"Awakening Facts For Women"

Real Information For Women

Lets get to the POINT, every female want a man to be real and respect her as a women,Right. But yet they don't respect themselves,why i say that.... good question because the first thing that a women look at, is a male looks, that's the first thing she look at, then she look at how he dress. But a man do have to dress nice, that shows he care about his appearance ,and he have to look presentable if you know what i mean.

A women want a man to love her and only her with unconditional love but yet they don't love themselves. Cause if they love theirselves, they won't keep allowing men to get their heart broken countless amount of times even though they know the guy ain't know good. Just for the tittle that i've got a man, Well that's most females, Tell me why the female most of the time fall for the man first knowing that his feeling are not as strong as the women and they wonder why they always having bad relationship, Real talk a man going to treat you on how you carry your self when he first meet you.

A man going to judge you on what you wearing, when he FIRST meet you, For example if you wearing little shorts with small top or whatever the cast might be, the man is going to think damn she must want me to see it ,why else will she be showing it off and women always wonder why men treat you like you a piece of meat, the first impression is everything. Same to men first impression is everything that mean be up to part. Many women wonder why men cheat that's the big question right, from MY POINT OF VIEW....

1)AFTER THE THRILL OF THE CHASE IS GONE they START TAKING FEMALES 4 GRANTED AND THINKING THEY AIN'T going NOWHERE,which LEADS 2 them GIVING HER LESS ATTENTION.

2)GIRLS WITH LITTLE CLOTHES ATTRACT A lot of men, CAUSE they JUST WANT TO GET YOU IN BED OR whatever the cast might be ,But my question is, why the female wear little clothes any ways she must want them too look..but from a men prospective, they DON'T WANT there girls DRESSING LIKE THAT CAUSE they DoN'T WANT OTHER men TO THINK OR LOOK AT HER LIKE THAT.

3)NEITHER the woman or the man having sex MORE THAN ONE PERSON IS NOT OKAY IN MY PERSONAL POINT OF VIEW & IN GOD's LAW, BUT yet SOCIETY SAYS IT COOL IF a man DO IT AND GIRLS ARE HOEING IF THEY DO that,THAT'S JUST HOW IT IS FOR SOME odd REASONS.

4)some men STOP TALKING too GIRL CAUSE they WON'T LET them BRING HER TO BED, that's because SHE WASN'T WORTH BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH, AND SEX WAS THE ONLY THING the man FELT SHE WAS GOOD FOR(DON'T JUDGE ME ) i'am just stating the facts, that's not how i treat a women but HEY thats how it happen most of the time.

5)MOST GIRLS DO CHEAT ON there man (TRUST ME I KNOW) never happen too me cause i know how to please a women mentally and physically if u know what i mean..but if you JUST PLAY THAT LIL FRIEND ROLE, SEE IF that END UP happen ,that the same with a man.....THE SHYT MIGHT NOT SOUND GOOD BUT ITS DA TRUTH AND THAT'S WAT U WANTED to hear, this real talk...

So don't judge a man on how he look and how he dress to a certain point u know what i mean , first see if he really wanna get to know you as a person not just cause of your body. Any man can talk to countless amount of females and don't have a care in the world but it take a real man to stay with one female and love her unconditional and step up too the plate. Everybody talking bout swag and money they the one's that got the least of both.

Don't get me wrong it's good to have swag its another word of being difference in my eye's and its good to have money but i weather have Love then money any day. CAUSE any body can get money but not everybody can find LOVE.. I'am not talking to every female when i say this but sum...

Most men are DOG'S it's true but there a few good men out there. A women dont need to seek and find a man. GOD will send that mate/soul mate of a man your way, and it's the women to take on the dutie ... that if she see it right in her eye's sometime they pass on the one thats really rite for them, with out struggle there no progression, some time you got to go threw sum hard times just to see the light.

LIVE, LEARN, GROW..................

"I Want To Kiss Your Sex"

Are You Quite Disappointed?

I hope not!

Hello! Now that I have your attention I’ll admit that this blog has nothing to do with sex, or wanting it, getting it, trying to get it, or keeping it. As I search out ‘worthy’ blogs to read, ‘raunchy sex blogs’ appear to be a topic which will land many bloggers fame-for-a-minute on Blogspot. Honestly, I can’t say that I waste my time in reading this garbage as it is often written using foul language and in poor taste. But hey, sex sells! - Even if it is poorly written, makes little sense and is highly offensive at times.

