Showing posts with label positive attitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label positive attitude. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

"Your Way To Success"

Success Begins In The Mind

To live at your full potential is to discover the power of your thoughts and words. Whether or not you are aware of it, a war is raging all around you, and the battle is for your mind. Your enemy's number one target is the arena of your thoughts. If he can control how you think, he'll be able to control your entire life. Indeed, thoughts determine actions, attitudes, and self-image. Really, thoughts determine destiny, which is why we are to guard our minds.

Almost like a magnet, we draw in what we constantly think about. If we dwell on depressing, negative thoughts, we will be depressed and negative. If we think positive, happy, joyful thoughts, our life will reflect that and attract other upbeat, positive people. Our life follows our thoughts.

And our thoughts also affect our emotions. We will feel exactly the way we think. You cannot expect to feel happy unless you think happy thoughts. Conversely, it's impossible to remain discouraged unless you first think discouraging thoughts. So much of success and failure in life begins in our minds.

Set your mind on the right course. Start every day by agreeing with the psalmist, "Today is the day the Lord has made, and I'm going to be happy. I'm going to go out and be productive. This is going to be a great day." Magnify your God, and go out each day expecting good things.
EVERY DAY, WHEN YOU FIRST GET UP, SET YOUR MIND FOR SUCCESS.

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

"Optimism"

Life and God are one and the same. You are God's child. God would never close all the doors around you. His unlimited love and compassion wouldn't allow Him to be that cruel. God always keeps more than one door open. They may look as if they were closed, but they have, in fact, been left slightly ajar.

Just a mild knock is enough and they'll give way. But our eyes are blinded by our ignorance. We fail to see the open doors through which the light of God's grace is pouring in.My child, never lose courage. Never lose your trust in God or in life. Always be optimistic, no matter what situations you find yourself in. It's very important to be optimistic. Pessimism is a form of darkness, a form of ignorance that prevents God's light from entering into your life.





Pessimism is like a curse, an illusory curse created by the illusory mind. Life is filled with God's light, but only by being optimistic will you experience that light.Look at the optimism of nature. Nothing can stop it. Every aspect of nature tirelessly contributes its share to life. The participation of a little bird, and animal, a tree, or a flower is always complete. No matter what the hardships, they continue to try, wholeheartedly.

Only humans are pessimistic, and this causes suffering.Amma knows it isn't easy to always be optimistic. You may ask, how is it possible to be optimistic in the face of the many hardships and sorrows in life? It is true that it's difficult--but by being pessimistic you move towards even greater despair and darkness. All your strength and clarity of mind gets dissipated, and in the darkness of pessimism you feel abandoned and isolated. Optimism is the light of God. It is a form of grace which allows you to be much more perceptive and to look at life with greater clarity.

Saturday, February 7, 2009

" WHO/WHAT INSPIRES YOU."

Be Inspired , Be An Inspiration

" BY NOW... YOU SHOULD HAVE SOMEHOW... REALIZE WHAT YOU GOT TO DO... "




HATE.
DOUBT.
HATERS.
JEALOUSY
IGNORANCE.
STUPIDITY.
HEARTACHE.
LONELINESS.
DEPRESSION.
EMOTIONLESS.
NEGATIVITY.
PAIN.


Those and so much more are what inspire me. I could’ve sat here and shared all the positive things that too inspire me… but for me the negative things are the true challenge. They are things that truly test you. They are the things that inspire me to do more out of life. There’s nothing better when someone says you “cant” then when do it and prove them wrong.

The next time you are looking for inspiration… remember its all around you. It’s in everything. A song. A book. The sky or stars… in people… and yes even in the negative things. So for me at least I fully embrace the negativity for it only makes me stronger. This world isn’t perfect… it’s a cruel place at times…but only YOU can make what you want out of it. Never let anyone else’s negativity tell you anything different.

I believe there are two sides to everything. That everything happens for a reason. If we didn’t have the negative then how could be truly appreciate the positive? I’m just at a point where I’m determined not to let things get to me and bring me down. So throw all you want at me… for you are only inspiring me to be the best that I can be.





  • On Companionship:
    Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light.


  • On Ability:
    We can do anything we want if we stick to it long enough.


  • On Life:
    We would never learn to be brave and patient if there were only joy in the world.


  • On Self Confidence:
    What I am looking for is not out there; it is in me.


  • On Politics:
    Our democracy is but a name. We vote. What does that mean? It means that we choose between two bodies of real -- though not avowed -- autocrats. We choose between 'Tweedledum' and 'Tweedledee'.


  • On Decision Making:
    People do not like to think. If one thinks, one must reach conclusions. Conclusions are not always pleasant.


