"i adore you"

i love you but i can't afford you

i love you but i can't afford you

but oh my god how i adore you

try as i may i could never floor you

i love you but i can't afford you

in a world so full of strifeyou light up my fucking life

i bone up at the sound of your voice

i love it when you give me no other choice

i love you but i can't afford you

still i could never abhor you

do i talk too much or do i bore you

i love you but i can't afford you

you push me beyond my weakness

like a horse competing in the preakness

i bone up at the sound of your name

but i love to play your youthful game

i love you but i can't afford you

you've done more for me than i for you

every word that i say is true

i love you but i can't afford you

all you got to do is crack that smile

and you've spell-bounded me for a while

i bone up at the touch of your hand

and when our souls touch we understand

i love you but i can't afford you

but oh my god how i adore you

try as i may i could never floor you

i love you but i can't afford you

"God pours his blessings for those who seeks"

When God pours out His blessing, He opens His doors and windows. That all His people might have in full. And if ever you can't have one. Let Him Check your heart. You might done something that traps those blessings. Keep your eyes open. Watch and pray that God will help you see those blessings. And gather them according to your need.




When He showers you His blessings! Learn to share them to the needy. And look forward for the Great day to come. You will surely share on the Lord's table.

"Memo from God"

Memo From God

Effective immediately, please be aware there are changes you need to make in your
life. These changes need to be completed in order that I may fulfill my promises to you
to grant you peace, joy and happiness in your life. I apologize for any inconvenience, but after all that I am doing, this seems very little to ask of you. I know, I already gave you the 10 Commandments. Keep them, but follow these guidelines, also:



Quit Worrying
Life has dealt you a blow and all you do is sit and worry. Have you forgotten that I am
here to take all your burdens and carry them for you?
Or do you enjoy fretting over every little thing that comes your way?

Put It On The List
Something needs done or taken care of. Put it on the list. No, not YOUR list. Put
it on MY to-do-list. Let ME be the one to take care of the problem. I can't
help you until you turn it over to me. And although my to-do-list is long, I am after all,
God. I can take care of anything you put in my hands. In fact, if the truth were ever
really known, I can take care of a lot of things for you that you never even realize.

Trust Me
Once you've given your burdens to me, quit trying to take them back. Trust in me. Have the faith that I will take care of all your needs, your problems and your trials. Problems with the kids? Put them on my list. Problems with finances? Put them on my list. Problems with your emotional roller coaster? For your sake, put it on my list. I want to help you. All you have to do is ask.

Leave It Alone
Don't wake up one morning and say, "Well, I'm feeling much stronger now, I think I can handle it from here." Why do you think you are feeling stronger now? It's simple. You gave me your burdens and I am taking care of them. I also renew your strength and cover you in my peace. Don't you know if I give you these problems back, you will be right back where you started? Leave them with me and for get about them. Just let me do my job.

Talk To Me
I want you to forget a lot of things. Forget what was making you crazy.
Forget the worry and the fretting because you know I am in control. But there's
one thing I pray you will never forget. Please don't forget to talk to me - OFTEN!
I love you. I want to hear your voice.
I want you to include me in things that are going on in your life.
I want to hear you talk about your friends and family. Prayer is simply you having a
conversation with me. I want to be your dearest friend.

Have Faith
I see a lot of things from up here that you can't see from where you are. Have faith in
me that I know what I am doing. Trust me, you wouldn't want the view from my eyes. I will continue to care for you, watch over you, and meet your needs. You have only to trust me. Although I have a much bigger task than you, it seems as if you have so much trouble just doing your simple part. How hard can trust be?


Share
You were taught to share when you were only two years old. When did you forget? That rule still applies. Share with those who are less fortunate than you. Share your joy with those who need encouragement. Share your laughter with those who haven't heard any in such a long time. Share your tears with those who have forgotten how to cry. Share your faith with those who have none.

Be Patient
I managed to fix it so in just one lifetime you could have so many diverse experiences.
You grow from a child to an adult, have children, change jobs many times, learn many
trades, travel to so many places, meet thousands of people, and experience so much.
How can you be so impatient then when it takes me a little longer than you expect to handle something on my to-do-list? Trust in my timing, for my timing is perfect. Just because I created the whole universe in six days, everyone thinks I should always rush, rush, rush.

Be Kind
Be kind to others, for I love them just as much as I love you. They may not dress like you or talk like you, or live the same way you do, but I still love you all.
Please try to get along, for my sake, I created each of you different in the same way.
It would be too boring if you were all identical. Please know I love each of your differences.

Love Yourself
As much as I love you, how can you not love yourself? You were created by me for one reason only - to be loved, and to love in return. I am a God of Love. Love me. Love your neighbors. But also love yourself. It makes my heart ache when I see you so angry with yourself when things go wrong. You are very precious to me.
Don't ever forget that!


With all my heart I love you,
God

Remember: If God got you to it-- He will get you through it!

"What is being in love?"

"Being in Love"

Someone said ‘you will know the real meaning of love when you fall in love’. Isn’t it true that nobody can speak the truth about love unless he is or was in love? What is love and why is there such a fuss about this word ‘LOVE’? Generally speaking love is special feeling that everyone has for their own mother, father or other siblings. It also means a special feeling for someone who has touched your heart and soul and has knocked you off your feet by her attraction or behavior totally unconnected to your family, friends or foe. Many love quotes have done their rounds in the midst of lovers and lover’s hater’s. There has never really been a love quote deficiency in this world wherein one had to go in search for a suitable love quote to describe what love really is.

