"Memories"

"SECRET LOVERS"

EVERY TIME I SEE YOUI CAN JUST FEEL NEW
BUT DIFFERENT STRONG EMOTIONS ALL INSIDE ME

ALL THE TIMES YOU PASS BY ME SOMEWHERE
MY MIND SUDDENLY BECOMES MORE EXCITED
& MY SOUL BECOMES MORE BEYOND LOVE & HAPPINESS

WHOA AS I SEE HOW YOU WALK
YOU LOOK TOTALLY WICKED
WHENEVER I GLANCE AT YOU FOR A WHILE
I ALWAYS NOTICE YOUR BEAUTIFUL SMILE

EVERYDAY I THINK ABOUT YOU
I WILL NEVER FORGET, LEAVE, OR REPLACE YOU
& MEMORIES WE BOTH HAVE HAD TOGETHER
EVEN WHEN MY HEART BEATS FAST
THAT SHOW HOW LONG MY LOVE WILL LAST

WHEN I DAYDREAM INTO YOUR BEAUTIFUL & FINE EYES
I ALWAYS SEE A SUPER SMART,
EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE, NUMBER 1 BEAUTIFUL,
& A SOMEDAY LOVE IN SOMEONES' LIFE
WHILE I SEE YOU LOOK AT ME
I FEEL WEAK ON THE OUT & STRONG ON THE INSIDE

IF I SEE YOU CRY FOR A WHILE
I'LL TRY TO MAKE YOU SMILE
THE FIRST TIME I HEARD YOU SING
MADE ME DO THE SAME THING

WHEN I SAW YOUR WRITING STYLE
I REALLY HAD TO LOOK FOR A WHILE
AS I TALK TO YOU
I FEEL SO TOTALLY CLOSE

WHEN I KISSED YOU FOR THE FIRST TIME
I THOUGHT I WAS IN ANOTHER WORLD
WHEN I SEE HOW YOU DRESS
YOU JUST BLOWN ME AWAY

WHEN I HUG YOU
I FEEL ALL NEW INSIDE & OUT
AFTER YOU SAID," I LOVE YOU"
I SAID," I LOVE YOU TOO"

AS I SEE YOU DANCE
I QUICKLY FALL INTO A HUGE TRANCE
DARN THE WAY YOU SMELL
I JUST COULDN'T TELL
WOW WHEN YOU DRAW
YOU ALWAYS CREATE A NEW IMAGE

WHEN I GOT TO KNOW YOU
I FOUND & FELT SOMETHING NEW
THE DAY YOU GO
MY LOVE WON'T FLOW.

by: Liara Co

SOULMATES,have you found yours?

************How to Identify your Soul Mate**************

Some people believe in soul mates and some do not, but typically those people who disbelieve are just the one’s who haven’t found their’s yet. Those who have met “The One”, however, don’t doubt the existence of soul mates. They know how reassuring it is to have found a partner that is everything they’d hoped for and a whole lot more….

So what is a soul mate, and most importantly, how do you know when you’ve met your’s? Here’s a list of clues:

*Strong attraction* – Most often it’s a person’s physical features that catch our attention first. This doesn’t mean we’re just all superficial beings…. It’s only natural for us to be drawn to those we find physically attractive.

*Good chemistry* — Some people simply mesh well together. They have that so-called “spark.” You know you have good chemistry with someone when you feel at ease around them and conversation comes easily. Soul mates are the people that can be together for 50+ years and STILL have not run out of things to talk about.

*Emotional connection* – You know you’ve met your soul mate when you miss them before they’re even gone. It’s someone you find yourself constantly daydreaming about. Ultimately, it’s that person with whom you can actually picture yourself having a future with - marriage, kids, growing old together….

*Bonding* – Sometime’s it during a dramatic moment that you discover that the person you’re dating is your soul mate. For example, you’re in an accident, and you’re partner is there for you 100% like no one else has ever been, and you know then and there that it’s true love.

*Acceptance* – No one in this world is perfect, but you know you’ve met your soul mate when you are able to acknowledge their good traits AND their bad traits. You accept those things and aren’t always trying to change them into someone they’re not.

*The one and only* — Perhaps the easiest sign to identify when you’ve met your soul mate is this — when you can’t picture yourself being with anyone else ever again. It’s when you know deep in your heart that this person fulfills everything that you could ever want or need in a life partner.