Nope, I’m not here to judge anyone who wants to write about sex. They are the ones who are the top bloggers unlike me, so who am I to condemn that? Yet as a published author of one novel and a freelance writer of articles I use blogging as a way to unclog ‘mental constipation’ which often seems to find me.

My blogs may sometimes be silly but I do attempt to write things worthy of your time, because your time is valuable, as is mine. Thanks to all of you who do read my blogs, and I hope never to waste a few minutes of your life.

YOU ARE WHAT YOU READ

Remember that.

"Emotions Unfold"

emotional contagion One midnight, I had just finished another shift at a job I didn’t like so I was alive with energy. I smiled, my eyes were open, I felt good about myself. I said my usual goodbyes to a friend and sprung into my car. My friend reversed his car just before I had the chance to leave my car park so he had beaten me this time – it was an unspoken game that took place each time we left from work. I waited for him to get out of the way before I reversed to make my way home. As I was leaving, the open car park gave me an invitation to have a little fun with my car. If landscapes could talk, this one was whispering into my ear that I should spin the wheels. “Besides, it’s late at night. No one is around and you’re feeling great. It’s an open car park with no danger. Do it!” said the persuasive voice. Like a vulnerable teenager succumbing to peer pressure, I accepted the invitation. The car became an extension of my body as it began to mimic my ecstatic mood. I put my foot down hard on the accelerator as I spun the wheel left around the first corner. As the rear tires lost their stability and the car went side-ways, I entered the next turn and spun the wheel right. The sound of screeching tires was like water fertilizing my increasing smile. Smoke filled the rims of my tires and a shot of adrenaline filled my body. Following the consecutive drifts, I straightened the car and approached a set of traffic lights on the main road that would take me home. Had this been during the daytime, about seven cars would be in front of me before the upcoming traffic lights. I decided to keep complying with the road’s persuasive voice as it told me to “be a little adventurous” so I decided, or rather I let the road decide for me, that I should turn left instead of my usual right turn. Not exactly an Indiana Jones adventure, but it was different. My friend who had left before me had just gone through the traffic lights a few seconds before me so the lights were still green. Keeping in the mood, I put my foot down on the accelerator to catch the green light. I would make it. I turned around the corner with a soft screech of the tires and there, 20 meters in front of me, on the side of the road were two police officers beside their vehicle. They pulled me over. Opposite to what you might be thinking, I was not concerned. I was still in my elevated state. I wound down my window and an angry officer came charging at me, yelling, “What the hell are you thinking? What the hell is going through your mind?” I paused momentarily, unaffected by his aggressive state. I said smilingly, “I’m just happy, I guess”. Not a smart response. It just hit me that I was out of it. I knew I should have said something else. I gulped. My mind rushed to think of some communication techniques I could use as a life boat to save me from drowning in the conversation. The moment was intense and all that came to mind were some techniques on getting out of a speeding-ticket. I thought to myself that I’ll give the techniques a shot. After all, I had annoyed the officer enough already. As I was thinking how to approach this difficult situation, I was still happy of course. My happy mood seemed to pour fuel on his already raging fire. “Bloody hell mate! I could just give you a ticket right now!” My smile began to lower. I no longer made eye contact with the officer. The officer’s raging mood began to infect me and cause me to feel angry. It was as if my body had been overcome by an emotional virus the officer had given me. I thought of the techniques to get out of a speeding-ticket and realized I was already beginning to use them. Well, it was too late to make the officer feel safe as he approached the car, but I needed to no longer act oblivious to my mistake. I needed to show respect as officers are in a clear position of authority and often experience disrespect throughout their day that only makes them more determined to convict guilty citizens. “You’re right.” I replied. “I was stupid and careless.” The officer was still enraged and continued to threaten me with a ticket. I knew he could easily write me a ticket, but he wasn’t writing one possibly because officers hate the paperwork created from citizens breaking the law. I kept myself aligned with the officer’s reality by remaining in a “Yes I’m wrong, stupid, and shouldn’t have done that” mood. I continued to play psychological judo, and match my mood with his own, until two minutes later he said to drive off. And oh, I got no ticket! I drove off – though feeling pleased I had beaten a reckless driving ticket – in an irritated state. The officer had destroyed my happy mood. It took two minutes of talking with the officer to completely transform my happy state into a joyless, gloomy mood. All it took was two minutes to convert my mood and there I was, in an unhappy state for the remaining two hours until I went to bed. Everyday you are interacting with people at different mood levels. Sometimes you’re happier than people you are talking to, other times they are happier than you. Whatever the case maybe, emotions are being transferred to various people. This is a fascinating peculiarity with emotions. Have you ever noticed how we feel in our interactions is not just dependent on our internal state? How did you feel when someone really annoyed began talking to you? You became more annoyed. How did you feel when someone unhappy began talking to you? You began to be unhappy. How did you feel when a charismatic person talked to you? You felt his energy and you began to feel happier.