‘Love knows no boundaries’, ‘love is blind’, etc are all tradition love descriptions. A special day is celebrated every year to celebrate this wonderful relationship called ‘love’. It is always exaggerated and lovers usually use the most impossible language to explain how much they love their mate. “ it takes 3 seconds to say ‘I love you’, but a lifetime to prove it. In this game named love man and women often blame one another for being naïve or intolerable when it comes to wooing or love making.

The book about these sentiments and behaviors of the opposite sex is best showcased in the books like “men are from mars, and women are from Venus”. But still there is no formula defining this relationship as a whole. Like this quote here, you’ll be confused after reading this about what to be or not to be in love. “Don’t be too good I will miss you. Don’t be too caring. I might like you. Don’t be too sweet, I might fall. It’s hard for me to love you when you won’t love me after all…”

As john Keats puts in ‘a thing of beauty is a joy forever’, I feel love is definitely a thing of beauty worth living and even dieing for. Just like Bryon quotes,

“Atlas! The love of women! It is known To be a lovely and fearful thing! It’s true that many men consider a fearful thing and always associate the women to the famous ‘beauty and the beast’. But in reality it is women who should be fearful of men as many a love stories are ended by men. I feel men break love often than women. Emotional bonding is what women get into in a love relationship and they find it hard to cope up or even take the fact that their love has left them for good. But as Plato rightly puts in “ at the touch of love everyone becomes a poet’.

That’s true because when someone is madly in love all he can think of is growing a beard and writing a poem on his lady love. As for women they become mobile dream factories always smiling and giggling on heir own without any proper reason. These are all the symptoms of love which has infected the hearts and souls of those who have it. Its surprising that even Lao Tzu had commented on love thus, ‘being deeply loved by someone gives you strength While loving someone deeply gives you courage’

The lovers definitely get empowered with so much courage all in the name of love; they are ready to leave home, their parents or even their jobs to go behind their soul mate. Many go crazy thinking and experiencing the “love at first sight’. From time and again movies portray love in all forms. When the movie called ‘you’ve got a mail’ was released the horizon shifted from loving in real life to the internet online life. It opened up new vista’s to explore love even without seeing or touching one another.

Online love stories have increased since and if have the time just search for ‘online love stories and you will be spell bound at the numerous stories you find. Thus being in love is such a wonderful miracle worth living for. It opens up your heart sometimes rips it apart too, but love still lives on that wonderful hearty trop when you think of those loving moments still keep you alive and youthful.

"LOVE"

" L o v e ! "


A good relationship is not a game that we play or an ego trip we take. It is about love and two people. Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know but it can also hurt us more that we can ever believe. If we love someone we should be ready to experience not only happiness but heartache as well. That's the reward and risk that it takes. Unless we are willing to experience it, we will never really know what it's like to love and be loved.Sharing love is probably the most valuable and meaningful experience a person can ever have. And there is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. It's the difference between a love that's fickle, wild and short-lived and a love that's tender, passionate and lasting. The first is easy. The second, the one that really matters to us all, takes work ---- because it's about keeping the relationship.Loving someone takes efforts. We have to be able to communicate with each other. Nobody can read anyone else's mind. We always presume that our partner knows what we think and feel. Maybe in time we might be able to predict or sense each other's thoughts but it's never perfect and it takes time to develop.Getting the chance to love and be loved by someone is a blessing. Respect him/her for who he/she is, and not what you want him/her to be No one is perfect. It's true love that closes the gap of imperfectness to form a smooth surface of acceptance for each other. True love sees and accepts a person for who he/she is. It is also true love that makes a person change for the better.Although the power of true love is undeniable, a relationship needs commitment too. What is love without commitment from each other anyway? It's like principles and values. Everyone has them but they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for them. The same goes for our commitments to relationships and to the person we love. "Love is like an antique vase. It's hard to find, hard to get, yet easy to break."Everyday, everywhere...people fall in love. But just how many of these relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling in love? I know hundreds of friends who say the magical words "I love you"...but more often that not, the truth is just --- I am IN love with you. There is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. If a person says he/she is in love with you, he/she means that he/she likes you for who you are now and he/she fell in love with you because of the present you. This kind of love is temporary and will only lasts as long as the fairytale lasts. When fairy godmother comes in at night to whirl us back in reality, we see the heartache of such a relationship. But if a person says he/she loves you, he/she means that he/she loves you unconditionally for who you are now, who you were you in the past and who you might be in the future. When he/she says he/she loves you and really means it, you have to ask yourself if you love him/her too or if you are only in love with the idea of being in love. It is very hard to see the difference through logical thinking. May you be blessed on your soul-mate searching journey.

Author Unknown.......................

TRUST..."It takes years to build trust and a few seconds to destroy it"VALUE..."What is most valuable is not what you have in your life but who you have in your life".

MONEY..."Money can buy everything but happiness".
DON'T HURT ANYBODY..."It only takes a few seconds to hurt people you love, and it can take years to heal".

LIVE TODAY...There are two eternities that can break you down. Yesterday and Tomorrow. One is gone and the other doesn't exist... So live today".

