Moving Upward and Onward

Moving Upward and Onward

Don't Sell Yourself Short
It's not what you have but what you do with what you have that will determine your success or failure. Abraham Maslow, the great psychologist said that the story of the human race is the story of people selling themselves short. He said people have a tendency to settle for far less from life than they are truly capable of. Many people are spinning their wheels in careers where they should be moving rapidly onward and upward. Here's how you can put your career on the fast track.

Choose Your Parents Carefully
Someone once said that the key to success was to choose your parents carefully. That may be partially true but it is even more important to choose your job or career with great care. The choice of a job or occupation for which you are ideally suited comes before anything else. If you try to work at something you don't enjoy or don't believe in, you'll never be happy, and you'll never be successful.

Be the Best At What You Do
Which leads us to the next point. If you want to reach the stars in your career, you have to become excellent at what you do. You have to pay any price, go any distance, spend any amount of time necessary to "be the best." Extraordinary rewards only go for extraordinary performance; average rewards for average performance; below average rewards, insecurity and failure for below average performance. And here's a vital key, you are being paid today exactly what you're worth - no more, no less. If you want to earn more, you must increase your worth, your value to others.

The Key to Motivation
The reason why choosing the right career, why doing what you love to do is so important, is because unless you really care about your work, you will never be motivated to persist at it until you become excellent. And until you become excellent at what you're doing, you can't move ahead.

The Key to Peak Performance
The antidote to these fears is the development of courage, character and self-esteem. The opposite of fear is actually love, self-love and self-respect. Acting with courage in a fearful situation is simply a technique that boosts our regard for ourselves to such a degree that our fears subside and lose their ability to effect our behavior and our decisions.

Action Exercises
Here are two things you can do to be more successful in your career.

First, set high standards for yourself and recognize that anything that someone else has achieved, you can probably achieve as well. There are no limits.

Second, select one key skill area that is important in your job and resolve to become absolutely excellent in that area. Start today to get better and better.

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"Attract The Woman Of Your Dreams"

How to Impress a Hot Woman Without Spending Money - My 3 Favorite Male Qualities (These Are Sexy!)

Okay guys...let's talk some more about how to impress a hot a woman! I mean, let's be TOTALLY honest. If you surveyed most men's most secret desires...the number one steamy desire that all guys have is to seduce beautiful women! And who wouldn't....there is NOTHING more beautiful (even to other girls..:-) than a magnificent and exotic woman! With that in mind, let's take a quick look at some easy things you can do to become INSTANTLY more attractive..without having to win the lottery, get a promotion or live in the gym! Read on..:-)

Filed Under: The Cultivation of the 3 Secret C's

There are 3 qualities that women look for in a man, that, absent any other of the obvious attraction factors (like looks and money) STILL make him irresistibly attractive. Confidence is number 1. Charisma is number 2. And Character - the quality that makes you WANT to bring him home to mom and dad is what ties is all together.

Filed Under: The Anatomy of Confidence, Charisma & Character

So many men get this COMPLETELY wrong. Confidence has NOTHING to do with being loud...or obnoxious, or even OBVIOUS! Confidence, the SEXIEST quality in a man can be equally as compelling when it says NOTHING at all. Ask any woman - or even any MAN, who identify a guy in the room whose got confidence...and it's undeniable to all.

Remember guys, a woman wants to have fun! And the ability to make her (and everyone else) laugh is as charismatic as it gets....and the very best way is to be able to laugh at yourself! Fact: A man who can laugh at himself has AMPLE confidence and the charisma to boot to face up to ANY woman in the room and simply make her melt with his words....his movements and his mojo in general! And that is what my definition of sexy is! If you've got it....good, and if not....it's time you start!

And One Last thing.....Remember:

Women admit that they would prefer a man who COMMUNICATES passionately during sex (which means she wants a little lusty dialog..:-), they want you to learn the landscape a bit better ( understand her body) and they PREFER a man who is SUPREMELY confident and self assured.

You can INSTANTLY improve all three of these with JUST opening your awareness to the REAL secrets that women keep.......and in my experience, the REWARDS for the men who go the extra mile are worth their weight in earth shaking ORGASMIC gold for ALL of us!

"Do You Believe In Luck?"

GOOD LUCK

Good luck comes to those who create it.

Good luck comes to those who take a positive approach to every moment.
The universe is overflowing with abundance.

Those people who are considered lucky are the people who choose to see that abundance, to accept it and to make the most of it.

Good fortune comes most often in the form of opportunity.

When you are prepared to make use of the opportunity, you’ll be lucky enough to enjoy the good fortune.