"Think Creatively"

Creative Thinking

Creative thinking refers to the ability of solving problems using new ways and finding different methods of accomplishing your daily tasks . Creative thinking can also lead to new insights and to new visions
which will result in achieving your goals and gaining success.

I Am Not Creative

Lots of people may think that being creative is related to genes or that creative people are gifted, but the truth is, we are all creative. Have you ever noticed a child playing? a child can almost invent a new game out of any object he finds. I am sure that as a child you used to do the same, so if you think that you are not creative , then something must have happened to you along the way. This is what we call routine.

Routine and creativity

As children, we were all creative, but the infinite instructions we recieved from o

ur parents and the restrictions that were imposed on us in our schools helped in diminishing our creativity.

“Hey, you should not touch this, its hazardous”
“Where is your tie? You cant go to school without it”
“Don’t play there or your hands will become dirty”
“You will work from 9 to 5, everyday, and if you are late for five minutes then better not come”

Moreover, systematic jobs that require you to do the same exact tasks everyday, eat out creativity. Strict time tables, like having a day scheduled on hourly basis, will do the same to your creativity. Working in closed areas, or having a desk job will reduce your creativity too. These restrictions over time will transform you into a single minded person ,So no wonder why are not as creative as you used to be.

How to Become Creative

You are probably now saying to yourself that its impossible to avoid all of these restrictions. In order to restore your lost creativity you don’t have to avoid routine but you have to have some free time every now and then. For example, you should have one day per week free of any kind of restrictions , don’t put any plans for that day and just let it flow smoothly.

The other thing is, spending time in open spaces can help you become more creative. Why not spend one day per week at the sea side? Pay visits to natural sights every now and then? This will definitely help you in restoring your creativity .

While working you should take a break and unplug your mind completely for a few minutes . Some people spend allot of free time alone, but they never stop thinking about work!! Some people even take work with them to bed, they just can’t stop thinking about what they are going to do tomorrow, a

nd the result is the deterioration of their creative abilities.

Left brain and right Brain

Your brain is divided into two main hemispheres, the left hemisphere and the right hemisphere. The former is responsible for logic and reasoning, the latter is responsible for intuition and creativity. One of the best things you can do to enhance your creativity is to train both hemispheres to work together. Some people focus on accomplishing tasks that train only their left brains , so they end up with no creative abilities. For information on how to use both hemispheres together check out this article.

Creative Thinking

If you want to think of a creative solution for a problem then you out into consideration the following points:

1-There is no exact solution to a problem, but there is definitely more than one solution to it .
2-False beliefs can limit creativity, for example if you are convinced that you will never find a solution to your problem,then you will never find one.
3-Never put restrictions on your thoughts, even if a solution seems silly or unacceptable just imagine that you have implemented it, this could lead you to a third solution that is both acceptable and feasible
4-Break out of the routine, at least while thinking for the solution
5-Brainstorming can be very helpful; two unacceptable ideas from your friends can lead you to a third acceptable idea.
6- every now and then do something that you have never done before
7- try to have some free time every now and then
8- sit with creative people,try and see how creative you in comparison to those people.

"The Power Of Music In Our Lives"

How Music Affects Your Life

Music is a human activity which involves structured, audible sounds and is used for artistic, entertainment or ceremonial purposes. Music is a major part of our environment. Music is often referred to as "The International Language" - a simple thought with vast implications behind it. Even if you cannot speak the language of a foreign country, you can move, dance, and most of all, enjoy the music of that country. While we may not understand the words to a particular song, we do understand the beauty of the music.

The making of music predates man's use of the written word and is deeply tied to the development and uniqueness of various human cultures. Music has influenced human beings since the dawn of civilization. Music is written and performed for a variety of purposes, including human pleasure, religious or ceremonial functions, or as entertainment products for sale in the marketplace.

Music greatly affects our personal moods. Music can calm and revitalize us in a variety of ways. It can elevate our moods above our personal fears and doubts and even reduce stress and pain levels.

