Showing posts with label kinds of love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label kinds of love. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Love Quotes 4 u...!!

Love Is In The Air

"Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing." - Goethe"

To be in love is merely to be in a state of perceptual anesthesia." - H.L. Mencken"

Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it...It really is worth fighting for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk everything, you risk even more." - Erica Jong"

Sometimes love is stronger than a man's convictions." - Isaac Bashevis Singer"

Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness." - Oliver Wendell Holmes"

Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it." - Robert Mitchum"

Love stretches your heart and makes you big inside." - Margaret Walker"

Love has no awareness of merit or demerit; it has no scale... Love loves; this is its nature." - Howard Thurman"Love is like war: Easy to begin but hard to end." - Anonymous"

Where love is, no room is too small." - Talmud"

Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." - Mark Twain"

Love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day." - Nicholas Sparks"

To love is to receive a glimpse of heaven." - Karen Sunde"A love song is just a caress set to music." - Sigmund Romberg"

Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit." - Peter Ustinov"

Love is like a violin. The music may stop now and then, but the strings remain forever." - unknown"

Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence." - Erich Fromm"

In the final analysis, love is the only reflection of man's worth." - Bill Wundram, Iowa Quad Cities Times"

Love doesn't make the world go round, love is what makes the ride worthwhile." - Elizabeth Browning"

To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down."- Woody Allen

Saturday, November 1, 2008

"Missing You Everyday"

I miss you……..

Each morning I wake up,You’re the first thought on my mind.

Looking to put my arms around you,But there’s nothing to find.

I realize you’re not thereAnd again sadness sets in.It’s a bad situation,Neither of us can win.


I miss you so badly,The smile on your face.The warmth of your body
I miss the look in your eyesIn the bright morning sun.


Thinking of how to make you happy,A smile on your face tells me I’ve won.

As you can probably tell,I’m not having a great day.I keep thinking how much I miss youIn each and every way.

Words aren’t enoughTo say how I feel.There’s never a doubtMy feelings are real
I know that I love youI miss you so much.The feelings of your kiss,The feel of you touch.
I promise not to take for grantedThe love that we shareI promise not to forgetTo show how much I care


I want and need youAs part of my lifeIt’s the reason I asked youAnd want you to be my wife.
I miss you todayAs much as the day before.You’re the only oneI want to adore.


Have I made my point,Can you understand?I need your love,I want your hand.
Thinking of youIs all that I do.I’ve told you many times,This is nothing new.


So I’ll finish this up

Just hoping that you knew

I love you so much

I miss you……......

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

"Love Can Move Mountains"

Love Is a Many Splendored Thing

Love Is a Many-Splendored Thing

Love Is a Many Splendored Thing

Lessons "Love Comes Softly" can teach us...

The word "love" has many meanings to many people. The New Testament's First Corinthians letter sums up love's attributes by saying, "Love is patient and kind; it does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; is not irritable or resentful..." (1 Corinthians 13:4-8)

In this spirit comes a new DVD collection of the much-cherished "Love Comes Softly" series, produced and directed by Michael Landon Jr. and based on the classic books by Janette Oke. In the series, a recently-widowed pioneer woman named Marty is forced into an initially loveless marriage of convenience in order to provide for her unborn child. Marty's powerful journey discovering her faith through the loving qualities of patience, trust and acceptance brings to life timeless themes of hardship, compromise, grief and hope. Though set against the backdrop of the pioneer West, her story resonates equally in today's world.

For Marty, uniting her new family in love wouldn't have been possible without a growing faith in God. These movies got us thinking about love's divine nature, so we asked our Beliefnet community to tell us what love means to them. Find out what they had to say.

Love Is...Our Reason for Being

Love Is Our Reason for Being "I think love is the entire purpose of life. I think love is God expressing himself through us. When it comes with attachments and jealousies and etc., I think that is where we are inserting ourselves into the mix and not letting love (God) flow through without obstruction.

I think, as we grow on our spiritual journey, we are more and more able to let that love flow through us without the human limitations."

