"Knowing Your Partner"

Know your Partner:

1. Observe your partner in different situations

Find opportunities for your partner to socialize with your family, friends and colleagues so you can learn his/her behaviour in different social contexts.

2. Observe how your partner handles stress

See how your partner reacts in the face of tough decisions and stress.

3. Develop opportunities for your partner to open up

Ask questions during conversations to help you understand him/ her better. (E.g. Ask your partner about his/her childhood, thoughts, opinions, on things, etc.)

4. Take an interest in your partner’s emotional & physical health

Find out how your partner is feeling and be sensitive to those feelings. Knowing about his/her interests, family and cultural background can help you understand more about his/her social and emotional condition and physical health.

Know Yourself


To develop a meaningful relationship as a married couple, you need to know yourself as well as your partner in order for the both of you to learn to grow together.

Know Yourself

Steps to understanding and accepting yourself:

1. Self-reflection

Identify your values and priorities.
Identify your expectations and views.
Recognize your skills and abilities.
Recognize your likes and dislikes.
Recognize your strengths and weaknesses.
Recognize your preferences and prejudices.
Identify the significant events that shape you.
Identify the relationships that influence you.
Identify what is important to you (e.g. ambition).
What do you think of yourself?
What do others think of you?

2. Self-disclosure

Share your thoughts and feelings with others verbally.

3. Feedback from others

Be open to what people say about you.
Learn from mistakes and grow as a person.
Be in touch with your feelings.

Build Your Relationship

When your martial relationship is developed to its full potential, it is immensely satisfying and enriching for both of you.

Ways to develop your relationship:

1. Building trust

Confide and share with each other your hopes and fears. This helps create and maintain an atmosphere of trust, love and sensitivity in which both of you can learn more about each other.

2. Sharing confidences

Sharing your inner thoughts and feelings with each other will bring your relationship beyond the superficial level. It will also help you be sensitive to the needs and aspirations of your partner.

3. Handling differences

Understand the differences between you and your partner and learn to accept them. You should also define your roles and expectations early so that conflicts won’t arise later on.

4. Resolving disagreements

Be constructive when you deal with disagreements and don’t put each other down. Try seeing the positive value of being different.

Phases of a Marital Relationship


The marital relationship goes through predictable phases. While not everyone goes through these phases and they may not flow from one to another, understanding them prepares you to adapt to the changes and keep the relationship going.

1. The honeymoon phase

This stage is marked by ecstasy, fun, excitement, romance, charm and a preoccupation with your spouse. It usually fades as the marriage progresses.

2. The disenchantment phase

As you struggle with your spouse to resolve the conflicts that come with living together as a married couple, there will be some loss of marital bliss. This usually occurs when bringing up young children who demand a lot of care, attention and adjustments.

3. The reality phase

Couples who reach this stage have more or less settled down in their role as parents. You will have learnt to work out problems and frustrations with your spouse and accepted mutual responsibility in the relationship.

4. The maturity phase

You will have adapted to your spouse and developed a good understanding of each other. Your children will likely be of school-going age and family relationships are quite stable.

5. The golden phase

You and your spouse are likely to be retired and your children should have left school at this stage. You may have to relate to adult children, as well as sons and daughters in-law. You will also have to deal with taking care of each other in your old age and coming to terms with separation, loss and death.

Putting Passion In To Your Marriage

"Happily ever after","til death do us part", "endless love"-these are all phrases we recognize and can probably relate to in our marriage relationship. But what do they all mean? Read them again. All of these phrases refer to one thing- a long, long, long life together. As newlyweds we feel giddy, excited, passionate, so in love, romantic and turned on by one another, constantly. But what happens after 5 years? After 10, 20, 30 years? Well, some may say, it gets boring and stale. Some may say it always gets old or everyone ends up in adultery or divorce. This is just not true. Most people who are married WANT to be, but they don't always know how to keep the home fires burning. Perhaps the fire has dwindled down to simply smoldering or even ashes, but any marriage can return to a blazing hot fire in no time. Here are some suggestions:


Be romantic. That's easy said, but what does it mean? It can mean a lot of things. Mostly it means keep your partner in mind first and foremost. Think of his/her needs above your own. This will always lead to romantic gestures because putting your spouse's needs before your's causes thoughtfulness.


Use your imagination. Being romantic means kissing hello and goodbye every day, saying I love you often, lots of hugs, leaving love notes in his briefcase or on the bathroom mirror, drawing him/her a bubble bath, taking a bubble bath by candle light with him! Surprising him/her with coffee or breakfast in bed, bringing home flowers, writing a love poem about him/her and reading it to them, just sweet little things that say, "I care". Buy him something special for no reason.


Another big way to heat things up is in the bedroom. First of all, talk about it. Talk about sex?! Not just about sex, about YOUR sex! It may feel awkward at first, but it is very exciting and it makes you feel closer and want each other even more, plus when you know what the other likes, dislikes and wants, you can meet each others' needs better. And don't just talk, listen to one another. Dump the criticisms and (oh my, dare I say it...) name calling. "I told you so's" are OUT!


Date your spouse. You might say, "What do you mean, date my spouse? I'm married to him/her." Setting dates with your spouse will keep you feeling young and excited again.


In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, its easy to get lost in the jungle of life. If you want to relight the romance in you marriage, follow some of these suggestions, and your marriage will be on its way to a heatwave!

"All about Marriage"

Marriage

The decision to get married is probably one of the most important life decisions you will ever make. You would naturally want everything to go well. The information below seeks to help you and your partner "breeze" through the path towards marriage. All the best in your new life journey ahead! A memorable wedding, a happy marriage and a perfect home are things all couples dream of. However, this can’t be achieved through love and romance alone. Serious commitment and hard work is needed as well. The key to a happy and healthy marriage involves developing your relationship with your partner and knowing each other well enough to understand how you want to share your lives together. It is also important to develop necessary skills, such as communication, parenting, financial and time management skills, in order to create a successful marriage.

Are you ready for marriage?.

Questions you should ponder:

Is this person right for me?
Am I right for this person?
Qualities that make good partners:

Capacity for love
Ability to understand the feelings of others
Responsible
Secure
Economically stable
Similarity in religious faith
Similarity in family background
Similarity in lifestyle and outlook of life

Why do you want to marry?.

It is important that you enter marriage with realistic expectations.