Try listening to a classical music score for a sense of power. Soft, soothing music can help you unwind. And listen to medium-fast to fast music for exercising and house cleaning. Putting additional music in your life can be a powerfully enriching tool.

As with everything created by humans, there is an elemental basis for the composition of music. The basic essence of music lies with its harmony, rhythm, melody and dynamics. Harmony is the relation of notes to notes as they are play simultaneously. Rhythm, by the most simple definition, is musical time.

Melody is a musical line of single tones or pitches, heard by the
listener as a single unity. Dynamics provide the emotion behind the musical thought. Dynamics tell the performer when to play a piece softly or when to play loudly--music ranges from a mere whisper to the fullest of sound.

Just as there are a multitude of definitions for the term "music", likewise there are many divisions and groupings of music, many of which are caught up in the argument over the precise definition of music. Among the larger theme areas are classical music, popular or commercial music (including rock and roll), country music and folk music. Some genres such as bebop-era jazz, rap, punk rock and electronic music are often discounted as "real music" by member music lovers.

As world cultures have grown closer, their particular musical styles and instruments have often merged. For example, U.S.-American bluegrass music contains elements from Anglo-Irish, Scottish, German and some African-American instrumental and vocal traditions. American music is truly product of the multi-ethnic "melting pot" society.

Whatever style of music you prefer, take the time regularly to enjoy your special musical composition. Music is good for your soul!

Music is your own experience, your own thoughts, your wisdom. I think music in itself is healing. It's an explosive expression of humanity. It's something we are all touched by. No matter what culture we're from, everyone loves music. Music is the key to the female heart.

MUSIC, MUSIC, MUSIC

Everyone’s life follows the vein of his upbringing. Some people tell stories about a different way of life: experiences, traditions, customs, and routines that are often times exclusive to their families, cultures, or nationalities. While there are many differences among us, we have at least one great thing in common: Music. We all share music. We enjoy music, music, music. Irrespective of language, culture, customs, traditions, nationality, and religion, everyone makes a place for music in his life. Some of us write music. Some of us dance to music. Some of us sing music, and some just listen to it. Music is the thread that weaves our lives together in some way or another.

Consider a party guy who loves Disco, Pop, and Techno. From Donna Summer’s “Last Dance” to Jonas Brothers’ “Burnin’ Up” to MIA’s “Bamboo Banga,” he has no shortage of fun music to which he can shake his…Hmm! When he’s feeling more subdued and in the mood for a little culture, he appreciates Luciano Pavarotti’s Opera singing, Gustavo Dudamel & Simon Bolivar’s Classical “Fiesta,” and perhaps tops it off with a little Ella Fitgerald, the greatest Jazz songstress of all time. He listens to “Ella Sings Gershwin” and moves on to her lively “Rain on My Parade.” But he’s instantly trapped by her incredible scat, and he throws in her “Black Magic” for good measure. How can he stop there when there’s so much more to "Walk this Way" to? by Run DMC and Aerosmith.

If you walk into an elevator, you’re likely to hear smooth Jazz or Classical music. If you walk into a club, you’re met with a cocktail of funky sounds—Rock, Soul, Hip Hop, Latin, Ska, Metal, Punk, and Rap. If you stroll through a mall or an airport anywhere in the world, there is music in the air. When a baby is put to sleep, the music of a soft lullaby soothes his spirit. There’s music in the streets, churches, synagogues, schools, concerts, clubs, hospitals, homes, restaurants, shopping malls, banquets, and weddings. There is even music at funerals. Music consumes our lives from birth to death, and what a beautiful thing to be cradled by music, music, music!

"Be Bold,Be Brave,Be Different"

Avoiding Mediocrity: Do You Dare to Be Different?

I don’t know about you, but one of the things I’m afraid most in life is mediocrity. For me, life is too precious to be lived in mediocrity. Life is a golden opportunity, and we should use it as good as we can. Living in mediocrity means we do not use the opportunity as good as we should.

Unfortunately, many people are trapped in mediocrity. I believe one of the main reasons is they do not dare to be different. You need to be different if you want to be above the average. The question is:

Do you dare to be different?

This question might not be easy to answer, but how you answer it will make the difference between excellence and mediocrity.

Here are some more specific questions to help you check yourself and take actions:

1. Do you have a dream?

This is the first question you should ask yourself. I believe one of the main reasons people just follow the herd is they don’t have a dream. If there is nothing to pursue then why bother being different?

But a dream is what sets you above the average. Not having a dream means going to mediocrity on autopilot.

