Beautiful women in the eyes of Indian men

In India, the fashions, the History, and the culture affirm man's fascination with narrow waist line of a woman. Men in all cultures world wide have lusted women for their hour glass shape involving the narrow waist.

I will limit discussion to the body, not the skin color, or facial features. My teen years were spent in Rajasthan. The hormones were at peak as I used to eye slender young women wearing Choli and Lehanga revealing their bellybutton, carrying water in an earthen pot on their heads.

Fashions
In India women wear a Choli to cover the top. Below the waist, they would wear a long skirt-like Lehanga, Ghagra, or a Petticoat. Saree is wrapped around the petticoat. Choli is a tight fitting short blouse that ends just below the bust. These combination outfits are designed to expose bellybutton and bare waistline for the pleasure of men. Original Choli were open in the back to reveal more skin.

History
The sculptures outside the Ancient temples, and the pictorials in Kamasutra depict woman with narrow waist, firm round breasts and slightly protruding hips. Old Hindu epics such as Mahabharata, and Ramayana mention the narrow waistline of some of the Goddesses to describe their beauty.

Culture
In the olden days, parents chose the brides with narrow waist for their sons. It was believed that narrow wasted brides will bear sons to carry family names. The larger hips will make it easier to fetus during pregnancy. Larger bust will hold plenty of milk to feed the infant. In a way they were right. Estrogen levels effect the size of hips and thighs. Larger hips have higher level of estrogen, and estrogen influences the fertility. Androgen effects the waistline. For the same waist size, a woman with larger hips is more fertile.

Parameterization of Hour glass shape
Beauty Ratio Calculator

The bust, waist, and hips form the so called hour-glass shape. These three characteristics form two ratios: Waist Hip Ratio (WHR), and Waist Bust ratio (WBR). The waist is measured around the narrowest section below the rib cage and just above the bellybutton. Hip circumference is measured around the largest protrusion of the buttocks. The bust circumference is measured around its largest protrusion.

In 1993, Professor Singh set WHR ratio as 0.70. This is a well accepted preference in United States. Other studies have set ideal WBR as 0.76. After analyzing sculptures in Khajuraho and other temples in South India, one may conclude that Indian men prefer slightly more protruding hips and bust. I would suggest the following parameterization:

American preference
WHR = 0.70, WBR = 0.76

Indian preference
WHR = 0.66, WBR = 0.72


Body Mass Index

The BMI reflects the fertility and health of the women. BMI less than 18.5 is underweight and not acceptable for health reasons. Elevated BMI can cause menstruation and fertility problems. In United States, the models are tall and skinny. Indian women are not tall. Indian beauties are neither skinny, nor fat. Indian beauties are slender. For American preference, I suggest optimum BMI of 19. For Indian woman, I would suggest an optimum BMI of 19.5.

Does Size Matter?

Women Men Want - Does Size Matter?

"Honey, does my bum look big in this?" If there's any line that is a tribute to the evolution of the modern relationship, it would be this one. Behind the stale humor of this sentence lies a problem that has grown exponentially over time: does size matter to a guy?

Of course size does matter, but not in the way that you might think. Three of the most common "disadvantages" have it's pluses from a guy's point of view.

Short - Us guys don't see you as short, we see you as petite. No one talks about it, but it's a general rule that a guy is taller than a girl in a relationship. Heaps of guys dig short girls, just because it makes them feel more of a man. They feel like they can better protect their girl. Besides, being short hasn't stopped heaps of females from being bombshells in the bedroom. So don't feel down if you're not as tall as you'd want to be, a lot of us guys are looking for girls like you.

Fat - Us guys don't see you as fat, we see you as curvy. Your hips and other feminine features are accentuated and secretly, many guys dig a bit of meat on their girl. Girls are skinny, women are curvy.

Skinny - Us guys don't see you as skinny, we see you as slender. Having less fat on your body means that there's less between the man and the woman. Touches are more electric and similar to being petite, a light girl makes us guys want to protect you mor
Hopefully, you are now more confident in whatever shape that you were born. Ideal guys are looking for you, if you just flaunt what your momma gave you with not a care in the world, he will find you.

For a woman of any shape or size, there is a man who looking for her. That man could be someone you already know. For more tips to connect with your ideal man, click here.

"Women On The Lead"

The Strength of a Woman

I have question about the strength of a woman.

Is it possible for a woman to be too strong or independent?

What I'm asking is has women's equality, western culture, and today's society as a whole so radically and drastically altered the roles, that today's women play that some women have be come too independent? Not just in the bedroom and or relationships, but also in the boardroom, courtroom, the streets and life in general.

In many single parent homes, the woman has to be both Mother and Father and in doing so the woman has to incorporate many attributes normally associated with a man (provider and protector) and she also has become tougher, stronger, and more self reliant.

I can empathize with the plight of single women who need to be somewhat independent just to make it in life. There's certainly nothing wrong with having a job, paying your bills, and maintaining what you own. It just seems for a lot of the single women that I know, that the desire for independence has subtly choked out their ability for a healthy traditional relationship.

Most men don't want to feel like an "optional accessory" in a busy woman's life. Men need to feel needed, just like women need to feel cherished.

Most single women have a history of supporting themselves, holding down a job (if not two), possibly raising children, attending school, taking care of household bills and helping out with other family responsibilities involving parents, grandparents and siblings in many cases they have handled these responsibilities without a strong or consistent male influence in their lives.

Through miscommunication, death, neglect or abuse, many father-daughter, sister-brother, boyfriend-girlfriend relationships have gone astray, oftentimes leaving women to form a support network among themselves in order to get things done.

Have women become so entrenched in these non traditional roles that they can no longer be submissive enough to enjoy a relationship with a Dominate male and allow a man to play his traditional role in the relationship?

How many women are tired of having to be the STRONG one?

Does today's woman want a man that can take care of her? Is it a sign of weakness to admit that?

Have these role changes caused you problems in your love life? If so how?
~ A QUESTION FOR THE MEN ONLY ~

What role if any do you feel that men have played in creating this phenomenon?