Every Day I Love You More

We all know the fantasy about our other half, the person we're destined to marry and the endless love that will sweep us away. In the fairy tale, every day after the wedding is summed up the same: And so they lived happily ever after. Yet ask anyone who has woken up after the honeymoon to find Prince Charming's socks on the floor, and she'll tell you a far different story: Daily life has a way of usurping the magic-unless we learn how to make more.Touching, perceptive, and often hilarious, EVERY DAY I LOVE YOU MORE (Just Not Today) is a guide to making love last. It celebrates the times that make married hearts soar and helps cushion the fall on those inevitable days when your prince looks a little bit froggy, like the Christmas he gives you business cards or the days he leaves his breakfast dishes on the table and his helpfulness at the office.The truth is that while romance often leads to marriage, marriage can be the death of romance. But marriage can also provide the laughter that breaks through the tears, the tenderness that softens the stressful days, and the hope that transcends the years. For amid the little disasters of everyday life, there are always those magical moments. And whenever we spot them, we're reminded of how our love felt when it was new.In these stories from her marriage-and those of her family and friends-Nancy Shulins describes the moments that define all our partnerships. She shows couples how to solve conflicts and bury the hatchet, how to encourage the old magic to reappear, and how to reawaken your relationship's inner child. A tale of a young woman newly in love takes us back to our own courtship days. A night out with the girls provides new strategies for dealing with age-old hassles. And the accidental discovery of a swizzle stick in a drawer shows why love's souvenirs should be saved.You'll come away viewing married love in a new light and your partner with more loving eyes. Like a warm, heartfelt letter from a wise and funny friend, EVERY DAY I LOVE YOU MORE (Just Not Today) will leave you refreshed and inspired.

Valentine's Day, Every Day

Jim and I have experienced many stages of marriage. Our first years were pure wedded bliss; everyday was a honeymoon. Then reality set in. We soon discovered it was hard work to keep romance alive, especially after our children arrived. Lack of time for each other seemed to be our biggest obstacle.

We both felt romance should be automatic and spontaneous, except that wasn't reality for us. As unromantic as it sounds, we've found that romance requires planning and a constant, compassionate focus on each other.

I love my husband today with more passion and depth than the day we were married. I love his heart for romance in our marriage. Most importantly, he makes me feel cherished.

Here's what works for us...

Scheduling and Intentionality

I know Jim often enters reminders on his PalmPilot so he remembers important dates or needs prompting to send me flowers. I appreciate that he makes that effort, even though to him, this lacks the spontaneity he sometimes desires. For myself, I have to plan things out weeks and weeks in advance. The anticipation of surprising him is worth every moment of planning.

Words and Touch

Do you tell your spouse you love them everyday? In the midst of your busy schedules, do you kiss each other when you leave the house in the morning? Do you embrace when you come in the door at night? Physical touch and simple, loving words connect us; it reminds us we are important to each other.

Prayer and Intimacy

Reading a daily devotional and spending time in prayer at bedtime brings us closer and initiates discussion after a long day. Even though Jim is fighting off sleep (and I could go on for hours), it still connects us to each other and to God. This is the deeper, fuller, richer intimacy God intends for us to share.

Serving

Have you ever thought of making breakfast for each other? If cooking is not your specialty, ordering out from a local restaurant is something Jim has done. I don't mind that he can't cook —I appreciate that he made the effort to surprise and serve me. Many Sunday mornings I make him homemade waffles or French Toast. The true way to his heart is food —especially chocolate chip cookies. Doing these things is a very simple way of serving him. I'm putting him first...before myself.

God called us to serve one another in love He also warns that "biting and devouring each other" will destroy us. No wonder so many relationships are in deep trouble. Our first human response is selfishness. We think of ourselves before we think of the lifetime partner God has given us. If we put God first in our lives and then our spouse, a marriage can grow in unimaginable ways.

Getaways

Jim and I are refreshed most when we take getaway weekends. When the kids were small, sometimes it was only a night or afternoon away. Today our getaway goal is several times a year. It is a time to get reacquainted with each other and remember why we fell in love to begin with. It helps us leave all the stress of home behind and just have time to focus on each other. We have often made major decisions about marriage, ministry and family during these times together.