MARRIAGE...Do not marry a person that you know that you can live with; only marry someone that you cannot live without".

SHARERS..."A successful relationship is not built on givers and takers only, but on people who also become sharers".

"Unsaid words,what they does'nt say,says it all"

Listen For Love


There are times when we are timid and shy about expressing the love we feel. For fear of embarrassing the other person, or ourselves, we hesitate to say the actual words "I love you." So we try to communicate the idea in other words. We say 'take care' or 'don't drive too fast' or 'be good.'

But really, these are just other ways of saying 'I love you,' 'you are important to me,' 'I care what happens to you,' 'I don't want you to get hurt.' We are sometimes very strange people. The only thing we want to say, and the one thing that we should say, is the one thing we don't say. And yet, because the feeling is so real, and the need to say it is so strong, we are driven to use other words and signs to say what we really mean. And many times the meaning never gets communicated at all and the other person is left feeling unloved and unwanted.

Therefore, we have to LISTEN FOR LOVE in the words that people are saying to us. Sometimes the explicit words are necessary, but more often, the manner of saying things is even more important. A joyous insult carries more affection and love within the sentiments which are expressed insincerely. An impulsive hug says I LOVE YOU even though the words might be saying very different. Any expression of a person's concern for another says I love you.

Sometimes the expression is clumsy, sometimes even cruel. Sometimes we must look and listen very intently for the love that it contains. But it is often there, beneath the surface. A mother may nag her son constantly about his grades or cleaning his room. The son may hear only the nagging, but if he listens carefully, he will hear the love underneath the nagging. His mother wants him to do well, to be successful. Her concern and love for her son unfortunately emerge in her nagging. But it is love all the same.

A daughter comes home way past her curfew, and her father confronts her with angry words.The daughter may hear only the anger, but if she listen carefully, she will hear the love under the anger. "I was worried about you," the father is saying. 'Because I care about you and I love you. You are important to me.' We say I love you in many ways - with birthday gifts, and little notes, with smiles and sometimes with tears. Sometimes we show our love by just keeping quiet and not saying a word, at other times by speaking out, even brusquely. We show our love sometimes by impulsiveness. Many times we have to show our love by forgiving someone who has not listened to the love we have tried to express.

The problem in listening for love is that we don't always understand the language of love which the other person is using. A girl may use tears or emotions to say what she wants to say, and her boyfriend may not understand her because he expects her to be talking his language. Thus, we have to force ourselves to really listen for love. The problem with our world is that people rarely listen to each other.

They hear the words, but they don't listen to the actions that accompany the words or theexpression on the face. Or people listen only for rejection or misunderstanding. They do not see the love that is there just beneath the surface, even if the words are angry. We have to listen for love in those around us. If we listen intently we will discover that we are a lot more loved than we realize. Listen for love and we will find that the world is a very loving place, after all.

LOVE is a happy thing. It makes us laugh. It makes us sing. It makes us sad. It makes us cry. It makes us seek the reason why. It makes us take. It makes us give. Above all else it makes us LIVE. It is not the presence or absence of people that makes the difference because a person need not be lonely even if he is alone.

Sometimes it is good to be alone. But that does not make us lonely. It is not a matter of being present WITH someone. It is a matter of being present TO someone. So remember ... If you love someone, tell them. Remember always to say what you mean. Never be afraid to express yourself. Take this opportunity to tell someone what they mean to you.

Seize the day and have no regrets. Most importantly, stay close to your friends and family, for they have helped make you the person that you are today and are what it's all about anyway.Let it make a difference in your day and theirs. The difference between expressing love and having regrets is that the regrets may stay around.

"In this Modern Society there are still hopeless romantic left"

Do you still believe in true love?
That there is someone made for you?

"God is so good that he have good plans for each of us,just keep on believing that one day you will find the love of your life."

"That will leave an indelible marked in your heart that would last for a lifetime...no matter what happens,you know that this person own a space in your heart.Never will be forgotten & Always be remembered. "

"True love is not being afraid to loose because truelove is kind even this means to set your love free.Because your true happiness is based to see this person happy... "

"I'm proud to shout & let the world know that i'm one of the few hopeless romantic that is left on this World."

When i was a child i was always dreaming to find my prince,it sounds hypotetical...to others they think i'm hallucinating & in denial to face the real world that there is no such thing as a fairytale story that can happen in real life.Who cares!!!this is my life,i will live it the way i want it to...i really don't care what other people think.

Maybe for the eyes of others i'm a loser but they are wrong bec. they who deprive themselves to dream to achieve the true happiness that will give them the satisfaction & fulfillment in life are the true losers.Because they live their lives to satisfy the expectations of others.

It's like your making your life a theatrical play that is being scripted so you could amused the audience,but the fact is our life is not a play so why not live it as you want it to be,we own our lives...we have a choice to choose how to run our lives don't let anyone control your life.You'll be living ones life is too short so make the most out of it.

I had found my true love & i'm sure about it,I had relationships before but i had never had this feeling before because when you find your true love you will be inspired by that person & if you are not meant to end up with each other you will still be happy for that person,you know in your heart that there is a space that only this person can occupy even you would love again you know in yourself that you cannot love anybody greater than the love you had for this person your TRUELOVE.