Some reasons why people marry:
- To enjoy lifelong companionship and mutual support
- To have a sense of fulfillment in being married
- To meet sexual & physical needs
- To have children

Wrong reasons to marry:
- To escape family problems
You may find that family problems are not resolved by marriage.
- To escape feelings of loneliness or insecurity
You may be disappointed as both these feelings may also be experienced in marriage.
- Being pressured into marrying by friends or family
This is not a good enough reason for getting married.
- Fear of being ‘left on the shelf’
This is not a sufficient reason for marriage.
- Premarital pregnancy
You need to deal with the pregnancy separate from marriage.

Marriage Readiness Checklist.

Discuss with your partner if you agree or disagree on the following questions:

1. How is our relationship?

We can talk easily with each other
We can deal with conflicts satisfactorily
We feel loved and accepted by each other
We know and have met each other’s family
2. Are we ready financially?

At least one of us has a stable job
We have savings for the wedding
We are financially independent
Marriage is lifetime commitment, so it is important that you are adequately prepared for it. Ponder carefully over your reasons for wanting to get married to be sure that you are ready to take the plunge.

Marriage Preparation Courses.

Marriage Preparation Courses help to prepare you and your partner for your journey. Both of you can expect to learn about the following interesting and enriching topics:

Marriage roles and responsibilities
Finance management
Sexual intimacy
Conflict management
Communication
Relationship with in-laws
Knowing each other and family-of-origin issues
Personality tests (optional) to gain a deeper understanding of each other. Eg. Taylor-Johnson Temperament Analysis (T-JTA), Myer-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), PREPARE inventory

How to Be a Great Husband

This is the most challenging and rewarding things you'll ever do. A woman needs to feel as though she is the love of your life.

Steps

1. Enjoy pleasing her. Women need to feel appreciated. Verbal appreciation goes a long way in making a woman feel valued. A wife likes to know that you feel lucky to be married to her.
2. Have as your goal for each small interaction of your day, to leave her with a good feeling. Be supportive. Be considerate. Be kind. Be respectful at all times.
3. Try to understand her needs. Ask her what they are and show her that you fully understand what makes her happy. A woman likes nothing more than an understanding and an equally compromising husband.
4. Tell her you love her when you hang up the phone with her, leave her, and generally as much as possible without being annoying or cheapening the phrase. You never know when your time is up so always remember to make sure she knows how much you love her!
5. Always greet your wife with a hug and kiss that says that you're happy to see her and do the same when you leave her to say you will miss her.
6. Find new ways to express your love other than with kisses and the words "I love you." Tell her what you love about her, what makes her special, what you appreciate. This will help your love to grow as well as hers.
7. Be her greatest supporter. Be someone she knows that she can always count on. Be there for her when she has had a long day. Listen to her with attentive eyes and ears. Back her up "100" percent! Be prepared to talk with her about how she feels, and yes, how you feel too. And always protect her, both physically and emotionally. If you have done something to hurt her, even if you didn't mean to, tell her you are sorry and show her affection. This must be sincere! There's nothing worse than an "I;m sorry that is put on or phoney.
8. Talk to her about things that interest you, too -- don't worry too much that she'll be bored -- she'll be thrilled that you want to share your hobbies with her. If possible, try to find an aspect of your interest that she can join in with (if she doesn't already). The efforts you make to help her enjoy what you enjoy will pay off enormously!
9. Nurture your wife. Little things go a long way! For example, making breakfast, making her coffee/cocoa, giving her back rubs; anything to make her feel comfy and loved. Remind her that you find her attractive in different ways. #Understand that your personal relationship should be more important to you than your other family members, work etc. This is especially true in blended families where there is a tendency for parents to defend their kids against their new spouse. If you put your kids ahead of your wife, she will never engage with them and they won't respect either of you. She is your partner in all things. Treat her as such. If you're worried about looking independent in front of them, then talk with your wife and set clear expectations about what decisions you can make without each other, and what decisions must absolutely be discussed. But also, ask yourself why you feel you should look independent instead of married. It may not be hard to say "Let me talk this over with my other half".
10. Wash the dishes! Don't make her nag you into doing your share of the housework. Identify what your share is and then stick to it regularly. Don't wait for her to remind you. This makes her feel like a nag, and it creates an adult/child relationship. Show her she can count on you to get things handled, especially the more labor intensive things like mowing the lawn. Keep up the house in good repair. Generally, women like their homes to look nice, particularly from the outside.
11. Don't show her even the mildest forms of contempt. Contempt is poison in a relationship. You don't have to act like you like what she said or did, but do not take on an attitude of superiority, even subtly in passing, such as momentary smirking, sighs of disgust or eye-rolling. Such gestures, though seemingly insignificant, deeply show a lack of support, respect and trust, especially over a period of time. The way you naturally act towards her should subtly validate her as a person, even when you do not understand or agree with her. Giving eye contact when she has something important to tell you shows respect; not giving eye contact shows disrespect and that you don't care about her or what she has to say. This will destroy any attempt to communicate well.
12. Be honest! Nothing will destroy a relationship faster than dishonesty. Even if its a little lie, an attempt to conceal pieces of information, avoiding telling her everything or not telling her where you're going or where you've been, it causes a disconnection. There can be no intimacy without complete honesty. You both feel it. It can utterly destroy the validity of anything else you say or do for her because if you lie about other things, she will surely not believe you when you say "I love you." So, don't lie. Always tell her the whole truth.

[edit] Tips

• When she's upset, listen, listen, listen. Resist the urge to offer advice unless she asks for it, and don't get defensive. Just listen, and show her that you are trying to understand.
• Husbands and Wives live together but make sure you spend enough time on her turf as you do your own. Make her see that wherever you are you feel like home when you are with her.
• Women love a home-cooked meal. Find your inner Jacques Pépin.
• Offer your wife a massage, foot rub, or back scratch when she's had a bad day.
• Praise your wife in public, but if you notice something you'd like to criticize, please find a private moment. In public make sure everyone around you knows she is your girl! Hold hands whenever possible, kiss, hug, a tap on the butt. To her you are letting everyone know you're off the market.
• A nice romantic gesture goes a long way! Even if it's a little love note to start the day. Light some candles, run a hot bath, wash her hair. These are just a few ideas.
• Be aware that she may not perceive love the same way you do. Quality Time, Gifts, Physical Touch, Verbal Affirmation, and Acts of Service are the different "Love Languages" you and your wife might have -- make sure you find out what hers is, and speak her "love language"!
• Show up at her work or home with just a flower or two; this will brighten her day and you will make her feel like she is the most important woman in the world.
• Discuss your values together and make sure that they are compatible before doing something permanent.
• Discuss your financial dreams together and research and plan to achieve them together.
• Continue spending time with her alone and cherishing her.
• Tell her you find her attractive and why.
• Never compare her to other women and never ogle them in front of her. In fact if you're tempted, switch your thoughts to her immediately and remind yourself that she is the one you desire.
• Always validate her feelings. Women often need to run through the gamut of feelings they have about things out loud in order to understand what it is they really feel about something. Let her do this without judging her and be empathetic instead of defensive or critical even if you don't agree or can't understand things the same way.
• Discuss her strengths.
• Make sure you continue to grow and change; you may drift apart, but you may also become a better and more exciting person with each growth spurt you undergo.