If your answer for this first question is “no” then start searching. I’m sure you have a dream deep inside of you. It might be something from your childhood. Maybe for long time you have been too busy to let the little voice of your dream be heard. This is the right time to heed that little voice.

If you have found your dream, the next question is whether or not you have the courage to follow it. Questions two through five will deal with that.

2. Are you doing what you want or what you should?

There are often implicit “rules” about what someone should do in a particular situation. For example, when there are two job opportunities, the “rule” says that you should take the one with higher pay.

But is that what you want? I mean, does it help you achieve your dream? Maybe the job with less pay will help you achieve your dream while the one with higher pay doesn’t. Do you have the courage to be different and follow your dream?

3. Do you worry more about being loved than being what you love?

Another reason why we don’t dare to be different is because we are trying to meet other people’s expectations. We often worry more about what other people say than about what matters to us. But living someone else’s life is a bad way to live your life. Why should you lose opportunity just because of what other people say?

4. Do you choose what is safe rather than what is right?

Maybe you are not trying to meet other people’s expectation. Maybe you just don’t want to take risks and therefore you choose to play safe. But this is exactly what many old people regret.

When they were asked in a study about what they regretted most and what they would do differently, most of them answered: “I wish I had risked more.” Don’t let the same regret happen to you.

5. If you had only six months left to live, would you do what you are doing now?

You can only answer “yes” to this question if what you are doing matters to you. Doing what matters to you is a sure way to excellence since you will do it with all your heart. But you need the courage to be different and follow your heart. Do you have it? I hope your answer is yes. Life is too precious to be lived in mediocrity.

What Makes a Great Actor?

In The World Of Acting

This week we're asking visitors to nominate the UK's greatest living actors, so it seems pretty timely to look at those qualities which make a great actor.

First, I think, we have to make a distinction between those who are popular because of their looks and/or because of their appearance in a high profile film or TV series and those who are actually very skilled at their craft. It has to be said that popularity, in itself, is no guarantee that the actor concerned is actually particularly good - even if saying so may offend their fans!

There are a number of soap actors, for instance, who branch out into other work - usually television - and end up playing the same role over and over again. The name and the script may be different, but the character is exactly the same. Push me for a example, and I would instance Leslie Grantham.

On the evidence of what I have seen - and I must admit that I haven't seen everything he's done - it seems to me that Grantham has played the same role every time I've seen him. He does it well, certainly, but it does suggest to me that he can best be described as a good actor within a limited range of parts.

In a way, one could say that actors such as Granthan occupy much the same place in the public's affections as the matinee idols of a previous generation. Of course, some matinee idols did grow in stature - after all, Olivier was just such a one in the 1930s - and TV-related fame can lead to better things. I remember, about twenty years ago, chatting to actor Paul Henry (who played Benny in that awful soap Crossroads) over a drink and asking him how he felt about being known for what everyone in the business recognised as the bottom end of the market.

"Don't knock it," he replied. "Because of that I've had the opportunity to do the kind of theatre at the sort of level that I might never have otherwise."

So I think we can say that one sign of a good actor is the ability to play very different roles. But that isn't to say that a good actor must be a chameleon-like figure, changing how he looks and sounds with every part. Some are, of course. For me the perfect example is Sir Alec Guinness: his ability to become the role he was playing was awesome in its totality.

A fine example of an actor who could play a multitude of roles whilst retaining his own personal characteristics was another of our great theatrical knights, Sir John Gielgud. That beautiful, melodious voice is unmistakable, whether he was playing the part he loved best, Prospero, or the Chancellor of Oxford University in Inspector Morse. And yet he was totally convincing in both parts, as he was in everything he played, including what many still consider to be the definitive Hamlet.

Any actor with any talent can convince us in the right part: for the great actor, every part is the right part. Think of Olivier: in his great classical roles, as Archie Rice or the dentist in Marathon Man, he convinced. We believed. The touchstone of greatness is versatility: that is what separates the competent from the great.

"Unsaid Words"

Unsaid Unsent
AM for everyone

How many times that we should have told someone something that we really wanted them to know? How many times that we failed to inform them about what we really we wanted to say? How many times we postponed some announcements because we knew it will be devastating? How many time we say hi and goodbye but we really didn’t meant it? How many times we only keep to ourselves the sweet nothings that should be heard by our loved ones? How many times we did not greet our loved ones in their special occasions but we knew that they are waiting for us to say it?