  • On Love:
    It is wonderful how much time good people spend fighting the devil. If they would only expend the same amount of energy loving their fellow men, the devil would die in his own tracks of ennui.


  • On Optimism:
    Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadows.


  • On Faith:
    Believe. No pessimist ever discovered the secrets of the stars, or sailed to an uncharted land, or opened a new heaven to the human spirit.


  • On Power:
    It is for us to pray not for tasks equal to our powers, but for powers equal to our tasks, to go forward with a great desire forever beating at the door of our hearts as we travel toward our distant goal.


  • On Ambition:
    One can never consent to creep when one feels an impulse to soar.


  • On Optimism:
    Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.

  • Friday, February 6, 2009

    Our attitude creates problems

    Y o u r A t t i t u d e
    I s Y o u r O w n
    R e f l e c t i o n

    Think of the little things over which we frequently quarrel about. A wife comes late from office or delays the evening tea and a tempest is created over the teapot. Quarrels over insignificant matters end up with the final solution of mutual divorce. This is reality.

    Misunderstanding is often the result of ‘Attitude’. It affects relationships most. If we do not develop appropriate understanding, we invariably contaminate our vision about facts. Ego conditions our attitude and determines our consequent actions. We, therefore, need to give up our ego with true humility and that in turn enables us to respect another’s views.

    While the whole world is craving for understanding it seems we are determined not to understand anything anyone says because of our ego. Communication without ego enables us to clear misunderstandings. We must be open and frank while talking and understanding enough while listening and filtering facts from feelings and opinions. A human being is basically an emotional creature but we forget this and expect cast-iron logic from others. We tend to forget that quality of our life is dependent on the quality of relations we make and maintain. Is it really difficult?

    WE HUMANS live in an environment full of misunderstandings. We have hi-tech gadgets to communicate, but we fail miserably to get the other person to understand us or show some concern. Among uncivilized tribals or the illiterate rustics we find strong bonds of love and affection but amongst the so-called civilized gentry there is hypocrisy, jealousy, snobbery and cut-throat competition. These seem more prevalent than loving relationships. No two persons seem to understand each other well and as a result we suffer in domestic, social, official, national and international life. Most of our problems centre around misunderstanding.

    Thursday, January 29, 2009

    "Equal Respect"


    What you think of yourself is reflected in the way you treat others.
    A very effective way to raise your own level of confidence
    is by acting positively toward the people around you.
    Rudeness toward others, whether intentional or not,
    is a sure sign of a lack of confidence.
    When you have no respect or consideration for others,
    it's difficult to have much confidence in yourself.
    Ironically,one of the worst things you can do for yourself
    is to think only of yourself.
    The more genuine respect, consideration and
    courtesy you express toward those around you,
    the more your own confidence will grow.
    If someone is rude to you,
    make every effort to be sincerely pleasant
    and courteous in return.
    Just because someone else is allowing rudeness
    to drain away their own energy,
    doesn't mean you must do the same.
    Have the confidence to be courteous,
    and the confidence to act with genuine
    respect toward others.
    Your positive attitude and positive actions will
    empower you with even more confidence and energy.

    Thursday, August 21, 2008

    Dream To Live

    Dream To Live Because Dreams Is Our Road To Success ...

    What actually is a dream? Is it important? Do they have impact on one's life? What would be a life without dreams?

    Dreams are nothing but one's expectations, innovations and also believed to be the means in which we communicate with the Almighty. Life without dreams is same as a body without the soul. Dreams play a vital role in one's life. You ask me how?

    1. Dreams as expectations:

    Consider a small boy of 7 yrs, he dreams to become the first in the class. So, he works very hard and excels and proves to be the first in the class. If haden't he dreamt, would he achieve, would he gather courage and strength to continue his work to become the best.

    2. Dream as innovation:

    If there wasn't dream, we'd be still in the stone-age!!! Everything we use today, was some day, in the past one's innovation which had occured through his dream.

    3. Dream to communicate with Almighty:

    All of us are sent to earth with a purpose. Almighty, comes in dreams and guides us. If we've forgotten something or deviate from the Almighty, then He comes and puts you back on track.


    Dreams play a vital role in one's life. Its in our hands not to let go off our dreams but make them in our reality. That's where the beauty of the game lies. If dreams are not realised, then their purpose is not served. Hence dream and not just that, make them your reality.

    Think!!!Deside!!!Share!!!


    Enligthen your self and enligthen others

    Monday, August 4, 2008

    Expectations


    There are a lot of people who are depressed to think in deep about results their good work,secred emotions,sacrifices and belongingness for their friends, nearest and the dearest.
    If, we ask the reason, they just express the reason as 'Not reciprocation of thier expected response in the same manner they want to OR a good result. Are they correct? Are they thinking in a right way?