You are already extraordinarily lucky because you’re alive, aware, and able to make a difference.
Choose to fulfill the best of your possibilities, and your good fortune will surely increase.
See each day as an opportunity to create real and lasting value.

Know that each encounter is your way to make a positive difference in the lives of others.
Your luck is what you make it.
Decide today to make it the best that it can be.

"Thoughts Are Very Powerful"

Strength Of The Mind

There is a Universal Law that states "Where thoughts go energyflows". We are often bombarded with negativity, and we tend to engage in negative thought patterns more often than we realize. Many are an aware of the power of the mind. Our ability to mold and shape our destiny lies within the power of our thoughts.Does this mean directing our thoughts will make our lives simple al lthe time and that nothing "bad" will ever happen? Of course not.

Life will always have its little pitfalls, but through controlling and directing the energy we put out, we make our lives easier. With this effort, our minds become clearer enabling us to remain focused on that which truly matters.Remember also, that like attracts like. If your thoughts are mostly negative,most of what you receive and perceive will be negative as well.

Today's Exercise:Today be mindful of your thoughts. Seemingly random thoughts can hold a lot of power. Make an effort to direct your thoughts in a positive manner in order to restore balance.At the end of the day note anything you learned through being more observant of your thoughts. What were the proportions of negative to positive?How often did you catch yourself in negative self-talk? etc.. What you observe today may surprise you!

"Do You Believe In Luck?"

To Be Lucky Or Not To Be?
Fortune or misfortune - lucky or unlucky - what type of human are you - a fortune or misfortune type ?? Learn how to be more lucky in life

Some people say they are unlucky

however

there is no UN-luck
there is NO misfortune

lack of luck is the result of lacking creation of luck for OTHERS

luck / fortune needs to be created by each individual
luck is nothing else but an accumulation of loving karma
luck is the driving force that guides you from fortunate decision to another fortunate decision
luck is the driving force that creates a chain of pleasant experiences one after another one

to be lucky requires

- to have a firm orientation on the sunny side and loving side of life
- to have pleasure in making OTHERS happy
- to have a mostly or entirely love filled life in all parts of life
- to be willing to learn to improve day after day

those who care more about others' well being above allwill have many to care for them and find a life carpeted with the loving well

-wishes from many others creating a driving force on the sunny side of life from one pleasant experience to another one

... eternally as long as the love FOR others is persistently greater than any other force in life

luck and fortune is nothing else but a solid vector toward God and Love manifested in all aspects of life resulting in a blessed life in all you do

unlucky or unfortunate is nothing else but the result of anger, revenge, stinginess, greed, laziness or absence of love in the majority of your life situations

having NO active powerful vector of love as driving force in your eternal life is like drifting on an ocean with an inflatable without steering nor sail - just at the mercy of prevailing winds and outside forces rather than unter your own control

if you are of the unlucky type
change your fortune by focusing on helping others, making others happy, sharing with others, loving others ...
and by working for the holistic benefit of all others above all
such changes in attitude will change your entire life as soon as you keep on working from the bottom of your heart toward making all others around you as happy as can besince you are learning here and now for eternity

- you may have to prove your well-wishes and luck

-creating intentions for decades or entire lifetime until you may start to experience the full power of re-bouncing luck yourselfthose who calculate out of sheer selfishness and try to create a little luck to gain a little luck surely shall failto be a lucky charm FOR others is an eternal achievement and eternal decision

- ONCE and forever to LOVE all and to make ALL happy !!

to be lucky is a pleasant way of life
to be lucky is NORMAL
to be lucky is what ALL will learn to be one day
to be lucky is like to be spoiled...

but spoiled as a result of your very own achievements of loving action toward many or all

to be lucky means that you create lucky situations for others
that you say YES to others when they might fear or deserve a NO
that you apply mercy to others when they would expect punishment
that you give others another chance when they used up ALL their chances they normally would have in life

loving people ALWAYS only are lucky
all life long
all eternity !!

Be a lucky charm for others
experience an eternity of luck in your own eternal life
it's FUN to be lucky
it's pleasant to be fortunate in life
it's a pleasure to be happy all the time
to create luck for others also can be described as creating a strong FORWARD motion FOR others

like a truck driving forward
another person or many persons succeeding in their life creates a "suction" pulling others along
for a bicycle driver driving behind a truck the efforts needed to progress is far less than when exposed to the full resistance of wind and elements all alone
the same suction forward is created when you help OTHERS to be happy, to be lucky, to be successful.