"The meaning of true love"


Love is both pleasure and pain, joy and sorrow. It has long been held that what you can love, can hurt you, in almost equal reciprocity. The more you love, the more you can get hurt. The more you love, the more you stand to lose.

Yet the point of love is not to clam up, to refrain from ever loving. Each and every person has the potential to love so deeply, so strongly, with such passion and intimacy, with romance, and to receive back the joy of that same love. The truth is, the joy of love is so much greater than joy that can be derived elsewhere

Money does not give joy. Material wealth does not give joy. It gives convenience, yet often takes away love. How many rich people seek so hard and far for love, yet never find it. Sex does not give joy, unless it is enjoyed as a part of love. Loveless sex would make one feel as empty as a broken earthernware pot.

Love is given to be reciprocated, because in that reciprocity lies its joy and pleasure. If you love someone who does not love you back, you will know sorrow, sadness, perhaps anger and frustration.( Think now of how the Lord God would feel.) Yet if you love, and have that love given back, you would bask in that light, and feel the immense value of love.

Yet in all the love we hold, we must never lose that child-like innocence that God granted us when we were born. Through life, we may love deeply, and often be hurt with rejection, feel sorrow and anger. But never be afraid to love, because only then can we find the one true love of a lifetime.

Love is more than that. It is trust and belief, flavoured with romance and passion and intimacy, tempered with time experience and wisdom, and left to stew, ages well with time to taste of a fine bouquet that never runs dry.

Yet in all my studies and years of work, I have met many who have married and settled down happy, and when alone, many will tell me of a sweetheart from long ago, when often youthful foolishness and fiery temper would lose them the one true love of a lifetime. They may have married, they may be happy, but they have lost one irreplaceable thing, true love. Hence, I beg you, don`t do anything to endanger the one thing that is priceless.

Hence I wish you true love, the one thing that is priceless, yet given freely, the one thing that may be so difficult to find, yet when find will prove so bountiful, the one thing in your life which means trust and belief, delicious beyond anything else. That you will not give up before your find your true love, I wish you.

"LEARN TO TRUST AGAIN"

"I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to be earned by the other person, when in all actuality it is something that comes from within yourself. All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are searching for... yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that 'right' person, it makes all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk. All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful... even when they seem so at the time. You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on.Nothing is worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad 'may' come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings. It's only my experience... and it's what I believe has given me the wonderful gift of 'true' love. It's a hard thing to do, a scary thing, but very much worth it. This is not to go without saying that some people may betray your trust... that's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong the pain by building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy? Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow. For everyone there is a someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life..."

"About LOVE,our deepest emotions"

What feels a person when is in love?
Nobody knows. Just like beauty, love is a mystery.

There are no words to express your feelings when you’re in love. But I know only one thing: When you’re in love, a strange feeling seizes your heart. A feeling that can not be described by words. A feeling that brings you happiness but makes you wonder: Does he love me? This new question comes to your mind because your feelings are not clear. You don’t have the courage to express your tender emotions to somebody, so you keep them inside. But fortunately there are some people who express their emotions clearly.And in love this is the right thing to do. So let me give you an advice: Express your emotions today, because tomorrow will be to late!

I know that this whole thing looks like a huge confusion which is very complicated but indeed it isn’t. It is something very natural and very spontaneous. Isn’t wonderful when you see him and your heart starts to beat quickly? Isn’t wonderful when you know that someone cares about you, loves you and you’re the reason he is living for? Of course it is. You feel like you’re not alone, like you have found the other half that was missing for so long. You feel completed and you’re attracted by someone who looks like he is perfect, but no one is. Don’t worry! Falling in love is the best thing that could happen to you.

What is love?

"Love is a funny thing". You expect it to be easy. You expect it to be a world of roses and laughs and perfect moments that you find only in movies. You expect him to always say the right thing, and always know exactly how you feel, or exactly how to react to it. You expect him to calm you down when you're yelling or to chase you when you run away. You expect so much that you feel entirely and utterly defeated when something doesn't exactly match up with all your plans. But that's the thing, love isn't a plan. It doesn't have a certain beginning and it certainly has no end or visible finish line to those deeply in it.

"Love happens; and it is so incredibly messy". People around you can't comprehend why you do the things you do, or why you fight so hard for something that seems to cause you so much pain, because simply, they can't see. They can't see the invisible ring of insanity that surrounds you when you're in love. It's inconvenient and painful and devastating at times, but we can't live without it. We can't breathe the same way or function quite right without it. See, that's the thing about love. You hold it up to all these images you've learned to attach to the word 'love' since you were little.

"We learn so many things about love before we are even capable of falling". Don't rush in, keep steady, prince charming will fix everything. What you don't learn is how hard love is. How much work it takes. How much of ourselves we have to put into it. How it isn't worth it until we are complete and utter idiots about it. Don't rush in? I practically dove with my eyes closed; fully aware that I had drowned before. "Love is a battlefield", never really made sense because it is contrary to everything we have been taught to believe how 'love' is supposed to be. But it is so entirely different. Love isn't him calming you down when you yell. It's him yelling, just as loud, just as hard, right back at you, and right in your face to wake you up and to keep you grounded. It isn't him bringing you roses everyday or pretty things that make your relationship appear more presentable. It's after a long fight, that drains the life and bones right out of you both, and yet him showing up at your door the next morning anyway. It's not him saying all the right things or knowing exactly how to handle you.