And how many times that we really want to write but did not materialized because we suspend our judgments regarding other matters? How many times we tend to forget to send cards full of heartwarming words for our loved ones on their special occasions? How many times we did not appreciate the emails that we received from our loved ones? And this may be the right time that this article be sent to you. And may you understand the importance of remembering those who loved us, those who are willing to sacrifice for us. And the unsent and unsaid be out for the world to know!

"Expression By Words,How to write a letter"

How to write a love letter
Letters of love are said to be the most often kept and the most often burnt. linkshare It's probably the hardest thing to write even for a professional writer. The whole magic is not the words you write, but the way you write. While reading, the receiver must feel all you feel, your sincerity and your love. It's surely not an easy task, but everything is possible.

As mentioned before, the most important thing in writing a love letter is your feelings; not your writing style or the vocabulary you use. If you are not a talented writer, let it be, write it the way you can, the person will appreciate it as it is, even though it's not a new art treasure.
Of course you can make the most of it.

Choose special mail writing paper and don't even think of printing it. It should be hand written.

Put it in an envelope. linkshare If you have some special experiences together, you may write it on a post card that would make the person remember those moments spent together. It'll make it even more affective. Handango Inc. The presentation of the letter is just as important as the content of it.

You should also pay great attention to spelling. Misspelled words are symbols of carelessness. It won't take your time to look up a questionable word in a dictionary. Try to avoid large complicated words. Using simple ones will make your letter more sincere. And will assure you that you used the word in right context.

While writing a love letter, it is extremely important as to what your relationship is like at the moment. If the receiver is just a friend, or you have been dating him or her for a few months or years, or maybe you are already married.firebox

If he or she is your friend, you should avoid too much passion. The letter should express your feelings, but not scare the person. Don't tell that you want to spend the rest of your life with the receiver. You should make sure that even if he or she won't feel the same way, you'll keep your dignity and you will still remain friends.

If you are dating the person for a couple of months, you can tell him or her exactly how you feel. Still, be careful as not to frighten person with too much passion and love, so that even if he or she doesn't feel the same as you do, you could continue dating.

Marriage is a different thing. You can write anything you want, express as much and as strong feeling as you want. If you are married, that means your husband or wife loves you and there's no danger to ruin anything.

The most important thing is to be sincere. Don't push yourself too hard still do the best you can and be very accurate. Don't be afraid to learn that the person doesn't feel the same way. Think of happiness you may have if she or he does. Letters of love are said to be the most often kept and the most often burnt.

It's probably the hardest thing to write even for a professional writer. The whole magic is not the words you write, but the way you write. While reading, the receiver must feel all you feel, your sincerity and your love. It's surely not an easy task, but everything is possible.

As mentioned before, the most important thing in writing a love letter is your feelings; not your writing style or the vocabulary you use. If you are not a talented writer, let it be, write it the way you can, the person will appreciate it as it is, even though it's not a new art treasure.

Of course you can make the most of it. Choose special mail writing paper and don't even think of printing it. It should be hand written. Put it in an envelope. If you have some special experiences together, you may write it on a post card that would make the person remember those moments spent together. It'll make it even more affective. The presentation of the letter is just as important as the content of it.

You should also pay great attention to spelling. Misspelled words are symbols of carelessness. It won't take your time to look up a questionable word in a dictionary.

Try to avoid large complicated words. Using simple ones will make your letter more sincere. firebox And will assure you that you used the word in right context.

While writing a love letter, it is extremely important as to what your relationship is like at the moment. If the receiver is just a friend, or you have been dating him or her for a few months or years, or maybe you are already married.

If he or she is your friend, you should avoid too much passion. firebox The letter should express your feelings, but not scare the person. Don't tell that you want to spend the rest of your life with the receiver. You should make sure that even if he or she won't feel the same way, you'll keep your dignity and you will still remain friends.

If you are dating the person for a couple of months, you can tell him or her exactly how you feel. Still, be careful as not to frighten person with too much passion and love, so that even if he or she doesn't feel the same as you do, you could continue dating.

Marriage is a different thing. You can write anything you want, express as much and as strong feeling as you want. If you are married, that means your husband or wife loves you and there's no danger to ruin anything.

The most important thing is to be sincere. Don't push yourself too hard still do the best you can and be very accurate. Don't be afraid to learn that the person doesn't feel the same way. Think of happiness you may have if she or he does.

"Freedom Of Expression"

Are We Overwhelmed by Our Freedom Of Expression?


Are we aware of how we are using our rights in expressing ourselves,are we not abusing our freedom of expression just to pull down other people.