"Do You Want To Attract The Right Guy?Here's How"

Finding & Attracting The Love Of Your Life‏
Is it possible that by doing some of the wrong things with a man that you could push away or sabotage the man and relationship that's the right one for you?


It's a tough question, but a really important one if you're having a tough time with men andrelationships.

If you've ever wanted the right man and relationship to come into your life so badly thatyou actually messed things up for yourself when the right guy showed up...

Then you need to read this short email.
I'm going to share with you a great way to goabout not only finding the right man for you...
But how to literally DRAW HIM TO YOU and havehim feel that intense "knowing" about you right away that is going to tell your man that you, and only you, are the one for him.

Let's get started.

As you know, men can't or won't tell you whatthey're thinking.

Knowing this, how much do you know and understand about your man on your own?

And how much does it happed that by not understanding him YOU get confused or hurt by him, and then he either sees you as "needy", or you accidentally push him away?

If you've ever felt like you had no clue what was going on with a man you were dating or who was your boyfriend...

Then for a quick shortcut right now I want to share the inside secrets of what men want in a woman, why they seem to change their minds about relationships... and what is guaranteed to turn them off to great women.

It's all right here:

http://www.CatchHimKeepHim.com/IMM

Now tell me:

Do you sometimes feel hopeless that you'll never find the love of your life?

That maybe love just isn't meant to be for you?

I want to show you how this is not only the case for you, but show you a quick and amazing way to change things in your love life right away.

By the way, I get how you could feel this way.

I hear from lots of women who are going through the same thing in one way or another.

Maybe you've spent years working on your own life - to where you're successful and fulfilled on your own.

But somehow you still feel like something is missing, and you know what it is.

A good man.

The strange thing is that it can actually be MORE FRUSTRATING for a woman when she's worked sohard to make sure she has her own life together - but then love still doesn't seem to work out.

Maybe you're one of the women who is either worried if you'll ever find a good guy...
Or you've gotten into a relationship with a man, but months or even years down the line you'vecome to realize that not only was he not who you thought he was...

But that he was anything but the right man for you to share you life and love with.
Not having a man can feel just as bad as finding a man and giving yourself to him, only to realize over time that he's really not the right one.

If any of this sounds familiar to you, then somewhere in the back of your mind there's a thought going on for you.

A thought that, even if you don't want to thinkabout it, still pops up for you.
that thought is "Where is my soul mate?"

Where is the right man for me?

You know the kind of man I'm talking about...

The kind of man who is the one person in the world you love unconditionally and who loves you back the same way.

The man who understands you like no one else understands you.
Who loves you no matter how you feel or look today.

Who supports you in everything - even when he disagrees with you.
The man who can see you at your worst and giveyou more love and support because of it.

Wouldn't it be amazing to be in a relationship with a man like that?
Can you imagine how you would feel to have thiskind of man in your life?
Can you imagine how different even the little things in your life might be?
Well... what if you could meet this man in a few days or weeks?

And what if this man is single right now and looking for YOU- the woman he can't wait to give his best to?

Even though you might feel like it's impossible right now- meeting the right man can happen sooner and easier than you think.
And I'm about to tell you how...

For starters, I want you to do something for me.

This is your first step towards an amazing lesson for you to take with you and attract the right man for you.

Plus it's something fun, and it won't take long.

Ok. I want you to imagine right now that the man of your dreams, the man you've been waiting for your whole life is standing right in front of you.


Picture him now.
I want you to describe him to yourself, in detail.

What does he look like?

What is the best thing about his personality?

What are his strengths and weaknesses?

Try to be as detailed as possible with what you're seeing in your mind's eye.

Now, describe the things you'd do together on weekends.

What is his favorite sport?

Food?

What irritates him the most?

What makes him energized and passionate?

How does he touch you and what does he say?

Can you picture it?

Start to see and visualize all of this as your picture of him starts to become clear.

Do you see him?

Good.

Ok now, come back.

Since you've got a picture of this man, let me ask you...

What if it was totally possible to meet this man?And not only meet him, but meet him very soonand have such a strong and instant "connect" when you meet that it springs an amazing relationshipinto existence?

What if this man actually exists, and it's all a matter of MANIFESTING him into your life?
This may sound a bit "out there" at first, butlet me share something fascinating with you:
I recently spoke with a woman who not only knows the secret to making this kind of "manifestation" happen, but she's also a woman who experienced this as she attracted her own husband and soul mate.

And now this incredible woman is helping hundreds of women connect to the love of theirlife the way she and lots of other women have.

Now, I know what you're thinking.