Love Is...Simple Gestures That Speak Volumes

Love Is Simple Gestures That Speak Volumes"In my day-to-day life, love is quite simple. I see its strength in my life when I am drifting off to sleep with my head on my lovely boyfriend's lap and he is faithfully scratching my back even though he's had a long hard day too. Or when I get home from a long day at work, a day when my boss has yelled and I have cried, and my sweet little kitty jumps up when I get home and bends her head for me to kiss it. Or when my mum buys some flowers and leaves one perfect little bud in a vase by my bed--just because. It's those things that spell out love, at least for me, each day."

Love Is...Taking Action

Love Is Taking Action

"It's action. I started my life with an idea that it was tied to 'how I felt.' I found myself unable to love, just based on how I felt.

Today, my focus is more on principle--do I accept? Do I do things for the person? Do I forgive? Forgiveness is huge. I might suggest it isn't really love until I have to forgive. It's pretty easy to love people who do what you want and never frustrate you. [When I forgive] I can say I love, even when my emotions might not match up with how I think love ought to 'feel.'"

Love Is...Humility In Hard Times

Love Is Humility In Hard Times "The word humility comes to mind. It wasn't until I became sick and then later caring for my mom 24/7 and watching her deteriorate from Alzheimer's Disease that I finally felt I knew the true meaning of love. She became the child I never had and [I] watch[ed] her throughout the years slowly decline from this horrendous disease but [I was] always thankful to God that she knew who I was and the day she finally passed, being there with her holding her hand...to me that is the greatest gift I have been given and that is the essense of 'love' to me."

Love Is...Putting Others First

Love Is Putting Others First "To me, love is being able and willing to put oneself aside in order to serve the needs of another...family, friend, neighbor, stranger or foe. To quiet that voice in your head with the to-do lists, the have-to-go reasons and the must-haves, and live in the present moment with that individual. It could be listening (really listening) to an old man recounting the adventures of his youth or taking the time to understand a person you don't even like, to see what she/he sees and maybe why. All people are precious to God and therefore worth both your time and care."

Love Is...Compassion

Love Is Compassion "Love is one thing, but there are many types of love. There's friendship and romantic love. I would say that compassion is also a form of love, probably the one that will save us as a species and save our planet.... I believe the original sin was selfishness.... I can't think of any factor more than selfishness that causes so much suffering in the world today. Some believe love and hate are opposites. I believe love and selfishness are. Love is sharing, and compassion, and right action. All the good stuff and none of the bad."

Love Is...Unconditional

Unconditional "Love means accepting someone just as they were created, unconditionally. It means loving someone no matter what they say or do. Love DOES mean having to say you are sorry, if you love someone with a big ego."

Love Wears Different Faces In Different Places

Love Wears Different Faces In Different Places "I believe 1 Corinthians is speaking of all the different faces love can wear. I mean when you think of the love of a mother to her child, doesn't that take patience, kindness, etc? Relationships--husband/wife, girlfriend/boyfriend, etc--will take you through each and every one of the different faces of love on a daily basis. I think the idea is to be present as much as you can be from where you are and remember that you really don't want to hurt this person you love so much. Count to 100, temper your words, breathe and decide to have a conversation with this person and try to see their point of view and then help them understand yours. No promises--you may not come to an agreement--but you have given of yourself beyond your comfort zone, you have extended yourself in love to this very important person in your life. Love does take on many faces and sometimes it isn't easy to get to, but it is there."

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

"If you love someone set it free"



If you love someone,Set her free...If she comes back, she's yours,If she doesn't, she never was.....

THE NEW VERSIONS R.....

Pessimist:If you love someone,Set her free ...If she ever comes back, she's yours,If she doesn't, as expected, she never was

Optimist:If you love someone,Set her free ...Don't worry, she will come back.Suspicious:If you love someone,Set her free ...If she ever comes back, ask her why.

Impatient:If you love someone,Set her free ...If she doesn't come back within some time forget her.

Patient:If you love someone, Set her free ...If she doesn't come back,continue to wait until she comes back ...

Playful:If you love someone,Set her free ...If she comes back, and if you love her still,set her free again, repeat ....C++

Programmer:if(you-love( m_she))m_she.free()if(m_she == NULL)m_she = new CShe;

Animal-Rights Activist:If you love someone,Set her free,In fact, all living creatures deserve to be free!!

Lawyers:If you love someone,Set her free,Clause 1a of Paragraph 13a-1 in the SecondAmendment of the Matrimonial Freedom

Biologist :If you love someone,Set her free,She'll evolve.