"We are human beings". We don't handle one another, and we can't be handled. We are mutable creatures that need something different everyday. Need something more or less to keep us going, to keep us believing that it's not all for nothing. So no, it's not him caressing your hair and telling you everything is going to be all right. It's him standing there, admitting he's just as scared as you are. You have to remember that with love, you're not the only one involved.
You've unknowingly put your life, your heart into the palms of another persons hands and said, here, do what you will. Mash it into mince meat, or forget I ever handed it to you. As long as you have it, that's the thing about love.

"It makes us crazy". It makes reality invisible and it erases all the lines that we shouldn't cross. Because love isn't about fencing ourselves in; feeling safe, feeling sure about the future. It's about scaring the life out of every nerve in our body, but pushing forward anyway. Because all the fighting, the tears, and uncertainty is worth it. And it's a hell of a lot better, than being one hundred percent happy without someone to show us that there is a world of a difference between feeling 'happy' and feeling whole.

The signs of love

1. Known how to make you smile when you are down.

2. Try to secretly smell your hair, but you always notice.

3. Stick up for you, but still respect your independence.

4. Give you the remote control during the game.

5. Come up behind you and put his arms around you.

6. Play with your hair.

7. His hand would always find your hand.

8. Be cute when he really wants something.

9. Offer you plenty of massages.

10. Dance with you, even if he feels like a dork.

11. Never run out of love.

12. Be funny, but know when to be serious.

13. Realize he's being funny when he needs to be serious.

14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.

15. React so cutely when you hit him and it actually hurts.

16. Smiles a lot.

17. Plans a romantic date full of things he wouldn't normally do because he knows it means a lot to you.

18. Appreciate you.

19. Help others out.

20. Drive five hours just to see you for one.

21. Always gives you a kiss when you leave, even when his friend are watching.

22. Sing, even if he can't.

23. Have a creative sense of humor.

24. Stare at you.

25. Call for no reason

26. You'll read his/her msn screen name over and over again...27. You'll walk really really slow while you're with him/her..

28. You'll feel shy whenever you're with him/her...

29. While thinking bout him/her...your heart will beat faster and faster...

30. By listening to his/her voice...you'll smile for no reason.

31. While looking at him/her..you cant see the other people around you...you can only see that person...

32. You'll start listening to SLOW songs.

33. He/She becomes all you think about.

34. You'll get high just by their smell...

35. You'll realize that you're always smiling to yourself when you think about them..

36. You'll do anything for him/her...

37. While reading this, there was one person on your mind the whole time.

"He will blessed for all those who seek,He will lead for those who follow bec. no one is Greater than God"

A window and pour out blessings that we won't have room to receivethem. I dare anyone to try God. He is true to His word. God cannot lieand His promises are sure. Three things will happen to you this coming week:

(1) You will find favour with someone you don't expect;
(2) You will be too relevant to be ignored;
(3) You will encounter God and you will never remain the same again.

My prayer for you today:

The eyes beholding this message shall not behold evil, the hands thatwill send this message to others shall not labor in vain, the mouth saying Amen to this prayer shall laugh forever. Remain in God's loves you send this prayer to everybody on your list. Have a lovely journey of life! Trust in the Lord with all your heart and He will never fail you because He is AWESOME !

If you truly need a blessing, continue reading this email: Heavenly Father, most Gracious and Loving God, I pray to you that you a bundantly bless my family and me. I know that you recognize, that a family is more than just a mother, father, sister, brother, husband and wife, but all who believe and trust in you.

Father, I send up a prayerrequest for blessings for not only the person who sent this to me, butfor me and all that I have forwarded this message on to. And that the power of joined prayer by those who believe and trust in you is more powerful than anything.

I thank you in advance for your blessings. Father God, deliver the person reading this right now from debt and debt's burdens. Release your Godly wisdom that I may be a good stewardover all that You have given me.

Father, for I know how wonderful and mighty you are and how if we just obey you and walk In your word andhave the faith of a mustard seed that you will pour out blessings. I thank you now Lord for the recent blessings I have received and for the blessings yet to come because I know you are not done with me yet. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen .

"In the end, what matters is not so much what you bought, but what you built; not so much what you got, but what you shared; not so much your success but your significance; not so much your competence, but your character; not so much what you said, but what you did."

How to get your man to happily commit to you

Knowing what a man wants and being aware of his apprehensions about commitment is the first step toward understanding what it takes to give a man what he wants from a relationship with you. When given a choice most people do what they want and what they believe is in their best interest.

A man will not commit to a relationship unless he is convinced he will get what he wants now, with reasonable expectations he will continue to do so in the future. Fortunately for women what men want includes a love interest, trust, emotional support and commitment, some of the same things women want.

So finding the way to a man’s heart might be easier than you think. A word of caution though; this does not relate to women who are fully aware that their chances of getting their man to commit are slim to none, such as:

1. Women who remained too long in relationships with men who do not have and never had any intentions to commit to them.
2. Relationships of convenience where the woman feels trapped, but is afraid to bring up the subject of commitment for fear of loosing the man forever.
3. The woman who gets the feeling the man is ready to commit possibly with someone else, but not to her.