"C'mon- "manifesting" a man!? Puuuhhhleeease,Christian."

I get it. I even feel a little funny telling you.

And honestly, if I had not met this woman and heard her own story about how she found her soul mate and current husband, then I'd have somereal doubts, too.
But this is the one woman who has made me a believer.
And that's no small feat.

So is this some kind of magic hocus-pocus that'sonly for the "spiritually" inclined?
Is this only for woman who believe in things like "energy", the law of attraction, a higher purpose, or that all things are connected.

No.

But if you've ever seen the movie "The Secret", then you may know a little bit about what's behindsome of the simple easy things that don't require "magic" to work for you in your love life.
What I want to share with you is a special technique developed by a new friend of minenamed Arielle Ford.

Arielle is an amazing woman who knows and has worked with people from Deepak Chopra and the authors of the "Chicken Soup for the Soul" series...to too many other great people to count.
And not only is Arielle a great person who's "plugged in" - she's also a strong and powerful no-nonsense business person with a multi-million dollar business of her own.

Arielle used to be that successful, independent woman who was single and on her own later in lifethan she expected.

She had everything she could have wanted in her life as a late 30-something and early 40's woman,except for that right man.

And because of that, all her amazing personal relationships and success didn't make up for the fact that she still had a big part of her life missing-
Her soul mate.

That was, until she figured out how to change all that.

Arielle doesn't just believe, she knows from experience, that ANYONE can find and attract their soulmate.

It doesn't matter if you're in your 40's and have never been married (like Arielle, before shemet her husband), or if you're in your 20's and you really want to find that love of your life after spending years dating the wrong men.

All it takes is a BELIEF that you can indeed manifest the man of your dreams and that he is out there already.

You've heard of "love at first sight", right?

Well, this is kind of like "love BEFORE first sight."

Finding and attracting your soulmate, according to Arielle, can happen through a specific, step-by-step process that any woman can do at anytime in her life.
As a matter of fact, get this -
Arielle's mother was single after Arielle foundher husband and soulmate, and guess what eventually happened?

Once her mother saw what had happened for Arielle, she became open to using these steps, too.

It wasn't long before, in her later years,Arielle's single mom finally discovered her soul mate, too.

I don't know about you, but there's nothing tougher than the "mom test". And that's anotherreason I'm so blown away and impressed by what Arielle has discovered and how she's helped not just her mom - but tons of other women, too.

Here's where this gets good -

After getting to know Arielle over the last year and continuing to hear more and more fascinating and inspiring stories from people around her , I was finally lucky enough to getArielle to agree to share her "secret sauce" with me in person.

Now I want to share Arielle's steps and herprocess with you in a special way -
That's why I got Arielle do to a special interview workshop with me where she shared how you can both manifest your right man and keep your relationship burning bright for as long asyou want.

This interview is sure to blow you away onceyou hear it, and have you on your way like so many other women- including Arielle's mom.

Here's just a few things Arielle shared with me that I want you to tune into:

-- The incredible story of how Arielle wished to meet her soulmate, dreamt about him, then met himand got engaged within 3 weeks! You have to hearthis story to believe it ... (and the best partis that Arielle is confident YOU can have the same kind of prophetic experience using her techniques).

-- The true definition of a soulmate relationship...once you get this it will not onlyinspire you and have you see love and partnershipin a whole new way, but men will sense it
-- One of the most IMPORTANT things you can do to ensure your relationship will be loving, respectful and passionate for many, many years - even when things go "off track" or you have disagreements and tension.

-- What you need to ask yourself and do FIRST before you can attract a soulmate into your life - even if you've been single forever, or even if the other parts of your life (career, home, spiritual) are established and thriving.

-- What may be the reason you feel as if you're LACKING LOVE and CONNECTION in your life, and howto turn things around 180 degrees FAST.

-- A remarkable exercise to help you to heal from a past breakup or relationship so you can get CLARITY AND CLOSURE without confronting your ex, or paying for years of therapy.
-- "Treasure Map": A POWERFUL technique that magically helps you to manifest what you want inyour life (if you've seen "The Secret" you know a little bit about this, although Arielle takes the concept further).

-- What your "Season Of Love" is and why it'simportant to the TIMING of where and when you'llmeet the man of your dreams.

-- A funny story about a woman who used CRAYONSto manifest her soulmate (and they're still together 18 years later) and how you can use the same method to manifest your own version of thePerfect Man. This is just one of some really AMAZING success stories Arielle shared with me.

-- A way to be open and direct with your boyfriend and at the same time free yourselffrom the worry of whether or not you're right or wrong.