"Be A Women Of Confidence"

CONFIDENT WOMAN

Head held high,A smile filled with surprise;
A swing in my step,
As I flash my Baby Blue Eyes!

Strut in rare form,
Lipstick to match my nails;
Strong personality to bare,
Creativity within my tales.

I turn heads in my path,
As each step I take with pride;
I am sexy within my confidence,

No longer the need to run and hide.
You come close to know my name,

Eager within your words;
I am a sheer mystery,
Dancing inside songs you've never heard.

Smile at me as I walk by,
Remembering the sway of my walk;
Falling asleep to the sound of my voice,
And the sweet way I talk.

The Type of Woman Men Fall in Love With

I'd like to shed some light on something that women have been puzzled about for centuries, and that is the type of women men fall in love with. There have been so many books written on this subject, yet most have not delivered the common sense answers I am going to share with you in this issue of Smart Woman's Guide Newsletter.

Without wasting much time, I will get right to the point. I am going to give you 10 personality attributes that men love to see in the women they fall head over heels in love with. Men are attracted to women that have:

1. Intelligent - This attribute ranks very high, after men have gotten past your looks. Men love women that are smart, opinionated, and articulate. Most enjoy speaking to women who have their own point of view on subjects and are passionate in discussing affairs of the day. Men love to debate, and if you can make them believe, or at least respect, your point of view, then you have a man that will see you as an equal, and not as an ornament to be displayed to the rest of the world until the next best ornament comes his way.

2. Good Humored - If you can laugh at your man's crude jokes or take his wisecracks, you become someone he wants to get to know better. But if you're the type that easily gets upset when he jokes about your raggedy hair or sloppy dressing, men will not find your personality as attractive as one who possesses this quality.

3. Confident - When you have your own opinion and can defend it, are comfortable in your own skin, regardless of your body size or whatever else Mother Nature has thrown your way, then you have what it takes to attract men that will fall head over heels in love with you.

4. Supportive - Men find it easy to fall in love with women that encourage and support positive undertakings they embark on. Men love women that have the ability to see what they see in the goals they pursue. Men believe that when you support their dreams and goals, you believe in their ability to accomplish those things that are dear to their hearts. And when you support that which is dear to a man's heart, you essentially have the key to unlock his passionate love for you.
5. Accommodating - When you understand that men are not perfect, and you are able to easily forgive them for their imperfections, then you possess one of the most admirable qualities men seek in their love interest. However, if you are the type that will nitpick every single thing they do or nag them at the drop of a hat, then you will not have a man hanging around you for very long.

6. Patient - This attribute is quite similar to that in #5. When I speak of patience here, I am referring to a woman's ability to be in a relationship with a man without pressuring him into making a serious commitment he may not be ready to make. Now understand that there is a way to let a man know that you are interested in settling down, without coming across as desperate or overbearing. Women that show men that they are willing to wait for them to propose a committed relationship are apt to be more attractive to men than those that come across as impatient.

7. Sensual - A woman that is not sensual is not attractive to any man. To be attractive to a man you must be perceived as someone who is very comfortable with her sexuality and knows how to initiate sex spontaneously. If you believe that men should always be the first to make the move when it comes to bedroom and lovemaking matters, you may be doing yourself more harm than good when it comes to your ability to attract men. Improve your ability to initiate intimacy, and you will see how much more attractive you will appear to your guy. You can improve in this area tremendously if you are open to what Michael Webb, a bestselling author, reveals in his exciting e-book, "500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets".

8. Honest - Men find authentic and honest women quite attractive. If you are the type that tells it like you see it, men will find this aspect of your personality very attractive. "Say what you will do and do what you say" ought to be your motto. Just as you respect and love men that tell you the truth no matter what, men feel the same way when they meet a woman that does not waste their time with fibs. In a nutshell, men are attracted to women that are honest and down to earth, women that do not pretend to be who they are not.

9. Open-minded - The willingness to explore other possibilities, new ideas, etc. is an attribute that men seek in the women they want to love. Being open-minded does not mean that one has to compromise one's personal convictions, but rather is able to see another point of view and respect it, even if it is not one that you share.

10. Health conscious - Women that take care of themselves are generally more attractive than those that do not. After all a good physique is the first thing that attracts men, even before they get to know how wonderful and exciting you are. Men are attracted to women that exercise, eat right, take care of their hair, nails, and dress well. To attract the best you must look your best - it is that simple.

To find out how to make your man fall madly in love with you, please visit: http://www.smartwomansguide.com/.

"Make The Man Of Your Dreams Fall For You"

What makes Men fall in love ?
As other women had wonder, I ask the same perpetual question : HOW men fall in love. Do they sometimes fall for somebody before dating? (Seriously, does/can that happen?) What is a guy's thought process in that situation?

Really, women ( I am among the wonderers) want to know this stuff!

Someone tried to answer me, and though he said that it was “ TOP SECRET “ I thought that he wouldn’t mind if I share this with you, to know what do YOU think about, here is his answer :

I think any guy here can say that it IS possible for any guy to fall in love with a single glance at the opposite sex. The only problem is we don't admit it to anyone (sometimes not even to ourselves) It's a seldom thing but it can happen.

But it differentiates from guy to guy. Me personally, is personality.

She may be Beautiful, but if that beauty matches who she is then that's all it takes for me, but it takes time to adjust to it. Men don't or rarely use the word "love" but that doesn't mean we don't feel it. Even a low life can feel it but would never admit it.

The only exception would be if a guy has been burned so badly that makes him bitter, but that means he HAS been in love, and it is possible for a guy to fall in love. Women sometimes think that we use it aimlessly just to get what we want out of them.

True, but so do women. It's not always the case. Sure we take advantage of it, but that’s because women aren't meeting a guys wants. (even the most despicable ones) It's tricky and almost impossible to believe but it's there.

That's where patience is necessary, and if that can't be provided that is why we get bored and bitter with women and causes us to do stuff that some of us regret. Furthering our notion of what love is and not believing in it.

Guys will only admit they love you or in love when women: doesn't pressure them into anything, understands him, appreciates him (even if he burps and farts around the clock) and respects him and most important space.

