Friday, July 4, 2008

"One Of A Kind,Irreplaceable"

My Best Pal


I like you.I like you a whole lot.I like you becauseWhen something matters to me,It matters to you, too.When you have a good idea,You tell me first -When I do, I tell you first.That's why we make such a great team.I like you becauseWhen I say something funny, you laugh,And when I'm not my usual self,You notice right awayAnd ask me, "What's wrong?"You're there for me and I'm there for you.That's what friends are for.I like you because -I just do.When somebody asks me who my best friend is,I say, "You." And you say, "Me."And fifty years from now,We'll say the same thing.That's the way it is and will always be -You can count on it.

Bountiful blessings

BLESSINGS



God hears your prayers


Offered with genuine tears


With His love and compassion


Carries you through all tribulation;


His answers are always the best


Throwing away other options to rest;


Today, if you to Him confess


Your sins and profess;


To abide always in His holy presence,


That would bring blessings immense.



In GOD We Trust

Thursday, July 3, 2008

"Having A Relationship"

Romance

In relationships you will find someone you really like and then you start going out and you get to know them better and as the months pass you think will this one last and then eventually you tell each other how much your in love but you don't know how to say it to them. love is a great thing when you find the right person youve been looking for all these years its great when you spend time and have a laugh with each other because your getting to know that person a little bit more than you did when you first met. most of the time you can just sit and talk to them about anything it dunt matter what it is you will just have long conversations with each other and they can go on for hours.

Some people are scared of starting a new relationship because maybe they have got hurt in the past by the people they thought they loved but they just go and hurt there feelings thats why if they are really nervous you just have to give them time to get used to goin out eith someone new and be there for them if they need you the most cus some relationships end in very bad ways and no one wants to go through what some people have its not a nice thing so just accept what they need before rushing into anything that you might regret after.

Some people are scared of what others will think of them if they have something wrong with them some people go to far with things like that they should keep there opinions to there self instead of hurting other peoples feelings.But some people say its doesnt matter what they look like is wht there personality is like or maybe some people go for both but you have to accept them and be there if they need you cus some people get bullied through there lives and it isnt nice for the people that want to move on from the past they have feeling and want to find some one aswell so keep your opinions to your self.

"Hold My Hand Forever"

My Baby , My All

Words are never enough to tell you how much i love you & how much i appreciate all the things you have done for me.I really don't care if you are my destiny.I really even don't care if you are my soulmate.All i care is i wanna be with you for the rest of my life.I don't need you bec. of what you can offer.I don't need you bec. you are the man of my dreams.I need you bec. i love you & there is no one can replace you in my heart.I can never hate you more than i love you.

For You Are Perfect , Nothing has changed since the first day i fall in love with you.

You are still the man that i respect.I love you,I love you so much.

You inspire me in everyway, you really never stop to amazed me.(I know you had said this line to me but it's true)You are special.In every way,In every part.

I love your eyes,your nose,your mouth...you are the most gorgeous guy that i had ever met.

I love your voice , I love the way you move , I love the way you think...I never thought that i could meet someone like you.But what i really appreciate is that you accepted me for who i am.

You believed in me , You have let me feel that I am special.

Thank you so much for everything &
If you would want me in your life I'll go with you w/o a doubt.

You are my AIR!


"Importance Of Our Families"

Families are always there to stand by you no matter what they will always protect you and the best thing you can do is to watch out for your family aswell as them watchin out for you they will always be there when you need them the most they will always listen to you if you have got a problem they will help you through it.

you may sometimes have arguments in the family but they will always be there and you will eventually say your sorrys and pretend it never happened they will also be there to support you if you need the support.

sometimes you have bad things happen in your family which sometimes you cant explain but whether some of your family is watchin over you or nt they will always be there for you when you need them the most when you go through the really bad times.

What's Behind the Trend of Women Dating Younger Men?

Age Gap In Love Relationship
Exploring the modern coupling phenomenonBy Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. Special to Special to Yahoo! Personals Updated: Jun 13, 2008Younger man, Older woman couple.