-And lots more...

I have a question for you:

Knowing that it's not only possible to stop going in circles and attract the right man - but that there is an easy and direct set of steps to do so...

Why wouldn't you at least see what it is that'sbringing other women that one right man and relationship?

Is it because you don't really want to do anything different on your end, or change in any way. And you think it's men who are at fault?

Is it because you think a man should just recognize how great you are all on his own - and that if he doesn't it's his loss?

Or is it because you're just not willing to take ACTION in your life to at least try something new?

If you want to have new experiences and get new results in your life... I'm going to suggest that it's time you DO something new.

You can try this interview now for nothing just to see if you like these interviews, andkeep it regardless.

And if you love this interview (and I know you will) then I can send you a brand new amazing interview each month for you to keep learning and growing with.

If not, you can opt to just get this interviewand choose not to stay with me and the community of other women who are learning and talking about these interviews each month.

Now, I also want to share something more with you, if you're open to it as a woman who's readyto attract the right man into her life-

A while back I shared a program with a small group of women who were looking to know more about how exactly to meet, talk to and start a new relationship with a great guy.

As you know, just meeting the right guy can be a challenge. (Hence, why these steps for manifesting a man are so important)

Well, you probably also know that you don't just meet a man and he ends up falling in love with you in the first 5 seconds and asks you to marry him.

If this does happen to you, you're either that lucky 1 in a million woman who stumbled upon theright man at the right time and he's going to be begging you to be with him from the first second,and all throughout the "dating" process...

Or you should watch out since this guy doesn't even know you, and you don't know him.

There's a better way- and that is knowing how the often confusing and dead-end dating processworks... and how to move through this and into a committed relationship with a great guy.

Tons of women meet men, only to have a few lousy dates or a short 1-3 month "mini-relationship" that fizzles and goes nowhere.

This often happens because they don't know whatit is that attracts men for a relationship bothfrom the start, and what makes men want more andmore with you while you're dating.

That's why I created an entire program for any woman who's ready to stop the cycle of dead-enddates - and who's ready to truly connect and "wow" the right man from the first "Hello" allthe way to "I love you" and beyond.

This program is called "Meeting The One", and it covers everything you need to know about how,what, why and where when you finally meet that right man.

"How To Make Men Fall In Love Wiyh You"

What makes a man FALL IN LOVE REAL HARD?

Admit it or not, men & women falls in love so easily. But men put walls so they cannot easily fall for someone head over heels,they pretend that they are not into you but in reality they are dying to be with you.I can say most guys have this denial within themselves,men are equally emotional than woman,it is just that they are good in hiding their emotions. Is SEX really necessary just to prove a woman's worth?


1.Being yourself
2. Value yourself, so he can value more.
3. Don't be too available all the time.
4. Don't be jealous.
5. Don't show too much interest.

Sex is not the same these days Men in todays world are looking for more than sex. You have to find out what other things you have to offer. a man wants you to be able to just more that to have sex.They are looking for the total package now because sex is to easy to get now. And if you have what it takes your man will fall hard in love with you.

Men are built in with an alarm. when it sounds they will and do fall in love really hard. If you don't sound that alarm then there is nothing that you can do to change that. if you do sound the alarm then he will let you know that you are the one. Women need to stop sleeping around with every guy they "like". No man with take a relationship seriously with a women they can get into bed, as my male friend once said " If I can get her into bed, so can the next guy". Save your sex for the one guy that lets you know through words and actions that he can't and won't live without you.

Just "be" yourself. it sounds kind of cliche, but it's the truth. when someone truly sees you for who you are and sees the beauty inside. love will develop. a relationship is like a plant. you have to water it, feed it, and give it sun to blossom into something wonderful. if you over do it or give it too little, it won't grow. so give it time and show him your inner beauty and things you would only share with someone you consider very special. it's the love that'll last that you want and not the physical attraction love that lasts but a minute. sex is a key thing in a relationship, but not the basis of a relationship. there are many things that a relationship should be based upon. sex gets thrown around in today's society as something so non-chalant. sex is a bond two people share and it shows comfort, confidence, and expresses how you truly feel towards one another. so a woman's worth or even a man's worth isn't based on SEX, but how two of you feel towards each other when you do have sex.

As bad as this sounds, the quickest way to make a man fall for you is to flatter him and build up his ego. Let him know he's important to you. Women who makes friends with men and show that they appreciate the guy often find that the guy falls for them.

When a man falls for a woman, he falls hard. Men love to be in love. While men often get stereotyped as single-minded sex-seekers, the truth is that a man's stomach churns like a slushy machine when he's in those initial stages of the perfect relationship.