CLUELESS GROOM?!?

10 things you need to know about getting married

1) Propose to someone with a good sense of humor. She'll need it.
2) It doesn't matter how much you spend on an engagement ring, as long as it's way more than you can afford.
3) She will not promise to "obey" you. Don't ask.
4) Have at least one good argument about a detail of your wedding plans, just to show you care.
5) When you lose this argument, lose graciously.
6) Carry a handkerchief during the ceremony. Wedding gowns don't have pockets.
7) In your wedding toast, make sure to thank your wife, your parents and her parents.
8) Have at least one glass of water between every drink at your reception, and don't forget to eat something.
9) Don't forget to pack birth control for your wedding night.
10) Nothing will be perfect. Not your ceremony, not your reception, not your wife, not your children and certainly not you. Expect perfection and you guarantee disappointment. Embrace imperfection, and you open yourself to all manner of happy surprises.

I have found my PERFECT MAN & I'm very proud of him there is no one else can replace him in my heart

Top 13 Things Women Want in a Man

You may think that women want someone who is buffed and tanned and looks like a bodybuilder model from GQ. Those things are nice and yes we like to look at those guys, but just like you don't need for us to look like Victoria Secret models we don't require it in our man. OK. The 13 most important qualities that women look for in a man are:

1. Honesty

2. Intelligence

3. Nice Smile

4. Sense of Humor

5. Manners

6. Sensitivity

7. Sincerity

8. Gainfully employed

9. Has own place

10. Owns a car

11. Affectionate

12. Considerate

13. Thoughtful

OK. First things first. Honesty is the NUMBER ONE trait that women look for in a man. That doesn't mean to be brutally honest and tell her she looks fat. (Never do that) but we want to know that we can trust that what you are telling us is the truth. If you've lied in the past it will be a very cold day in Hell before she trusts you again. And she may want to check your phone messages and read your email and call you 10 times a day to feel secure that you're trustworthy again. You may not like that but if you lie it may be the price you have to pay.

Intelligence: Women want to feel safe and protected and we want our men to be smart. Maybe even smarter than us. Women feel that your brain is your sexiest organ. So dazzle us with your brain and you will be surprised how stimulated we become. Kick her ass at "Jeopardy" and watch what happens.

Smile: We love your smile. We can't get enough of it. It makes us want to touch you and kiss you. So brush and floss and see your dentist and keep your mouth kissably fresh.
Sense of Humor: If you can keep us laughing you are golden. We love to laugh and we love a man who can make us laugh. This goes back to the smart thing as well. You have to be smart to be humorous. We like a man who's humor challenges us. Leave that 3 Stooges stuff for the guys. Women don't appreciate 12 year old juvenile humor.

Manners: Little things like manners are very important. Women don't want their man to drive up and reach over from the driver's seat and open the passenger door or just wait for us to open the door. A little old fashioned chivalry goes a long way. Escort the lady to the car and open the door for her. We love to be treated like queens. It makes us feel like you think we're special. And hopefully you do think she's special. We love a man with manners. We know we can take him home and our parents will love him. We don't want to have to worry about what you might do or say. We want to be with a man not a boy. That means no farting, belching, toe or nose picking, spitting, or smacking your lips when you eat. We want to know we can take you in public and we won't be embarrassed. And don't forget we also like to show you off to our girlfriends and we want them to approve. You want the girlfriends to think you're a "Keeper".

Sensitive: That whole thing about being "Sensitive" and getting in touch with your "Feminine Side" are all very true. A woman is waaaay more attracted to a man who isn't afraid to show his feelings and be gentle and sensitive. We actually think that makes you more manly. A man who clams up and thinks being macho is what we want is very wrong. One of the things that is extremely attractive to a woman is when it's obvious that you are attracted to us. There is nothing hotter than seeing how much we turn you on. Don't be afraid to show
that. But of course there are limits and this can easily be overdone. Be careful about showing things like that at work or you might find yourself in a sexual harassment situation. And if you decide to try to tip your hand to a woman and show your interest, remember to keep it subtle. No woman likes a STALKER or a HORNDOG! We love to know that we are getting to you, but not in an obnoxious way. You may have to make some changes in
your behavior. But of course, they'll be changes for the better and you will most likely be happier for it.

Sincerity: This is a little like honesty, but what I mean is if you need to change some of your behaviors to be more attractive to women then don't just do it to get the girl. This is something that has to be real. If you think that's not you, then maybe you should think about making a change. You can decide you don't want to change, that you like yourself the way you are, but if that was working for you then you probably wouldn't be reading this article. You were drawn to this piece because you must truly want to know how to be better with
women and if you sincerely do then you may need to take an honest look at yourself and decide what you want because it has to be real.

Employed: OK. This is a no-brainer, but truthfully there are some men out there without jobs that think they can get all the women they want. I have no idea what makes them think that, but their egos are on overtime. Women need security and we want a man who can provide for us. That doesn't mean we don't want to work, but it does mean that we want to know that you are a responsible MAN.

Has Own Place: OK. Matthew McConaughey was really cute in Failure to Launch but that was a comedy. Seriously we don't want to have a sleepover at your Mom's house. Having your own place just shows us again that you are a responsible adult. And it does help if your place is decorated nicely. I don't mean you have to hire a decorator, but we're not drawn to frathouse chic. Impress us with your style. Again we want MEN not BOYS!

Has Own Car: This may not be important if you live in New York or in a place where the public transportation makes owning a car unnecessary but in most of the world you need a car to pick up your date and take her out. It is important to mention here that even though we love luxury cars we don't need that in our man. Women love men with all kinds of cars, but FYI keep your car clean (especially the inside). Nothing says SLOB more than a dirty car. Take out the fast food wrappers and keep it neat and smelling nice.

Affectionate: We really do love to touch and be touched. And I am not talking sexually here. But try holding her hand when she's not expecting it or gently rubbing her back. Little touchy things like that mean a lot. Rub her arm when you're reading the paper or do little things like foot and hand massages. Women love that.

