"Awakening Facts For Women"

Real Information For Women

Lets get to the POINT, every female want a man to be real and respect her as a women,Right. But yet they don't respect themselves,why i say that.... good question because the first thing that a women look at, is a male looks, that's the first thing she look at, then she look at how he dress. But a man do have to dress nice, that shows he care about his appearance ,and he have to look presentable if you know what i mean.

A women want a man to love her and only her with unconditional love but yet they don't love themselves. Cause if they love theirselves, they won't keep allowing men to get their heart broken countless amount of times even though they know the guy ain't know good. Just for the tittle that i've got a man, Well that's most females, Tell me why the female most of the time fall for the man first knowing that his feeling are not as strong as the women and they wonder why they always having bad relationship, Real talk a man going to treat you on how you carry your self when he first meet you.

A man going to judge you on what you wearing, when he FIRST meet you, For example if you wearing little shorts with small top or whatever the cast might be, the man is going to think damn she must want me to see it ,why else will she be showing it off and women always wonder why men treat you like you a piece of meat, the first impression is everything. Same to men first impression is everything that mean be up to part. Many women wonder why men cheat that's the big question right, from MY POINT OF VIEW....

1)AFTER THE THRILL OF THE CHASE IS GONE they START TAKING FEMALES 4 GRANTED AND THINKING THEY AIN'T going NOWHERE,which LEADS 2 them GIVING HER LESS ATTENTION.

2)GIRLS WITH LITTLE CLOTHES ATTRACT A lot of men, CAUSE they JUST WANT TO GET YOU IN BED OR whatever the cast might be ,But my question is, why the female wear little clothes any ways she must want them too look..but from a men prospective, they DON'T WANT there girls DRESSING LIKE THAT CAUSE they DoN'T WANT OTHER men TO THINK OR LOOK AT HER LIKE THAT.

3)NEITHER the woman or the man having sex MORE THAN ONE PERSON IS NOT OKAY IN MY PERSONAL POINT OF VIEW & IN GOD's LAW, BUT yet SOCIETY SAYS IT COOL IF a man DO IT AND GIRLS ARE HOEING IF THEY DO that,THAT'S JUST HOW IT IS FOR SOME odd REASONS.

4)some men STOP TALKING too GIRL CAUSE they WON'T LET them BRING HER TO BED, that's because SHE WASN'T WORTH BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH, AND SEX WAS THE ONLY THING the man FELT SHE WAS GOOD FOR(DON'T JUDGE ME ) i'am just stating the facts, that's not how i treat a women but HEY thats how it happen most of the time.

5)MOST GIRLS DO CHEAT ON there man (TRUST ME I KNOW) never happen too me cause i know how to please a women mentally and physically if u know what i mean..but if you JUST PLAY THAT LIL FRIEND ROLE, SEE IF that END UP happen ,that the same with a man.....THE SHYT MIGHT NOT SOUND GOOD BUT ITS DA TRUTH AND THAT'S WAT U WANTED to hear, this real talk...

So don't judge a man on how he look and how he dress to a certain point u know what i mean , first see if he really wanna get to know you as a person not just cause of your body. Any man can talk to countless amount of females and don't have a care in the world but it take a real man to stay with one female and love her unconditional and step up too the plate. Everybody talking bout swag and money they the one's that got the least of both.

Don't get me wrong it's good to have swag its another word of being difference in my eye's and its good to have money but i weather have Love then money any day. CAUSE any body can get money but not everybody can find LOVE.. I'am not talking to every female when i say this but sum...

Most men are DOG'S it's true but there a few good men out there. A women dont need to seek and find a man. GOD will send that mate/soul mate of a man your way, and it's the women to take on the dutie ... that if she see it right in her eye's sometime they pass on the one thats really rite for them, with out struggle there no progression, some time you got to go threw sum hard times just to see the light.

LIVE, LEARN, GROW..................

"Mediocre Women"

"Mediocre Women"

Not hard to find them out in the world, is it?

Mediocre women.

Women who just don’t get it. Women who are decent individuals, in general.

But they are missing something, in the eyes of men.

And they can’t figure out why they don’t do good with girls, why their relationships fail.

They think men are too complicated.

What does a mediocre woman look like? The tell-tale signs:

-extensive time in front of television or wasting her time gossiping & chatting with her friends.

-rarely makes any plans to do anything remotely interesting.

-rarely wants to go along with the man’s plans, calls them ’stupid’.

-makes no effort to understand you.

-makes no effort to improve self.

-has few outside interests.

-takes his woman for granted.

-few relationship skills.

-lack of substance.

-lack of purpose.

-complacent.