When you consider that half of men say that they're currently not with their soul mates, that means a heck of a lot of slushy machines are waiting to be turned on. What are they waiting for? What makes a man fall in love? After you rule out the obvious intangible laws of chemistry, attraction, and being in the right place at the right time that kick-start many a relationship, I think the question really becomes this: What makes a man fall -- and stay -- in love? About 60 percent of men deem friendship the most important thing in a relationship (sex comes in at a skimpy 8 percent, according to a national Harris Interactive poll), but let's delve a little deeper. What exactly does that mean, and what kind of woman does a man really want? With full acknowledgement that men's tastes in women are as unpredictable as the plotline of "24," these are some of things that many men value in "the one."

A Woman with a Passion in Something Other Than Him

Yes, it's nice to be doted over. Yes, it's nice to be pampered. Yes, it's nice to be with a woman who showers you with compliments, neck kisses, and all of her attention. But there's a virtual Great Wall of China between a fleeting, flirtatious glance and the kind of attraction that can last a lifetime. Many men say they like a woman who's immersed in something else other than the relationship -- be it her work, or her sport, or whatever her "thing" is. Why? The passion she shows for something else confirms her inherent goodness, her personal drive, her independence. All pluses in the woman we're hoping to spend a few decades with.

A Woman with No Problem with Guy Time

Every relationship has to choreograph the time-together dance. Once a couple elevates from casual to serious, it goes through that period when most waking and sleeping minutes are spent together. But at some point in the dance, one person will call a time out from the music of coupledom, and try to spend more time with his or her friends -- while still being careful not to step on any feet in the process. Even when they're with the most perfect woman, men still crave the occasional space to spend golfing or drinking or doing whatever (64 percent of men are happy to have the time to themselves when their wives or girlfriends have plans). Men love, appreciate, and are thankful for women who respect and endorse (and not complain about) his need to have a few testosterone mixers. Don't worry, March Madness will be over in just a few weeks!

A Woman with a Strut

Her strut in the bar may have been part of his initial attraction. The strut from the bedroom to the bathroom after the first night together may have been pure visual ecstasy. But the strut that happens day in and day out is one of the major attractors for a man. What do I mean by the strut? It's that attitude, that sassiness, that confidence, that charisma, that charm that shows she can be a little bold and little daring. In a recent post I talked about the line between a woman being confident and a woman being so aggressive that she turns men away, but the truth is that in certain aspects of relationships, men want women who have the strut. Men want to be with women who challenge them, who push them, and who take the lead some of the times. And that's as true in the bedroom as it is in planning their next weekend getaway. The danger? While it can be insanely attractive, that strut of confidence can also swing a man 180 degrees -- if she uses it in other places, like to flirt with other guys, to become a relationship dictator, or to pick a fight with his mom in front of the whole family. He'll point that kind of strut right out the door.

A Woman with a Good Taste in Ties

Okay, so we don't really care about the ties per se. But what we care about is a woman's ability to give us a little-and this is a key word-gentle guidance. I know Freudian followers will say that it's a man's need to be mothered, but it's more than that. Every relationship is a give and take, and guys will definitely take women who can warn us when our new soul patch looks stupid, who can guide us to the perfect suit and shirt combo for an upcoming job interview, who can help them make decisions without being harsh or judgmental. Guys like to project that they know what they're doing and that they don't need any help. Women who can help steer us, without aggressively grabbing the wheel, are the most treasured copilots.

It's not often that we come face-to-face with the man of our dreams. If you meet a man that you instantly click with it's easy to let your imagination take the lead. As women, we dream about finding the perfect mate and when we think we have, we'll do almost anything to ensure he feels the same way. Making a man fall in love with you is really a mixture of many different things. There obviously needs to be mutual attraction and timing plays an important role too. There are specific things you can do though that can help guide him in the direction of falling in love with you.

No two men are alike but many men find certain qualities in a woman attractive. It's not impossible to make yourself irresistible to virtually any man if you understand what men find appealing. Making a man fall in love with you should begin with presenting yourself in the best possible light. This includes your appearance. This certainly doesn't mean that you need to lose weight or have any nips or tucks done. It does mean you need to accentuate what you have. This means dressing appropriately for your body shape and for your age. It also means taking a little time to style your hair and apply some make up. If you show the man you adore that you value yourself, he's bound to value you more as well.