These suggestions refer to relationships where men want to commit but are genuinely fearful. Pay little attention to the previously well-publicized strategies that promise to motivate your man to commit to you; they do not work and men are weary of them.

Anyway, if you have to coerce a man to commit to you, you are definitely with the wrong man. A man would not commit to a relationship unless he is ready. And sometimes the way he perceives you can give him that little psychological push he may need to help him to make up his mind.

Nine ways to win your man’s heart so he will want to commit to you

1.Be reasonably certain he is the kind of man with whom you would like to spend the rest of your life. The thought of commitment should not enter your mind unless you are convinced he is the one for you. You have to know him well enough to determine: He is able to commit; He possesses many of the qualities you’ve always looked for in a man; you can’t help but to respect and admire him; He has already passed your test for honesty, integrity and consideration for others, and you must be reasonably certain he is falling in love with you.

2.Always be who you are. And don’t be afraid to express yourself the way you’re accustomed to.This is probably the most important quality men look for in a woman. Ninety-nine percent of men in numerous surveys said so, and women whose character changed after marriage ranked number one on the list of causes for marriage break ups. Resist the urge to try to make a man feel important by conforming and not voicing your true opinions or laughing at his jokes when they are not funny. If for no other reason, consider the possibility he may be testing you

3.Show him you’re independent.Men are weary of women who sit back and wait for their men to fill every aspect of their lives. Let him know although you welcome his input in many ways, you are perfectly capable of doing things without him; in fact sometimes you prefer to do things on your own. For example you may want to see a certain movie, but he’s too busy to go with you. Instead of sulking, cheerfully tell him you’ll go by yourself, and do it.

Until he commits to you, do not make major changes in your life with a view of accommodating him. If you had plans to purchase your new condominium go ahead as if he was not in the picture. It may seem wise to hold off on your plans pending a commitment from him. Don’t, he may get the impression you’re not as independent as he thought. If you mention your plans to him do so only for the purpose of information and not as a means of forcing him to make a decision to commit to you. The purpose here is to genuinely show him that your life goes on with or without him.

4.Show him you are a kind and loving person.As surprising as it may seem, a man needs someone who loves him and whom he could love in return. This may seem obvious to many, but the more women are becoming empowered by their independence the more intolerant they are becoming with men who are slow to adapt. Men see these women as insensitive and most likely incapable of love. So in her own way a woman needs to show a man that although she is capable of going it alone, she has a burning desire to share love with the man in her life.

5.Show him you’re interested in him for who he is and not what he can do for you.I’ve asked men what would be the one thing they would like to know most about a woman before they marry her. Overwhelmingly men said “to be certain that the woman loved them for themselves and not as a means to an end. This is understandable.

No man likes to feel that a woman chose him because he is a good provider, a model citizen or a potentially good father; all of these things are also important to men. But a man is happier when he knows that his woman chooses him because he is her best friend; someone she would want by her side no matter what his situation may be.

So how do you let him know you want him primarily for the person he is?Show interest in his life, his likes and dislikes and his values. Talk about his career, but pay more attention of how personally rewarding it is for him instead of how economically lucrative it may be. Tell him what attracted you to him in the first place, e.g. “There was something about the way you smile”

6.Do not play games to get him to pursue you.Men are fully aware of the games some women play to get their attention. They may even be intrigued by the challenge and do whatever it takes to win you but may never commit to you.

Flirting with other guys to make him jealous or manipulating him so that he chases after you may seem to work for a while. But how could he trust you if he thinks you’re a manipulator. Even if he is fascinated by you, a man would be afraid to commit to a woman if he has the slightest doubt about her trustworthiness.

7.Let him know you have no intention of changing him.If a man feels committing to a woman will drastically change his lifestyle he will aggressively resist commitment even when he thinks he loves her. You don’t have to fit in every part of his life so even if there are some areas of incompatibility let him understand that you can compromise.

Let him know you have no objection to him spending a night watching football with his friends instead of being with you. Don’t make him feel that he has to make the best of his time now because his life would change (of course for the better) once you become a couple.

8.Always maintain your femininity with special emphasis on physical appearance.Men like women who can fit in with their friends; women who they feel can be almost like one of the boys. So having a great sense of humor, socializing without getting bogged down with too much detail makes you extremely desirable, but be careful; Men also want women who are particular about their femininity which includes being kind, loving, gentle and always conscious of their physical appearance.

So being one of the boys should not be confused with looking like them. And even though it may seem like men are not overly concerned with your looks, never let your guard down. Now we’re not talking catwalk model material here, but we expect you to look as if you’ve taken time with your appearance. This means using clothing that bring out your best qualities, maintain proper posture, (your mother was right) tastefully manicured hands and feet and regular use of mouthwash especially if you smoke or drink beer.

9. Don’t rush or appear to rush the relationship.You may think he is taking too long to make up his mind about you. Relax! This may be a good thing; maybe he wants to be certain he’s making a sound decision. Don’t give him the impression you’re impatient, cheerfully carry on with your normal routine. Don’t suggest he takes you to meet his parents or invite him to meet yours, unless he asks, it’s better to let him make such decisions on his own.

Remember your goal is to provide him with the information he needs to make up his mind and at the same time give him all the space he requires while doing so. And if you believe he’s truly the man for you and followed the suggestions outlined in this article, you would not have to wait very long.