-Lazy.

Why is this a problem? She isn’t doing anything WRONG, is she?

Here is where the problem lies... he is boring to men. And men don’t like to be bored.

Men are entertained or interested by different things than women, of course.

What do men wish for?

A Woman who is:

-compelling

-playful

-passionate about life

-adds laughter and humor to her life

-romantic

-adventurous

-intelligent and opinionated

-decisive

-stimulating

-ambitious

Why do Women fall so short with their men? Could be a combination of things-

They are bored themselves. They have no purpose to life, no meaning, no reason to strive for excellence. Maybe they are loaded with issues or past hurts and think that women are stupid. Why try to be interesting to a girl he thinks nothing of? They are selfish and the world revolves around being served, and have no concept of serving their men.

Sure, there are all the screwed up guys out there, who are mean, irritable, smelly, cheaters, liars, controllers, disrespectful. These problems are EASY to find in a woman, and common.

But often, among the decent women out there, even if they are not slut or biatch...They are just mediocre.

I think a lot of these average Gal still wonder, why does it have to be so hard?

It’s not hard, to be compelling to a man, but it does take effort. You do have to pay attention.

Why is boring a problem? It’s not like cheating, but it can still cause a Woman to lose her Man.

Remember this lyric- "he lies and says he’s in love with him, can’t find a better woman"

Yeah.

There is a reason why romance novels are the top-selling genre in the WORLD.

No man wants to "settle". NO man. And if she is with a boring woman, even if she is decent, he may feel like he has settled. It’s a terrible feeling.

Being in a relationship takes away from us. Our time, our energy, our self.

That’s ok, and wonderful, if it also ADDS to our lives.

But the mediocre woman is a drain on a man, because she takes his effort, but gives him no inspiration.

Women want to be seduced, even by their husband of 20 years.

Life is boring enough, bills to pay, kids to feed, toilets to scrub, man to put up with.

If a man is part of his mundane existence, he may resent her for it.

The Woman should be the one to lift him up, and take him away from the mundane, if only for a little while, and sweep him off his feet, help him escape!

Women- want to be her Knight in Shining Armor? Really?

-Rescue him from his boring routine and get a hotel room and some wine.

-leave a quick love note on his steering wheel.

-get a good book and take turns reading to each other.

-Take her out to somewhere unusual. Make it a surprise.

-Learn how to please her sexually. Really. Be adventurous.

What else?

-Be nice. Learn to keep your mouth shut sometimes and not say stupid things.

-Take a class or two. Take it together. Have something new to talk about.

-Chase your dreams a little. Tell her about them. Ask her about his. LISTEN.

-Shut the TV off.

-Be passionate about things. Find out what HIS passions are.

-Encourage his to reach her potential. Be his cheerleader.

-Invite his to be a part of what you are doing more.

-Take in interest in what he is doing a little more.

-Don’t ignore him. Don’t neglect him.

-Defend him.

-Be energetic.

-Be funny. Learn some new jokes. Take him to a comedy club.

-He wants to admire you. Be admirable. Volunteer somewhere. Help the old lady next door.

-Have a purpose to your life.

You don’t have to be his girlfriend, but you are supposed to be his BEST friend.

Ask yourself-

What kind of a wonman is truly interesting to men. ASK men. Find out. BE her.

What kind of women do men fantasize about? What do those gals do?

No matter how long you have been with your man, date him. Seduce him.

Find out what triggers his attraction for you, and do it. You cannot slack off, and stop trying, and wonder why he isn’t passionate for you, like she used to be, and seems resentful towards you now.

Gentlemen, ever find yourself saying "I just don’t feel it anymore" or "I just don’t feel ’in love’ with her like I used to" and not even be able to explain it?

Women, ever had a man tell you that? Even if you have done nothing wrong... maybe you weren’t doing much right, either.

Yes, you should take out the trash, shovel the walk, and help with the dishes.

Handle your responsibilities. But you can do better than that and you know it.

HE knows it.

Make it happen. Make it important.

Or you may find that, you have packaged up your man, and positioned her perfectly-

To send him away, seeking what he still has not found.

Do this good stuff for him, be fun, even if he doesn’t deserve it, or you have a lot of problems / fights...

See how you, the man, can inspire change, deciding that you are going to be that compelling man... and see if he is indeed compelled... he may have been tough on you because he wants you to be a REAL woman, and doesn’t know how to tell you. And if you figure it out, he may feel attraction and love for you like you could never have imagined. So figure it out.

Find out how to make your man thrilled to be next to you.

Do you have any idea what that thrilled man would do for you in return?

a passionate man will inspire passion.