Statisticians :If you love someone,Set her free,If she loves you, the probability of her coming back is highIf she doesn't, your relation was improbable anyway.

Schwarzenegger' s fans:If you love someone,Set her free,SHE'LL BE BACK!

Over possessive person :If you love someonedon't set her free.

MBA :If you love someone set her free instantaneouslyand look for others simultaneously

Psychologist :If you love someoneset her freeIf she comes back her super ego is dominantIf she doesn't come back her id is supremeIf she doesn't go, she must be crazy.

Somnabulist :If you love someoneset her freeIf she comes back it's a nightmareIf she doesn't, you must be dreaming.

ERP functional expert :If you love someoneset her freeIf she comes back, map her into your system If she doesn't, carry out a gap-fit analysis

Finance expert :If you love someoneset her freeIf she comes back, its time to look for fresh loansIf she doesn't, write her off as an asset gone bad.

Marketing Specialist :If you love someoneset her freeIf she comes back she has brand loyaltyIf she doesn't, reposition the brand in new marketBut before i leave...Here, i SAVE the Last Dance for You

Saturday, October 11, 2008

TrueLove Inspires

True meaning of love...

Love does not want superiority,respects the difference in equality,It is not cruel, arrogant, or mean,True Love is kind, caring, considerate and clean.

True Love is not found with lust or power trips,it can't be found in butts or hips.

We know that 'Looks' are not important,and know that a good heart matters most.

When love is sought in silly superficialities,the only thing that's found is emptiness,
But when truelove is found,you know in it you'll always want to be entwined.


With wisdom we learn truths,

True Love is sympathetic and it lets you be free,anyone who knows true love... will agree.True Love lives in caring and sharing,that I can guarantee and swear.

True Love is giving but not excessive,Truelove listens well and is expressive.Truelove is just and wise,it doesn't allow unfair abuse,that comes from crazy girls or guys,True Love really can live alone and still feel love,It usually chooses to share itself with others,it fills you with comfort,it always lives... its always love.

Some say that Love is what a soul is made of,some say its a peace of God,Some just say its truly wonderful,others say love is beautiful in everyway,When you live in love,with love you always want to stay,

It can be dependent or independent,it still has choice and free will,
but it is just and there are some rules,just like there is a wrong and right,but with true love there's no need to fightyou only fight for what is right.


When you are in love....you live in love ,you want to share it with everyone everywhere,Its Nice to know Truelove is eternal,it lives within every soul,its up to you to see it and behold...it is true comfort... Truelove is harmony.

Friday, September 19, 2008

"Loving Without Conditions"

LOVING EACH OTHER: Some Solicited Advice

> Don't think in terms of forever. Think of now and forever will take care of itself. Grow up together, constantly. Expect to invest a great deal of time and energy in your relationship. Lasting relationships dont just happen, they are created. Recognize that all relationships cannot be forever.



Recognize their temporary quality, but continue to act as if there are permanent. Respect the other persons' relationships apart from you. If they are important to the one you care about, they should be important to you. Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations.

> Take your time. Remove price tags from people. Everyone has worth; the excitement lies in the discovery of their value. Don't be afraid of giving. You can never give too much, if you're giving willingly. Don't feel as if you are required to spend every waking hour with those you love. Move aside from time to time and allow them a separate space too.

Never force anyone to do anything for you in the name of love. Love is not to be bargained for. Don't be afraid. Don't overanalyze your relationships. Realize that you always have choices. It's up to you. Remember that a relationship is a pooling of resources. It means that with each relationship you are not only giving, but you are becoming more.

> Don't allow relationship to burden your heart; rather use it to become more aware and sensitive.

Don't smother each other. No one can grow in shade. Don't lose in touch with the craziness in you. This, with a large dose of caring, will assure that your relationship will never be boring.
Don't brood. Get on with living and loving. You don't have forever. Don't hold on to anger. They steal your energy and keep you from love.



There are times when you want to give up on relationship but never give up on relating. Learn to listen. You don't learn anything from hearing yourself talk.

Expect what is reasonable, not what is perfect. Write down all the reasons why you love each person you relate with. Then, when the going gets tough, take the list out and reread it.