Almost the same things women want from men. (another cliché) communication is basically key, you just need to know how to approach us when it comes to a one on one chat, and if you love us the way most women claim they would know what that is.

That’s why we so foul of creatures as many women claim we are, say we are jerks and d*cks and are incapable of love. But we are capable of it we just don't express it or show it as much as we like why? well because we're guys. Now the reason as to why we hide love? that’s a secret.

How to Identify Real Men

What are real men? Real men are the confident tough guys who don?t pretend to be people they aren't. Real men won't say anything about you behind your back that he wouldn't say in front of you, and real men always say what they mean and mean what they say. Real men are not worried about weather or not their appearance is in keeping with the trends, and they aren't worried if they smell like oil instead of some putrid cologne. Having said all this, there are many ways and situations to follow where the definition of real men can be observed.

Appearance: As indicated above, appearance (though important) isn't at the top of the real man's list of priorities. As a matter of fact, aside from when he's in church, as long as he's not walking around butt-naked, as far as he's concerned, what he has on is of little consequence.

Fortunately, most real men have wives, mothers or girl friends that ensure they are properly dressed in clean and hole free clothes prior to leaving the house.Real men do not stand in front of the mirror for more than 5 minutes each day. This time is spent quickly shaving, brushing teeth and combing hair. Real men, regardless of complexion, do not stand in front of the mirror fussing over this pimple and that wrinkle. Nor do they waste time applying acne medicine or moisturizers. Real men are decisive at the store. That's right! They get what they need, and they leave as fast as they can. Women and wimps take forever shopping because they are supplied with way too many choices, and can't decide what product is going to leave their skin, hair, clothes, teeth and breath looking and/or smelling the absolute best. So they start at one end of the aisle sniffing every bottle (shampoo for instance) until they find the one they want. And once they finally decide on something they like, they forget which one it was because the next time it has to be bought, they go through the same process all over again!

House: Real men's houses have front porches that they built themselves, and in their yards they have at least 1 rusted charcoal grill that is always ready to use dirty or not. Additionally, at home, real men don't pay anyone to cut their grass when they can either do it themselves, or have one of their kids do it. That said, when it gets cut, it is cut with a push? mower that never starts until the spark plug is thoroughly cleaned.

Car: First of all, Real men know how to change their own tires and oil, and they actually do it. Wimps and women have someone else do these for them. A real man drives a pick-up because he has to carry stuff around that will not fit in the trunk of a car, and a real man isn't worried whether or not his truck is dirty, or that he might be climbing into the cab wearing dirty clothes or muddy work boots. In some cases however, some car driving men are considered real men provided the cars they are driving are loaded down as if they were trucks. You may occasionally see examples of real men making cross-town moves with their cars full of house hold items, and with a mattress tied to the roof flapping in the breeze.

Clothes: As stated above, real men will, without hesitation, slide into the cab of his truck with dirty clothes on, that said, real men are not worried that the clothes they're wearing are filthy when the filth comes from their line of work, or as the direct result of getting someone unstuck from the mud.

Jobs: First of all, barring any catastrophic disabilities, real men have jobs. In most cases, it really doesn't matter what the job is as long as it is performed to the best of his ability, and as long as the job is an honest one. There are jobs though that, due to the inherent dangers associated with them, are manlier than others. For example, the guy walking steel girders suspended several floors from the ground is much more manly than the guy who stands around fixing hair all day.

Children: Real men have children who have ridden a horse, have been camping, and have been fishing at least once in their lives. Children of real men will learn both the difference between right and wrong, and that making bad choices will yield unpleasant results. Furthermore, real men will teach their kids that it is perfectly acceptable to refuse following the crowd because more often than not children who follow the crowd tend to make those bad decisions.

Pets: Of all the men who own pets, relatively few are real men. If you need evidence of this, just look at the names of most pets compared to those that are named by real men. For dogs, regular guys name them stuff like Duke, Fido, Max or Lady. On the other hand, real men use names like Rim Shot, Spark Plug, Quick Draw or Feed Jam. Additionally, no self respecting man would ever name their cat fluffy, snow flake, or mittens. These names are reserved for the use of little girls who consequently force their dads (wanna be real men) to endure such wimpy disrespecting names.When all is said and done, real men don?t worry about all the little conflicts in life that don't amount to a hill of beans. Instead, real men worry about their responsibilities as related to their families.

That?s right, real men provide their children with an example of how men are supposed to act. They are encouraging, loving, kind and fair, and they treat their wives with love and respect.

"How to be you a chic on the go!"

Fast Face
Learn how four products can get you a flawless face in minutes!

There are those moments in life when looking your best matters, but so do another 30 things you have on your plate. Between work and life there's little time for the modern woman to devote to her beauty routine. And even when you do have extra time on your hands, it doesn't mean you want to spend all of it turning yourself into a glam queen (although that's necessary sometimes). Having a few easy tools that make things easier in a time crunch is an ideal way of looking good without spending tons of time fooling with an eyelash curler.

Cover Up

Depending on how much coverage you need, opt for either a tinted moisturizer or a lightweight foundation. Paired with concealer, either will provide more than enough coverage to keep you looking fresh all day. Apply a light layer of tinted moisturizer or foundation, blending it thoroughly. Next, hit trouble spots, redness and dark circles with concealer that is one shade lighter than your skin shade. Blend the concealer in to even out skin tone and create a flawless look that isn't heavy.

Ring Around the Rosey

The next step is crucial in looking fresh, so choose your product accordingly. Look for a do-it-all stick in a soft peach or pink, depending on your skin tone. Fair to medium skin should choose a sheer pink with blue undertones, while tan or dark skin should choose a peach or coral-infused shade. A product ideal for this is Nars The Multiple, an all-purpose color stick. At the hefty price of $37, the stick easily lasts a year, and that's with daily use. The color is sheer, and can be applied with a heavy hand for more drama, making it the perfect color to pack when going from day to night. Even better, The Mulitple can be used on cheeks, eyes, and lips. Universal shades include Southbeach, Maldives, and Orgasm. With your skin perfected, hit the apples of your cheeks with The Multiple and blend with your fingers in an swift, upward motion.

