Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Got a spiritual story to share with others? Learnt your life lessons the hard way? A small seemingly simple suggestion - may be the saving words that someone is desperately searching for. A favourite quote of mine is by Leo Buscaglia

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.”

Our world is changing quickly, if you're here then you already feel the changes. I too will start posting my spiritual journey very shortly, however in the meantime, please do drop by these new sections, introduce yourself and feel free to share your own growth stories (if you have a spiritual story that you would like to share with others please email me storiesATnewagestore.com) - when we see just how many are questioning - then the answer and the path becomes so very crystal clear.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Quick Beauty Tips for everyday life

Here are a few useful tips to help women stay beautiful every day. You would be amazed how many of those will seem so simple to you but will actually make a huge difference! First of all you need to keep your face in place for longer! Buy a small pump spray bottle that you can usually find easily in the travel sections of high street stores, and fill with water. Use the pump spray to spray a fine mist over your face once you have applied your face makeup (pre-eye make up). You quickly will find that it sets your make up for the whole day making it last longer and preventing the need for continuous touch ups which is obviously a great news. The second tip is to consider having your eyelashes tinted. Having your eyelashes tinted is relatively quick and easy if you go to professional beautician (make sure they do a skin test beforehand) and is much more convenient and cheaper than using mascara every day, plus it does not run, smudge or take ten minutes to get off before bed! The next tip is a basic one. You need to keep it simple with soap!

Simply go old school and rediscover real soap. There are plenty of delicious scents, it is natural, long lasting and often seems to clean better too, so try it and you will not regret it! This one may look a bit silly but it is actually a good one that will help you make some savings here. Use the very last bit of all your products by taking pump action lids off, cutting open soft plastic tubes or using brushes to extract the last bits from cosmetics. You will really be amazed how much is left in the bottom when you would normally just throw them away! The last tip will help you fix your hair quickly. If your hair is looking a little greasy or you have not had a chance to wash it but want to freshen it up, sprinkle a little talcum powder through the roots, tip your head upside down, give it a shake and if you can, a quick blast with the hairdryer and this will give it a new lease of life. Those tips just really seem to be basic tips but you will see that they will make your everyday life different and help you stay beautiful every day. The author loves beauty products and knows a lot about Yardley English Lavender products, Yardley Lily of the valley and other Yardley products

"Womanizer"






The Player


He has only one mission
One single task to complete
Capture the heart of his victim
For the player an easy feat

His words caress your spirit
His voice corrupts your mind
You'll tell him you want to take it slow
But he'll quicken the pace you'll find

He's desperate to find the girl of his dreams
That's what he'll try and make you believe
But never tell him you love him
That's his cue to leave

He will swear on a lie he's telling the truth
And you'll believe every word he mutters
Ignoring all the obvious signs
When he tells you there aren't any others

He will make you feel so special
You'll finally feel like you belong
But I'm afraid it will only last
Until the next one comes along

Shamelessly he flirts with every girl he sees
He says it doesn't mean a thing
He'll tell you you're the only one
But there's plenty more waiting in the wings

He may act like a monster
But it really isn't his intention
He is just so damn insecure
He'll do anything to get attention

So play his little game
If you're a player too
But if you have a genuine heart
Tell him to stay the fuck away from you

Monday, November 24, 2008

" I Love The Way You Look At Me , It Makes Me Weak"

How to Attract and Seduce Single Sexy Women With Your Eyes

They say the eyes are the mirror to the soul. And you can use the power of your eyes to influence single women to be attracted to you. You can even literally seduce single women with your eyes. Follow these guidelines to use your eyes to capture the hearts of single sexy women for love, sex, and romance: Use your eyes to attract single women.

Gaze into her eyes as you smile at her. It will make your message much more personal.

When you see single women who look interesting, turn toward them and let your gaze linger a little longer. A suggestion of a wink while you're smiling gives an unmistakable come-hither look.


In conversation, look into the eyes of the woman you're talking with. Direct eye contact says, "I'm listening. I want to hear more." To show agreement and interest, occasionally raise and lower your eyebrows.

When she's talking, listen with your eyes as well as your ears. If you look away, you may signify, "I'm bored" or "I don't agree." The result will usually be a short and unfulfilling conversation.

However, to look away while speaking is natural. It's a sign that the topic is being shifted or that thoughts are being collected. A pause while glancing away usually means an uncompleted thought, signaling, "I haven't finished. Don't interrupt."


Are Your Eyes Right With Single Women?
Be cautious lest your eye gestures be misunderstood. Avoiding eye contact can make both parties feel uncomfortable. If you avert your eyes out of shyness, you may be interpreted as saying, "I'm dishonest" or "I'm ashamed" or "I'm not interested in you." Too much eye contact is as bad as too little. It's impolite to stare.

As a cultural rule, a man should not look steadily at a woman for longer than a few seconds - unless she gives him license with a smile, a backward glance, or a direct meeting of eyes. When a man gazes without smiling, women may think, "He's looking right through me." If you narrow your eyes in a frown, you may inadvertently be saying, "I'm suspicious."

If you roll your eyes upward, she could think you're yawning, "Ho hum!" If you glare at a woman under arched eyebrows, most women will hear you growl: "I'm angry."
Work Up To It It can be difficult to gaze into a woman's eyes for some men.

