Tuesday, June 16, 2009


Working From Home Can Be Wonderful

Money from Home? Is it Really Possible?


If you're looking to make a living from home then you're going to want to realize that it might not be the fun you think. There are two ways to make a living from home. The first one is to find a work at home job, and this is where you are actually an employee of a company. The second way would be to have your own business.

Both work-at-home options have good and bad points. The best way to decide what is going to be right for you is to take a long hard look at yourself and what you need in life and evaluate them. For a work at home job the only difference from an outside the home job is that for the most part you will not have as much supervision. If you determine that your person that needs supervision and a lot of human interaction, then working from home might not be for you.

If you decide that you might try a work from home business then you have to look long and hard at your skills and talents. You have to have the right type of personality to be successful and a work at home business. Again the same thing holds true as with the work from home position, you have to be able to work on your own without direct supervision. If you're not able to keep yourself motivated and on track and you're going to fail miserably in your business. Another point is if you're not alright with working on your own, and you do need human interaction then you're going to find a work from home business very difficult to deal with.

If you find that you are all right with these major problems with working from home, then you might want to go ahead and try. Working from home is challenging in its own right, and the first step in and is valuing whether you can handle the few major concerns that come with it. One should find that you can get past that men from the others might not be a big deal and you might find working from home either as an employee will be extremely rewarding for you.

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Monday, June 15, 2009

"WALK WITH FAITH IN YOUR HEART AND LOVE YOUR LIFE AS YOU LOVE GOD"

How do I get back up after I fall?


One of the most critical moments in the lives of believers is when they stumble. We're all vulnerable, and it happens to everyone at some point. We are going along, progressing in our Christian walk. We're getting to know God. We're adjusting our thought life. We're overcoming some bad habits. Then, boom! Without warning, we do something "really stupid." Maybe it's an outburst of rage at something, or someone, in unrestrained anger. Or, maybe just as we start to get free of an impure sexual habit, we revert back as though nothing had changed in our lives. Or, maybe we have a nasty moment of gloating over someone else's failure, swelling us with ugly pride.

Our next steps after that stumble are really important. Why? Because right after a failure, we will either draw back from our relationship with the Lord, or we will press into Him, drawing closer than ever. We are at a fork in the road. Let's see where each of these opposite paths takes us.

On one path you progressively distance yourself from God. You may be overcome with guilt from what you've done, thinking ... "I've blown it. I'm a failure. I'm not worthy. God doesn't want me the way I am." Or, you may become hardened, justifying yourself: "He deserved my tongue-lashing." "She set me up for that moral failure. It's her fault."

The further you go down this path, the more difficult it is to recover. Some never do. They abandon their faith and give up on trying to walk further with Jesus. Sadly, the world is full of people who once believed, but have strayed far away. The writer to the Hebrews issues this caution, and it applies to everyone: "Do not drift away" (Hebrews 2:1 NIV).

But the other path can restore you to even closer intimacy with God. An earlier scripture promises that God has provided "everything we need for life and godliness" (2 Peter 1:3 NIV). That includes a perfect way back to Him when you stumble. First, it is important to realize you will stumble. Even at your very best, you are completely unworthy when compared to a holy God. Second, when you fail the Lord is watching and protecting. See this assurance from King David, who was no stranger to failure:

If the Lord delights in a man's way, He makes his steps firm; though he stumble, he will not fall, for the Lord upholds him with His hand (Psalm 37:23,24 NIV).

Third, you can come to God in complete honesty about your failure, and ask His forgiveness. Remember, He knows all you have done, even what you've been thinking. There are no surprises with Him. But you need to take the initiative in returning. What is God's response when you humble yourself and come before Him? Hear what the Apostle John says: "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).

What a tremendous promise and wonderful reality. I couldn't put a number to the times I've had to walk this path. But one thing I know -- each time, the Lord has been utterly faithful to forgive. You can be washed clean and restored no matter how grievously you have erred.

Finally, it is so much to your benefit when you come quickly. And come as often as needed -- not just for the big slips but also for the small ones. As you do, you will increasingly discover the depth of God's love for you and find your love and trust for Him growing deeper and deeper.
Key Scripture


If anybody does sin, we have One who speaks to the Father in our defense -- Jesus Christ, the Righteous One (1 John 2:1 NIV).
Key Thought


I am not perfect, but I am forgiven.

Saturday, June 13, 2009

"i adore you"

i love you but i can't afford you

i love you but i can't afford you

but oh my god how i adore you

try as i may i could never floor you

i love you but i can't afford you

in a world so full of strifeyou light up my fucking life

i bone up at the sound of your voice

i love it when you give me no other choice

i love you but i can't afford you

still i could never abhor you


do i talk too much or do i bore you

i love you but i can't afford you

you push me beyond my weakness

like a horse competing in the preakness

i bone up at the sound of your name

but i love to play your youthful game

i love you but i can't afford you

you've done more for me than i for you


every word that i say is true

i love you but i can't afford you

all you got to do is crack that smile

and you've spell-bounded me for a while

i bone up at the touch of your hand

and when our souls touch we understand

i love you but i can't afford you

but oh my god how i adore you

try as i may i could never floor you

i love you but i can't afford you

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

"Happiness"


Happiness does'nt go hand in hand with other emotions.It's a bad boy who doesn't play well with others.You will never achieve him if you are friends with any of the other emotions ,for he is a sore loser,a loner.Happiness can only stay with you for a little while.Those of you who have him know he's quickly gone as soon as another emotion takes over.Before having his place taken , sometimes,he might linger in anticipation that you may want him back.Happiness is a fleeting emotion.Some are lucky to hold him for long amounts of time.But they are usually by a chosen few,the very young who are sheltered from the other emotions ,or,someone with optimism caused by an underlying condition.It's a bad bedfellow.

