
with her, and only her, because of the way he
FEELS when he's around her.

And not for any other reason.

Not even if the women is the most loving,
caring, sweet, generous, and intelligent woman in
the world.

I'm even going to "translate" this for you so
you're sure to start seeing it more clearly -

Translation: The emotional experiences that a
man has when he's around a woman are the single
most powerful reasons why he either wants a long-
term relationship, or doesn't.

And to make this even more clear, let me tell
you what this DOESN'T mean...

It DOESN'T mean that a man wants to be with a
woman because he VALUES a relationship and having
true love in his life.

Or that a woman can be so good to a man and do
so many loving and generous things for him that he
recognizes the LOGICAL value of staying with her
and makes the "right" decision.

Feelings and emotions have their own logic,
which has NOTHING to do with what makes "sense" or
what is "fair."

And the sooner you accept this as true about
men, the easier EVERYTHING in your love life and
relationship will become.


CREATING A DEEP LEVEL OF "EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION"
THAT WILL LEAD TO A LASTING RELATIONSHIP

So how do you make a man FEEL when he's around
you?

What are the conscious and subconscious
emotional reactions and responses he's likely to
be having with you, based on your emotions and
your behavior?

Take a minute and think about it.

...

...

Here's the bottom line:

A woman who can communicate to a man on a
deeper level that she's AWARE and IN CONTROL of
her own experience and "emotional" state will make
a man feel INTENSE ATTRACTION for her on that same
emotional level.

She's an "emotionally attractive" woman, which
can tell a man all kinds of things about her
BEYOND the PHYSICAL ATTRACTION and interest he
might have.

On the other hand...

Women who DON'T have a handle on these things
have quite a different effect on men...

These women can still usually make men feel
PHYSICAL ATTRACTION - but they often set off all
kinds of conscious and subconscious "warning
signs" in a man's mind.

Signals that then become FEELINGS and EMOTIONS
inside the man that tell him to RUN.

And under no circumstance commit himself and
attach his emotional experience to hers.

Here's the strangest part about women who send
off these "warning signals" to men...

Most women do this largely BY ACCIDENT.

That's right. Lots of women actually trigger
negative responses inside a man's mind while doing
things they think are FOR THE GOOD of the
relationship.

How's that for COUNTERPRODUCTIVE?

And hey... I know it might bother you to hear
some of what I'm saying. And that you probably
have been more caring and generous with your
thoughts and emotions in your past situations with
men than they were with you.

I get that.

But someone needs to tell you how men really
and truly think when it comes to women and
relationships.

And of course men have their own specialized
set of "baggage" and fears, too.

But let me ask you:

What do you know, FROM EXPERIENCE, will happen
if a man doesn't deal with his own fears about
women and relationships?

DISASTER.

I'm talking withdrawal, break-ups, cheating,
lying, etc.

The list goes on.

But if a guy takes the time and develops the
"emotional maturity" to think about the negative
and limiting fears HE HAS about women and
relationships...

And finds a healthy level of AWARENESS and
CONTROL around these...

Then this is the kind of guy that women will
"naturally" be drawn to and enjoy being with.

Your first step to creating a situation with a
man where you BOTH feel the level of connection
that will create and support a lasting
relationship is to accept that MEN DON'T MAKE
SENSE.

Why?

Because remember, our EMOTIONS don't follow a
logical or "rational" path.

If you're interested in learning more about
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By the way, the material in this program is all
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But let me ask you...

Wouldn't it be great to know the specific
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Here's the thing...

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Some of which I've already had you take a short
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One more quick question:

What's your biggest frustration
with men, relationships and dating?

Do you find it easy to meet men, but hard to keep
their attention and interest as soon as things
start to get "serious"?

Are you wondering how to approach your
boyfriend about commitment, because you've
been together a long time now and HE isn't
bringing it up on his own?

Are you worried that the man you're with will
cheat on you?

I actually put together a list of "Top 10"
questions that I most commonly get from women
like you, who are wondering how to get past
certain "bumps" in the road when it comes to
their love lives.

Find out what to do in each of these situations,
and see if YOUR specific relationship or dating
question is one that I answer in the letter that
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