Secretly In Love With You

Secretly In Love

You took my hand and led the way never telling me all you wanted to say whisper softly love , in my ear all those sweet nothings I wanted to hear kiss my lips and touch my skin boiling passions deep within

Pull me close and hold me near sheltering me from my own pain and fear through the darkness in the night baby ,be my beacon ,and shine your light in the brightness in the sun show me

I'm your only one give me wings so I can fly I can soar when your nearby enter my heart and break down this wall it's time for me to watch it fall

I've been a prisoner can't you see now break my chains and set me free strip me of my armor tight you'll find I wont put up a fight release my soul held deep within I'm ready now, to love again

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" I love you "

" 3 Words "


Just three words that I want to hear
Just three words to make it all clear
I need three words to assuage my fear
Three words you can give to me to bring us closer together
Three words you can say to me to change my world forever
I want three simple words strung together in a sentence
Three little words that would mean the whole world to me
Three syllables that can have overwhelming eloquence
Three words that mean more than any others ever hurled at me
Countless ideas would never be enough
To eclipse only three of devotion and charity
Never ending ballads of emotion and love
Could not outshine these three words of clarity
A million words could never measure up
To but three spoken with sincerityJust three words that I need my dear
Just three words I’d do anything to hear
I need three words whispered into my ear
Three words once heard would lead me far outside my element
Three distinct words when uttered render all else irrelevant
Three simple words can turn my world into abject pleasure
Three little words the meaning of which cannot be measured
Three syllables strung together that alleviate so much pressure
Three words for which I yearn would be so absolutely treasured
Countless ideas would never be enough
To eclipse only three of devotion and charity
Never ending ballads of emotion and love
Could not outshine these three words of clarity
A billion words could never measure up
To but three spoken with sincerity
Just three words and I need to hear them
Three words that need to be said
So go out on a limb someday soon before we’re both dead
Three words that herald happiness
Three words from you I would never dread
Three words shouted from a mountaintop
Three words whispered in your head
Three words across the internet
Or three words lying in your bed
So much gets said about nothing
I’d rather hear “I love you” instead.

Love Quotes 4 u...!!

Love Is In The Air

"Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing." - Goethe"

To be in love is merely to be in a state of perceptual anesthesia." - H.L. Mencken"

Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it...It really is worth fighting for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk everything, you risk even more." - Erica Jong"

Sometimes love is stronger than a man's convictions." - Isaac Bashevis Singer"

Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness." - Oliver Wendell Holmes"

Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it." - Robert Mitchum"

Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside." - Margaret Walker"

Love has no awareness of merit or demerit; it has no scale... Love loves; this is its nature." - Howard Thurman"Love is like war: Easy to begin but hard to end." - Anonymous"

Where love is, no room is too small." - Talmud"

Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." - Mark Twain"

Love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day." - Nicholas Sparks"

To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven." - Karen Sunde"A love song is just a caress set to music." - Sigmund Romberg"

Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit." - Peter Ustinov"

Love is like a violin. The music may stop now and then, but the strings remain forever." - unknown"

Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence." - Erich Fromm"

In the final analysis, love is the only reflection of man's worth." - Bill Wundram, Iowa Quad Cities Times"

Love doesn't make the world go round, love is what makes the ride worthwhile." - Elizabeth Browning"

To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down."- Woody Allen

Psychology of falling in love

How to Make Someone Fall in Love with You

Myths about Making Someone Love You

Do you think that love is just an uncontrollable random process?

Do you think that if the person you loved didn’t love you back then nothing can be done about it?

Do you think that you can't make someone fall in love with you?

The Truth about Making Someone Fall in Love with You

I hate websites that keep repeating the same logical and intuitive tricks that everyone already knows about. In 2knowmyself I use psychology as the core of my writings but I present the complex principles in a simple form so that you don’t find any trouble understanding them. This articles exploits the operation of the human brain, it will teach you how to use psychology to make someone fall in love with you.

Most of us believe that love is completely random and can never be controlled or manipulated. However, the shocking truth is that love and hatred are fully controlled by the mind. If you can come to understand the logic behind that mind’s operation then you will have a good chance of making someone fall in love with you.

Love is just like any other psychological emotion you experience. Just as there are ways for dealing with and controlling stress, learning about the psychology of falling in love can be used to your advantage to make someone fall in love with you. This won't work one hundred percent of the time, but it will at least double or even triple your chances of making someone fall in love with you.