    I think, they are not,cause all are not of the same nature what u are OR what you expect from the world.

    In my opinion, this is not a matter to worry. Why should worry, if u done a good thing to the persons u love? This is not a mistake on your part that you shower your best to him.
    Just think, Your expertise in driving does not guarantee you to escape from any accident on the road, since it is not sure that the driver opposite u is also an expert.

    And the same thing applied on every person.So, you are the only person can control yourself but not to others.You have to control or advise your mind to accept the advise of comes from your soul because relation and feelings are made by your heart and let the heart to decide.
    Keep your mind away from the decision in such soft matters.Your soul will show you the right way to act.Brain may distort the justice.

    Do not let your mind to any clash or disappointment.

    Let you think your own way in a good manner and thats all. What u get in return is depends on the healthy thoughts of the others. You need not to worry for the mistakes u did not make.
    Let it be rest on the God who is the natural and real Judge to decide the good and bad. Among your friends also there may be some misunderstandings some time.

    You have to evaluate the past,where there may be some mistakes or mis-happenings between him and you.Try to resolve the matter at your own keeping safe your self- esteem and listen what your soul asks you.
    However, if you find no positive results and even after your deep evaluation you did not find any known mistakes,u need not to worry. Just forget the matter and leave the result on God and Nature.

    iF U ARE ON A RIGHT PATH ,CERTAINLY U WILL GET JUSTICE IN FUTURE and IN YOUR FAVOUR too.

    In India,Shrimadbhagvad Geeta contains the holy saying of Lord Krishna that why should u worry.The all thing is well planned and goes in a manner what has been decided by God.You need concentrate on work only and forget about the results.
    So, don't worrry for the results let it be rest upon me(The God).I will see what is ok and what is not.

    I, strongly have the same opinion,however this is very much difficult for a human being but, one must be think it easy.Be easy.

    Time will pour all the wounds and if you find a way closed, it means that u have a new path open there for you and you will find this path a shinning one.

    Concluding myself i would like to submit further that the nature has every quality.caliber and more than sufficient capacity to create and provide a new world for you-Just explore it. It has every power to give u relief and you need to feel it.

    Hope,this will serve the purpose for those who in need of some guidance since, it depends on the experiences faced by me in the life.

    Are you losing hope

    Are You Losing Hope, Discouraged or Sick & Tired of Facing Life's Problems?

    The joy of life comes from the wisdom of counting your blessings, never your troubles. Focus on what you have and maintain a thankful heart.



    If you are facing any trouble, don't ask God, why me? Instead, ask "what do You want me to learn?". Then trust God and keep on doing what is right. Don't give up, just grow up!

    Thoughts on Life: Be thankful that you don't already have everythingyou desire. If you did, what would there be to look forward to? Be thankful for the difficult times because during those times, you grow. Be thankful for your limitations coz they give you a chance to become better. May you always have a day filled with gratitude.

    Life is a matter of perspective, either you complain because roses have thorns or you rejoice because thorns have roses. It all depends on how you look at it.

    Sometimes God breaks our spirit to save our soul. Sometimes He break sour heart to make us whole. Sometime He sends us pain so we can bestrong. Sometimes He sends us failure so we can be humble.

    Sometimes He send us illness so we can take better care of ourselves. Sometimes He takes everything away from us so we can learn the value of everything we have.

    Look at the babies sleeping, it makes us realize how fragile life is. Look at the shooting star blazing, it makes us realize how temporarylife is. Look at the sun rising, it makes us realize how beautiful life is. Look at a person dying, it makes us realize how important life is.

    Life is beautiful in its fragility, important on itstranscience. Live life to the fullest. Laugh, love and be grateful.

    If you have food, clothing and a home, you are richer than the 75% ofthe world's population. If you have some money in the bank, you ar ebeing among the top 8% of the world's wealthy.

    If you wake up healthy this morning, you are more blessed than the 1 Million people who will not survive this week.

    If you have exprience peace and freedom, you are ahead of the 500 Million people in the world. And if you can read these messages, you are more blessed than the 1 Billion people who cannot even read at all.

    Like birds, let's leave behind what we don't need to carry - grudges,sadness, pain, fear and regrets. Fly light, life is beautiful. Have a blessed day.

    Whenever you don't understand what's happening in your life, you just have to close your eyes, take a deep breath and say "Lord I know it'sYour plan, I put my trust in Your hands".