There appears to be a trend of older women dating younger men, notably illustrated by celebrity couples including Demi Moore and Aston Kutcher, Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubry, and the most recent fling between 48-year-old Linda Hogan and 19-year-old Charlie Hill. According to a study of 50,000 women daters over 30, conducted by an online dating site in 2007, more than one-third of the subjects showed interest in men at least 5 years younger.




And in 2003, an AARP survey revealed 34 percent of 3,500 women (between ages 40 and 69) dated men who are 10 or more years younger than themselves. This trend appears to be shocking to some people, but I don't find it so unusual.Socially, there's a role reversal of sorts going on, women are more powerful now than ever before and may want men who are younger, and perhaps, more flexible; men who can handle it if the woman's career and lifestyle takes priority over their own. Media portrayals in "Sex and the City" (like movie characters Smith Jerrod and Samantha Jones) and "Desperate Housewives" are also showing women that dates don't have to be older. Women who have high-powered careers -- or a well-developed self-image -- are exercising more choice.

Women who have been divorced and are established single moms may enjoy having a playmate, someone to have fun with; who doesn't try to control her.Can these older woman/younger man relationships last?In my counseling office, I have seen many relationships succeed with this kind of older woman/younger man scenario.

“The media focuses on the age difference, but what really makes or breaks the relationship is how well the couple can form a partnership that works”The media focuses on the age difference, but what really makes or breaks the relationship is how well the couple can form a partnership that works.

Age difference is an adolescent worry: When you're a teenager, an age difference of even two or three years makes a vast difference in your experience and your outlook on life. Such a difference can interfere with communication, life goals, outlook, and relationship experience. In addition, for the young, the social reaction to such a relationship is often negative. If one partner is underage, a sexual relationship is even against the law.But, as you get older, life experience and emotional growth help to equalize your relationship skills and resources. A 10-year or more difference in your ages makes little difference in how well you can conduct your relationship.

Don't focus on an arbitrary numbers difference in your ages. If you are getting along, you have good communication and problem solving, and you love each other, that's a precious thing, and far more important than any age difference could be. If other people have a problem with it, let it be their problem.Whether or not a relationship is healthy is not determined by age differences, but by the interaction between the partners. A 10-year difference is not too difficult to bridge, but a 20-year differences or more in age can lead to some difficulties as the partners get older.

For example, the younger partner may mature and reconsider his or her choices, or an older partner may confront aging problems much sooner. But, as long as both parties are adult, and the couple has talked about their age difference and the future possibilities, I don't make judgments about their respective ages.

Dealing with the generation gapThere are healthy and unhealthy reasons to date someone of a different generation.“One inappropriate motivation for dating a younger person is fear of aging on the older person's part.”One inappropriate motivation for dating a younger person is fear of aging on the older person's part. A younger partner isn't going to reverse the aging process or protect you from old age. Obviously, a man or woman who dates someone as young as his or her children is going to run into some social opposition, but the differences that can cause the biggest problems within the couple's relationship are differing maturity levels.

As more and more women choose younger partners for relationships, the question arises: Are women in their late 30s and early 40s likely to be successful with partners who are 10 to 15 years younger than themselves?Success in these relationships depends on what the motivations of both people are. Some older people feel younger at heart than their contemporaries and like to date people who are as active as they are.

Chronological age doesn't always reflect either physical capability or emotional maturity. Sometimes an age difference creates a mentoring relationship the older person advises the younger one on life or career. This can backfire if and when the younger person decides he or she has learned enough, and wants to move on.

If you're asking: "Is it OK for me to have a partner who is much older or younger than I am?" You'll do better off if you forget about your ages and concentrate on whether the relationship works for both of you, or not. What really makes a romantic relationship succeed is the emotional connection.

"Important Things In Life,Change Starts With You"

The most selfish one letter 'I' - avoid it,
Most satisfactory two leter 'WE' - use it

Most poisonous three letters 'EGO' - kill it

Most used four letters 'LOVE' - value it

Most pleasing five letters 'SMILE' - keep it

Fastest spreading six letters 'RUMOURS' - ignore it
Hardworking seven letters 'SUCCESS' - achieve it
Most inevitalable eight letters 'JEALOUSY' - distance it
The most rewarding five letters 'SHARE'- give it

Most divine ten letters 'FRIENDSHIP' - maintain it
Most powerful nine letters 'KNOWLEDGE' - acquire it