Be Considerate: We appreciate the little things like holding a door open or not walking ahead of us. If we're sleeping make sure you turn out the light when you leave. Show her you care by picking up after yourself. When you get some dessert out of the fridge ask if she'd like some or make sure you leave some for her. Just basic consideration is so important to us.

Thoughtfullness: This may sound like consideration, but it goes a little further. Being thoughtful of her needs goes a long way. Maybe give her a call from work just to see how she's doing. While we love that we don't want to be smothered with a bunch of calls all day long. Bring something home for her when you go to the store, like some fresh flowers (I know that's cliché, but that's because it works) or maybe some of her favorite ice cream...just because. This shows us that you are thinking of us and that makes us feel important and special.

Those 2 words important and special should be burned into your brain. If you can always make a woman feel important and special you will be an irrisistable Chick Magnet.


As most of you guys already know, there are many different types of women out there in the dating pool. Some women are really easy to approach, get to know and pretty much will date anyone who asks her. Maybe her standards are low, her self esteem not the greatest or she just needs constant attention from other men to feel worthwhile.

Most women I know are not this way, but rather are VERY selective about who they will and will not date. The problem is, at a distance, this can look very snobby and aloof, and often friends of mine who are actually the warmest people I know, have the reputation of being cold and distant. ALL of my friends constantly talk about meeting a great guy, so it's certainly not that they don't want you to approach them.

It's just that, most BEAUTIFUL women have a really high standard of how they want to be treated by their man, and who it is that they want to get intimate with, and usually, it has a lot less to do with things like looks, money or status than you guys think. Here are the 3 keys to the kingdom of that beautiful woman you've had YOUR eyes on for a while, but have been too afraid to approach.

1)Feed her MIND. A woman wants to be intellectually nurtured. Challenged. STIMULATED. Do you want to really turn on your girl? SHARE a book with her. Something smart. And old.....Beautiful women LOVE men who read...and can teach her new things. The mind is most easily stimulated organ in a woman's body. Learn to master this and you will unlock the kingdom worth far more than it's weight in gold.
2)Feed her SPIRIT. Understand the pure essence of EROS and the divine spark that emanates from a secret place deep down in the female form....Women have a FAR more sensitive spiritual connection than most of our male counterparts.There is a luminous and incandescent radiance that yearns to be recognized and embraced by a beautiful woman, and for most men, these are words and concepts that are foreign to their ears, lips and hearts. Open YOURSELF up to the ever present SPIRITUAL desires of your woman. Learn them. And you will be the master he who is worshipped by 1000 women, until your spirit is captured by the heart of one.
3)Feed her BODY. Learn the secrets of a woman's body....how to touch..WHERE to touch and when..Learn the movements and the magic and the moments of bliss and desire. Learn her facial expressions and how to read her body language..A woman's body, in the right hands should be played like a fine INSTRUMENT of love and lust...In the wrong hands, a fiddle at a bad karaoke country music bar in Peoria. KNOW and LEARN the nuances of the woman's body and you WILL receive infinite pleasure beyond that of mere moral men.
And of course there are far, far more intimate secrets and pleasures to learn as well - but if you want to make her melt, and be and open book for your review....You will get started with these 3 simple studies. Trust me, you will thank me later!

What Do Women Want? Learn the Little Known Qualities Which Every Woman Wants in Her Man

So what do women want? This is the question which has been raised time and again but the true answer is not known yet. Do women want money? Do they desire looks? What is it exactly that women want? Read on to discover some of the little known qualities every woman desires in her man.

Looks don't count- Looking good does not always have to be exceptionally good looking but looking neat and presentable. As long as you are neat and presentable any woman would be happy to initiate a conversation with you. Therefore the age old myth that looks count is only a myth and not a fact.

Do you always pour your heart out- Well it can be good if you are talking to someone who is flooded with emotions but women like men who are mysterious and are hard to figure. If you are an open book and tell the story of your life on the very first conversation you have with any woman than forget about getting a date and work on your attitude.

Are you emotionally ill? - Some guys are very high on emotions and look for female company just to satisfy their emotional needs to be around a woman. Women always try their best to stay away from such men. Yes women are emotional but the do not prefer men who are emotional specially cry babies.

How much control can you practice? - Women like a man who can control them and the situation and behave like a true leader. You don't want to fall into the nice guy category as they are the most used and abused one's when it comes to dating. Learn to stay in total control and don't let her dominate. Remember if she dominates you she gets the power to dump you.

Tell stories and draw her in- Women love men who are good at communication specially the one's who are great with story telling and can keep them entertained. Communication is an extremely essential part and women prefer men who can talk and talk some sense. Not all men are blessed with this power but you can easily master it with time and practice. Make it a point to read and listen as much as possible. Study the way other people talk and dictate and try to follow the same.

Principles Making Marriage Last

The Eight Principles That Make a Relationship Work


Things that should be done to your partner

Criticism - Attacking the person instead of stating how you feel about the troublesome behavior.

Defensiveness - High tension and lack of listening when discussing.

Contempt - Lack of respect and sarcasm in response to or about your partner.

Stonewalling - Emotional shutdown and unresponsiveness in response to attempts to communicate, especially about areas of conflict.

Back Stubbing-Saying bad things when your partner is not around

Habitual Lying- Frequent lying to cover up the mistakes committed

Doubtful-Untrusting attitude towards your partner,lack of openess in all aspects.


5 positives to 1 negative
The presence of marital conflict that gets resolved.
The seven principles are outlined below and can be read about in more detail in Dr. Gottman’s book, The Seven Principles That Make Marriage Work.


Principle 1
Enhance your love map
Develop a sense of the other’s joys, likes, dislikes, fears and stresses
Plenty of cognitive room for marriage
Better prepared to cope with the stressful events and conflict

Principle 2
Nurture your fondness and admiration
Reminding yourself of your spouses positive qualities
Antidotes for contempt
Prevents the four horsemen

Principle 3
Turn toward each other instead of away
Correct distorted notions of what fuels romance
Put effort into to staying connected verbally & physically
Respond to bids for partner’s attention, affection, humor or support.

Principle 4
Let Your Partner Influence You,let him/her feel that his/her voice is being heard & had big importance,always consult each other in any decision that you should make this will make your bond more stronger.
Inspire each other by competing in a very healthy manner.Always support each other emotionally,spiritually,mentally & financially.

Yield to win,join force to succeed,always be there for each other in whether in times of joy or grief.
Search for common ground instead of insisting on your way.
Give strength when one is losing hope,be aware & sensitive with your partner's needs
Share power,both should learn to give the autority/power sharing to established solid foundation of respect for each other,not induce fear because it will not do any good.



