" Love Essentials "

Love is not enough

Love is not the only reason why relationship stands for years or till forever.. we might think that love holds the relationship.. but this is a wrong way of thinking, love diminish thru time, maybe the person you love now would be the person you will hate when you reach a certain age.. in each level of maturity there will be a new ideas, new thinkings, new opportunities and growths. love can be weaken, love fades. have you heard of someone saying I LOVE YOU FOREVER.. there's no forever in this word.. the only thing that is constant in this world is CHANGE! people change same with feelings, and love is a feeling..

I just realized that love is not enough. the secret of having a strong lasting relationship is to trust the one u love and able to accept his/her weaknesses or mistakes.. it's not how many time you have forgiven but how you shown understanding..

Love is nothing w/o trust. so don't ruin one's trust coz this would be the door for a happy relationship.

Better Life

40 Tips for Better Life



1. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
3. Sleep for 7 hours.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Play more games.
6. Read more books than you did in 2007.
7. Make time to practice prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.
8. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
9. Dream more while you are awake.
10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
11. Drink plenty of water.
12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
13. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
14. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
15. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
16. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
17. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
18. Smile and laugh more.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
22. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
23. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. Don't compare your partner with others.
24. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
25. Forgive everyone for everything.
26.. What other people think of you is none of your business.
27. GOD ! heals everything.
28. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
29. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
30. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
31. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
32. The best is yet to come.
33. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
34. Do the right thing!
35. Call your family often.
36. Your inner most is always happy. So be happy..
37. Each day give something good to others.
38. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
39. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
40. Forward this to everyone you care about

Appreciate Life,Love The Simplicity Of It

LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT...

It dosent matter where you find yourself today, what matters is; what are you planning to do?

MOVE ON, GIVE UP or REMAIN on the same spot.......
Your life is what you make of it? What do you want in life? Picture it, visualize it till it becomes so real you cant be convinced otherwise, then...
Dust your self, Get up and pursue your dreams. You are equal to the task, dont give up now, a lot of people are looking up to you for direction, SO? STAND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MOVE on, run along while i cheer you to the finish line........
SEE YOU AT THE TOP!

Power Of The Mind Seduction

S e d u c e h i s m i n d

*“A wise girl kisses but doesn't love, listens but never believes, and leaves before she is left"*"There comes a point in your life when you realise who matters, who never did, who won't anymore, and who always will. so don't worry about the people in your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future" *"If you judge people, you have no time to love them." *"the ones that you love the most are usually the ones that hurt you the most." *“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other...Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”*"All you have to do in life is go out with your friends, party hard, and look twice as good as the bitch standing next to you"*"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love."*"I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love."*"BETTER TO HAVE LOVED AND LOST THEN TO HAVE NEVER LOVED AT ALL"*"The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love someone else."*"Some of the greater things in life are unseen thats why you close your eyes when you kiss, cry, or dream."*"Pleasure of love lasts but a moment, Pain of love lasts a lifetime."*"Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it, everybody seeks it, but few ever achieve it, those who do will cherish it, be lost in it, and among all, never... never forget it."*"Falling in love is awfully simple, but falling out of love is simply awful."Friends will keep you sane, Love could fill your heart, A lover can warm your bed, But lonely is the soul without a mate."*"When I saw you I was afraid to meet you. When I met you I was afraid to kiss you. When I kissed you I was afraid to love you. Now that I love you, I am afraid to lose you."*"My boyfriend used to ask his mother,” How can I find the right women for me? And she would answer, don’t worry about finding the right women –concentrate on becoming the right man."*"Love is the flower of life, and blossoms unexpectedly and without law, and must be plucked where it is found, and enjoyed for the brief hour of duration."*"A boy is a magical creature you can lock him out of your workshop, but can’t lock him out of your heart. You can get him out of your study, but can’t get him out of your mind."

"The Eyes Is The Gate Through Our Soul"

_________" E Y E S "________

I open my eyes to see perfect obedience staring back at me when I think about what I see. I am creations omnipresent reflection accepting responsibility for all things as the love that comes in the form of everything!!!

Any possibility is mine as well as your gift of absolute truth that all beings are worthy of free agency to grant every living thing with the exact same equality deserved shared not more or less. This empowers each of us with the same abilities creation respectfully delivers each time we think the thought by accepting the belief as reality. The permission is always granted and you can always change your mind.

No thing or being has the ability to over take your free agency to choose any possibility without you first submitting the approval to say that you concur, agreeing to accept the taught learned belief as your reality and works both ways for all living things.

Who told you and why did you allow your gift of free agency to surrender even one thought to escape and make a love look like predestined users for a hero to call the loser into accepted lies of respectful obedience as deceit defeats with no limits beyond your reach? The reality any knowledge needs actually requires your complete support to be an accepted manipulation in order for it to even be seen for the reality you think you experience.

Forgive and forget any and all learned behaviors that stand in your way from your peace and the true divinity you are now. You will explode into the infinite possibilities your free agency has NOW at the speed of light switching on you to use the thoughts you support to believe for change to happen whenever you think necessary to now evolve our unlimited experience.