Are you up to the challenge? Start with a Valentine's Day once a week. Go out for a cup of coffee, to a movie, or dinner together. Eat Order-in pizza over a tablecloth on your bedroom floor. Lock the door and tells the kids you can't be disturbed for a half-hour. Many couples are opposed to having a TV in the bedroom, but cuddling in bed while watching a movie can be lots of fun. It doesn't have to be an expensive evening. Be creative!

The love the Lord blessed you with should be celebrated more than once a year. Valentine's Day should be every day.

How To French Kiss

“A kiss is a wonderful trick devised by nature to stop speech when words become superficial”. Ingrid Bergman was not wrong when he said this! Nothing in this world can beat the joy of being kissed by one’s beloved. It becomes all the more special if it is a first kiss. Quite many people hesitate in taking the kiss to the “next level”. Either they just don’t know how to do it, or they are simply scared.

The “French Kiss” as it is popularly known, requires a bit of tact and presence of mind. One must know how to kiss without messing up too much. All set to become a great “French Kisser”? Check out these tips and techniques, which when kept in mind will make French kissing all the more passionate and enjoyable.

The surrounding is of utmost importance. You wouldn’t want to stand on a street and start a passionate kiss, only to be interrupted by stares and worse, honking of vehicles! Agreed, the moment might come anytime, anywhere. But it is worth waiting for a few more minutes and finding a secluded and relaxed spot so that both of you are at ease.

Your hands must be embracing your partner in a passionate hug. Don’t let them rest on your partner or hang them by your side. It is rude and your partner might feel you are not interested in the kiss. A man usually holds the woman by the waist, while the woman may wrap around her arms around his shoulders or softly around the neck.

Begin softly, kiss gently, not too firm and not too aggressive. Let the passion build up slowly. It is always better to close your eyes to loose yourself completely in the kiss rather than the surroundings. Once both of you have warmed up, it is time to go to the next level.

Women usually prefer men to make the first move. So, after a long, slow kiss, gently nudge open her mouth with your tongue to explore. If she hesitates, pull back a little and start again. To relax her, you can always take her face in your hands and gently caress her cheeks.
Make sure you know the difference between passionate and aggressive kiss. Don’t do anything that might make the other person squeal! Let your tongue do the magic, not your teeth!

A French kiss is usually “wetter” than other kisses, so don’t forget to swallow saliva if it builds up. You need not pull back from the kiss; you can do it in-between while kissing. In case you really want to pull back, don’t hesitate.

Don’t pull away abruptly when you feel the kiss is over. Your partner may not feel correct. So, stop kissing gradually and pull away from the face slowly. Don’t let go of the embrace as both of you might need it after a passionate kiss! If you or your partner wants to kiss again, smile and gently bring your face forward to indicate the same.

I have found my PERFECT MAN & I'm very proud of him there is no one else can replace him in my heart

Top 13 Things Women Want in a Man

You may think that women want someone who is buffed and tanned and looks like a bodybuilder model from GQ. Those things are nice and yes we like to look at those guys, but just like you don't need for us to look like Victoria Secret models we don't require it in our man. OK. The 13 most important qualities that women look for in a man are:

1. Honesty

2. Intelligence

3. Nice Smile

4. Sense of Humor

5. Manners

6. Sensitivity

7. Sincerity

8. Gainfully employed

9. Has own place

10. Owns a car

11. Affectionate

12. Considerate

13. Thoughtful

OK. First things first. Honesty is the NUMBER ONE trait that women look for in a man. That doesn't mean to be brutally honest and tell her she looks fat. (Never do that) but we want to know that we can trust that what you are telling us is the truth. If you've lied in the past it will be a very cold day in Hell before she trusts you again. And she may want to check your phone messages and read your email and call you 10 times a day to feel secure that you're trustworthy again. You may not like that but if you lie it may be the price you have to pay.

Intelligence: Women want to feel safe and protected and we want our men to be smart. Maybe even smarter than us. Women feel that your brain is your sexiest organ. So dazzle us with your brain and you will be surprised how stimulated we become. Kick her ass at "Jeopardy" and watch what happens.