The following are methods and ways that can help you in making someone fall in love with you. Note that most of them are based on the psychology of falling in love and if you don’t know what that is, you'd better take a quick look first.

• I have what you need : when people search for a partner, they unconsciously try to find someone who is similar to what they like about themselves and at the same time different from what they hate about themselves. For example, someone who feels inferior but is also intelligent will seek an intelligent but confident partner. If this resembles the person you are targeting, playing the role of an incredibly confident person can be very effective, simply because you will be sending a message to his/her subconscious mind saying “I have what you need”. On the other hand try to do your best to show that you have some common interests (don't lie, just search for what’s common between you).
• Meeting Criteria: Inside the mind of every one of us is a quick list of basic criteria that must be met before we even consider loving a person. Although meeting these criteria does not necessarily mean that we will love the person, not meeting any of them makes it certain that we will never love him. Examples of these criteria can be: "He must be a non smoker", "He must be religious" …etc. You should try to know the background of the person you like and attempt to meet his basic criteria, else you will be rejected before you even begin.
• Does Trying Harder Work? : Does repeatedly trying to approach a person work, or does chasing him or asking him out several times work?
  Doing these things will most likely work if your partner is externally dependent. External dependency is being dependant on something or someone to make you feel good or to escape your bad mood. When someone becomes externally dependant, it's likely he'll jump at the first chance of getting into a relationship. If the person you are targeting is externally dependant then your chances of making him fall in love you becomes higher. That’s why caring for someone when he's down gives you a great chance of being loved by him because at these times people become more externally dependant
• Program his Subconscious Mind: The subconscious mind can be made to accept something by continious repetition. This doesn't mean that you should call your partner every five minutes, as that would be chasing his/her conscious mind. Chasing the subconscious mind requires no more than staying in sight, and letting him/her see you a lot. Even if you hardly talk, just staying in his/her sight is enough to enforce your position.
• More Subconscious Mind Programming : If you have mutual friends then you are even more lucky, since the subconscious mind is programmed much easier by trusted sources. The more your friends talk to him/her about how great you are (something you'll probably have to arrange) the better your chances of having a place in his/her subconscious mind. Just as subconscious mind programming can be a tool that helps you in making someone fall in love with you, it may be used against you without your notice and the result is finding yourself attached to someone whom you cant get over. In my book How to get over anyone in few days i pointed out how can you reverse the effect of the programming you got from others so that you can easily forget about any person
• position yourself well: what is the first word that comes to people's minds when they your name in mentioned? do they think of the word "strong","confident" or "loser"? positioning is simply associating yourself with a certian image that is printed in people's minds, read this guide to know how can you position yourself

1000 Words French Remake

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Ouhhhh

Quand tout ca sera fini
Quand le monde s`en ira

Quand le grand rideau gris sur moi tombera
Quand tout ca sera fini

Quand le temps s`arretera
Quand la scene de ma vie se demontera

J`ai peur que le ciel ne m`oublie
J`ai peur qu`on ne m`est rien promis
J`ai peur que tout soit vraiment fini

Dit-moi que ca continuera
Dit-moi que tu seras toujours la
Dit-moi que c`etait pour le mieux
Dit-moi qu`apres la mort, c`est l`amour
Tout ca sera fini

Quand l`etoile s`eteindra
Quand le film de ma vie se rambobinera

Quand tout ca sera fini
Quand le reve eclatera
Quand le band sera partit en me laissant la

J`ai peur que tu ne veules plus de moi
J`ai peur que tu me renies
J`ai peur qu`on ne soit jamais plus amis

Dit-moi que ca continuera
Dit-moi que tu seras toujours la
Dit-moi que c`etait pour le mieux
Dit-moi qu`apres la mort, c`est l`amour

Il doit bien avoir une facon
De changer mon destin
Une facon d`eviter la fin

Dit-moi, il doit bien avoir une facon
De reparer mes ailes brises
Une facon de m`envoler

Une facon de rallumer mon coeur
Mon coeur, mon coeur eteint

Ooohhh, Ooohhhh

Dit-moi que ca continuera
Dit-moi que tu seras toujours la
Dit-moi que c`etait pour le mieux
Dit-moi qu`apres la mort, c`est l`amour

Dit-moi que ca continuera
Dit-moi que tu seras toujours la

Et moi, je serai mieux
Et moi, je revivrai
Grace a toi
Ooohhh....