Give 'em Lip!

After hitting your lips with your favorite lip balm, blend The Multiple into your lips, just as you would with a lipstick or gloss. This is the reason you want to choose a shade that best compliments your natural skin tone. The color is going on your cheeks and lips, so it should be a shade that compliments your undertones.

Batting Average

To get full lashes in only a few swipes, start with a dome shaped wand (CoverGirl's new Lash Blast mascara is a great pick that is affordable and delivers), and begin at the root of the lashes. Moving towards the tip, bring the wand back and forth in a zigzag motion, wrapping each lash in mascara and creating a wide eye in the process.

With only four products (maybe one less if you're able to do without concealer), and a few minutes, you've achieved a clean day look that works at the office, brunch with friends or for a day of shopping. Investing in one multi-purpose product that works seamlessly into any makeup routine can help you get the most out of your time.

"Skin Care"

Go Flawless.......
1. Avoid full foundation coverage

Few people need to apply foundation all over the face. Simply apply where you have uneven skin tone (usually along your nose and on the skin). In wintertime, if your cheeks tend to get ruddy, apply there as well.


2. Consider a tinted moisturizer Foundations can go on too thick for some people. Tinted moisturizers provide a lighter coverage. My absolute all-time favorite is Laura Mercier. http://www.shopnbc.com

3. Blend foundation correctly Always start in the center of your face then blend foundation outward. Blend foundation from face to neck well, otherwise people will see the line where you stopped giving you a 'mask face.'

4. Pick the proper color and formula for your skin type Choose a color that's as close to your natural skin tone as possible. Never try to deepen your complexion with foundation, it will look very obvious. But do consider two shades of foundation: One for summer when skin is naturally darker, and one for winter when skin is lighter. Also, selecting the right formula for your skin type is key. For oily skin, go for a matte foundation. Dry skin? Try a hydrating formula. One last tip: It's a myth to test foundation colors on the back of your hand. The best spot is actually along your jawline, according to Allure's Linda Wells. http://www.shopnbc.com

5. Apply concealer BEFORE foundation Once you apply concealer, you won't need as much foundation, according to makeup artist Bobbi Brown in the April 2006 issue of O magazine. Use concealer under eyes, along the nose and one the chin.

6. Use a sponge or brush OR your fingers There's really no right or wrong way to apply foundation. It's just by preference. Some makeup artists swear by foundation brushes to apply foundation. A brush allows you to get into all the nooks, crannies and pores on your face.

To do this, put a glob of foundation or tinted moisturizer on the back of your hand and dab in a synthetic brush (I like MAC brushes) then apply to face. Other makeup artists believe using your fingers warms up the foundation, which helps it melt into your skin better. A sponge provides a great even coverage. It's up to you which you prefer.

7. Don't throw out wrong-toned foundations and concealers Finding the right color foundation and concealer can be daunting, which is why I suggest you get professional help at Sephora or a makeup counter at a department store. This way you can try before you buy. But if you do have a few foundations and concealers that are just a bit off, do like the makeup artists and blend a couple of mismatched colors for the perfect one. http://www.shopnbc.com

8. How to conceal dark undereye circles According to makeup artist Anthea King in the March 2006 issue of InStyle magazine, you want to neutralize dark undereye circles with peach- or yellow-tone concealers. Dab concealer on the inner corner of the eye by tapping it into place (never run a concealer on like you would sunscreen or foundation). Great concealers for undereye circles include Sue Devitt Automatic Camouflage concealer: I also love Benefit Lemon Aid Concealer

9. Don't be afraid of bronzers Nothing warms the face more than a bronzer. Make sure to use a big brush (I love MAC brushes) and a light touch. Apply to all the spots where the sun hits: Forehead, cheeks and nose. For more 'pop', blend a creamy blush on top. I use Laura Mercier Golden Mosaic Shimmer Bloc If you have a yellow complexion, try Laura Mercier Pink Mosaic Another good one is Bobbi Brown Bronzing Powder

10. Avoid 'cake face' Oily face? Make sure to blot oil before powdering or your skin will look cakey. Try a powder-free blotting sheet. Here's a list of a great blotting sheets from cheap to somewhat steep

11. Set makeup with a primer Primers are a relatively new 'must-have' trend in the beauty world. They act like spackle: They moisturize, plump the skin and fill in any fine lines, pores and wrinkles so your foundation won't settle into them. At first I was skeptical but then a makeup artist talked me into the beauty editor's All-Time Favorite foundation primer from Laura Mercier. Cha-ching! The primer is oil-free, which means it contains no oils, a bonus for my oily skin. I bought it and use it daily underneath my tinted moisturizer (I love both Laura Mercier and Bobbi Brown) Another great primer is by Bodyography .I've tried and loved Lumene Beauty Base Face Makeup Base, which is less pricey than the above two

12. Natural oils are not bad Speaking of oily skin, I'm no fan of the cakey, too-powdered look. Don't be afraid of your skin's natural oils, I prefer my face to have some sheen, which I think looks more 'dewy' -- plus, keep in mind oily skin tends to develop fewer lines than dry skin.

If you have oily skin, apply an oil-free primer before your foundation to keep makeup in place(see tip #2 above), then powder only the nose and chin. Keep a pack of blotting tissues in your purse to blot excessive oils (see tip #1 above). A great powder that works on skin colors from fair skin to dark is Three Custom Color Specialists Mini Press Powder. Makeup artist Matin Maulawizada swears by this powder in Elle Magazine http://www.shopnbc.com

13. Moisturize before applying concealer Concealer on dry skin tends to settle into fine lines so be sure to moisturize first. This 'plumps up' the skin.

14. Get rid of the 'ashy' look If you have dark skin, you may notice your skin can get ashy. Combat it with a cream highlighter. Apply concealer to upper corners of lips where skin tends to be darker.

15. Tone down ruddy skin If you have ruddy skin, tone it down with a yellow- or green-based foundation. Pink-based foundations and tinted moisturizers will only worsen your red complexion. Also, try yellow-based blushes, such as apricot,m instead of a pink tone.