Blossoming into our eternal freedom, all beings may think my reality I live in now with the perceptions I think with these words you read, may confuse my ability to allow free agency to want to think it does not already see what I see, side by side equal and can always fix what you cant see here when any thing is possible with eternity to go and perfect obedience no longer needs permission from me personally to survive here or die!!!

This is my heaven today, you can stay or continue to clean up a hell full of lies; either way, it is fine with me when my thoughts are the equality free agency creates and is on each of all sides big or small. I offer a humble thank you as I silently think to write with my eyes open staring you right in the face and see nothing but the now as a perfect obedience.

As you follow when or where or why the source flows to commit to find your reason that lives in your reality with me here by your side and my every thought known how to forget to unhide is simply my love perfection personified reflects obedience of my thoughts perceptions being just right all the time.

A heaven I call Earth in the here and now for any or all opposite of my sight to dwell. Is simply to see the beautiful temple my body is to me and why for eternity I will reside as I look to your direction from behind twinkles and shines. My placebo is me wondering what my reflection thinks of me when they see of a perfect truth any language would find is our reality that looks like my NOW!!!

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Unselfish Love

a small love story

Two Butterflies were in love...One day,they decided to play Hide n Seek.....During the play....Boy Butterfly - "A small game within us"Girl Butterfly - "OK"Boy Butterfly - "The one who sits in this flower tomorrow early in the morning......that one loves the other one more...Girl Butterfly - "OK"Next morning, the boy butterfly waits for the flower to open so that he can sit before the girl butterfly doesFinally,the flower opened.....What did he see?The girl butterfly had died inside the flower. She stayed there all night so that early in the morning as soon as she sees him she can fly to him and tell him how much she loved him.This is true Love.Life is Love.

Living might mean taking chances,but they are worth taking
Loving might be a mistake,but its worth making.

W I S E W O R D S

whenever you decide to close the door, remember not to always shut the door, you never can tell, you may still need to walk through that door!

* They didn't agree on much.In fact, they rarely agreed on anything.They fought all the time & challenged each other everyday.But in spite of their differences;They had one important thing in common.They were crazy about eachother. * I want to be the girl he is scared to lose.The one where he can't walk away from,knowing she is mad at him.The one who can't fall asleep withouther voice being the last one he hears;The one he can't live without. * Love isn't finding someone you can live with...it's finding someone you can't live without <3>

* If loving you is wrong, then I don't want to be right. * I love the way you smile at meand make me feel that nothing can go wrong. * Love is the most cruelest form of affection,and the most sweetest form of torture. * To the world you may be one person.But to one person, you may be the world. * I have never been to jail.But that doesn't mean I've never stolen a heart. * Love is when you don't want to go to sleep;because reality is better than a dream. * I'm not asking for diamonds. I'm not asking for the world.I'm just asking that you hold me & call me your babygurl. * Don't say you love me, unless you really mean it.Because I might do something crazy ... like believe it. * You filled my heart with love and my world with happiness. * You were everything I was looking for....when I wasn't even looking. * If you love me, let me know. If you don't, then let me go. * If you asked how many times you ran through my mind..I'd say once, cause babe, you never left it. * The man that deserves you the mostis the man that thinks he doesn't. * Love is like a mountain;smooth corners, rough edges, and hard falls. * Never say forever cause forever isn't real.Forever's what you think and forever's what you feel.So if you say forever please promise that you'll tryBut never say forever cause forever makes me cry * If you loved me like you told meBe careful with my heartYou can take it, just don't break itCause my world would fall apart* I want to be the seashell you find washed up along the tide. Beautiful, flawless, and special in your eyes. * Everytime I see you ... I fall in love all over again. * I promise I will never forget the day we kissed..or the day we met. The sky may fall..and the stars may too.but in the end I will still love you. * It takes millions of people to complete the worldbut it only takes you to complete mine.

* A heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others.


* Nothing can explain this dream I had thatsuddenly came true...everything I've ever wantedI've found in you * I wont mess with your head or play with your heartBecause I'm a real girl & I finish what I start. * True love never dies. It only gets stronger with time. * Being with you made me feel like...for once in my lifeI wouldn't have to work so hard on being happythat it could just happen. * Kiss me and i'll see stars......love me and i'll give them to you! * You're just jealous because we are young and in love. <3>* YOU are the first person I think of when I wake up......the last person I think of before I go to bed......and the only person I think of as I dream...* The world is gonna throw us a million reasonsof why this isn't gonna work out between us,but I am armed with one reason of why it will..I LoVe YoU

* Once in a while, right in the middle of life...Love gives us a fairytale.

* Love is a misunderstanding between two fools. * I'm not perfect, neither is he, but together we just may be!

The Dream

That Special Day

I Lay Awake At Night Dreaming Of That Special Day
Hoping And Praying One Day It Will Come My Way
It's Not ABout The Dress , How I'll Sparkle And Glow
Or About The Millions Roses Just There For Show
I Don't Care About The Ring , Who To Invite And Who To Sits

Where all That Matter To Me Is.... Seeing The Man
I Love There Watching Him Look Me In The Eye As We Exchange Ours Rings

Reading Vows To Each Other As The Choir Sings
Marrying That Special Person Who I'll Always Loved , Is All I've Want To Do
All I Can Do Is Wait Now And Pray My Dream Comes True