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"Fuel Your Emotions"

YOUR CAR TYRE : AFFECTION

Your car rides on tires and is going nowhere without them. Your relationship with your woman rides on affection. You don't leave the tires off your car and just put them on when you want to go somewhere. They are always on and ready to roll. Similarly, affection should always be a part of time spent with the lady in your life. Hugs, gentle pats on the back, an arm around her shoulder, a little kiss on her forehead, holding hands, and saying "I love you" are signs of affection which should be sprinkled liberally throughout the week, using at least one a day. (You may think telling her you love her once, at the beginning of the relationship or marriage, settles that issue from then on. But you can't fill your car's tires just once, and count on them to never go flat, and a smart man knows to tell his woman often that he loves her, before their relationship goes flat.)

As with the necessity to rotate and balance your car's tires, it is also necessary sometimes to vary the routine with your woman. Before the usual goodbye peck on the cheek one morning, try holding her shoulders, looking into her eyes, pausing dramatically and telling her you love her! And any time the ride seems bumpy in your relationship, remember to air up the affection.

ATTENTION IS HER FUEL!Just like a car,NO GAS, NO GO!

"From My Heart To Yours"

If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but don't love, I'm nothing but the creaking of a rusty gate. If I speak God's Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, "Jump," and it jumps, but I don't love, I'm nothing. If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don't love, I've gotten nowhere.

So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I'm bankrupt without love. Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn't want what it doesn't have. Love doesn't strut, Doesn't have a swelled head, Doesn't force itself on others, Isn't always "me first," Doesn't fly off the handle, Doesn't keep score of the sins of others, Doesn't revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end.

Love never dies. Inspired speech will be over some day; praying in tongues will end; understanding will reach its limit. We know only a portion of the truth, and what we say about God is always incomplete. But when the Complete arrives, our incompletes will be canceled.

When I was an infant at my mother's breast, I gurgled and cooed like any infant. When I grew up, I left those infant ways for good.

We don't yet see things clearly. We're squinting in a fog, peering through a mist. But it won't be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We'll see it all then, see it all as clearly as God sees us, knowing him directly just as he knows us!

But for right now, until that completeness, we have three things to do to lead us toward that consummation: Trust steadily in God, hope unswervingly, love extravagantly. And the best of the three is love. 1 Corinthians 13

I love you all so much…

"Calculation of Ones Love"

Poem Of Love Accounting

In the journal paper of my heart,I have written a journal entry.Debiting your love and your affection.Darling you write the narration,Your first love, I had already adjustedOn the ledger-folio column,Any way our relations are true assetsOn double-entry systemIn addition, our love is true real and tangibleYou debit-what comes in,I credit-what goes out.

Your beauty is the capital of business.My eyes are stock in trade.Let us enter into transaction,You secretly give me a trade discount,I openly give you a cash discountAnd thus my partner,Our trading and profit-loss account will show super profit.

My dear let us re-concile,all our errors and total the trial balance of our affairs arithmetically without maintaining any suspense account.In the balance sheet of our life.Our children will be our true assets and liabilities.If they are boys, they will be our sundry debtorsIf they are girls, they will be our sundry creditors.But if we have a boy and a girl,Our balance sheet will tally automatically.

"Your Love Runs Through My Blood That Holds My Soul"

Him & Her...
She sat and waited.....time pass slowly
she can swear that she heard him coming
her eyes were block to the door .....
waiting the knob to move....time pass more slower than ever.....and she's waiting...........

tic.. tac... tic... tac .........tic.. tac... tic... tac ....

It was the only sound she can hear ..clock ticking
but in her inside she can hear her heart beat going louder and louder.....oh God

she wondered.....dose he feel the same ????
dose he know about how she feels ???

dose he know how much she loves him...adore him...
dose he know that she spends time thinking of him...

picking words to say to him...although she is very sure that when she sees him ...she will say nothing....
she will be satisfide just to looks in his eyes and sink more and more in them .... she wondred ...i am insane
or am i addicted to him.... thoughts...wonderings were passing her mind when..................

the door was open ...and there he is ...standing in front of her with his awesome smile ... and charming look...

he look and smile to her ....she ran and melt in his arms....yes ...yes..she is sure now that he is addicted to her.