Are we expressing ourselves by conscience ?
Or are we expressing ourselves because of the benefits?

Many of us abuse the freedom of expression just to satisfy ourselves not considering the feelings of others & how it can affect their lives.

Many of us our narrow minded & practice their freedom of expression without considering how they can destroy other lives.

Expressing ones thought can build or destroy a person,have we ever thought of that!

I don't say that we should suppress our views & judgement but what i'm saying is be more tactful & responsible expressing your thoughts & views. Analyze if you express just for the sake of talking,do it make sense?what would be the result of my action?what will be the effects of my words to my own life or to other lives?Don't just look at what the present will be but you should consider what would be the result of your action in the future.Expression of thoughts through words are very powerful it can uplift one person or it can kill anothers future.Words can changed anyone's life in either way for the better or becoming worse.So i advice that we should be more careful in the words we say & how we say it.Painful words can plant hatred in ones heart that can affect this person through a lifetime.

Negligence & Irresponsible expression can cause anger, hatred & war.

Tactlessness can destroy innocent lives .Words can ruin someone's dreams & hopes.

Do we really want it to be this way?Would we want a change that will help others at the same time will help ourselves to achieve a truly fulfilling life?

Why won't we try to help others in our small special way that can change other lives forever,small deeds it may seem but the effect will last for a lifetime & it can make your life worth living.

Why Slander?Why Gossip?Why Criticize?Why Judge Others without Considering the cause & effect that it can bring.

What are your motives?
What are your intentions?
What will be your benefits?

Are you being reasonable?

To tell you honestly, I myself is so straight forward in dealing & expressing my emotions but i always try to think if what would i say will harm others.If i know i could hurt someone's feelings , i ask myself does he/she deserve it?If yes,what will be the result of my words.Will it only just affect him or there are other people that will be affected of my action.If all this questions are answered then that will be the time i'll decide if i should voice out or just sacrifice my views for the sake of other people that would be involved in the situation that they don't have to be in the first place.

"Being Creative"

5 Easy Ways To Get Your Creative Juices Going

Writing an article doesn’t just mean putting down thoughts into words then typing and writing it. You have to capture the interest of your readers and get them to keep on reading. To send your message across you have to get the attention of the reader and have a firm grasp of their interest and pique their curiosity.

The main ingredient in baking up an article is a large dose of creativity. While creativity may come natural to many people, some just gets into a block or something to that effect that can drive someone crazy. Many writers have literally torn their hair out when they get writers block and just can’t seem to get their creative juices flowing.

Putting words into images in the readers mind is an art. A clear and crisp depiction requires a certain flair that only creativity can provide. Similes and metaphors help a lot, but the way an article gets entwined word for word, sentence by sentence then paragraph by paragraph into a whole article develops the essence of the article.

So just what do you have to do when nothing comes to mind? MyinternetBusiness is a Darren Gaudry's opportunity; There is no surefire ways to get the perfect ideas but there are easy ways to get your creative juices flowing. No one can guarantee you of having the perfect mindset but many methods may aid you in achieving that state of mind. Here are five easy ways for that.

1) Keep a diary or a journal with you always. Ideas can be triggered by anything you may hear, see, or smell. Your senses are your radar in finding great ideas. Write all of them into a journal and keep it with you for future reference. You may also write down anything that you have read or heard, someone’s ideas could be used to develop your own ideas and this is not stealing. Remember that ideas and creativity can come from anywhere; it’s the development of the idea that makes it unique.

2) Relax and take time to sort things out. A jumbled mind cannot create any space for new ideas. Everyone must have a clear mind if one wishes to have their creativity in full speed. Get rid of all obstacles that can be a hindrance to your creativity. If you are bothered by something, you cannot force your mind to stay focused.

Try to relax every time that you can and think about your experiences and interactions with others. Your experiences are what shape your mindset and your opinions which could be reflected on your writings. Try to discover yourself, find out what triggers your emotions. Discover what inspires you and what ticks you off. You can use these emotions to help you in expressing yourself and your ideas, with this you can grow creatively.

3) Create a working place that can inspire your creativeness. Your working place can be quite a hindrance if it doesn’t make you feel happy or relaxed. Creativity comes from being in a good state of mind and a messed up workplace that causes distraction won’t be conducive in firing up your creative flow.

Surround your working place with objects that makes you happy and relaxed. You may put up pictures, or scents, objects that inspire, or anything that can get your creativeness cranking. A clean and well organized workplace also rids of distractions and unwanted hindrances. With a good working place, you can work in peace and never notice the time pass by.