Make your life meaningful by sharing it to others...

May there be a miracle in your life today & may you have the eyes to see it.

Here you will find an idea for a possible Act of Kindness that could truly make a difference in someone's life as well as in our world. Remember, kindness is contagious!

"Perhaps we're too embarrassed to change or too frightened of the consequences of showing that we actually care. But why not risk it anyway? BEGIN TODAY!"

"Carry out an act of kindness, with no expectation ofreward or punishment. Safe in the knowledge that one day, someone somewhere might do the same for you."

Share some new information that you may have learned about recently with someone else who would benefit from it. Thank you.

"Make your everyday a Valentine's Day"

"Soul Mates Navigate Differences"

I think that if soulmates exist, and I am not convinced they do or rather they do for everyone, BUT assuming they do, I think soulmates can navigate differences. It isn't the least bit important that they agree on anything but that they can still love, respect, and yes, even appreciate the differences of each other. I have dated a guy that was too much like me. There were advantages of that relationship but what I learned is that even though we were so much alike, we still could not navigate the very few, slight differences we had. I have come to the conclusion that differences never matter, it is what you do with those differences that matters. It is the differences of other people that cause us to grow. Differences also smooth out the edges on our own personalities. A good relationship changes people for the better or rather facilitates an evolution that is both spiritual and personality wise. It is the whole grain of sand/pearl thing.

"Soul Mates Come from God"

God is my soul mate. God plays the music and calls the dances. I'm dancing to God's tune. I can feel God's rhythm in my feet and the way the bass line resonates in my core. Now, I have a dance card. Right now, I can't read the names, but I have one. God filled it out with men who would make good parteners for me. If a dancer who is not listed tries to dance with me, we won't dance well because we are not suited. The men on the card will do well because God thinks that we would do well. Not that we would be flashy, but that we would enjoy dancing together. We would make that joyful noise.

"Soul Mates Have a Different Kind of Love"

I believe a soul mate is not necessarily a love interest. A soulmate is someone that will mirror you, show you everything that is holding you back...a person who will bring you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you will ever meet. They will come into your life to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then they leave.

"Soul Mates Complete Each Other"





My definition: Entering friendships/relationships for what one can put into them instead of what can be gained from them. NOT to find another who might complete you, but to have another with whom you might share completeness.

AIDS that has been a problem to the society,is not really a big deal at all!

The Problem is not the Disease itself,the real problem is the people who have it & aware that they had acquired AIDS & still spreading it.

I'm not convinced to the organizations that are funding the individuals who have AIDS,i don't say it is not right though but why not focus more on prevention,killing its roots will end the problem.

This will not be instant or magic but starting to act now will do a big difference,The cure is so SIMPLE but our society itself who makes things complicated.

THE CURE IS SO EASY PLAIN & SIMPLE:

HONESTY,if someone who have AIDS can be just honest & selfless they can stop spreading this disease that has been killing many people for so long & for what???LUST,SELFISHNESS.....no sense at all.

AIDS victims should see this as a blessing instead of a tragedy,to know that you are dying why not use your days protecting people for acquiring,so you can leave a legacy when you die.

You don't need to be appreciated by the whole world to make a difference to other people lives,knowing that you had changed even a single persons life to be better is one thing you can be proud of,or by not just spreading it...is already a big sacrifice you can do to your loved ones & to your country.

Be a hero & save other lives.Have the courage & be brave to face your fears.

Don't be ashamed for having AIDS,what is to be ashamed of is those who know that they are infected & keep spreading it.

Why look at it like it's the end of the world why not use it as an oppurtunity to open the eyes of the society.If you have done something meaningful you would not be thinking so much with your disease & you will be living the rest of your days happy & worthy!

SOULMATES,have you found yours?

************How to Identify your Soul Mate**************

Some people believe in soul mates and some do not, but typically those people who disbelieve are just the one’s who haven’t found their’s yet. Those who have met “The One”, however, don’t doubt the existence of soul mates. They know how reassuring it is to have found a partner that is everything they’d hoped for and a whole lot more….

So what is a soul mate, and most importantly, how do you know when you’ve met your’s? Here’s a list of clues:

*Strong attraction* – Most often it’s a person’s physical features that catch our attention first. This doesn’t mean we’re just all superficial beings…. It’s only natural for us to be drawn to those we find physically attractive.

*Good chemistry* — Some people simply mesh well together. They have that so-called “spark.” You know you have good chemistry with someone when you feel at ease around them and conversation comes easily. Soul mates are the people that can be together for 50+ years and STILL have not run out of things to talk about.

*Emotional connection* – You know you’ve met your soul mate when you miss them before they’re even gone. It’s someone you find yourself constantly daydreaming about. Ultimately, it’s that person with whom you can actually picture yourself having a future with - marriage, kids, growing old together….

*Bonding* – Sometime’s it during a dramatic moment that you discover that the person you’re dating is your soul mate. For example, you’re in an accident, and you’re partner is there for you 100% like no one else has ever been, and you know then and there that it’s true love.

*Acceptance* – No one in this world is perfect, but you know you’ve met your soul mate when you are able to acknowledge their good traits AND their bad traits. You accept those things and aren’t always trying to change them into someone they’re not.