Smile: We love your smile. We can't get enough of it. It makes us want to touch you and kiss you. So brush and floss and see your dentist and keep your mouth kissably fresh.
Sense of Humor: If you can keep us laughing you are golden. We love to laugh and we love a man who can make us laugh. This goes back to the smart thing as well. You have to be smart to be humorous. We like a man who's humor challenges us. Leave that 3 Stooges stuff for the guys. Women don't appreciate 12 year old juvenile humor.

Manners: Little things like manners are very important. Women don't want their man to drive up and reach over from the driver's seat and open the passenger door or just wait for us to open the door. A little old fashioned chivalry goes a long way. Escort the lady to the car and open the door for her. We love to be treated like queens. It makes us feel like you think we're special. And hopefully you do think she's special. We love a man with manners. We know we can take him home and our parents will love him. We don't want to have to worry about what you might do or say. We want to be with a man not a boy. That means no farting, belching, toe or nose picking, spitting, or smacking your lips when you eat. We want to know we can take you in public and we won't be embarrassed. And don't forget we also like to show you off to our girlfriends and we want them to approve. You want the girlfriends to think you're a "Keeper".

Sensitive: That whole thing about being "Sensitive" and getting in touch with your "Feminine Side" are all very true. A woman is waaaay more attracted to a man who isn't afraid to show his feelings and be gentle and sensitive. We actually think that makes you more manly. A man who clams up and thinks being macho is what we want is very wrong. One of the things that is extremely attractive to a woman is when it's obvious that you are attracted to us. There is nothing hotter than seeing how much we turn you on. Don't be afraid to show
that. But of course there are limits and this can easily be overdone. Be careful about showing things like that at work or you might find yourself in a sexual harassment situation. And if you decide to try to tip your hand to a woman and show your interest, remember to keep it subtle. No woman likes a STALKER or a HORNDOG! We love to know that we are getting to you, but not in an obnoxious way. You may have to make some changes in
your behavior. But of course, they'll be changes for the better and you will most likely be happier for it.

Sincerity: This is a little like honesty, but what I mean is if you need to change some of your behaviors to be more attractive to women then don't just do it to get the girl. This is something that has to be real. If you think that's not you, then maybe you should think about making a change. You can decide you don't want to change, that you like yourself the way you are, but if that was working for you then you probably wouldn't be reading this article. You were drawn to this piece because you must truly want to know how to be better with
women and if you sincerely do then you may need to take an honest look at yourself and decide what you want because it has to be real.

Employed: OK. This is a no-brainer, but truthfully there are some men out there without jobs that think they can get all the women they want. I have no idea what makes them think that, but their egos are on overtime. Women need security and we want a man who can provide for us. That doesn't mean we don't want to work, but it does mean that we want to know that you are a responsible MAN.

Has Own Place: OK. Matthew McConaughey was really cute in Failure to Launch but that was a comedy. Seriously we don't want to have a sleepover at your Mom's house. Having your own place just shows us again that you are a responsible adult. And it does help if your place is decorated nicely. I don't mean you have to hire a decorator, but we're not drawn to frathouse chic. Impress us with your style. Again we want MEN not BOYS!

Has Own Car: This may not be important if you live in New York or in a place where the public transportation makes owning a car unnecessary but in most of the world you need a car to pick up your date and take her out. It is important to mention here that even though we love luxury cars we don't need that in our man. Women love men with all kinds of cars, but FYI keep your car clean (especially the inside). Nothing says SLOB more than a dirty car. Take out the fast food wrappers and keep it neat and smelling nice.

Affectionate: We really do love to touch and be touched. And I am not talking sexually here. But try holding her hand when she's not expecting it or gently rubbing her back. Little touchy things like that mean a lot. Rub her arm when you're reading the paper or do little things like foot and hand massages. Women love that.

Be Considerate: We appreciate the little things like holding a door open or not walking ahead of us. If we're sleeping make sure you turn out the light when you leave. Show her you care by picking up after yourself. When you get some dessert out of the fridge ask if she'd like some or make sure you leave some for her. Just basic consideration is so important to us.

Thoughtfullness: This may sound like consideration, but it goes a little further. Being thoughtful of her needs goes a long way. Maybe give her a call from work just to see how she's doing. While we love that we don't want to be smothered with a bunch of calls all day long. Bring something home for her when you go to the store, like some fresh flowers (I know that's cliché, but that's because it works) or maybe some of her favorite ice cream...just because. This shows us that you are thinking of us and that makes us feel important and special.