    Has life been good? Let God hear your "Thank you". Has it been bad? Let Him hear you say "I trust in You". Has it been unfair? Shhhh....just have Faith.

    Always remember the 5 simple rules to be happy 1-Free your heart from anger, 2-Free your mind from worries, 3-Live simply, 4-Give more, and5-Expect less

    3 reasons why laughing is good for your health: 1-Your Heart - laughingmakes your blood pressure good while increasing the amount of oxygencarried in your blood. 2-Your lungs - a deep level - laughing lowers level of the stress hormones,cortisol-reducing tension.

    Friday, June 20, 2008

    "Thoughts Are Very Powerful"

    Strength Of The Mind
    There is a Universal Law that states "Where thoughts go energyflows". We are often bombarded with negativity, and we tend to engage in negative thought patterns more often than we realize. Many are an aware of the power of the mind. Our ability to mold and shape our destiny lies within the power of our thoughts.Does this mean directing our thoughts will make our lives simple al lthe time and that nothing "bad" will ever happen? Of course not.

    Life will always have its little pitfalls, but through controlling and directing the energy we put out, we make our lives easier. With this effort, our minds become clearer enabling us to remain focused on that which truly matters.Remember also, that like attracts like. If your thoughts are mostly negative,most of what you receive and perceive will be negative as well.

    Today's Exercise:Today be mindful of your thoughts. Seemingly random thoughts can hold a lot of power. Make an effort to direct your thoughts in a positive manner in order to restore balance.At the end of the day note anything you learned through being more observant of your thoughts. What were the proportions of negative to positive?How often did you catch yourself in negative self-talk? etc.. What you observe today may surprise you!

    Friday, June 6, 2008

    "Success In Life"


    Why some people cannot succeed




    The measurement of success depends on the individual. It doesn't have to be owning a mansion on a hill or a multi-million dollar empire. Success can be found in the person who is kind and helps those less fortunate, a mentor to children or a great parent. Unfortunately, some don't have a clear definition and deem themselves a failure in comparison to other's success.

    People who succeed have a positive mind-set and a purpose to fulfill their goals and meet their dreams with passion. They don't impose stumbling blocks onto themselves. They live life as if they have already succeeded. To quote Lao Tzu - "A journey of a thousand miles, begins with a single step." Successful people take this first step!

    False labels

    One cannot succeed if their worst enemy is the one reflected in a mirror. Those who do not succeed, often label themselves as a failure, thus hindering their path. For some, the ground work for failure may have been laid early in life. They may not have experienced an upbringing that offered support and encouragement - one that nurtured the development of a positive self-image that says, "you can do it". This baggage from the past may be carried so heavily, the mind-set for success is distorted.

    Negative attitude


    If a positive attitude and a nurturing thought process are lacking, an individual may undermine their own strength, weakening any motivation to move ahead. Their fear of what others think can build a wall so high they cannot climb beyond the rut they are in. People who are stagnant, often don't analyze why they are in the same place they were years ago. In order for things to change, you have to make changes.

    Distorted focus


    People tend to spend more time focusing on problems than they do the solution. Focusing on the problem enhances it more and puts a gap between you and the solution. Keeping record of what is perceived to be failures is destructive. Small successes count and offer the confidence to succeed even more.

    Lack of patience and perseverance

    Instant gratification rarely gets us anywhere. The road to success may be slow, but it takes patience and perseverance to get there. Potential cannot be fulfilled if we give up. Patience is power, allowing us to discern our path with wisdom and armors us against hasty endeavors that may backfire. Perseverance keeps us on a steady course.

    Procrastination

    Thoughts are pretty, but without action, you won't get very far. Procrastinators sabotage themselves, often feeding themselves lies or are afraid to make decisions. They are their worst critic and instead of taking a step forward, they'll make a thousand excuses why they can't.
    People "can" succeed. Passion is the driving force behind dreams. When we stop dreaming, we stop believing. When we stop believing, we stop living. It's never too late to light the flame of passion and take that first step on a journey to success. The only failure is not trying. Define your success. Look at the world and yourself with new eyes and bring to life, the vision.



    "Why Some People Don't Succeed In Life"

    6 Dangerous Reasons People Do Not Set Goals and Never Succeed







    oal setting is the framework for personal achievement. It is the backbone of becoming a person you desire to be. Setting and achieving personal goals will guarantee you success. Most people who do set goals have little to no understanding of goal setting and as a result fail to achieve them and never succeed. You would think that if goal setting was the ultimate skill and secret to success that everyone would develop their own personal goals and learn to achieve them. Unfortunately, the world is not that perfect. There are six dangerous reasons people do not set and achieve their goals which act like a road block to their success.