"Undying Love"

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"Your Name Is Engraved In My Mind,In My Heart & In My Soul"

"Only You..."

You know even you pissed me of i want you to know that you are a very good blogger.A Gorgeous One,You make your readers hot...just reading your articles.I admit & very proud to say that i'm your most avid reader i admire you in every way.Not just that,i long & crave for you.To be serious,you know that having you alone is something i can be proud of.You are my priceless wealth that no riches on this world can be worth as you do you are my precious gem.Who needs a diamond if i have you...I can be truly happy even we would be stranded in an island ,just being with you will bring me so much happiness that i can't be able to explain to what extent.Just seeing you makes me drool because in my heart you rule.You are an intensity that makes my world shake.Your love gives me this electricity that makes me weak everytime you get near me.You are the love of my life.I entrust to you my heart,please take care of it as if it is your own bec. if your love dies my heart will bleed to death.Te queiro!

"If There Is Faith,True Love Never Fails"

" Fairytale ; A Dream Come True "

His eyes fluttered open as the sun rays welcomed him through the window. He wondered if they had left the curtain open. Half asleep he tried to see why the sun was shining right in his eyes.

After fully opening his eyes, he realized that the curtains were drawn but mischievous corner was letting the sun rays come in which happened to land right on his face. It was Sunday and he was not waking up so early. So, he got up, cursing underneath his breath he straightened the curtain and came back to bed. It was then when he saw her lying next to him.

As always he couldn’t take his gaze off of her and couldn’t help but wonder how anyone could be as beautiful as she was and how in the world had such a beautiful woman landed on his bed, not only for one day but for an entire lifetime?!Someone up there must have been very happy with me. He grinned at the thought and snuggled with her to take a closer look.

As he touched her she tossed in her sleep and like always she set the blanket straight on him putting her hand on his chest.Her care had never stopped even when she was asleep. How could she know every time he was not in the blanket? He could never answer that question, but then again he could never answer a lot of the questions he had about her, like, how she always figured out that he was in trouble. He used to get her phone calls at the oddest times asking him if everything was ok.

She would call him exactly at the time when he needed to talk to someone, but how in the world did she know when she had been miles away from him?“I just get a bad feeling, honey, I can feel it inside”, was always her answer.Instinctively, he kissed her forehead and took her in his arms like a little child. Well, that was what she was—a little child. A very spoiled one, for that matter.

She had been the wildest woman he ever met. She had the most outrageous ideas and was never afraid to break the rules. He had not seen a woman so bold and passionate.

She was fiery in her attitude and he knew that the passion in her eyes attracted him to her in the first place.

Over time, he realized that she had the kindest heart and she loved him deeply. However, he was never able to tame her. He tried for a while but it didn’t happen.

She was not meant to be tamed. She was the go-getter and no one could stop her. He learned to live with it. But, he loved her with all his heart, and he loved her for her passion, for her love of life, for her wildness.

She showed him a whole different world—her world. Her beautiful world that he had become a part of. He had never regretted anything about his life. He knew she was the one when he had proposed her and he knew she was his destiny the day they got married.

In each and every one of us there is a longing to be understood by someone who really cares. When a person is understood, he or she can put up with almost anything in the world.

She understood him. She understood him more than anyone else and the realization made him want to break down and cry. Just how many people could say this years after their marriage? Both of them had been really lucky. He knew he was just… blessed.He tilted his head and looked at her again.

She was peaceful with her lips almost curling up in a smile, her ravishing long hair covering half of her face.

Anyone seeing her angelic face peacefully sleeping could have never guessed that the night before in her pajamas, she was dancing hysterically on some random hip hop beats.

She was laughing and dancing all over him.“I want to parttttyyyy”, she said with her arms in the air.

“Honey, I have told you, you can go out with your friends on weekends”, he had said without taking his eyes off the book he was reading.“No, not that kind of party”, she replied making a face. “I want to party with you, just the two of us, you know”.

She put her head on his lap distracting him from his reading.“You are soo boring Mr.’, she complained snatching the book from him.“What do you want me to do?”“I want you to kiss me”, she said seriously.