Those 2 words important and special should be burned into your brain. If you can always make a woman feel important and special you will be an irrisistable Chick Magnet.


As most of you guys already know, there are many different types of women out there in the dating pool. Some women are really easy to approach, get to know and pretty much will date anyone who asks her. Maybe her standards are low, her self esteem not the greatest or she just needs constant attention from other men to feel worthwhile.

Most women I know are not this way, but rather are VERY selective about who they will and will not date. The problem is, at a distance, this can look very snobby and aloof, and often friends of mine who are actually the warmest people I know, have the reputation of being cold and distant. ALL of my friends constantly talk about meeting a great guy, so it's certainly not that they don't want you to approach them.

It's just that, most BEAUTIFUL women have a really high standard of how they want to be treated by their man, and who it is that they want to get intimate with, and usually, it has a lot less to do with things like looks, money or status than you guys think. Here are the 3 keys to the kingdom of that beautiful woman you've had YOUR eyes on for a while, but have been too afraid to approach.

1)Feed her MIND. A woman wants to be intellectually nurtured. Challenged. STIMULATED. Do you want to really turn on your girl? SHARE a book with her. Something smart. And old.....Beautiful women LOVE men who read...and can teach her new things. The mind is most easily stimulated organ in a woman's body. Learn to master this and you will unlock the kingdom worth far more than it's weight in gold.
2)Feed her SPIRIT. Understand the pure essence of EROS and the divine spark that emanates from a secret place deep down in the female form....Women have a FAR more sensitive spiritual connection than most of our male counterparts.There is a luminous and incandescent radiance that yearns to be recognized and embraced by a beautiful woman, and for most men, these are words and concepts that are foreign to their ears, lips and hearts. Open YOURSELF up to the ever present SPIRITUAL desires of your woman. Learn them. And you will be the master he who is worshipped by 1000 women, until your spirit is captured by the heart of one.
3)Feed her BODY. Learn the secrets of a woman's body....how to touch..WHERE to touch and when..Learn the movements and the magic and the moments of bliss and desire. Learn her facial expressions and how to read her body language..A woman's body, in the right hands should be played like a fine INSTRUMENT of love and lust...In the wrong hands, a fiddle at a bad karaoke country music bar in Peoria. KNOW and LEARN the nuances of the woman's body and you WILL receive infinite pleasure beyond that of mere moral men.
And of course there are far, far more intimate secrets and pleasures to learn as well - but if you want to make her melt, and be and open book for your review....You will get started with these 3 simple studies. Trust me, you will thank me later!

Unconditional Love

'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' Jesus Christ; Matthew 22:37-39
Love is the law, love under will. Aleister Crowley; The Book of the Law
All you need is love, love. Love is all you need. John Lennon; song lyric
As the above suggest, love is certainly important to human-kind. Its importance is confirmed by returning no fewer than 1,480,000,000 hits for a search on "Love".
What is Love?
But what is really meant by "love", and in particular by "unconditional love"?
Love is what we feel (or maybe feel we ought to feel) for our child, partner, parents, family... But we also use the word to refer to things; "I love football, I love swimming..."
To love a thing simply means to like it very much. But to love a person is to value and care for that person as much as, if not more than, ourselves.
Love is something that cannot be kept to oneself. We need to give it in order to receive it. And despite the external appearance of some, at heart we all want to be loved.
Definition of Unconditional Love
Quite simply, unconditional love is love without conditions. It is love without requiring anything in return, love no matter what. A classic example might be the undying love of a mother for a wayward son regardless of what human sins he might commit.
But isn't all real love unconditional, for if it carries conditions - "I'll love you if you love me, if you pay the bills, if you blah blah blah..." - it isn't love, but emotional blackmail.
It's easy to love those closest to us. Easy to love that with which we are familiar. But true unconditional love places no conditions such as I'll love you because you're my partner, child, parent... It is love for every part of the material and Spiritual realm. Regardless for whether we may know that which we love, regardless for how that which we love may have behaved towards us in the past.
Again we quote that great Spiritual teacher Lord Jesus, who said: "But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If someone strikes you on one cheek, turn to him the other also. If someone takes your cloak, do not stop him from taking your tunic. Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. Do to others as you would have them do to you. If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' love those who love them." (Luke 6:27-32).
In Spirit we are all part of one great whole. Upon the individuation of incarnation we lose that sense of belonging - paradise lost. It is hidden from us on our quest to re-discover our true nature through the lessons of experience that are life.
Unconditional love represents our true Spiritual goal. The love of all others regardless of race, religion or deeds. For by truly giving unconditional love we recognize that we are part of that great oneness that is Spirit. In loving another we really love ourselves.
If it is hard to love a stranger, how much harder is it to love those we perceive as sinning against us? A shining example is that of Mrs Gee Walker whose son Anthony was murdered in a racist attack in Liverpool, England. Despite his killers remaining unrepentant Mrs Walker said, "Unforgiveness makes you a victim and why should I be a victim? Anthony spent his life forgiving. His life stood for peace, love and forgiveness and I brought them up that way... I have to practice what I preach." Mrs Walker is one of very few Christians who actually practice the teachings of Lord Jesus, ie to love the sinner while hating their sins.