16. Get rid of that 'hung-over' look New moms who work and don't want to look exhausted, students out partying or studying all night and anyone who suffers from the 'hung-over' look would benefit from Orlane's anti-fatigue serum. Makeup artists use this miracle serum on models because it boosts circulation and gives color to ashen skin

17. Highlighters add depth to skin I love the way highlighters can minimize your worst features while enhancing others. Apply just above the eyes for a wide-awake look and use to contour around the cheeks. A makeup artist's favorite is Yves Saint Laurent Touche Eclat concealer. Makeup artist Jo Strettel swears by this in Elle Magazine because it's easy to use: You simply paint it on the face

18. Create instant cheekbones Add contour and depth to cheekbones by applying a bronzing powder over cheeks, forehead and nose (where the sun naturally hits), then applying a cream blush on cheeks over this. Instead of applying blush into the apples of your cheeks, dot the cream along your cheekbone, then blend in well. You can also skip the bronze and blush and opt for a contour powder like Il-Makiage Taupe.

19. Darken your ultra-white skin Does your skin get super white? Add color and shimmer to it with Nuxe Huile Prodigieuse or multi-purpose oil. Christina Ricci loves the gold shimmer http://www.shopnbc.com

20. Yes, everyone can wear blush I have ruddy skin and thought I never needed blush and the makeup artist at Bobbi Brown agreed, until shwomene applied a tinted moisturizer first. The moisturizer toned down my ruddiness enough that she NEEDED to add a blush which subsequently gave me a healthy flush.

"Look Good All The Time;Chics On The Go"

How to Look Fabulous (Even if You Don't Feel That Way)Looking pulled together and fabulous is a little bit about style and a lot about state of mind. Whether you are taking care of a family of four, working a hecticness of day-to-day life. And as a result, you feel and look less than fab. Avoid the dowdy, drab effect. It's time to recharge, revamp and put your best style forward. Need help?

Follow these steps:

Step 1: Get Your Hair DoneAll it takes is 30 minutes. Make an appointment at your local salon once a month to get a trim or a completely new 'do. If you're not sure which style works for you, just upload your photo on Makeover-o-Matic, and try on various hairstyles.demanding job or running errands, it's easy to get caught up in the hectic schedule.

Step 2: Find Figure-Flattering ClothesWhen you get dressed in the morning, before you put that number on, ask yourself: Will this accentuate my assets? If you need help determining what works, use our Figure Flatterer for pointers.

Step 3: Stay on Top of the GameBecause you're so busy these days, you haven't had time to read the latest InStyle or Lucky magazines. Find out what's hot this season before you hit the mall. This way, you'll know which trends to add to your summer wardrobe.

"What Do Men Find Sexy?"

This one question will derive a common answer from the ladies - fast cars, bikes, high heels, great curves, pretty face, provocative dress and so on. This answer may be true, but only to a certain extent. There are many other things along with these that men can find absolutely sexy. Think for example, a warm Sunday morning and you and your man curled up with each other in your night wear. You have unkempt tousled hair and probably some smudged make-up and mind you, no high heels. Men would find it sexy, as it makes them feel relaxed in your company. The fact you don’t have to look perfect all the time makes them realize, they don’t have to either! They can be themselves with you and that is definitely a turn on! Here are a few other things which I think men find sexy!

Healthy Curves
Throw away those diet pills and start eating! Anorexia is not a fashion statement, it is a disease and no man would want a girl with that disease! Men like to see some good fleshy curves on women and like it when they eat healthy. So the next time you feel you are gaining weight, get happy about it! At the same time, keep it in moderation and exercise to get rid off the extra flab.

No Make-Up Look
Yes, men find it sexy! In fact, after reaching a certain level in your relationship, your man will find it uncomfortable to kiss you when you have layers of lipstick. The no make-up and natural look is a turn on simply because of the fact that it is natural and not fabricated. Make-up may even act as a barrier at times instead of being a turn on.

Confidence
It hardly matters whether you have the perfect face or the fab body, till the time you are high on confidence. Yes, confidence is a big turn on for guys and they find it absolutely sexy when the woman they adore is confident about herself. So whether it is deciding what you want in life or which restaurant to go for dinner, showing some confidence will definitely perk up your man.

Passionate with Kids

Men find women who adore and pamper kids, absolutely sexy. This is because such women have a certain motherly instinct about them that reminds men of their own mothers. It makes them feel warm and cared for and can also melt their hearts in a matter of seconds. So, the next time you are pampering a kid and your man is rolling his eyes, you will know that inside, he loves what you do!

"Irresistable Secrets"

What Attracts the Opposite Sex: 40 Irresistible Secrets

If you've given up trying to understand the opposite sex on your own, why not go straight to the source for the real scoop? Check out these results of a nationwide survey for the irresistible answers to that age-old question: What attracts the opposite sex?

What Women Need to Know: 20 Things Men Find Irresistible
Listen up, ladies! Men love it when you:

1.Have the ability to tease, be playful and take a joke
2.Know that men are not, in fact, from Mars, and women are not from Venus
3.Wear our T-shirts and boxers
4.Call us out of the blue (if we're dating; not if we're practically strangers)
5.Kiss creatively
6.Have a social conscience and enjoy a good debate
7.Have an easy-going attitude about watching or participating in athletic events occasionally
8.Are comfortable leading the whole way in bed
9.Ask for advice about non-stereotypically male stuff (yes, guys usually know what CD player to buy, but we like to be taken seriously about other things too)
10.Are charming and thoughtful to his mother
11.Can hold up your hair using only a pencil
12.Are sexy and smart at the same time -- for example, you do the Sunday crossword wearing a pair of flirty pajamas
13.Have the ability to remind us what gifts you like, without implying an obligation
14.Have a spirit of independence, but one that doesn't make the man in your life feel unnecessary
15.Know the difference between flirting and just ''being friendly''
16.Eat a big meal and fearlessly order dessert
17.Take naps next to us
18.Send us flowers (believe it or not, men like getting flowers, too!)
19.Know what you want
20.Know what you want to do