Principle 5
Solve Solvable Problems,it is not advisable to keep your problems unsolved for a long time ,it will just lead to a bigger problem,voice out & point out what should be done.
Soften your start up .Make repair attempts .Soothe self and other
Compromise , learn to set aside your own pride , learn to forgive but you should let your partner know your standards & forgiveness should be repaid by not committing the same mistakes.
You should be aware of what would hurt him/her because if you really love each other you will not do things that will hurt him/her in anyway.
Be tolerant of faults

Principle 6
Overcoming Gridlock
The goal in ending gridlock is not to solve the problem but rather to move from gridlock to dialogue about deep dreams.

Principle 7
Create shared meaning,staying in a marriage is not an obligation , always think it as a blessing & you do things for each other because you love each other & you are united as one.
Share Rituals , Roles & Goals .Always let your other half know that he/she is part of your life not just in words but also by showing it through your action.

Principle 8
Trust is one of the most important factor of a relationship to last without trust you could be easily destroyed by problems that you will encounter.
This is guaranteed true,you should not keep secrets with your partner if you truly love each other.because if there is trust there is respect.If one committed a mistake or lied because of unavoidable cirscumstances have the courage to admit & ask forgiveness bec. it is better that it had come from you rather than to let him/her discover that will be more painful & unforgivable.In asking forgiveness you should be sincere in what you say not just to make things go your way.Don't ask forgiveness is you are not sincere bec. you are no one but yourself.

Be honest always whether he/she is not around,don't flirt in anyway.
Avoid temptation that may lead to unfaithfulness,Always keep in mind "prevention is better than cure."
Don't be dragged down by other people comments & advices,it is your life you know what is wrong & what is right ,if you have problems it is your other half that you should consult bec. you married each other to act as one & be there for each other always for better or for worst ,for richer & for poorer.

Always keep on mind the reasons why did you chose to marry him/her,always nurture the love as if it is like a newly wed,continuous courtship,do adventure together that will make your relationship more colorful & strengthens your bonding as a couples.


In summary, a couple has to actively cultivate an atmosphere of positivism and support while using conflict resolution and repair attempts to keep resentment out of the relationship.

Couples need to be perfect for each other for long-lasting marriage

To be a perfect wife


The perfect wife knows how to provide the harmonic balance within the family unit. She knows how to balance career, domestic chores, taking care of the children and support her husband emotionally. The perfect wife has many roles to fulfill and finds it both a challenge and rewarding. Not every woman wants to be the perfect wife. Many women will purposely try to be something different to establish their independence. Even those women that rebuff the idea of a perfect wife, read on. There are many deep emotional rewards for striving to be the perfect wife.The perfect wife knows how to smile at those jokes that aren't really that funny. She manages a small laugh and doesn't remind her husband that he has told that joke before repeatedly. Without her husband knowing it, the perfect wife embraces these age old jokes over and over as if they were brand new. The perfect wife will know that one day her husband might be in a nursing home not able to even recognize who she is. It will be that day that these old jokes will be a memory that keeps her going daily to visit her wonderful husband. The perfect wife finds the energy to pick up the piles of clothes, socks strewn about and the glasses that never make it back to the sink. Instead of clearing up after everyone and feeling like a maid, the perfect wife is proud of her home. It will drive her nuts to have the little messes here and there. She cleans up without a second thought as to who did it last time or why everyone around her can't seem to walk to the kitchen sink. She knows that one day the house will be childless and there won't be laughter as everyone is gathered around the TV watching a movie and forgetting their dishes. The perfect wife covets the memories that are being made in the household from an active family life.

The perfect wife wakes in the middle of the night to toss the covers back onto her husband because she wants him to stay warm. She doesn't sit up and wonder why she had to marry someone that thrashes about and snores so loudly. The perfect wife cherishes the quiet moments when she can watch her husband sleeping peacefully. Deep down she knows that one day her bed will be empty because she has become a widower. The perfect wife learns how to cook the dishes that are her husband's favorite to eat. Eventually, she even learns to like some of these dishes herself. When he calls her telling her that he will be late getting home for dinner, the perfect wife smiles and puts the meal on warm. She knows that it is a blessing that she has a man that is willing to work very hard to financially provide for the family. At least her husband is out working late and not at the local bar picking up women or ending up in jail. There will be a day that the only food her husband might be able to eat is puree meals from a straw.The perfect wife does not look at just today. The perfect wife does not keep score as to who has contributed the most or contributed what to a relationship. She values her marriage and embraces her friendship with her husband. When faced with multi-tasking and keeping the family balance, the perfect wife focuses on enjoying each moment for she is wise and knows that the precious moments of today are not forever. It is from the perfect wife that many of us could learn to cherish today and let yesterday's problems stay in the past.


To be a perfect husband

If you could tell someone how to be the almost perfect husband, what would you tell him?

That’s the question I posed to more than one thousand wives, ex-wives and widows, nearly all of whom freely offered advice. In the end, I had enough material for a book: How To Be The Almost Perfect Husband: By Wives Who Know.

After gathering all my data – a collection of one and two sentence bits of advice from wives to husbands - I set about the task of picking and choosing. What should I put in the book, and what should I leave out? In other words, it was my job to sift through all the advice I’d assembled and choose what was truly important to women. I made my decisions, shared the "final cut" with my wife and immediately got fired.

"That’s all you learned!?," she asked. Realizing she’d inadvertently stepped on my toes, she immediately followed up with the far more diplomatic, "Mind if I take a look for myself?" The moral of the story? Even with 1,000 wives explicitly telling me what they needed from their husbands, I still didn’t get it. I was just too much of a "man" to truly understand. That’s when my own wife lovingly stepped in and helped me to see what these wives truly crave. That said, here are "Three Top Tips for Pleasing Your Wife."

1. Listen
More than anything, women want their husbands to listen. Not try to solve their problems or offer advice, but simply to listen. As Becky, 33, advises: "When I'm having a bad day and complaining a lot, please just listen. Forget the advice on how to make things better. Just tell me you love me and give me a hug." Brenda, 36, adds: "Always listen to what your wife has to say no matter how uninteresting or boring it is to you. It's important to her or she wouldn't be sharing it with you."

2. Show her you love her
It’s the little things you do for her that let your wife know she’s truly loved. "Surprise her with something small," says Rowena, married 23 years, "like bring home take-out without being asked." As Jennifer, 22 - married just nine months! - explains: "Instead of telling me, show me you love me. A kiss when I least expect it. Flowers for no reason. Hold my hand when we’re in public, and in private. Little surprises like these can sometimes mean much more than words."