When two become one

You are no longer a couple, you are the one, you share one life and don’t divide it no longer in two. You don’t use the word “I” anymore, there’s only “We”. You belong to him and have no doubts that he belongs to you. So two become one...
When everything suddenly goes right, and all the problems seem so miserable that you don’t even have think now, since now you don’t have to worry about a thing at all.
When you are ready to give up all your life for him and you’re quite sure that he’ll never ask for that because he’s ready to do the same.
When you don’t have to talk to understand each other, and when one starts a phrase the other finishes it.
When you can talk about everything in the world and tell each other all the secrets you’ve ever had.
When it’s never better to sleep apart, but when you sleep in one bed it’s so difficult to fall asleep at all.
When you’re together you don’t let go each others hands not for a second.
When you start acting and thinking very similar, and suddenly find out that you both copy each other even in intonations.
When you look at the world around not only with yours but with his eyes at the same time, when you note around everything that could be interesting or useful for him.
When you tell one another the smallest impressions and can always count on total understanding.
When you see your future only with him and see no future without him.
When suddenly and fully understand the meaning of the word “family”.
When you’d rather stay alone than go anywhere without him but nobody doesn’t expect you to come alone anywhere at all.
When every moment is the right moment to call him, and when you feel when he’s is going to call you.
When you look at him the color of your eyes changes and in your turn you are sure that he won’t every look at anybody with those eyes he’s looking at you.
When you are apart the letters from each other come just on time, when you most expect them to come.
When you both have one past, share the same memories and built together the plans for future, when you are rewriting all the plans you had before he came so they could suit him too.
When you learn all his weak points to avoid pressing on them.
When you are beside him you never and nowhere feel out of place.
When you want to go around the world together and at the same time settle down somewhere, build a house, grow a garden and bring up kids together. And you will be making that house a home, keeping it warm, clean, nice so that he would always feel comfortable there.
When you want to take care of him all the times and always feel that care from his side.
When you want to support and help him and do everything, even impossible only to keep him happy.
When you both start doing things you’ve never done before and when you quit doing some things that you’ve been used to.
When you can let yourself be weak.
When you stop looking at the other man at all.
When you both become better day after day because you want to be the best for each other.
When everything you’re doing is right seems to him and when everything he’s doing seems right to you.
When you want every single day to last forever.
When you are never alone.
How can one make this fairytale last forever? Is it possible at all? How not to loose such a great love, not to let it efface itself among the worries of everyday life? These are the questions on which one should work for all his/her life.

You may be in love if...

One of the most common human experiences that two or more (depending on how ambitious you are) people can share is love. But, it’s not always easy to tell if you are in “like”, “lust” or full blown, forever loving. With that in mind, I’ve created this list of signs that you may be crazy in love!

1. If you’ve ever stared deeply into the eyes of your significant other for more than 10 seconds without cracking up hysterically … you may be in love.

2. If every person in your life tells you that she/he’s no good and you’re mailman, pharmacist and local news station agrees, yet you think they are “just jealous” … you may be in love.

3. Guys: if you’ve taken the pictures of the other women in you’re life off the walls, like the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition posters, Playmate of the month calendar, Monster Truck Rally 2005 … you may be in love.