This holds true when it comes to your individual pursuits as well. If you are passionate about your career or furthering your education you are going to be more attractive to the opposite sex. Making a man fall in love with you includes showing him that you are someone worth loving. Men love women who have their own interests and who aren't willing to compromise those things just because a man enters the picture. The man in your life should feel as though you are making room for him, not replacing your life for his. Never give up the things you love just because you fall in love with a man. If you do this you'll eventually become boring to him. Stay focused on your own goals and the things you enjoy.

You should also be willing to compromise if you are trying to make a man fall in love with you. Even though you may have your heart set on a dinner out, he may decide he wants to go see a game. Men love women who are flexible and spontaneous. Never try and steal him away from his friends or guilt him into choosing you over them. If you are supportive of the other people in his life, he'll be incredibly attracted to how giving and understanding you are. Show him that you love every part of him and he'll do the same in return to you.

Specific things you say and do can make a man feel helplessly drawn to you. If you are convinced he is the one there are things you can do to ensure he only has eyes for you.

"Natural Law Beyond Our Understanding"

Four Stones

Stone one is the color white, the stone of the clear conscience. It is when the mind and spirit is free as it searches for knowledge. The child in us asks the world why, where and when? The child does not see the evil or good in an event, but only see the event.

Stone two is the color blue, the stone of creativity.As we gain knowledge our spirits soar in a sky of unlimited possibilities. We do not create with our hands, but rather with our hearts. The hands are only tools used by the heart, which can create beauty or ugliness if we chose.

Stone three is the color red, the stone of wisdom and fire. This can be a time of sharing, building and harmony. Or, it can also corrupt and turn the soul black with hatred and fear. We must seek the guidance of the Great Spirit before we speak or take action.

Stone four is the color tan, the stone of remembrance.What we leave behind for others is how we will be remembered through the ages. Our children and our children's children will have the burden of our actions and words. As we carry the stones of life, place them gently in a circle on Mother earth so thata warm fire will burn for all to see and be comforted.

"Law of Attraction"

The Power of Concentration

The man who has daily inured himself to habits of concentrated attention, energetic volition and self-denial in unnecessary things will stand like a tower when everything rocks around him and when his softer fellow-mortals are winnowed like chaff in the blast.

William James

Concentration on your Higher Self (the soul within) will encourage detachment and detachment will lead to power.

Everything in creation (as we understand it) is influenced by the law of magnetism. The law of magnetism teaches us that whatever we concentrate upon, we draw to ourselves. If we focus on goodness, our life can be a garden of happiness; if we concentrate on wealth, we will draw wealth to ourselves.

Success in life presupposes the power of concentration. Just as a magnet draws to itself iron filings and no trice grains, so too, the quality of our focused thoughts will create a dynamic but silent power within that will find us placed in situations akin to the nature of our thoughts. If we think ' good health ' and with faith and belief embed this deeply within our minds over a sustained period of time, we will gradually create for ourselves situations and an environment, which will be conducive to good health .Yet as we understand the workings of this power , it is essential that we not misuse power and that we be more involved in purifying our desires so that all that we seek only be bathed in the hue of wisdom and righteousness. Before we choose we always have an option, but once chosen, each action will bring forth a concomitant reaction.

Each of us is born with a certain degree of latent developed concentration,but the more we are aware of the existence of this power, and the more we seek to consciously use it, the more will we actually develop it.Men of success are men of concentration. Nothing of essence in life is achieved without concentration.

Be it in prayer, business, sport, art, or healing,concentration is the real key which helps one harness one's inner divine potential. Concentration aids you in drawing more of the life energy into your physical self and thereby raising your level of existence to higher layers of awareness. As you spiritualize your conciousness through Guru-channeled techniques of concentration, your energy pattern becomes more vibrant and pure, ushering all round tranquility and calmness into the temple of your mind.

With good concentration one can fulfill a task in virtually half the time and with double the accuracy of an average person. Paramahansa Yogananda said that we should do our interesting and enjoyable duties with all our heart and the uninteresting ones with our deepest attention.

As we concentrate with will power on the task at hand, we learn to shut out unnecessary disturbing thoughts, doing nothing haphazardly. The mind thereby attains the ability to be one-pointed.The greatest power, remember always, is lodged in the fine, never in the coarse.

When one is able to lift a heavy object with muscles flexing, we appreciate the physical strength and the look and feel of the muscular part, but we must remind ourselves that the power to lift comes not from the muscles but from the life energy within, which in turn is drawn by the power of will and concentration. The greater the will and the more focused one's thoughts, the greater will be the inflow of the life force.