To get used to making eye contact, focus your gaze a little below or between her eyes. For a few seconds look into the pupils, and smile. To ease the tension, look into one eye at a time.

To relax, let your gaze travel over the features of the face: the lips, cheeks, nose, ears and hair. After a few moments, go back to looking at her right in the eyes.


>From time to time, ask yourself, "Where are my eyes?" Out of habit, you

>may find your gaze has drifted onto the floor or out in the audience.

>Increase the amount of time that you experience direct eye contact. As

>you become more practiced, you'll be able to look directly into her

>eyes without even being conscious that you're doing it.

"Gratitude'

Cultivate gratitude.

Carve out an hour a day for solitude.

Begin and end the day with prayer, meditation and reflection.

Keep it simple. Don't over-schedule.

Strive for realistic deadlines.

Never make a promise you can't keep.

Allow an extra half hour for everything you do.

Create quiet surroundings at home and at work.

Go to bed at nine o'clock twice a week.

Always carry something interesting to read.

Breathe.. deeply and often.

Move.. walk, dance, run, find a sport you enjoy.

Drink pure spring water. Lots of it.

Eat only when hungry. If it's not delicious, don't eat it.

Be instead of Do.

Set aside one day a week for rest and renewal.

Laugh more often.

Luxuriate your senses.

Always opt for comfort.

If you don't love it, live without it.

Let Mother Nature nurture.

Don't answer the telephone during dinner.

Stop trying to please everybody.

Start pleasing yourself.

Stay away from negative people.

Don't squander precious resources: time, creative energy, emotion.

Nurture friendships.

Don't be afraid of your passion.

Approach problems as challenges.

Honor your aspirations.

Set achievable goals.

Surrender expectations.

Savor beauty.

Create boundaries.

For every "yes", let there be a "no".

Don't worry, be happy.

Remember, happiness is a living emotion.

Exchange security for serenity.

Care for your soul.

Cherish your dreams.

Express love every day.

Search for your authentic self.

~Author Unknown~

The Woman




When a man was sitting beside a sleeping woman after working late one day
A little boy came by and said: “Why do you spend so much time beside her ?”
And the man answered:“Son, Have you seen all what she is capable
of ?"
“she functions on all kinds of food, she is able to embrace several kids at the same time, gives a hug that can heal anything from a bruised knee to a broken heart and she does all this with only two hands”.



The little boy was impressed.
“Just two hands....impossible!“
And this is a normal woman?!
“Too much work for one day.... “.
“Indeed”, said the man. “That is why she is my favorite”.
“She cures herself when sick and she can work 18 hours a day”.
The little boy came nearer and touched the woman.



“But she is so soft” “She is soft", said the man, “But she is also so strong. You can’t imagine what she can endure and overcome.“
“Can she think?" the little boy asked.*
The man answered:
“Not only can she think, she can reason and negotiate."


The little boy touched the woman’s cheek....
“It seems she is leaking! You have put too many burdens on her.”*
“She is not leaking....it’s a tear” the man corrected the little man.
“What’s it for?" asked the little boy.
And the man said:
“Tears are her way of expressing grief, her doubts, her love, her loneliness, her suffering and her pride.”
This made a big impression on the little boy; “Hey, you are lucky.
You know everything. The woman is indeed marvellous!"



Indeed she is!
Woman has strengths that amazes man. She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens.
She holds happiness, love and opinions.
She smiles when feeling like screaming.
She sings when she feels like crying, cries when she is happy and laughs when she is afraid.



She fights for what she belives in.
Stands up against injustice.
She doesn’t take “no” for an answer, when she can see a better solution. She gives herself so her family can thrive. She takes her friend to the doctor if she is afraid.
Her love is unconditional.



She cries when her kids are victorious. She is happy when her friends do well.
She is glad when she hears of a birth or a wedding.
Her heart is broken when a next of kin or friend dies.
But she finds the strength to get on with life.
She knows that a kiss and a hug can heal a broken heart.
There is only one thing wrong with her
She forgets what she is worth...

"Something You Can Think About"


Interesting quote from the movie "Why did I get married?"

In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only get 80% of what you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20% that you WANT in your relationship. There is always another person (man or women) that you will meet and that will offer you the other 20% which is lacking in your relationship that you WANT.

And believe me, 20% looks really good when you are not getting it at all in your current relationship. But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave that good 80% that you know you have, thinking that you will get something better with the other 20% that you WANT. But as reality has proven, in most cases, you will always end up with having the 20% that you WANT and loosing the 80% that you really NEED and that you already had.

Be careful in deciding between what you WANT and NEED in your life. Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. "Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. But it's not her Wynona Rider features that got me. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not".


Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did. Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 80% of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 20%.


Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says: "I broke my arm yesterday, Hahahaha . . ..
" Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pajamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt. Or because your husband is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host. But wait! That's only 20% of what you don't have. Don't throw away the 80% that you already have! That's not all. Add to your spouse's 80% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together.

The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers. Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.But I'm not just talking about marriage. I'm talking about life! About your jobs. About your friends. About your children. About your lifestyles.


Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what he's missing?"They have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow, their seats recline at an 80% angle and they've got personal videos!". I guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire trip! Don't live your life like that. Forget about what the world says is first class.

Do you know that there are many first class passengers who are miserable in first class - because they are not riding in a private Lear Jet
? The main message??? If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever you are, you are first class! 20/80 or 80/20. You determine your lot in life.