4. Ladies: men can produce excessive amounts of eye watering, nose burning noxious odor from almost any food or drink, and then aren’t above sharing it with others, especially at night. Knowing all this, and you STILL want to sleep in the same bed with him … you may be in love.

5. If your significant other asks you how they look in their new retro polyester lime green outfit and you say they look hot … you may be in love…. or you have a really strong self preservation instinct.

6. Guys: if you’ve ever given up washing and waxing that new car you just bought to watch “Sleepless in Seattle” with you’re girlfriend/wife for the 20th time … you may be in love.

7. If you always remember every anniversary and birthday of your partner, and you’re not female … you may be in love.

8. If you think the underwear and socks you get for your birthday and Christmas every year is a pleasant surprise … you may be in love.

9. If you thought the Sears Tool Set and rolling cabinet you got for your birthday was great idea, and you’re not male ... you may be in love.

10. If you are taken to Burger King for a romantic dinner, and that doesn’t bother you … you may be in love.

11. If you notice your local florist starts arriving at work in a limo since you became a customer ... you may be in love

12. If hearing "Honey, wheres my clean underwear?" brings tears of joy to your eyes ... you may be in loveBut the easiest way to tell if you are in love is this: If there is no one on this planet that you would rather spend everyday of your life with than the one you are with … then you ARE in love!

Top Ten Ideas for Romantic Proposal

Given below are the top ten ideas for romantic proposal:
One of the most popular ideas for proposing is to go down on your knees and tell your partner how much you love him/her. Although very common, it works every time.
Another one of the famous marriage proposal ideas is to prepare a little treasure hunt. Plant clues all over the house and give him/her the first one. The clues should be easy for him/her to find out. When he/she goes to the last place you will be there, holding the ring and ready to propose.
Invite your partner for dinner at your place and cook his/her favorite dishes. Decorate one room with aroma candles and fill the entire floor with rose petals (obviously red). With soft music playing in the background, have dinner in some other room. Now, blindfold your partner and take him/her into the decorated room. Remove the blindfold and propose.
Invite your partner over to your place. And just before he/she is about to come, write the words "I Love You or Will You Marry Me" on the lawns of your house with flower petals. He/she is going to love it.
Book his/her favorite restaurant and arrange for the proper candle light dinner with violin playing in the background. After you have your desert, have the waiter bring a tray decorated with flower petals, with the jewelry box in the center and just above it a card expressing your feelings for him/her.
If you have the keys to his/her house, decorate his/her entire room with flowers before he/she gets up or comes back from the office. Just after his/her waking up or getting back, propose with a ring in your hand.
Take him/her to an echo point and shout your proposal at the top of your voice. Your words will come back to her many times and emphasize your feelings.
Plan a small magical evening for the two of you. Have the magician pop out the jewelry box suddenly in front of him/her, at the end of the magic show.
Buy a notebook and cut out the circle in the middle of all the pages, big enough for the ring. On each page write something that you really love about him/her. On the last page write the million-dollar question and keep the ring in between.
Buy a talking parrot and train it to say

"I Love You".

Gift it to your partner on the day you want to propose.

To know that i could bring hope to someones life brings me joy & happiness

"To anyone who needs advice with their problems & want to know the real "YOU" i'd like to help in a way that could help you improve how you see things that are presently going in your life.To tell honestly,i do not have any educational background in psychology or in any related course but i'm confident enough to say that with my own experiences in life i could be a great help to anyone who needs it.I'm very willing & happy to help,just send me your questions.I'm going to make time to answer."