What if you’re a man who’s married to a modern, "self-sufficient" woman, someone who’s fully capable of taking care of herself? Erika, 45, is just such a woman. Yet her request is much the same: "Even though I’m strong and modern and self-sufficient, do surprising, sweet, I’m-here-to-pamper-and-care-for-you things." As for specifics, consider these:

"Write me little notes and give me funny cards a little more often, like you did when we were courting." – Jennifer, 32, married 6 years

"Once in a while, send me a little surprise at work – so the people around me are jealous that I have the perfect mate." – Marilee, 46, married 22 years

"Light a candle every once in a while – even when the power doesn’t go out." – Linda, 48, married 28 years

Finally, Cynthia, married 14 years, shares this loving behavior: "Do what my husband does: When I wake up at 3 A.M. filled with worry, he rubs my back, holds my hand and says things will look better in the light of day. Then he doesn’t fall asleep until I do."

3. Tell her you love her
While actions may speak louder than words, words hold their own special power – both positive and negative. Jeannie, 55, separated for seven years, writes: "Think before you speak. Words can damage and cut to the bone." Be careful not only to guard your tongue, but use your words to cherish and embrace. Maureen, 62, writes: "Learn to say: ‘I love you.’ Acting as if you do is great, but it’s nice to hear it once in a while." Sally, 47, advises: "Tell her you love her three times a day. ‘I love you’ is like mayonnaise. It has a very short shelf life."

And while you’re at it, follow the advice of Deborah, 42: "Tell her she looks pretty. At least once a day!"

Questions for reflections:



When your wife is telling you about a problem she’s having, are you truly listening or trying to come up with a solution to offer?
What did you do today that showed your life you truly love her?
What about yesterday and the day before?
When was the last time you said to your wife, "I love you"?
In an average week, how many times do you say those words?
How often do you tell your wife how attractive she is?

Tips on how she'll fall inlove with you head over heels;

1.Always appreciate her & tell how special she is for you.
Proven effective phrases;guaranteed!

You are a beautiful woman ,I love your mind ,I love your soul...You are an ANGEL!

I want to be honest with you!I won't talk or go out with other women bec. of you.
I am a man & sometimes i missed to have sex but i'll resist for you!

There are a lot of beatiful women anywhere but for me "YOU ARE THE ONE"


2.Compose a poem just for her or if you are not expert on making one,atleast give it a try express yourself,how you really feel.Your girl will really appreciate it.It is not about how beautiful the poem is what matter most is the effort you had exerted to let her know how much you love her.

3.Let her realized how special she is & having her is all you would ever wanted in life.

Top Reasons to be Romantic

You’ll be happier.
Your partner will be happier.
You’ll have sex more often.
You’ll enjoy sex more.
You’ll rise about mediocrity, and create an A+ Relationship.
You’ll experience the spark of infatuation again.
You’ll reduce the chance that your partner might cheat on you.
You’ll increase the probability that you’ll stay married.
You’ll add depth and meaning to your relationship.
You will create a safe haven where you can really be yourself.
You will be truly heard and deeply understood by one other human being.
You’ll save money by expressing your love in lots of little, creative ways.
Exercising your creativity will benefit you in other areas of your life.
You’ll probably live longer.
You’ll be better parents.
You’ll be great role models for your children.
You’ll be great role models for friends and neighbors.
Your children will understand love better than most kids.
Your children will experience what love is really all about.
Your children will have a better chance of choosing partners wisely.
Your children will be better able to create healthy love relationships.
You’ll make the world a better place.

Our Prayer

Domain prayer, prayer to pomba tour DOY THANKS PUBLIC AND PUBLIC AND THANKS DOY PRAYER OF DOMINIO-CONJURO