In dreams it is often washed away upon the light of day.Upon the waking of reality.Happiness doesn't get along with pride.Pride holds him back.Happiness never liked vanity.For as looks fade,years can erase the smile of nacissism and happiness is gone.Happiness doesn't work well with the poor,the hungry,the lonely,or the depressed .The sick, the dying,the weary, and the troubled.This emotion is never called upon in these circles.When you find happiness,tell him he needs to visit people more often.To put aside all the others within someones heart and look for the good,give a cheer,lend it's helping hand in a world that so desperately needs him.For if we erase all other emotions,happiness will embrace each one of us..

Sunday, June 7, 2009



AN UNDERSTANDING FOR LIFE


A man can take a lifetime,

Deciding who it is he wants to be.

Sometimes facing reality,

With never stopping to see.

A man can be a hero to some,

Or a failure to many,Either way,

A man will feel he has tried his best.Some are fathers,

And some are husbands,But not many are both,

Or good at being both.

An army will fill itself with many men,

Some Brave,Some Scared,

Some just willing.Never knowing,

If they have reached excellence.

The world puts great promise,

Upon a mans shoulders,

Never understanding,

They are that of just men;

Nothing More,Nothing Less

Just Men.

Yet life puts men above women,

And now we have understanding of life.

For it will always be a woman,

Who holds that man up,

And together in the eyes of this life.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Be A Real Man & Know How

The definition of a (Real Man!)

In my opinion....a real man is somebody who accepts responsibility for all of their actions and try not to blame other people or circumstances for their behavior...somebody who can think on his own and not be influenced by other people on how to act.....somebody who has enough sense to realize that reality is not in rap songs and that being a Real Man is not somebody who can take a life away from an unarmed person or brag about having been in prison....

A man who has character and depth underneath all of his outside possessions and physical attributes

Somebody who has a good sense of self worth and thinks he is too good to become a STATISTIC of any sort regardless of what his circumstances are and that success is measured in his own eyes not in any body elses....he is not intimidated by people who he thinks "ARE BETTER THAN HIM" because he doesnt think ANYBODY is better than him no matter how much THEY have or how little HE has....

A real man can respect and love himself and will be able to respect and love a woman worthy of that and be able to walk away from those who aren't with out a second look back....A man with all the money in the world who is generous and giving doesn't have to pay to keep a woman in his life and does know the difference of being appreciated vs being used, because he knows what genuinity and good character is in others..

And sometimes a man has to hustle to make sure his bills are paid and to get ahead, but doesn't have to spend it all on "the bar" or the biggest most expensive rims he can find to go on the smallest car, or jewelry that he wants to wear all at once everyday....if a man has to hustle then he is also investing in a home or homes for himself and his family, investing in his childs future or in his child, or tryin to open a business...Its okay to enjoy and buy things you enjoy but there is a difference between doing it because it's truly enjoyed vs doing it to show off or present false images to others ...

I am fully aware on how the male ego works and a real man isn't necessarily free from ego....but he KNOWS the difference in his actions and whether they stem from his ego or his spirit and he owns up truthfully to those actions and makes conscious efforts to work on himself

A real man knows its okay to just be himself and that he doesnt have to prove anything to anyone at anytime...he is secure with himself and who he is and he is honest and trustworthy.......a real man will attract a real woman.

He is the man who a real woman not only Can't run over but Doesn't want to run over, challenge or try to dominate and who will let him drive in the drivers seat and the one who will treat that real woman like the queen she is, respect her, listen to her, work with her...

He is the man who whether up or down a real woman will stand next to, step up for, bring back up, uplift him, nurture him, love him, grow him into an even stronger man and he does the same for her ...

And pretty much vice versa for a real woman, so for all you men who claim u cant find a good woman or women who feel they cant find a good man or a real man...look at yourselves in the mirror first and see if the problem lies in you....

Good men, Good women are out there....if you seem to keep running into no good mates, its time to look in the mirror and look at yourself and see truthfully what type of person you are .

We are all a work in progress, the way to grow, build character, evolve and overcome ego is to be honest with ourselves, change what we don't like, enhance what we do like and that Real man resides in every male , just the process and patience and learning to bring him out.

RESPECT


Throughout my entire life I have overlooked and forgiven disrespect for various reasons and have allowed myself to be treated VERY badly... especially by those closest to me. Instead of allowing natural reactions (beating the the piss out of 'em, or doing whatever to make myself feel better) I have bottled my emotions, reminded myself to act like a girl (to the best of my ability) and chose the 'higher road' so to speak... (not to mention the years spent crying myself to sleep; wondering, identifying and taking responsibility for the whys...)I suppose the psychoanalysis of the self inflicted mark would deduce an outlet or expression of repressed emotions (burning hate, rage and sadness) in dealing with such betrayal and disappointment... OK, so you could say..


I'm overly sensitive: I would agree....anyway...The tattoo is to remind me what is most important so that I may respect myself and my values enough to avoid lowering my standards: So that I (remember to) never again volunteer for a position to be taken advantage of or let down: To be even MORE cautious concerning who is in my vicinity and what they are capable of. If that means I will fly solo for eternity, oh fucking well... so be it.

Liars, cheaters, thieves, bullies, manipulators, perverts, slackers, users and abusers can all go to hell without me because I am tired of giving my heart, soul, fortune, hope and good will to such charities. Fuck all y'all who will step on others to get ahead. Fuck all of you parasites and emotional vampires who will suck others dry then move on. Fuck all of you who want or want to be me. I refuse to be your source. I have given enough. I finally recognize the difference between a fountain and a drain.