*The one and only* — Perhaps the easiest sign to identify when you’ve met your soul mate is this — when you can’t picture yourself being with anyone else ever again. It’s when you know deep in your heart that this person fulfills everything that you could ever want or need in a life partner.

What do you know about pornography addiction?

Pornography Addiction

What are the result of PORNOGRAPHY in the society:

Open our eyes & analyze the true problems that we are encoutering in our daily lives.

1.PORNO in the net is accesible by anyone including the young,we should be responsible enough to in protecting our future.If you are an ordinary civilian you can contribute in preventing by not posing any indecent materials in the net.If everyone do this we can solve the root of our one major problems in the society.

Porno=crime

Porno=molestation/child abuse

Porno=unfaithfulness,betrayal,adultery

Porno=corruption

Porno=cheating

Porno=stealing

Porno=poverty

Porno=unhealthy lifestyle

Porno=poor moral,low self-esteem

Porno=pollutes our mind

Porno=greediness

Porno=exploiting

Porno-no fear in GOD

START the changed within in ourselves & we will make a big difference.

To be able to fix the problems in the society we must seek the solution & know what is the root of the problems of the society.Not just giving remedy in our dying future.Small act can make a big difference.

NO TO PORNOGRAPHY,NUDE IS NOT AN ART WHEN IT IS EXPLOITED...

2.If there is no market there will be no producer,if there is no merchandise there will be no buyer.

ALL I CAN SAY IS SEEK YOUR CONSCIENCE & IT WILL GUIDE YOU TO DO THE RIGHT THING!!!

" IF WE LIVE iN GOD,GOD WILL LIVE iN US."

What is Sex Addiction?

There are good "sex addiction" tests all over the web that can help you determine if you are addicted to sex in some form. We are not going to attempt to reproduce those here, but will offer this simple definition and challenge:

If your life is being controlled by your sexual desires and activities, instead of YOU being in control of them, then you have a sexual addiction.

Sex Addiction vs. Pornography Addiction:

Far and away the largest subset of men who are dealing with sexual addiction are dealing specifically with Internet pornography addiction. The Internet has brought many, many good things to our lives--but it has also enabled the anonymous, always-on, and affordable (often free) access to pornography.

If you sent a bottle of vodka to every home in America every week for a year, you would no doubt have a whole wave of alchoholics. The Internet has created a wave of pornography addicts with its pervasive porn delivery mechanism.

If you are a Christian man who is in this group, help yourself by starting the Pure Online program now and not putting it off another day.

Overcoming Pornography & Sex Addiction

Can I get help for my addiction? How do I get help? What specifically, can I do?

Sexual addiction and porn addiction are difficult topics to discuss, difficult to diagnose, and even more difficult to remove. One of the elements that makes sexual sin difficult to deal with in the life of a Christian man is that it is often covered by a layer of secrecy and shame.

Despite these difficulties, sexual sin can be conquered. If you desire to change, God can heal and bring restoration.

What do you need to do to recover from sexual sin?

There are many ways that men have successfully dealt with sexual sin in their lives. Most often, breaking a porn addiction involves some combination of God, real-world accountability, the incorporation of new disciplines, counseling, and hard work.

What are the key components in breaking addiction?

Clearly define the problem.One common element that we believe must be present in any recovery program is a clear definition of the problem. This includes gaining an understanding of how sexual addiction starts, how it is fueled, and the impact it has on us and the people we love.
Start with a Biblical foundation.It is vital for a Christian man that the solution be authored from a foundation that is Bible-based.

Sexuality and sprituality are tightly linked and trying to solve one without the other will prove futile. Understanding the problem from a biblical perspective will allow you to put in place a solution that is also centered around your faith.

Have a plan.No recovery program can remove sexual addiction overnight. Nor can any one plan solve every different kind of sexual addiction in every kind of man. But, for a plan to work, we believe that it must have clear, concise recovery steps that the participant can follow.

Take action.You won't finish something that you are afraid to start. Often the one thing that prevents a guy from getting help is that he has to tell someone he needs help. That process of disclosure is often perceived to be too painful, and so the problem just continues--and often escalates.

So whatever you do, find a course of action that you are able to start quickly--and in a confidential setting. Just like any cancer, early treatment can often mean better, faster, more thorough recovery.

"Miracles do happen in our daily lives even in the most simplest way,learn to appreciate small blessings bec. it will lead us to great miracles."

Miracles do happen when you least expected!

A miracle, derived from the old Latin word miraculum meaning "something wonderful", is a striking interposition of divine intervention by a supernatural being in the universe by which the ordinary course and operation of Nature is overruled, suspended, or modified. Although many religious texts and people confirm witnessing or prophesying various events which they refer to as "miraculous", it is disputed whether there are scientifically confirmed occurrences of miracles[1]. People in different faiths have substantially different definitions of the word "miracle". Even within a specific religion there is often more than one usage of the term.
Sometimes the term "miracle" may refer to the action of a supernatural being that is not a god. Thus, the term "divine intervention", by contrast, would refer specifically to the direct involvement of a deity.
In casual usage, "miracle" may also refer to any statistically unlikely but beneficial event, (such as the survival of a natural disaster) or even to anything which is regarded as "wonderful" regardless of its likelihood, such as birth. Other miracles might be: survival of a fatal illness, escaping a life threatening situation or 'beating the odds'