It resolves problems quickly. After an argument is over, forget it. Don't become involved in pettiness, ego and childish hurts.

Those will only serve to degrade your relationship and prevent closeness. Learn to bend. It's better than breaking.

Since love can be created, there is no reason to be loveless. Even though you are only half of a relationship, you must remain a whole person, apart from the relationship. Remember that moral and spiritual values don't restrict, they protect.

Don't fall in love with love; you'll die with its complexities. Don't allow your relationship to die of neglect.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

"LOVE"


Definition of Love

Metaphysics is the branch of philosophy investigating principles of reality transcending those of any particular science. Cosmology and ontology are traditional branches of metaphysics. It is concerned with explaining the ultimate nature of being and the world.
The way toward health is simplicity itself. It is the natural, easiest way to behave, yet this natural mental behavior is often quite difficult for the intellect to understand, since the intellect is apt to enjoy playing with complications and solving problems. Therefore, to the intellect it often seems ludicrous to imagine that the answer to a question lies within the question itself....It is perfectly fine to make plans for the future, yet each individual should live day by day, without worrying about the outcome of those plans. The physical body can only react in present moment. Worrying about future events, or dwelling upon past unfavorable situations, only confuses the body’s mechanisms, and undermines their precise activity in the present moment."

Love is a biological necessity, a force operating to one degree or another in all biological life. Without love there is no physical commitment to life, no psychic hold. Love exists whether or not it is sexually expressed, though it is natural for... love to seek expression. Love implies loyalty. It implies commitment.

To love someone, you must appreciate how that person differs from yourself and from others. You must hold that person in mind so that to some extent love is a kind of meditation - a loving focus upon another individual. Once you experience that kind of love you can translate it into other terms. The love spreads out, expands, so that you can then see others in love's light. Love is naturally creative and explorative - that is, you want to creatively explore the aspects of the beloved one. Even characteristics that would otherwise appear as faults attain a certain loving significance. They are accepted - seen, and yet they make no difference. Because they are still attributes of the beloved one, even the seeming faults are redeemed. The beloved attains prominence over all others.
So, we start by loving ourselves and understanding that we are valid beings, not to be humiliated or put down. Then we can expand that idea to include others, offering them the same understanding that we allow ourselves. We can rejoice in the unique nature of each individual, and value their differences without judgement. We may start with one special, chosen 'loved one', and develop a deep, long lasting relationship where all aspects of love are experienced. But love is not restricted, it has no boundaries and cannot be confined by our limited concepts of institutionalised relationships."

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

"Undying Love"

Love - Love is a strong positive emotion of regard and affection. It's an emotional predominance, a supreme value. In ordinary use, Love can portray a feeling of intense attraction towards a person. The passion can be for anything under the sun. Sending....

Internet Love - This super information highway has made a channel for billions of people to find their love. Internet love affairs though pose few problems and challenges along with some ambiguity but if given proper endeavor, it can turn out to be a success.....






















Marry Me - Proposals of marriage should be well thought and executed beautifully and touchingly. Before you pop the ring and say "Marry me", there should be a lot of introspection. Most of us receive marriage proposal once in our life and it's a cherished... .

Cupid - Cupid, God of love, when aims its Cupid arrow at us, it's sure to hit the bull's eye. Cupid is the mischievous, juvenile, winged child, who shots the heart of his victims with his arrows and making them fall deeply in love. In ancient Greece, he was....

Crush - Crush, an early infatuation is a delightful one. A love crush quote would let your feelings in the open if you are to express. Crushes are known to be the easy doorway into the planet of strong emotions and affairs, without having much of the....

Dating - Nothing can be more pleasant and gratifying than being in love, having a momentous relationship and sharing life with your ideal soul mate. Dating is not only about having a quality time with your partner accompanied by candlelight, flowers, a....

Flirting - Harmless flirting is fun, but there are ways to flirt and care should be taken in flattering the opposite sex and you sure need tips on flirting from the most experienced friends of yours. Flirting is an art form. A lot of practice along with skill....

Hugs - A human needs to be needed. It is one of the primary needs to be needed. It is one of the primary desires of all human beings. Love and care are the food of life. Unless one is cared for, one starts ailing. Hugging is a gesture of love, of warmth....