What Men Need to Know: 20 Things Women Find Irresistible

Listen up, guys! Women love it when you:

1.Own a pair of really nice shoes and actually wear them
2.Brush the hair out of our eyes
3.Are able to hold a baby or push a stroller without squirming
4.Plan an evening out from soup to nuts, from finding a movie to making the dinner reservations
5.Kiss creatively
6.Handle our emotions with grace and compassion
7.Have impassioned, informed opinions about women writers and women's issues
8.Can distinguish between being courteous and being wimpy
9.Know how to inscribe a card with a heartfelt, personal message
10.Demonstrate respect for others by standing up when your mother comes to the table, giving up a seat on the bus for a pregnant woman, asking your dad for his opinion and really listening, etc.
11.Show genuine, platonic interest in your female friends' lives
12.Are playful around dogs, cats and kids
13.Make the bed in the morning and fold the laundry -- competently
14.Offer juice, soup and TLC when we're sick
15.Do the come-from-behind cuddle-hug, just to say hello
16.Remember insignificant details, like our favorite color or flower, and make use of that knowledge
17.Are unfailingly polite to all members of the service industries
18.Offer us caresses and compliments for no particular reason
19.Understand that we don't always like it slow and gentle in bed
20.Understand that sometimes we do

How To Lose A Great Guy's Interest‏

Are you an attractive, smart woman with a lot going for you, but you just don't "get" why menjust won't approach you or ask you out?

Or maybe you get asked out often, but it nevergoes further than a few dates before the guy kindajust drifts away - with NO good explanation?

There are a lot of reasons why a man will feel intimidated and put-off by a woman, even if she'sgot a lot of otherwise GREAT qualities.

I wouldn't want you to keep missing out on meetingand attracting an amazing man who could just turn out to be The One, just because of a few simple mistakes that you're making.

Read this letter about what it takes to meet the man of your dreams and what to DO and SAY to notonly spark his interest, but get him to ask you out again and again and want something "real" with you...

http://www.CatchHimKeepHim.com/MeetingTheOne

Is there a man in your life who you're just"friends" with right now, but you'd like to getcloser to?
Or maybe you keep meeting great guys but theynever ask you out?

In this email, I'm going to let you in on whatmen look for when first meeting a great woman, inorder to get interested enough to ask her out, andwhat is the absolute TURN OFF for a man when he first meets you.

And then later, I'll tell you the 3 traits that all men look for when "sizing a woman up" for a relationship or to ask her out.

But back to my questions about meeting greatmen and getting their interest...

If you're like lots of women I've met andtalked with, then just the idea of being upfront about how you feel or asking a man out makes your stomach knot up in fear. What if he rejects you? What if you embarrass yourself?

And besides, isn't a man supposed to approachYOU and make things happen if he feels something for you,too?

Well, there's something important I want you toremember that will help make you successful in almost any early dating situation with a man... whether you're just meeting, dating, or alreadycreating a connection with him.

There is something that women often forget about men, which is fascinating to me...

Which is that MOST men are just plain nervousor scared when it comes to approaching attractivewomen, talking to them, and asking them out.

I've seen it all my life. No matter where I goor who I'm with, most of the men around me are scared stiff of approaching women.

And sure, guys do their best to projectconfidence once they finally do build up thecourage to talk to a woman... that's part of thereason men often use some dumb "opener" or cutsiepick-up line that their friends told them works with women.

But trust me when I say that most men were bornnervous and afraid to approach women they're interested in.
You might not see it right now, but deep downmen see women as the ones with the "control" andthe "power" when it comes to dating situations.

Especially when it comes to meeting up and the "courtship" stage early on.

But lots of women don't really "get" this, orseem to forget it in the moment, when they meet a guy they're interested in, and so they end up giving away some of the advantages that other women - who know what's going on in these situations - naturally enjoy with men.

You've probably seen this with a girlfriend. Maybe she's always fun, cool, calm, and collectedwhen she's out with you or enjoying herself.
At least until "HE" walks into the room.

("He" is usually some guy she finds VERY ATTRACTIVE and would like to get to know better,but she doesn't know how to go about moving forward or connecting with him on a deeper level.)

So what does your girlfriend do when "he" shows up?

First off, she changes very quickly from thecool and socially intelligent woman you know intoan anxious, uncertain, and self-conscious MESS.

And then, like most women do in this situationwhen they feel a deep level of attraction for a man that they aren't close with yet, she instantlyassumes that the strong physical chemistry must be something that HE feels too.

And that's when things start to go wrong...

She starts to compliment him endlessly.

"Wow, you must be really smart to know that."

She laughs at everything he says (even whenthey're not that funny).

"Ha Ha! You are so funny!"
And she offers and tries to do "nice" thingsfor him to show how much she really cares abouthim and how she wants to see him again -

"Oh, that's too bad your car broke down. Maybe I could drive across town to pick you up and give you a ride tomorrow!?"

If you've ever watched one of your girlfriendsdo this kind of thing with a guy they just met, or if you've ever DONE THIS YOURSELF, then youprobably already know the frustration that comesfrom being sweet, complimentary, and "real" with aman, and then having it get you NOWHERE.

Or worse, having it lead to REJECTION where theman isn't interested in you at all.

And you might also add to that the pain ofwatching other women have MORE SUCCESS with menthan you do, while they DON'T do the generous things you do, and they don't have great conversations with men about real things in life,and they aren't the good person you are.

So, what's going on here?
Do men not like women who are "real"?

Why is it that being honest or complimentarywith a man doesn't make him "feel it" for you?

And why is it that men play "games" when itcomes to meeting, dating, and attraction?
Let me spell out a few common elements in playwhen it comes to men and dating:

1. A man won't like women JUST BECAUSE becauseshe's being "nice." Nice can be a "bonus", kind oflike toppings on a cake, but it's not the nice, sweet, and genuine behavior that makes a man FEEL ATTRACTION for a woman.