She has always been bold like that. Only a woman can make a man come to his knees and leave him breathless. For him that woman has been her. He smiled and leaned forward to kiss her, but she pulled back.

Now what.“If you think this is so easy, you are oh-so wrong! You want it, you have to come and get it,” she said grinning and ran off the bed.

The next half hour was spent chasing her throughout the house and he had only been able to catch her after she was tired of running and gave in to him, and that was how they both landed on the bed where she was still sleeping.

The just had too much energy, like a little kid who would only sleep when he is utterly exhausted. She was a full time job for him.

His mind fully awake then, he decided there was no point in lying down on the bed. He was awake and it was time for him to wake her up too. He decided the same tactic he used every time—kiss her lips. She didn’t wake up but he could see a little smile curling her lips.He brushed her hair with his hands.

Touched her eyes lightly with his fingers, whispered in her ears asking her to wake up but she didn’t move. However her face expression clearly told him that she didn’t want to wake up just yet. He tossed her body straight in an attempt to wake her up.

After some more teasing here and there, he was still unable to get her attention. Finally he gave up and said loudly.“Hey woman, wake up, your man needs breakfast.”

“He can go and make himself some,’ was the grumpy reply.“You know I am not going to cook, after all these years you should know that.”“ummmm…. Nooo.. mee sleepy…. You sleepy”, she groaned never opening her eyes.“Ok I am getting up then and leaving you alone in the bed,” he knew she hated when he would leave her sleeping like that.“No”, was a simple reply.“Oh yeah?

Well I am outta here.”He decided to get up when she pulled herself on top of him, snuggling her head in this neck.“Who is getting up now?”She was going to have her way this time too and he knew that. Besides, her touch was so addicting, he didn’t feel like letting go.

Giving up, he wrapped his arms around her; this time sure that someone up there was very happy with him.

To be Continued........

"Love Is A Word That Has No Exact Definition"

What REally LOVE IS...?


















Love can be good or bad


Love can make you happy


Or it can leave you sad


Love will bring two people together


Love can make them last


Hopefully forever





Love can help them find their way


Love hopefully grows stronger


With each passing day





Love is fragile and should be held with care


Love is at it's best


When it's treasured and shared





Love should never be pretend


Love that is not real


Will never last until the end


Love is two people hand in hand


Love can survive





If together they always stand


Love should never be taken for granted




Love that is true and real


On firm ground it's securely planted


Love should be respected and never miss used


Love should always be valued


It should never be abused

"How To Make Men Fall In Love Wiyh You"

What makes a man FALL IN LOVE REAL HARD?

Admit it or not, men & women falls in love so easily. But men put walls so they cannot easily fall for someone head over heels,they pretend that they are not into you but in reality they are dying to be with you.I can say most guys have this denial within themselves,men are equally emotional than woman,it is just that they are good in hiding their emotions. Is SEX really necessary just to prove a woman's worth?


1.Being yourself
2. Value yourself, so he can value more.
3. Don't be too available all the time.
4. Don't be jealous.
5. Don't show too much interest.

Sex is not the same these days Men in todays world are looking for more than sex. You have to find out what other things you have to offer. a man wants you to be able to just more that to have sex.They are looking for the total package now because sex is to easy to get now. And if you have what it takes your man will fall hard in love with you.

Men are built in with an alarm. when it sounds they will and do fall in love really hard. If you don't sound that alarm then there is nothing that you can do to change that. if you do sound the alarm then he will let you know that you are the one. Women need to stop sleeping around with every guy they "like". No man with take a relationship seriously with a women they can get into bed, as my male friend once said " If I can get her into bed, so can the next guy". Save your sex for the one guy that lets you know through words and actions that he can't and won't live without you.

Just "be" yourself. it sounds kind of cliche, but it's the truth. when someone truly sees you for who you are and sees the beauty inside. love will develop. a relationship is like a plant. you have to water it, feed it, and give it sun to blossom into something wonderful. if you over do it or give it too little, it won't grow. so give it time and show him your inner beauty and things you would only share with someone you consider very special. it's the love that'll last that you want and not the physical attraction love that lasts but a minute. sex is a key thing in a relationship, but not the basis of a relationship. there are many things that a relationship should be based upon. sex gets thrown around in today's society as something so non-chalant. sex is a bond two people share and it shows comfort, confidence, and expresses how you truly feel towards one another. so a woman's worth or even a man's worth isn't based on SEX, but how two of you feel towards each other when you do have sex.