Flowers - Flowers are the most charming and beautiful object in this world. The entire world is pale without the breathtaking aroma of flowers. It defines all kinds of emotions. A flower can speak volumes which words cannot say. Sometimes the overwhelming. ...

True Love -
True love doesn't knock our door everyday. So, we better be there when it presents itself. And if it does, keep it intact by sending a romantic poem for true love, you know, it's real tough finding true love. True love is the foundation of....

Love Symbol - Love symbol or the true love symbol depicts your inner feelings to your beloved. Over the centuries various love symbols have been used to represent, express and signify love. Love symbols are known to bring more love into your life. Ancient love


Tuesday, June 10, 2008

"All My Life "

"I Believe,I do"

This feeling of love that I have for you,A feeling so strong, so special, so new.You give me the gift of happiness each day,Never have I known it could be this way.You have given your love regardless of cost,With my heart in your care, I will never be lost.Or never again wonder what love really means,For now I do know it means so many things.Understanding and caring, through good times and bad,Sharing emotions, should they be happy or sad.Being there for each other through laughter or tears,At each other's side for the rest of our years.My only wish is to be with you, my love,For each day I pray to the heavens above.That you always remember my feelings for you.A feeling so strong, so special, so new!


I'm lost , i'm confused

I know that you had been always there for me

Never left me,every minute ,every hour of my life


I know this love exist
But there is part of me that still,

Whispering beneath,the denial that pulls me

I want you to know,still
for me all of this is a mystery that i have to discover
You brought happiness to my life,I owe you
I want to repay you in my own special way

For me this is still a dream that i don't want to believe

but i thanked God for bringing someone so special into my life

You know i hated you,that is true,I hated you so much
I'm still hallucinating that i had met someone as crazy as me

Someone who can make me cry,someone who can make me laugh
Someone who can make me dream,Believe that i can reach for the stars

But still i won't hold you ,I will set you free

I don't want to hold someone that can never be mine
The love i need is the love that i can cherish & nurture my entire life
Someone who can hold my hand till i get old,

Someone who will stand by me no matter what
Remember that you are special,
Very special indeed ,no one alike,no one to compare

I'll set you free,I believe in Destiny
If you are the one & you are sure that i'm the only one

I would hold you tight & will never let you go till the day that i'll die

I promise you that

By: Crazylinn Perverte

Monday, June 9, 2008

"Memories"

"SECRET LOVERS"
EVERY TIME I SEE YOUI CAN JUST FEEL NEW
BUT DIFFERENT STRONG EMOTIONS ALL INSIDE ME

ALL THE TIMES YOU PASS BY ME SOMEWHERE
MY MIND SUDDENLY BECOMES MORE EXCITED
& MY SOUL BECOMES MORE BEYOND LOVE & HAPPINESS

WHOA AS I SEE HOW YOU WALK
YOU LOOK TOTALLY WICKED
WHENEVER I GLANCE AT YOU FOR A WHILE
I ALWAYS NOTICE YOUR BEAUTIFUL SMILE

EVERYDAY I THINK ABOUT YOU
I WILL NEVER FORGET, LEAVE, OR REPLACE YOU
& MEMORIES WE BOTH HAVE HAD TOGETHER
EVEN WHEN MY HEART BEATS FAST
THAT SHOW HOW LONG MY LOVE WILL LAST

WHEN I DAYDREAM INTO YOUR BEAUTIFUL & FINE EYES
I ALWAYS SEE A SUPER SMART,
EXTREMELY ATTRACTIVE, NUMBER 1 BEAUTIFUL,
& A SOMEDAY LOVE IN SOMEONES' LIFE
WHILE I SEE YOU LOOK AT ME
I FEEL WEAK ON THE OUT & STRONG ON THE INSIDE

IF I SEE YOU CRY FOR A WHILE
I'LL TRY TO MAKE YOU SMILE
THE FIRST TIME I HEARD YOU SING
MADE ME DO THE SAME THING

WHEN I SAW YOUR WRITING STYLE
I REALLY HAD TO LOOK FOR A WHILE
AS I TALK TO YOU
I FEEL SO TOTALLY CLOSE

WHEN I KISSED YOU FOR THE FIRST TIME
I THOUGHT I WAS IN ANOTHER WORLD
WHEN I SEE HOW YOU DRESS
YOU JUST BLOWN ME AWAY

WHEN I HUG YOU
I FEEL ALL NEW INSIDE & OUT
AFTER YOU SAID," I LOVE YOU"
I SAID," I LOVE YOU TOO"