In the name of God I invoke you, the spirit of the Dominion, spirit Intranquilo, Desespero of spirit, a spirit of Don Juan de PRAYER OF DOMINIO-CONJURO In the name of God I invoke you, the spirit of the Dominion, spirit Intranquilo, Desespero of spirit, a spirit of Don Juan de la Conquista The Conquest, a spirit of love, the spirit of Don Juan de los Caminos, St. John Miner spirit, the spirit of St. John, The spirit of love, spirit of Don Juan de los Caminos, St. John Miner spirit, the spirit of St.. John Street Street, the spirit of the 4 winds, paths and places of Enchantment spirit, the spirit of San Marcos de Leon, spirit of St. Martha and St. Helena Jerusalem, the spirit of San Salvador Horta, the Spirit of St. Agnes of Monte Perdido , the spirit of Maria, The spirit of the 4 winds, paths and places of Enchantment spirit, the spirit of San Marcos de Leon, spirit of St.. And St. Martha. Helena Jerusalem, the spirit of San Salvador Horta, the Spirit of St.. Agnes of Monte Perdido, the spirit of Mary of the head Head, all beneficial spirits, I conjuro to assist me to dominate the five senses, thoughts, opinion, lively spirit and the willingness to offer __________, this Conjuro the Holy Angel , Charitable spirits all, I conjuro to assist me to dominate the five senses, thoughts, opinions, lively spirit and the willingness to offer __________, this Conjuro the Holy Guardian Angel Guardian of _____________________, by the holy day that baptized by the _______________, day he was born on the day he baptized and the day he had to die. _____________________, Of the holy day as baptized, the day he was born _______________, for the day when baptized, and the day he had to die. I am conjuring the spirit alive, body, mind, a member sex, head, hands and feet, thought, opinion and willingness to _________________. I am conjuring the spirit alive, body, mind, a member sex, head, hands and feet, thought, opinion and willingness to _________________. Concededme spirits Domain ________________ that can not be, nor live quiet, which can not eat or sleep, or drink, or walk without thinking that I put in my name is _____________ until my feet come to stop, surrendered love, the interest and desire for me, desperately tenerme, attracted by my sex, offering his own, eager, repentant and humble, halagándome with kisses and caresses, dragging my feet, and gentle supplicant, I remain his mistress for me and for my my name is __________________. Concededme spirits Domain ________________ that can not be, nor live quiet, which can not eat or sleep, or drink, or walk without thinking that I put in my name is _____________ until my feet come to stop, surrendered love, the interest and desire for I, desperately tenerme, attracted by my sex, offering his own, eager, repentant and humble, halagándome with kisses and caresses, dragging my feet, and gentle supplicant, I remain his mistress for me and for my my name is __________________. With two you see it, with three ato you, you drink the blood and heart you birth, Christ valedme and dadme peace. With two you see it, with three ato you, you drink the blood and heart you birth, Christ valedme and dadme peace. Come _____________ dominated body, thought and desire, you can no longer look at that nobody else to me, your love and your love are only for me, my presence is attractive to you, my eyes you sugestiona, you dominates my voice, my eyes you blind and my desire is yours, so, so, so, so, Amen. Come _____________ dominated body, thought and desire, you can no longer look at that nobody else to me, your love and your love are only for me, my presence is attractive to you, my eyes you sugestiona, you dominates my voice, my eyes you blind and my desire is yours, so, so, so, so, Amen. PRAYER MIRACULOUS I hope you my God, Father, son and holy spirit my Lord Jesus my only savior with all forces you ask me grant grace that desire (called grace or desire) -ORACIÓN SANTA MARTA Santa Marta Virgin by caramanchel are you going to eat today that the flame is lit this candle and cotton were cleansed with holy oils. PRAYER MIRACULOUS I hope you my God, Father, son and holy spirit my Lord Jesus my only savior with all forces you ask me grant grace that desire (called grace or desire) -ORACIÓN SANTA MARTA Santa Marta Virgin by caramanchel are you going to eat today that the flame is lit this candle and cotton were cleansed with holy oils. You turn on me this candle for my needs remedies, socorras my miseries and venzas all difficulties as venciste the fierce brava you have your feet, there is impossible for you, give me luck and money to cover my miseries and needs ... You turn on me this candle for my needs remedies, socorras my miseries and venzas all difficulties as venciste the fierce brava you have your feet, there is impossible for you, give me luck and money to cover my miseries and needs ... This mother of mine concédeme that _________ unable to be quiet or live until my feet and come to stop me concédeme what mother ask you to relieve my punishment for the love of Jesus, Santa Marta virgin came to the mountain, fierce Brave espantaste your tapes with the ataste and your swab the amansaste well my mother if this is true concédeme that _________ back to my forever. This mother of mine concédeme that _________ unable to be quiet or live until my feet and come to stop me concédeme what mother ask you to relieve my punishment for the love of Jesus, Santa Marta virgin came to the mountain, fierce Brave espantaste your tapes with the ataste and your swab the amansaste well my mother if this is true concédeme that _________ back to my forever. Santa Marta not sure what lay in chair or lie down in bed and have a moment of tranquility at the feet until they come to my stop Santa Marta escúchame ampárame for the love of God, AMEN. Santa Marta not sure what lay in chair or lie down in bed and have a moment of tranquility at the feet until they come to my stop Santa Marta escúchame ampárame for the love of God, AMEN. - PRAYER TO THE SPIRIT OF DOMAIN you that dominates all hearts, dominates the heart of ___________. - PRAYER TO THE SPIRIT OF DOMAIN you that dominates all hearts, dominates the heart of ___________. With the infinite power that took amansar Santa Marta for the dragon, and I want to moorings ___________ Oh! With the infinite power that took amansar Santa Marta for the dragon, and I want to moorings ___________ Oh! Spirit dominant! Spirit dominant! With your divine power that God has given you grant that ______________ is dominated body and soul for me and not be able to look to anyone other than me, that his love and affection are just for me, my presence will be needed where this, which can not be quiet without me. With your divine power that God has given you grant that ______________ is dominated body and soul for me and not be able to look to anyone other than me, that his love and affection are just for me, my presence will be needed where this, which can not be quiet without me. Spirit dominant dominates my enemies with your divine power that God has given you. Spirit dominant dominates my enemies with your divine power that God has given you. AMEN these prayers are conducted during 9 days. AMEN these prayers are conducted during 9 days. Praying 9 birds marias and glory to the father. Praying 9 birds marias and glory to the father. SAN MARCOS OF LEON of San Marcos Leon, your that amansas the Dragons and the Lions, amansa SPIRIT ALIVE (N) to be meek and docile with me that my name is (say your name) in San Marcos, which amansas lions and your change feelings change bad thoughts and bad feelings (N) good for me. SAN MARCOS OF LEON of San Marcos Leon, your that amansas the Dragons and the Lions, amansa SPIRIT ALIVE (N) to be meek and docile with me that my name is (say your name) in San Marcos, which amansas lions and your change feelings change bad thoughts and bad feelings (N) good for me. San Marcos bundle (N) walk behind me, as the living behind San Marcos bundle (N) walk behind me, as the living BEHIND The Red Cross and the dead behind And the dead behind the Light Light, the Lord grant us the grace for your meditation San Marcos ask your bendicion AMEN PRAYER TO SAN ANTONIO San Antonio Blessed that you attend to mount the rosary and syllabary lost, we encontrastes with whom you JESUS consoled and three virtues - that gave you forgotten what is remembered , lost - that what was found, and so far, which is closer, that is why SAN ANTONIO, that at this moment you ask from the deepest part of my being that (making the request) Thank you for San Antonio granted my request. , That the Lord grant us the grace for your meditation San Marcos ask your bendicion AMEN PRAYER TO SAN ANTONIO San Antonio Blessed that you attend to mount the rosary and syllabary lost, we encontrastes with whom you JESUS consoled and three virtues - that gave you what recalling forgotten, lost - that what was found, and so far - which is closer, that is why SAN ANTONIO, that at this moment you ask from the deepest part of my being that (making the request) Thank you St. Antonio for granted my request. 