Each thought that we think forms a pattern in our brain cell grooves. These patterns then determine what our future patterns of existence will be. If we wish to change the nature of the existent (past) patterns or if we seek to create desired patterns (circumstances) it is vital to understand the workings of the science of concentration. Though any sincere practice in concentration may seem arduous and boring at the outset, after some time, internal interest is definitely developed.

The platitude before the flowering is only natural as new forms of mental thought seek to erase typical thought habits of the past. Evil and harmful habits are what we have gifted ourselves through concentrating repeatedly on the wrong thought patterns and now if we are to be rid of them, it is necessary to concentrate on the opposite. For example, if we have a habit of biting our nails,we must concentrate on seeing ourselves as living without any trace(even in imagination) of that habit. We must see only the goal, and the obstacles will fall off by themselves. With the coming of His Divine light, the darkness of eons can melt away.

As one advances in one's realization and experiences the benefits of concentration, one hardly wants to abandon its practice. Spiritual techniques in concentration take one to the threshold of supreme joy,divine strength, deeper knowledge, and high levels of intuition.Ultimately success in profound concentration is a pre-requisite for success in communion with the omniscient Spirit.

Through concentration, one can draw to the surface, the repository of experiences submerged in the subconscious mind. The subconscious mind is our most obedient serf and carries experiences not only of this life but also of the entire past. Swami Sivananda explained "when we are unable to solve a problem, be it personal or scientific,we should tell our subconscious mind to do it for us. Approached with trust and confidence, it will provide the right answer. The command must be couched in very clear, explicit terms with no ambiguity. If the solution is not elicited after a night's sleep, we may repeat the command at the same time each day, until the response is forthcoming."

Comprehensive development of the subconscious mind will relieve some of the pressure of the conscious mind, enabling it to concentrate more easily on noble and wise objectives and practices.

We oft complain about the traumas and trials that manifest in our lives. But very conveniently we forget that deep down we ourselves are responsible through our own thoughts and actions for these traumas. We have either been lazy or then simply over-enthusiastic in our uncontrolled thoughts and actions. Increased practices in techniques of concentration will manifest in us the ability to arrest the seed of unwanted thought is right at the outset and also to skillfully guide the raft of our new thoughts. Only then will we be able, with the help of God and Guru to have control over our destiny and over our own mind; and one who has control over one's own mind can very definitely also relate with and manifest control over every other mind.

Concentration implies great self-control, especially over one's emotions and true concentration endows great strength-of mind and of character. It awakens within us an innate capability to withstand life's sudden and unexpected shocks, be it depression, chaos or other uncertainties. This strength, we must realize, depends not on material power but on mental caliber and poise. To acquire real mental poise, you have to attain wisdom. To acquire wisdom, you have to develop the mind, which is to develop the power of super concentration, whereby will flow from within the all-conquering power of wisdom.

The main idea of concentration, explained Swami Paramananda (Ramakrishna Mission) "is to make our ourselves a channel, so clear, so direct, so unbiased, that through our instrumentality the power of Divinity can flow and accomplish Its great end. Keep this always in mind." In the Bhagavad-Gita, the concentrated mind of the Yogi is compared to the flame of a lamp that does not flicker. "When the mind is completely subdued by the practice of Yoga, and has attained serenity, in that state, seeing Self by the self, he is satisfied in the Self alone."

A mind that becomes concentrated enters a new province. Like one who has discovered a chest full of treasure, it can think of nothing else."Seeing Self by the self, we are satisfied in the Self alone." Like a musician wholly absorbed in his notes forgets all about food, drink and bodily needs, a man of single focus is able to harness all his energy to the one most essential objective. Concentration is a tremendous force in society. Through its right use, one is successful in whatever one chooses to do. But concentration should not be consciously practiced only during times of need; one should constantly keep developing the powers of the mind at all times.

SriRamakrishna Paramahansa, the great Master of modern India gives in his teachings a very vivid illustration. Every man, he said, should make a legitimate effort to keep his mind in a good, clean, concentrated condition; otherwise it grows unsightly-like a metal vessel, which becomes tarnished if it is not polished every day.

A golden vessel,however, does not have to be polished so frequently. So too with our mind. Once it mingles with the Supreme, it becomes like the vessel of gold and retains its splendor even when it is not given any special care.

"Good things in Life"

What is "The Law of Attraction"?






It is a law of the universe that states that what you think about manifest into the real life.Well, all I can say about this is that it really works, it has worked and continues to work for me, and knowing how to use it properly I have been able to manifest very good things into my life.My life has changed for the best, and it is only getting better, and teaching others how to do this has made my life a happier one.If you can, learn about the Law of Attraction, it will change your life.