    There are several reasons why people do not set goals similarly to why people do not care about communicating effectively. I know with absolute certainty that everyone will experience a more successful and far enjoyable life if they learned to communicate effectively. Arguably the greatest modern day personal development Coach, Anthony Robbins said, “The way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives.” Effective communication determines the quality of your life with others while self development determines the quality of your inner life.

    The first reason I believe why people do not set goals is they do not see its importance.Like people who do not develop their communication and other aspects of themselves, they do not see the importance of setting goals. I have met people who are unbelievably resistant to developing their communication. They have actually found it insulting to think they need to improve how they communicate! Every single person on the face of this Earth can always communicate more effectively and have their life improve as a result. Likewise, with goals there are people who do not see the importance of setting personal goals.

    Goal setting forms the foundations for personal achievement and it is of the utmost importance.The second reason why people do not set goals is a fear of others caused from criticism. People criticize because they see faults in others or are brainwashed by society and other beliefs into thinking greatness cannot be achieved. They criticize to hold people back from achieving goals. Average people do not want others to go beyond average. A person can fear setting goals because each time they have set goals in the past, others have criticized and shot down their dreams.

    Others impose their own self-limiting beliefs through criticism instilling fear within the person. Think of receiving criticism as a poisonous needle injected into your body. It slowly controls and destroys what you want. The destructive thought of fear controls the person from achieving anything remarkable. Put bluntly, screw what people think. Screw allowing people to destroy your life with their beliefs. Society is filled with endless garbage to prevent you from achieving your goals. If you want something, go and get it by setting and achieving personal goals.

    The third reason why people do not set goals is a fear of failure.They can think success is derived from not failing. The opposite is true. Success comes from failing a lot and failing fast. Famous inventor Thomas Edison said, “I haven’t failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” Being an inventor, Thomas understand failure was apart of success. Failure was the nuts and bolts that constructed his success. Understand that failure occurs and it shows you are taking action. Learn from failure and enjoy knowing you are moving towards your goals instead of fearing to set out after them in the first place.

    The fourth reason why people do not set goals is a fear success.People who fear success believe it is bad. The fear is common in wealth and wanting an attractive partner because negative results will occur. They believe wealth is evil or a certain type of partner is unfaithful. The fear prevents them achieving what they want by not laying the foundations of their desire with goal setting.

    The fifth reason why people do not set goals is they do not know how. This reason relates to fear of failure where the person has set goals in the past, but has not achieved them and becomes discouraged from the failure. These people become disheartened from the failure and think failure is imminent. They do not learn from past mistakes and move towards personal growth. The classic example of this is losing weight as a new year’s resolution. A mere temporary motivation inspires the person who is lucky to lose weight in January but no further progression towards achieving the goal occurs in later months.

    If you do not set and start working towards a goal now, what makes you think you will be able to achieve it as a new year’s resolution? There are techniques such as SMART goal setting which I have written about but are not covered in this article. Using SMART goals enables you to set and achieve goals then merely wishing a result based on temporary motivation too common around the new years period.The sixth reason why people do not set goals is they lack the inner desire to want something greater then what they currently have.For them, the ordinary or even sub-ordinary is sufficient. These people do not believe they can reach or deserve success because society has conditioned them into thinking they are ordinary people and therefore must do ordinary things. It can also be caused by failure, criticism, and other reasons as to why people do not set goals.

    Did you find yourself relating to one of these six dangerous reasons people do not set goals and as a result never succeed? Do not fret too much because you are now more self-aware and able to doing something about. All that is required for you to do is learn how to set achievable goals. I personally advise people to follow the SMART goal setting technique because its congruency with successful goal setting is spot on. You set specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and tangible goals leading to your success. Master this skill and you will have the most powerful personal development technique in your grasp to achieve success.

    Saturday, May 31, 2008

    "Better Outlook,For A Better Future"


    HOPE

    Hope is knowing that a positive outcome awaits.

    Hope is not only expecting a dream to come true,

    but also having a deep assurance that it's within your reach.
    Hope is saying you can.
    Hope is knowing that you can improve

    and that you always get better with practice.

    Hope is knowing that you can achieve your goals

    through hard work and persistence.

    Hope is looking to the future with joy

    and having an expectation of better things to come.

    Hope is the knowledge that life is everlasting,

    and that miracles happen every day.

    Hope is something that never abandons you.

    Even when your life is filled with sadness and disappointment,

    a spark remains inside to help youget through the rough times.

    Hope is one of God's greatest gifts to you,

    because it's the magic that inspires youto keep trying,

    learning, loving, and living.

    I have found that if you love life, life will love you back!