As bad as this sounds, the quickest way to make a man fall for you is to flatter him and build up his ego. Let him know he's important to you. Women who makes friends with men and show that they appreciate the guy often find that the guy falls for them.

When a man falls for a woman, he falls hard. Men love to be in love. While men often get stereotyped as single-minded sex-seekers, the truth is that a man's stomach churns like a slushy machine when he's in those initial stages of the perfect relationship.

When you consider that half of men say that they're currently not with their soul mates, that means a heck of a lot of slushy machines are waiting to be turned on. What are they waiting for? What makes a man fall in love? After you rule out the obvious intangible laws of chemistry, attraction, and being in the right place at the right time that kick-start many a relationship, I think the question really becomes this: What makes a man fall -- and stay -- in love? About 60 percent of men deem friendship the most important thing in a relationship (sex comes in at a skimpy 8 percent, according to a national Harris Interactive poll), but let's delve a little deeper. What exactly does that mean, and what kind of woman does a man really want? With full acknowledgement that men's tastes in women are as unpredictable as the plotline of "24," these are some of things that many men value in "the one."

A Woman with a Passion in Something Other Than Him

Yes, it's nice to be doted over. Yes, it's nice to be pampered. Yes, it's nice to be with a woman who showers you with compliments, neck kisses, and all of her attention. But there's a virtual Great Wall of China between a fleeting, flirtatious glance and the kind of attraction that can last a lifetime. Many men say they like a woman who's immersed in something else other than the relationship -- be it her work, or her sport, or whatever her "thing" is. Why? The passion she shows for something else confirms her inherent goodness, her personal drive, her independence. All pluses in the woman we're hoping to spend a few decades with.

A Woman with No Problem with Guy Time

Every relationship has to choreograph the time-together dance. Once a couple elevates from casual to serious, it goes through that period when most waking and sleeping minutes are spent together. But at some point in the dance, one person will call a time out from the music of coupledom, and try to spend more time with his or her friends -- while still being careful not to step on any feet in the process. Even when they're with the most perfect woman, men still crave the occasional space to spend golfing or drinking or doing whatever (64 percent of men are happy to have the time to themselves when their wives or girlfriends have plans). Men love, appreciate, and are thankful for women who respect and endorse (and not complain about) his need to have a few testosterone mixers. Don't worry, March Madness will be over in just a few weeks!

A Woman with a Strut

Her strut in the bar may have been part of his initial attraction. The strut from the bedroom to the bathroom after the first night together may have been pure visual ecstasy. But the strut that happens day in and day out is one of the major attractors for a man. What do I mean by the strut? It's that attitude, that sassiness, that confidence, that charisma, that charm that shows she can be a little bold and little daring. In a recent post I talked about the line between a woman being confident and a woman being so aggressive that she turns men away, but the truth is that in certain aspects of relationships, men want women who have the strut. Men want to be with women who challenge them, who push them, and who take the lead some of the times. And that's as true in the bedroom as it is in planning their next weekend getaway. The danger? While it can be insanely attractive, that strut of confidence can also swing a man 180 degrees -- if she uses it in other places, like to flirt with other guys, to become a relationship dictator, or to pick a fight with his mom in front of the whole family. He'll point that kind of strut right out the door.

A Woman with a Good Taste in Ties

Okay, so we don't really care about the ties per se. But what we care about is a woman's ability to give us a little-and this is a key word-gentle guidance. I know Freudian followers will say that it's a man's need to be mothered, but it's more than that. Every relationship is a give and take, and guys will definitely take women who can warn us when our new soul patch looks stupid, who can guide us to the perfect suit and shirt combo for an upcoming job interview, who can help them make decisions without being harsh or judgmental. Guys like to project that they know what they're doing and that they don't need any help. Women who can help steer us, without aggressively grabbing the wheel, are the most treasured copilots.

It's not often that we come face-to-face with the man of our dreams. If you meet a man that you instantly click with it's easy to let your imagination take the lead. As women, we dream about finding the perfect mate and when we think we have, we'll do almost anything to ensure he feels the same way. Making a man fall in love with you is really a mixture of many different things. There obviously needs to be mutual attraction and timing plays an important role too. There are specific things you can do though that can help guide him in the direction of falling in love with you.