Forgiveness the divine way to Eternal Happiness

Forgiveness-The divine asset

What according to you makes a relationship last a lifetime? Is it only love and understanding. Well it takes lot more than that to make a relationship work. And one of the most important aspect of it is the ability to forgive your partner. It takes a lot of courage to forgive and one who learns to forgive learns to love and make a relationship work. It is said "To err is human and to forgive is divine". How true it is. For only forgiveness can make you understand what love really is.When you forgive you do it for you, not for the other. Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself. It is not something you do for someone else. But it is something you do for yourself and in a way you give yourself peace of mind and it makes you a good person. Refusing to forgive by holding on to the anger, resentment and a sense of betrayal can make your own life miserable. There is nothing so bad that cannot be forgiven. So don't hold on to the anger and resentment but let go of it and you will be much happier in life.Healthy love relationship is not possible without forgiveness! If you have been hurt in your love relationship then it is not possible to enter into fresh relationships unless you have learnt to forgive. You cannot have a loving and rewarding relationship with anyone else, much less yourself, if you continue to hold on to things that happened in the past. Regardless of the situation, making peace with past love partners, your parents, children, your boss or anyone who you think may have "done you wrong" is the only way to improve your chances of a "healthy" relationship with yourself or anyone else for that matter! It is not possible to truly be present and available to a new relationship until you heal the hurt and upsets of the past. You can never live in the present and create a new and exciting future for yourself and your love partner if you always stay stuck in the past. Remember there is no future in the past and all the love awaits you in the future. Forgive and forget is a myth. You may never forget but you can choose to forgive and move on. With time the hurt and the pain will fade. Forgiveness cleanses your system of the poison that will surely worsen and cause sufferings and continued misery if not released. Don't poison your mind with resentment and anger. You cannot take the poison and expect someone else to die. Those who have wronged you will go on with their life and you will be the only one to continue to suffer. So learn to forgive and move on with your life. Remember you deserve to be happy.

To have a PERFECT LOVE is the road on having a perfect life.

Characteristics of a great partner

What do you look into your partner? What do you expect form him/her? Every person has an image of their partner in their minds and think that their partner should be loving, considerate, joyful, have a great sense of humour and should love them crazily. Following are a few things that one always tries to search in their partner and which not only makes a great partner but also are the characteristics of a great relationship.
Someone who is caring and honest.
Someone who laughs with you and cries with you and is there for you at all the times.
Someone who truly listens to what you say and understands that though listening is a key, but using what is heard is even more important.
Someone who knows what you want before you say it.
Someone who respects you for what you are and does not flatter you unnecessarily.
Someone who is open and responsive and with whom you can confide in like a friend.
Someone who is never critical and ill tempered and knows how to compromised in the relationship.
Someone who loves you with all his heart.
Someone who likes everything that you do.
Someone with whom you have many common interests to share.
Someone who is trustworthy and who will risk his/her life for you.
Someone who takes time to listen and enjoy you for who you are and tries not to make you something else.
Someone that has a personality with qualities you don't have yourself, but admire greatly in them.
Someone who loves the stupid stuff you do without making fun of you.
Someone who appreciates your food even if it is not tasty but loves it because you have worked so hard to prepare it.
Someone who can make you happy when you are sad.
Someone who tells you the truth even if you don't want to hear it.
Someone who is a sweet, romantic person who cherishes you no matter what.
Someone who knows you're not perfect but treats you as though you are.
Someone who is a great person, a great kisser, and a great lover!

Romantic Souls on Earth

Relationship guidelines


In any relationship what is important is understanding and trust. It is important to build and maintain a FRIENDSHIP in your relationship and that you give your partner the benefit of the doubt when times are tough... namely TRUST! Learn to understand each other, know each other and know what makes your partner happy.What Men Need to Know: The Woman's Point of View 1. The most important thing is being sensitive and romantic in your words and action. Please don't fake your emotions and say things you don't mean.2. Please listen to what she is saying. Most of the men never try to know what a woman wants because they never listen attentively. Don't take your girl for granted. 3. DO build her trust by being faithful and truthful, and always "being there." 4. Spend time together, cuddling, kissing and learn to enjoy foreplay and learn about her body and erogenous zones instead of jumping to the real thing.
5. Never expect or demand sex.What Women Need to know: The Man's Point of View 1. Do take the initiative instead of expecting him to be the one to initiative first always.2. Try to accept him without judgment. 3. If you are still dating don't expect him to profess his love for you so soon.4. DON'T push him into a commitment or an exclusive relationship. 5. Don't take everything personally. 6. Don't always expect him to apologies to you. 7. DO let him withdraw once in awhile; understand his need to be alone, to take things slowly, or to have a night out with the guys.It is quite normal to have up's and down's in a relationship but how you argue when in a relationship can determine if you have a relationship that falls apart or lasts.Things to avoid when arguing or fighting with your relationship partner: 1. Criticism, 2. Contempt, 3. Defensiveness and stonewalling (withdrawing from talking)Good things to use in an argument:1. Using humor to break tension in an argument. 2. Expressions of affection for your partner. 3. Acknowledge your partners point of view.