    Thursday, May 8, 2008

    "It is all about believing"



    "Mind Setting will bring positive changes in your life"

    Truly you have to keep a positive mind set. This can make a difference in your day. You may have several good days say in sales and then there comes a day where you seem to be making very little or nothing. You can choose to let that stop you or you can know that this was just one day and get back to it tomorrow. Things aren't always as bad as they seem if you have long term vision. Success comes to those who know what they want and keep working towards it now matter what happens. I'm getting better at what I do, not because I'm good, because I'm really not that good. But my success is growing because I have not given up and I know where I want to be. You must see your self where you want to be. Long term vision will help to keep you on track. Your mind set will get stronger as you keep these things in mind. The day will come that when you wake up, you will expect to win! Mind Set!

    Thursday, May 1, 2008

    "Losing is not a sign failure it's a Winning Experience"

    Life can't be understood except backwards.....but unfortunately it can't be lived except forwards.......
    What looks to be nothing, finally becomes everything .....
    ... and what is everything suddenly changes to nothing
    For everything you have missed, you have gained something else..........And for everything you gain, you lose something else............

    It's about your attitude towards life,you can either regret or rejoice


    That's life..........
    Learn to live ......& Live to learn

    GOD always does things right

    His way is ALWAYS the best way, even if to us it seems all wrong
    If you asked GOD for one thing and received another, TRUST.
    You can be sure that He will always give you what you need at the appropriate time

    What you want............

    is not always what you need !!!

    GOD never fails to grant our petitions,........So keep on going for Him without doubting or murmuring

    Today's THORN .....
    Is tomorrow's FLOWER


    Wednesday, April 30, 2008

    "Right attitude will guide you towards success"


    ..... Attitude.....

    What can change your day?

    It's just simply the way…

    That you start it out…

    That's with out a doubt…

    You see how I start my day…

    By sending something positive your way…

    I know it surely does have an effect on me…


    I get a smile just to see…

    How many people can relate to the verses I let flow…

    Where they come from… I still don't know…

    We all have our gift…

    Guess mines the ability to uplift…

    Even if its just the corners of your lips…


    Or making you turn the music up

    and start shaken your hips…

    A brighter day…

    Just seems to be a click away…

    Hope you will stop back by…

    And you know those times I make you cry…


    I really do feel bad…

    Because them stories are so sad…

    But they have more meaning that way…

    And you learn a lot more that day…

    It opens your heart up to so much more…

    And you find your self looking forward

    to what's through the next door…


    Your attitude determines where you will go…

    Guess that's all I really wanted you to know…



    "Inspiration is MY Goal, with Poetry for the Soul"









    Hope you enjoy the reading Ive put together.
    Its here to help ME get through the cloudy weather.
    Inspiring quotes and phrases are like vitamins to the soul.
    They can touch your heart and make you feel whole.
    Some times they can even inspire you to change your ways,

    So that you can have much brighter days!

    So take the time to read them through,

    As you might just find that special something to inspire you!
    Hope you take some thing away from your visit here
    Might be some thing small or might be some thing dear.
    But either way I hope it touches a piece of your heart.
    Because thats where all good things get their start!

    My punctuation and spelling might not be very good.
    But hopefully my point might be understood.

    It you find something that touches you in some way.
    Please Share it as it would brighten my day,
    Just to hear what you have to say.
    May all your days be bright, and your nights warm!
    And that you stay safe and far from any harm!


    TWELVE POINTS ON ATTITUDE



    1.It is your attitude at the beginning of a task more than anything else that will determine your success or failure.

    2.It is your attitude towards life that will determine life's attitude towards you.

    Despite many people's belief to the contrary, life pays no favorites.

    3.You control your attitude.

    If you are negative it is because you have decided to be negative and not because of other people or circumstances.

    4.Act as if you have a good attitude. Remember actions trigger feelings just as feelings trigger actions.

    5.Before a person can achieve the kind of results he wants, he must first become that person.

    He must then think, walk, talk, act and conduct himself in all of his affairs, as would the person he wishes to become.

    6.Treat everybody as the most important person in the world.

    7.Attitudes are based on assumptions. In order to change attitudes one must first change one's assumptions.

    8.Develop the attitude that there are more reasons why you should succeed than reasons why you should fail.

    9.When you are faced with a problem, adopt the attitude that you can and will solve it.

    10.We become what we think about. Control your thoughts and you will control your life.

    11.Radiate the attitude of confidence, of well being, of a person who knows where he is going.

    You will then find good things happening to you right away.

    12.In order to develop a good attitude, take charge first thing in the morning. Do you say, "Good morning, Lord" or "Good Lord, morning?"