1 Our Father will pray and 3 Ave Maria SANTA ELENA (for Her Lover (love) think of you) St. Helena 1 Our Father will pray and 3 Ave Maria SANTA ELENA (for Her Lover (love) think of you) of St. . The Red Cross Helena, the daughter of the king and queen, your kings that you attend and Reyes decendistes, sea cruzastes hair and clothing do not mojastes and cross Cristote hayastes and three nails him quitastes, one arrojastes sea for the sailing of the world, another is what distes to your great son Constantine to beat wars and battles, we quda a Madre Mia, prestamelo, prestamelo to clavarselo in the heart of (N) wherever they find this is not peace, nor tranquility, either in person or in its spirit, neither food nor sleep, nor work as nothing more satisfying continue thinking about my (say your name) if this miracle I hicieras Madre mia, children lloraran, dogs ladrara, I do not forget MOTHER MIA SANTA ELENA DE, The daughter of the king and queen, your kings that you attend and Reyes decendistes either cruzastes hair and clothing do not mojastes and cross Cristote hayastes and three nails him quitastes, one arrojastes sea for sailing in the world, another is what distes to your great Constantine are to beat wars and battles, we quda Mother Mia, prestamelo, prestamelo to clavarselo in the heart of (N) wherever you find this not peace nor tranquility, nor in his in his person or spirit, that neither food nor sleep, nor work as nothing more satisfying continue thinking about my (say your name) if this miracle I hicieras Madre mia, children lloraran, dogs ladrara, I do not forget MOTHER OF MIA SANTA ELENA THE RED CROSS: WHICH IS WELL, WELL AND WILL BE AMEN: THAT IS WELL, WELL AND WILL BE AMEN POMBA TOUR OF 7 SAYAS MY QUEEN, I know your strength and your power, I ask that you go to my wife ------, making me think ------ 24-hours a day, not having eyes to any other person other than me, his wife ------, who ------ only be excited to hear my voice, which make me think of his wife, to increase its nostalgia and its desire to see me , be with me, you have a lot of jealousy my steps, which is to repent for leaving me to go and now wants to marry me ------. POMBA TOUR OF 7 SAYAS MY QUEEN, I know your strength and your power, I ask that you go to my wife ------, making me think ------ 24-hours a day, not having eyes to any other person other than me, his wife ------, who ------ only be excited to hear my voice, which make me think of his wife, to increase its nostalgia and its desire to see me, be with me, you have a lot of jealousy my steps, which is to repent for leaving me to go and now wants to marry me ------. ------ That is affectionate, loving, dedicated, think ------ me all the time, who does not have eyes for anyone else other than myself ------, that only I ------ is the only person to ------, who ------ with only one purpose, to make ------ his wife, is already done. ------ That is affectionate, loving, dedicated, I think ------ all the time, who does not have eyes for anyone else other than myself ------, that only I --- --- is the only person to ------, who ------ with only one purpose, to make ------ his wife, is already done. I hope you MY QUEEN, which come to me ------ ------ very passionate and crazy love, which is only ------ mine, for me ------. I hope you MY QUEEN, which come to me ------ ------ very passionate and crazy love, which is only ------ mine, for me ------. HAIL POMBA TOUR QUEEN OF THE 7 ENCRUCIJADAS, I trust in your power, I am going to divulge your name to the 4 corners of the world, I trust you, relief to my request. HAIL POMBA TOUR QUEEN OF THE 7 ENCRUCIJADAS, I trust in your power, I am going to divulge your name to the 4 corners of the world, I trust you, relief to my request. HAIL POMBA TOUR QUEEN OF THE 7 ENCRUCIJADAS AND ALL OF ITS FALANGE, tráiganme to ------ ------ me as my wife, as well as the rooster sings, the donkey relincha, the bell plays, goat berra, and you my ------, has to walk behind me ------, as the sun appears, the rain falls, you will be dominated by me ------. HAIL POMBA TOUR QUEEN OF THE 7 ENCRUCIJADAS AND ALL OF ITS FALANGE, tráiganme to ------ ------ me as my wife, as well as the rooster sings, the donkey relincha, the bell plays, goat berra , and you my ------, has to walk behind me ------, as the sun appears, the rain falls, you will be dominated by me ------. Dam under my left foot ------, with 2 eyes you see it, with 3 yo te prende ------, with my guardian angel ------ ask you to walk behind me - ----- as a cobra crawling, who loves me locamente, which sits only wishes for me, it fails to see through the eyes of a desire to any other person other than myself ------, that meets all my wills, who never make me suffer, that when you lie down is always in his thoughts and remember me ------, who ------ can not live without me ------, their thoughts and desires are always for me ------, who is ------ loving, romantic, I love, jealousy and sits by me ------. Dam under my left foot ------, with 2 eyes you see it, with 3 yo te prende ------, with my guardian angel ------ ask you to walk behind me--- --- as a cobra crawling, who loves me locamente, which sits only wishes for me, it fails to see through the eyes of a desire to any other person other than myself ------, that meets all my wills, who never make me suffer, that when you lie down is always in his thoughts and remember me ------, who ------ can not live without me ------, their thoughts and desires are always for me ------, who is ------ loving, romantic, I love, jealousy and sits by me ------. So be it, and that is by the power of St. Cyprian, so and so is already ------ going to live behind me ------, drag, humble and mansa, so that we can have a good life, united, and married happily ever after. So be it, and that is by the power of St. Cyprian, so and so is already ------ going to live behind me ------, drag, and mansa humble, so that we can have a good life, united, and married happily ever after. I call it the power of the three black souls who oversees St. Cyprian, so and so is now, I want ------ once as his wife ------, that we will not be enemies no bother, so, so and so is being done. I call it the power of the three black souls who oversees St.. Cyprian, so and so is now, I want ------ once as his wife ------, that we will not be enemies not bother, so, so and so is being done. MY QUEEN POMBA TOUR OF 7 SAYAS, ask you to ------ moorings in 7 of its sayas and the 7 guizos your clothes for me ------. MY QUEEN POMBA TOUR OF 7 SAYAS, ask you to ------ moorings in 7 of its sayas and the 7 guizos your clothes for me ------. ------ That is not with any other person other than myself ------, that all people deviate from it once, which I have just ------ ---- I -- as his wife, always in his thoughts and in his heart, which ------ I never abandons me ------, who ------ I always look at all times, and that only me feel happy. ------ That is not with any other person other than myself ------, that all people deviate from it once, which I have just ------ ---- I -- as his wife, always in his thoughts and in his heart, which ------ I never abandons me ------, who ------ I always look at all times, and that only me feel happy. MY QUEEN POMBA TOUR OF 7 ENCRUCIJADAS, I ask that ------ becomes blind love for me ------, full of love, which she feels pleasure only me, so be it, and is well done. MY QUEEN POMBA TOUR OF 7 ENCRUCIJADAS, I ask that ------ becomes blind love for me ------, full of love, which she feels pleasure only me, so be it, and is well done. In appreciation divulge your name MY QUEEN. In appreciation divulge your name MY QUEEN. ------ What I look and I need 24 hours a day, I ----- -----, which surprised me crazy and I wish to see me and tenerme in his arms to me - ----. ------ What I look and I need 24 hours a day, I ----- -----, which surprised me crazy and I wish to see me and tenerme in his arms to me---- -. HAIL POMBA TOUR QUEEN OF THE 7 ENCRUCIJADAS I have every confidence in your strength and your power to achieve my desire. HAIL POMBA TOUR QUEEN OF THE 7 ENCRUCIJADAS I have every confidence in your strength and your power to achieve my desire.