2. When you try to get a man's interest orattention by appealing to his personal interestslike a good friend would, he not only won't "feelit" for you, but he'll actually lose interest inyou when he sees you trying win his "approval." (Example: pretending to be interested in a sport he's really into)

3. Attraction isn't something that takes place ona logical or "rational" level. Casual conversationwon't create it. Instead, attraction is an EMOTIONthat has its own set of rules, and is something going on outside the everyday communication "channel" of words and meaning.

If you want to make a man notice you andexperience the feelings of desire and attractionthat will drive him to approach and "court" you,then you need to stop all the APPROVAL-SEEKINGbehaviors, and start learning how to create an EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCE with him.

In my "Meeting The One" program I explainthe key strategies and specific

How-To's for what to SAY and DO when you first meet a man whoyou find attractive and want to get to know better.

And in case you haven't noticed, men aren'tnecessarily interested in MORE than a "fling", or a short-lived situation, when they first meet a woman.

That's because often a man's initial interestin a woman has everything to do with him feelingPHYSICALLY attracted to her.

In my "Meeting The One" CD/DVD program, you'lllearn how to make a man feel the kind of attraction that goes BEYOND "Physical Attraction", and you'll discover how to communicate with a man in a way that instantly lets him know that you'rethe kind of woman he wants to be with for MORE than just a fling.

All the details are here, and you can order acopy to try for 30 days before you pay a single dime. So there's no worries or obligation for you to order and check out at your convenience:

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But let's keep learning...

I'd like to get back to the topic of "he", theguy that women become intensely attracted towithout having connected or talked much with, ifat all.

There's something fascinating I see happen whenwomen experience this kind of instant attraction for a man. They takes what could be a great relationship in the future and ruin it from the start.

When HE shows up, HE quickly becomes more of an IDEA than REAL. And this is wherewomen often go wrong in dating situations, andwith getting into relationships with men theydon't truly see and understand for who they are.

The woman will get very excited about the datesshe has with this guy she just met. She'll tell her friends about it, talk as if he was the man she'd been waiting for her whole life... while inreality she doesn't know him that much at all.

She'll start to act like they're already in a real, committed relationship, even though nothingof the sort has ever been discussed between them.In his mind, he's just getting to know her. In hermind, he's already her "boyfriend."

You know you're doing this when you've been seeing a man for a short time and:
-- He doesn't call when you expect him to or wanthim to, and you let him know you're disappointed. And he gets defensive or annoyed with you.-- You're already wondering if he's seeing anyoneelse and it bothers you.

-- You clear your weekend in hopes you'll spend it with him, even though he hasn't implied anything about that yet. And he doesn't automatically ask you out each weekend.
-- He's doing things with his friends or byhimself instead of automatically inviting you,and it hurts your feelings.

I call this the "Instant Relationship" syndrome,and it can be a real ATTRACTION KILLERfor a man when a woman gives out that vibe. He gets the feeling she's somehow needy or desperate,and it creeps him out.

The female equivalent of this is when a guy you just met pressures you to sleep with him on a first date, or when a guy you're not quite that"into" yet starts calling all the time, expectingyou to spend entire weekends with him, and getting jealous even though you aren't a real "item" yet.

That's the same kind of feeling that a man gets when you pull the "Instant Relationship - on him...that feeling of "Eeeewwww."

Sure, I understand that it's totally possibleto meet someone and this is NEVER an issue. Youmeet someone you totally connect with and you're both calling each other all the time and clearing your weekends for each other and thinking "relationship" very early on...

But here's the caveat: They already have to have a deep level ofATTRACTION for you. That makes all the difference.

Therefore, if you just met a man and you can sense that he's taking it "slow" getting to knowyou, don't pull the Instant Relationship on him. Just don't do it. Take your time getting to knowHIM, too.

You see, a man has to find a way to quickly know for CERTAIN when he meets you whether you are the kind of woman who will be a healthy addition to his life, or if you're going to be"trouble" in his world. So how does a man go aboutthis?

Does he just ask a woman, "Hey, are you healthyand in a good place? Because I want to make sure that you're going to bring mostly positive experiences and emotions to my life?"
Yeah, right.

Instead, a man is looking for direct andindirect signals to tell him what he needs to know about a woman before he even gets involvedwith her.

And in case you didn't know... men look for,find, and make meaning out of the signals theyget from women almost INSTANTLY.

If you've read the book "Blink" by MalcolmGladwell, then you know what I'm talking abouthere. In this book, the author talks about how we all make "snap-judgments" in order to size up the things in our environment.

If you want to understand how a man can become attracted to a woman, and how this can happen so quickly to where a man knows that a woman can be "The One" before he ever really talks to her, thenread some of the tips I put together in this link about my "Meeting The One" program.

You'll learn some important advice on what to do and say when you meet a man you want to have something "deeper" with:
http://www.CatchHimKeepHim.com/MeetingTheOne

So along these lines, let's look at a few ofthe things a man is looking for in a woman whenhe's making those subconscious instant judgements:

1. PHYSICAL HEALTH
You know that men are often attracted to women of a certain physical size, shape, etc. in general. But do you know exactly why this is? It's not because these sizes and shapes "look better." It's because men are wired to identify signs of Fertility and Youth in women. And the good news here is that a perfect hip-to-waist ratio is NOTthe only way to indicate to a man that you are "Youthful" and "Fertile."
Personal "energy", attitude, body language, andfashion can all act as indirect indicators ofthese things as well.

2. EMOTIONAL WELL-BEING
It's no secret that men like to make fun of womenf or being too "emotional." And while this is often just teasing, this common male habit showsthe existence of something deeper - that among menthere is a strong belief in the importance of an emotionally-stable woman.
Men who are interested in relationships areEXTREMELY critical of how a woman handles herselfand her emotions, because to them it says everything about how a woman will be when they'reclose and connected and what's in store for him.

3. SENSE OF HUMOR
This is the most subtle determinant of how a manwill see a woman. When a woman is funny, laughing, or making jokes, it's an indication of her high level of self-esteem and social status.

When a man sees a woman smiling or laughing, orwhen a woman is funny and playful with a man, it lets him know on a subconscious level that she issomeone he can respect. An equal. And this can make a woman VERY desirable.