    Read these twelve points every day for the next thirty days

    and see how your life changes.


    ATTITUDES ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN FACTS


    Monday, April 28, 2008

    "Law of Attraction"

    The Power of Concentration


    The man who has daily inured himself to habits of concentrated attention, energetic volition and self-denial in unnecessary things will stand like a tower when everything rocks around him and when his softer fellow-mortals are winnowed like chaff in the blast.

    William James


    Concentration on your Higher Self (the soul within) will encourage detachment and detachment will lead to power.


    Everything in creation (as we understand it) is influenced by the law of magnetism. The law of magnetism teaches us that whatever we concentrate upon, we draw to ourselves. If we focus on goodness, our life can be a garden of happiness; if we concentrate on wealth, we will draw wealth to ourselves.


    S
    uccess in life presupposes the power of concentration. Just as a magnet draws to itself iron filings and no trice grains, so too, the quality of our focused thoughts will create a dynamic but silent power within that will find us placed in situations akin to the nature of our thoughts. If we think ' good health ' and with faith and belief embed this deeply within our minds over a sustained period of time, we will gradually create for ourselves situations and an environment, which will be conducive to good health .Yet as we understand the workings of this power , it is essential that we not misuse power and that we be more involved in purifying our desires so that all that we seek only be bathed in the hue of wisdom and righteousness. Before we choose we always
    have an option, but once chosen, each action will bring forth a concomitant reaction.


    E
    ach of us is born with a certain degree of latent developed concentration,but the more we are aware of the existence of this power, and the more we seek to consciously use it, the more will we actually develop it.Men of success are men of concentration. Nothing of essence in life is achieved without concentration.


    B
    e it in prayer, business, sport, art, or
    healing,concentration is the real key which helps one harness one's inner divine potential. Concentration aids you in drawing more of the life energy into your physical self and thereby raising your level of existence to higher layers of awareness. As you spiritualize your conciousness through Guru-channeled techniques of concentration, your energy pattern becomes more vibrant and pure, ushering all round tranquility and calmness into the temple of your mind.



    With good concentration one can fulfill a task in virtually half the time and with double the accuracy of an average person. Paramahansa Yogananda said that we should do our interesting and enjoyable duties with all our heart and the uninteresting ones with our deepest attention.


    A
    s we concentrate with will power on the task at hand, we learn to shut out unnecessary disturbing thoughts, doing nothing haphazardly. The mind thereby attains the ability to be one-pointed.The greatest power, remember always, is lodged in the fine, never in the coarse.


    W
    hen one is able to lift a heavy object with
    muscles flexing, we appreciate the physical strength and the look and feel of the muscular part, but we must remind ourselves that the power to lift comes not from the muscles but from the life energy within, which in turn is drawn by the power of will and concentration. The greater the will and the more focused one's thoughts, the greater will be the inflow of the life force.


    E
    ach thought that we think forms a pattern in our brain cell grooves. These patterns then determine what our future patterns of existence will be. If we wish to change the nature of the existent (past) patterns or if we seek to create desired patterns (circumstances) it is vital to understand the workings of the
    science of concentration. Though any sincere practice in concentration may seem arduous and boring at the outset, after some time, internal interest is definitely developed.


    T
    he platitude before the flowering is only natural as new forms of mental thought seek to erase typical thought habits of the past. Evil and harmful habits are what we have gifted ourselves through concentrating repeatedly on the wrong thought patterns and now if we are to be rid of them, it is necessary to concentrate on the opposite. For example, if we have a habit of biting our
    nails,we must concentrate on seeing ourselves as living without any trace(even in imagination) of that habit. We must see only the goal, and the obstacles will fall off by themselves. With the coming of His Divine light, the darkness of eons can melt away.


    A
    s one advances in one's realization and experiences the benefits of concentration, one hardly wants to abandon its practice. Spiritual techniques in concentration take one to the threshold of supreme joy,divine strength, deeper knowledge, and high levels of intuition.Ultimately success in profound concentration is a pre-requisite for success in communion with the omniscient Spirit.


    T
    hrough concentration, one can draw to the surface, the repository of experiences submerged in the subconscious mind. The subconscious mind is our most obedient serf and carries experiences not only of this life but also of the entire past. Swami Sivananda explained "when we are unable to solve a problem, be it personal or
    scientific,we should tell our subconscious mind to do it for us. Approached with trust and confidence, it will provide the right answer. The command must be couched in very clear, explicit terms with no ambiguity. If the solution is not elicited after a night's sleep, we may repeat the command at the same time each day, until the response is forthcoming."