4) Set the mood. Setting the mood requires you to just go with the moment or to induce your self to feeling what makes your mind works best. Finding out what makes you tick could help you find ways to get your creative juices flowing. Set the pace and tempo for your mood and everything else will follow.

There are many ways to set the mood. Some writers have been known to use alcohol, a little sip of wine to stir up the imagination. Some would like some mood music while others let the lighting of the environment create the mood.

5) Go on a getaway and just do something unlike crazy. Letting yourself go and have fun produces adrenaline that can make your imagination go wild. Take an adventure or a solemn hike. Whatever it is that is unusual from your daily routine can take the rut out of your schedule. In no time at all, your creativeness will make use of that experience and get your imagination to go on overdrive.

" You are my POEM"

My Guy , My Dreams



I had met my dream guy indeed, yes i surely did
He is just a regular who is earning 18ok per annum
I realized that i am a very lucky girl

To have a man who is a all time favorite of women
I guess it is bec. he looks good & have a good life

So ,sorry girls i'm just so blessed to have him

My guy is so romantic , very poetic like no one else
He won't talk or go out with other women bec. of me
& he always does misses to have sex but he resist for me

So sweet,so faithful i never wanted any other guy than him

For him I am a beautiful woman
He loves my mind,He loves my soul
I'm his Angel,For him ,I am the one

My guy is very intelligent that i can't compare to no one

He loves multitasking,he is a man of pure energy
He works as a real estate broker,a professional blogger
& software engineer,very talented ...what can i ask for
now he works for the government,as a spy
I am very proud of my man because he works so hard

He thinks so far,He hides so fast,He loves that
& I love him for that,He is a man who craves excitement

& he never runs out of ideas that makes him so hot.
Just staring at my guy makes me want to take off my undies

He is one of a kind,He is Mark Pierre Bongani
& we are moving to India to build our family...my man...my husband.


By: Avi Nascar

"Innocent Love"

PURE LOVE

...of pure LOVE

I know you know
how much I love you.
How our hearts embrace each other
in harmony and passion of kisses in tenderness.

The respect of each other
cultivates our emotion of values we share
that grows in the passing of days and nights.

How I wish
I could express my desire
if only you are near...
under this moonlit sky
that our hearts be together
growing even fonder....

"You are Perfect with Imperfections"

My Best Friend , My Lover

You are the one of best things that happened to my life
You opened my eyes & guided me to see through things
that i never had thought of,things that i never had imagined

You have uplifted me where i was standing when i was lost
I 've learned a lot of things
that no one can teach me but you
You have been part of me since our souls first connect

You inspired me in everything i do,
all my work is a piece of you
We love ,We hate but all i know
my love for you is greater
You have been my best friend that shares my pain & aches

You are all that i need because in you i had found a friend
A lover that gives me passion to love & be a true woman
You are not more or less,for me you are perfect!

You make me love, you make lust!


by: Pink Angel

"Soulmates"

"ONE MIND,ONE SOUL"

Falling in love with you,there is no turning back.Finally i feel like my life is on track.Your love affects me like nothing else I've seen. Nothing can ever part us,I will not let anything get between us.....With you everything just falls into place.

Being with you,to feel your embrace,your heat against mine.
With you my world stops,not noticing things thats surrounds me,it is only you that i can see.

I can never let you know how much you are worth because you are immeasurable,the only thing i can do is to let you feel how much i love you & i appreciate the time I've spent with you.

Every single second ,every single minute.....counts...

I feel your heart beat with each breath that you take ,each time you touch me,my knees start to quake.The light of the moon and the stars can't be compared to my love for you.

To you only i'll share..........I've been thinking about you since the day i first set my eyes on you.Since then you never left my heart & mind,you have been a part of me that i can't resist.

I finally know now what love is all about the moments that I'm with you i can not explain

This feeling for you i can not contain....Please tell me you'll love me until the end of your days.

I want to know you set my heart blazing.You are the air that i breathe and without you i'd die to be with you forever is on what i'd hope.

My heart wants to explode from this feeling brand new,lis covered in love like the fresh morning dew.

It's filled with desire to love you forever,All I want is to hold you,and let go,I'll never..

I'll never stop loving you.I'll never forsake,even the thought make my soul start to ache.I'll be here for you until all time will end,my soul mate,my very best friend.........

My heart & soul is longing to be with you....for you are my soulmate.


BY: THE POETIC SOULMATES