So I've given you a few specific tips andideas to think about and apply the next timeyou're going out.
And while these tips are valuable and effective, wouldn't it also be great to have the confidence that comes from KNOWING how and why aman will become attracted to you? And that it'snot just for all the wrong reasons!?
In my "Natural And Lasting Attraction" program I go into depth about the exact strategies to help you do exactly this. These tips and specificshave already helped literally thousands of other women who have gotten this program with this challenging situation.
If you want to learn exactly what to do whenyou're attracted to a man, but you can't seem tomake that "connection," then I recommend you checkout this link and read about this program.

All the details are here:

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If you're ready for the next level of learning,connection, and attraction (the kind that leadsto a lasting and committed relationship) then my"Natural & Lasting Attraction" CD/DVD program iswhat you need to get started.

It's literally jam-packed with eye openinginsights, ideas, and specific "How-To's" that willchange the way men feel when they are around you FOREVER.

What if you knew you could build and keep alivethe kind of attraction that would make a man know, on a DEEP EMOTIONAL LEVEL, that you were the one for him?

Would that kind of connection, and theCERTAINTY it would create in your relationshipwith a man, be valuable to you?

Then you've got to check out this program.

There are several hours of this programdedicated to the idea of eliminating the fears andinsecurities that lead to the common "negativeattraction strategies" most women fall into withmen.
A few of these are:

- Convincing: Trying to CONVINCE a man that love and a relationship is what he should want
- Bribing: Trying to make a man feel something for you by doing things for him or getting him things
- "Free Sex": Sleeping with a man because youthink that he'll be closer and more intimate withyou afterwards (but nothing changes and heactually pulls away after)

Don't get stuck in these dead-end strategieswhen there is a way that works much, much better.

It's time to get rid of these weak, fear-basedstrategies with men, and start communicating asthe attractive and loving woman you can be.

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"The Different PERSONAS of a Filipina"

Filipina Women has an exemptional beauty that stands out!

We can't deny the fact that in popular search engines, the keyword "Filipina" is equivalent to different dating, penpal, nude and scandalous websites. This is also one of the reasons why some people from other countries have a different perception on Filipina Women in general.

The Filipina Writing project of Janette Toral aims to clean-up the search engines by encouraging other people to write an impressive and clean entries in their blogs and hopefully, these entries would appear in the first pages of the different search engines.

I've been thinking of a unique way of writing an entry for this project. As a self-confessed TV addict, I thought of writing an entry that describes the different personas of a Filipina by the use of the popular teleserye characters in Philippine Television.

A Filipina is a Real-Life Superhero - When I say "superhero", i don't actually mean that Filipinas have invisibility powers and have skimpy outfits to wear everyday. A real-life superhero is someone who can perform their duties well and are responsible enough to know what is the right thing to do. The characters Angel Locsin performed in the past reflects the persona of a real-life Filipina like in Darna, where she's willing to sacrifice her personal happiness just to serve other people. We have lots of "Darnas" out there like a Filipina Mom!

A Filipina is a loyal wife and a good mother- The Filipino version of Marimar portrayed by Marian Rivera is deeply in love with her husband, Sergio. Her innocence and pretty smile can brighten up any person's day. She is willing to do anything and everything to save her marraige and support her own family. Sunshine Dizon's character as Bakekang is someone who took good care of her daughters and did everything just to give them the best things life can offer.

A Filipina is Talented - Just take the characters portrayed by Rica Peralejo, Maja Salvador and Sarah Geronimo at the TV Show "Pangarap na Bituin". A Filipina can either sing, dance, act or do other creative stuff. Want some proof? Lea Salonga is a well-known Filipina stage actress. Nicole of The Pussycat Dolls and Vanessa Hudgens of the High School Musical are proud to be Pinay. Christine Gambito of HappySlip, a popular Youtube director is also a Filipina! Talk about world-class Pinay!

A Filipina prioritizes her Family - The character of Roxanne Guinoo as Gillian in the Sineserye "Natutulog ba ang Diyos" gone through a lot for her family. Margarita, played by the controversial Wendy Valdez did the "kapit sa patalim" job by dancing in clubs just to support her family. Kristine Hermosa's Maningning character in Prinsesa ng Banyera is taking good care of her mom and tries to juggle her work at the pier and as a nursing student. Therefore, Filipinas are Hardworking.

A Filipina is Undeniably Sexy - The keyword "sexy filipina" is usually used in a wrong way by some online searchers. For me, a sexy filipina knows how to carry the clothes she wears and is someone who is attractive without trying really hard. A perfect example of which is the Marimar Primera Kontrabida, Angelika, played by the Philippines' Finest, Katrina Halili. Observe the way she projects in that TV show. Another sexy pinay is Anne Curtis as Celine. She speaks her mind and she has that body to die for!

A Filipina is Simply Beautiful - Do I have to elaborate on this? I remember one of Nicole PCD's interview during their visit in the country that the reason why she stood out among the Pussycat Dolls is because of her exotic looks. It is pretty evident that her Filipina features are much stronger. Some of the pretty pinays we have on TV include Bianca King, Nadine Samonte, Yasmien Kurdi, Tanya Garcia, Angelika dela Cruz , Iza Calzado and a lot more.

A Filipina is a Hopeless Romantic - Bea Alonzo's character as Jackie in Maging Sino Ka Man can prove this. A Filipina can have all the money in the world, but you know what makes her really happy? A Prince Charming who will love her and will have a happily ever after lovestory with her. Also included are Cecilia of Sana'y Ikaw na Nga, Yna of Pangako Sayo and Via of Mula sa Puso.

"The Phenomenal One"

Phenomenal Woman........

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion model's size
But when I start to tell them,
They think I'm telling lies.

I say,
It's in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,

And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.

I say,
It's the fire in my eyes,
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing in my waist,
And the joy in my feet.

I'm a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.

They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery.

When I try to show them
They say they still can't see.

I say,
It's in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,

The grace of my style.
I'm a woman

Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.

Now you understand
Just why my head's not bowed.
I don't shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.

When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.

I say,
It's in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
the palm of my hand,

The need of my care,
'Cause I'm a woman

Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,

That's me.