    C
    omprehensive development of the subconscious mind will relieve some of the pressure of the conscious mind, enabling it to concentrate more easily on noble and wise objectives and practices.


    W
    e oft complain about the traumas and trials that manifest in our lives. But very conveniently we forget that deep down we ourselves are responsible through our own thoughts and actions for these traumas. We have either been lazy or then simply over-enthusiastic in our uncontrolled thoughts and actions. Increased practices in techniques of concentration will manifest in us the ability to arrest the seed of unwanted thought is right at the outset and also to skillfully guide the raft of our new thoughts. Only then will we be able, with the help of God and Guru to have control over our destiny and over our own mind; and one who has control over one's own mind can very definitely also relate with and manifest control over every other mind.



    Concentration implies great self-control, especially over one's emotions and true concentration endows great strength-of mind and of character. It awakens within us an innate capability to withstand life's sudden and unexpected shocks, be it depression, chaos or other uncertainties. This strength, we must realize, depends not on material power but on mental caliber and poise. To acquire real mental poise, you have to attain wisdom. To acquire wisdom, you have to develop the mind, which is to develop the power of super concentration, whereby will flow from within the all-conquering power of wisdom.


    T
    he main idea of concentration, explained Swami Paramananda (Ramakrishna Mission) "is to make our ourselves a channel, so clear, so direct, so unbiased, that through our instrumentality the power of Divinity can flow and accomplish Its great end. Keep this always in mind." In the Bhagavad-Gita, the concentrated mind of the Yogi is compared to the flame of a lamp that does not flicker. "When the mind is completely subdued by the practice of Yoga, and has attained serenity, in that state, seeing Self by the self, he is satisfied in the Self alone."


    A
    mind that becomes concentrated enters a new province. Like one who has discovered a chest full of treasure, it can think of nothing else."Seeing Self by the self, we are satisfied in the Self alone." Like a musician wholly absorbed in his notes forgets all about food, drink and bodily needs, a man of single focus is able to harness all his energy to the one most essential objective. Concentration is a tremendous force in society. Through its right use, one is successful in whatever one chooses to do. But concentration should not be consciously practiced only during times of need; one should constantly keep developing the powers of the mind at all times.


    S
    riRamakrishna Paramahansa, the great Master of modern India gives in his teachings a very vivid illustration. Every man, he said, should make a legitimate effort to keep his mind in a good, clean, concentrated condition; otherwise it grows unsightly-like a metal vessel, which becomes tarnished if it is not polished every day.


    A golden vessel,however, does not have to be polished so frequently. So too with our mind. Once it mingles with the Supreme, it becomes like the vessel of gold and retains its splendor even when it is not given any special care.


    "The Little Things"

    "The Little Things"



    It only takes a minute or two for you to make a little progress. And a little progress can put you solidly on the road to a lot more.

    It only takes a small effort to give a little kindness. And a little kindness can easily multiply itself again and again until it starts to make a big difference.

    It only takes a simple adjustment of your attitude to build a little enthusiasm. And with a little enthusiasm you can attract the support of many others.





    Small positive changes are easy to make. In between all the things you're already doing, there are numerous opportunities to fill in the spaces with extra treasures.


    And the small positive changes do something much more powerful than making a difference in the world. They make a difference in you.


    Get in the habit of making small positive changes, and soon you'll be experiencing big, valuable accomplishments. Let the little things put your spirit in a positive place, and that can change your life in magnificent, profound ways.


    "Positive Outlook in Life"

    BE POSITIVE

    Negative things within our mind
    Can cause so much despair
    The many doubts
    and discontent
    Brings hurt that w
    e must bear.

    So sad to keep it all inside
    Causes so much grief and pain
    When we stop to think about it all
    Its ourselves
    we have to blame.

    The way we feel is up to us
    God can and will give us peace
    If we ha
    ve a better attitude
    The pain we feel will cease.

    Don't let bad thoughts haunt you
    Too special you
    are by far
    Remember God who gave you life
    Loves you just the way you are.

    Be content with the person you see
    Because perfect is wh
    at you need not to be
    You do not have to pretend to be someone you are not

    For inside of your heart beauty is what you have
    got
    And once you allow your inner beauty to shine through
    All eyes will most certai
    nly be on you
    For looks in life onl
    y goes so far
    But when you are proud of whom you are

    Happier with yourself is what you will b
    e
    For your inner beauty is what is what others will se
    e
    So you do not have to look a certain way

    For others to accept you on any given day

    If others do not like you they are the ones missing out

    On the chance to find what it is you truly are about

    So never think you have to change to fit in

    Always remember, true beauty comes fr
    om within.


    Live as you will wish to have

    Lived when you are dying....