No two men are alike but many men find certain qualities in a woman attractive. It's not impossible to make yourself irresistible to virtually any man if you understand what men find appealing. Making a man fall in love with you should begin with presenting yourself in the best possible light. This includes your appearance. This certainly doesn't mean that you need to lose weight or have any nips or tucks done. It does mean you need to accentuate what you have. This means dressing appropriately for your body shape and for your age. It also means taking a little time to style your hair and apply some make up. If you show the man you adore that you value yourself, he's bound to value you more as well.

This holds true when it comes to your individual pursuits as well. If you are passionate about your career or furthering your education you are going to be more attractive to the opposite sex. Making a man fall in love with you includes showing him that you are someone worth loving. Men love women who have their own interests and who aren't willing to compromise those things just because a man enters the picture. The man in your life should feel as though you are making room for him, not replacing your life for his. Never give up the things you love just because you fall in love with a man. If you do this you'll eventually become boring to him. Stay focused on your own goals and the things you enjoy.

You should also be willing to compromise if you are trying to make a man fall in love with you. Even though you may have your heart set on a dinner out, he may decide he wants to go see a game. Men love women who are flexible and spontaneous. Never try and steal him away from his friends or guilt him into choosing you over them. If you are supportive of the other people in his life, he'll be incredibly attracted to how giving and understanding you are. Show him that you love every part of him and he'll do the same in return to you.

Specific things you say and do can make a man feel helplessly drawn to you. If you are convinced he is the one there are things you can do to ensure he only has eyes for you.

"Farewell My Love"

Good Bye My Lover....

Did I disappoint you or let you down?Should I be feeling guilty or let the judges frown?'Cause I saw the end before we'd begun,Yes I saw you were blinded and I knew I had won.So I took what's mine by eternal right.Took your soul out into the night.It may be over but it won't stop there,I am here for you if you'd only care.You touched my heart you touched my soul.You changed my life and all my goals.And love is blind and that I knew when,My heart was blinded by you.I've kissed your lips and held your head.Shared your dreams and shared your bed.I know you well, I know your smell.I've been addicted to you.Goodbye my lover.Goodbye my friend.You have been the one.You have been the one for me.I am a dreamer but when I wake,You can't break my spirit - it's my dreams you take.And as you move on, remember me,Remember us and all we used to beI've seen you cry, I've seen you smile.I've watched you sleeping for a while.I'd be the father of your child.I'd spend a lifetime with you.I know your fears and you know mine.We've had our doubts but now we're fine,And I love you, I swear that's true.I cannot live without you.Goodbye my lover.Goodbye my friend.You have been the one.You have been the one for me.And I still hold your hand in mine.In mine when I'm asleep.And I will bear my soul in time,When I'm kneeling at your feet.Goodbye my lover.Goodbye my friend.You have been the one.You have been the one for me.I'm so hollow, baby, I'm so hollow.I'm so, I'm so, I'm so hollow.

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"Loving You Forever"

My Heart to Yours


In my heart there are many hidden places.It is all filled with very many faces.
If you visit there you will see. A special place I have saved for thee.
I see your suffering and share your pain. I certainly wish we were well again.
I know and feel what you go through. Because I have gone to that place too.
It is not for us to question why? Many a tear we will cry.
We suffer some days more than the rest. We try to show others our very best.
We don't want sympathy. Not from our friends or family.
We just need them to understand. What we have to try to withstand.
We no longer can do what we've done before. Everything now for us has changed once more.
Yes, we are a little depressed and sad. Remembering, we miss what we had.
We have had to give up many things we enjoyed.Now we are among the list of unemployed.
It takes away our independence and cheer. That we enjoyed in our yesteryear.
Please all join me in this new life. Let's not look back to our strife.
Let's look ahead to a new adventure. Many new things for us to venture.
Remember you're not really alone. There are disabilities in every home.
So when you 're down and need a friend. Email me or perhaps send an IM.
Just think if we weren't as we are, We would not have met, for we live afar!
So isn't it nice to have AOL. So we can share our hearts. "Isn't this swell?
What's that I see upon your face? "A Smile?" To know you've had a friend here, all the while.
So if you are lonely, depressed or sad. Make this your time to be Glad!