AS I SEE YOU DANCE
I QUICKLY FALL INTO A HUGE TRANCE
DARN THE WAY YOU SMELL
I JUST COULDN'T TELL
WOW WHEN YOU DRAW
YOU ALWAYS CREATE A NEW IMAGE

WHEN I GOT TO KNOW YOU
I FOUND & FELT SOMETHING NEW
THE DAY YOU GO
MY LOVE WON'T FLOW.


by: Liara Co

"Part Of Me"

"Prisoner Of Love"
i had never stop loving you
even there are times i just want to keep it secretly
but my heart is stronger than my mind

i hate it when you tell me , i'm the one
i hate it when you tell me ,


you love me


that no one will love me as you do

i want to run away,to deny this feeling
but how?how can i ignore this feeling that is so strong
I want to shout,i want to cry ,i want to unleash
i hated you so much that i never wanted to be separated from you

you may think i am crazy ,i admit ..i am
i am crazy in love with you
we had fight that made us hate each other
we've been hurt so much that we wanted to curse each other
but still my heart is stronger than my mind

you make me weak ,with you i'm restless
i wanna run away from you
but my heart pulls me & never let me go
i'm a prisoner of this love

i'm hoping to escape but if you will promise
that you can accompany me in this prison
maybe i'll change my mind & stay to be with you.



by: Mystic Angel

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

"Missing Pieces of Me"

MISSING HER

how can i forget the way you smiled, the way you
talked with the eyes

your sweet voice still is alive in my ears,

though today you stay so far from the eyes

i can still smell you in my breath, and feel your warmth on my chest

the moments we spent lying over each other on the
grass were the best

you will be my bride you had vowed, on the sunny
day in my arm

you will never part you promised,and wont cause me any harm

but today i am lonely once again,

surrounded by your

precious memories


you left when all alone i will be you knew well,

and left for me here and there only worries

a baby you will give me as a token you had promised

The days our body were two in fact but in one soul

what i got in your love and what was it that i missed

my brain i find in a turmoil when i go through the days we kissed

I still long for the moment i enlaced you, your breast with my breast collated

the warmth of your heavy breath feel i still over my cheeks and neckthe kisses which were at first tender and became passionate, sensual and and desiring later

the curves of your body, i admired like in a dreamthe touch of yours which rendered me supreme your heartbeats which were counted only for me and my every breath
which were taken only for you never shall i ever forget whatsoever happens to me you
were, are, and will be what you were for me will you ever be in my arms, to quench the thirst of this heart?

will i ever see you again before i leave this world to part??

Friday, May 23, 2008

"Being Rich is Having a True Friendship"

LOVE & FRIENDSHIP

Insignificant mortals, who are as leaves are, and now flourish and grow warm with life, and feed on what the ground gives, but then again fade away and are dead. Is human life just a dream, from which we never really awake, as some great thinkers claim? Are we submerged by our feelings, by our loves and hates, by our ideas of good, bad, beautiful, awful? Are we incapable of knowing beyond those ideas and feelings? Love gives meaning to our lives – as do friendship, or art or faith in God. These are factors of true happiness, of inner peace, of feelings of harmony, allowing meaning to our existence.But there is the other side. There is the cruelty of life, the pain, the evil, not to talk of death. They are the hidden tigers, ambushed and ready to attack the imprudent, to use an image present in the Buddhist Scriptures.

Is between these pendulums - the positive, the one that gives happiness and meaning, and the negative - that our lives are lived. And when we meditate about all that, we arrive at a diverse and disagreeing set of thoughts about the meaning and purpose of life. LOVE IS HAPPINESS...There is only one happiness in life: to love and be loved. Love makes us tolerate destiny, and makes us love life. Romeo: Just as a pilgrim might kiss the statue of a saint in hopes of receiving forgiveness for sins, so your acceptance of my kiss undoes any sin I committed by holding your hand.Juliet: So you claim to have gotten rid of your sin by kissing my lips. Now I've got the sin. What are you going to do about that? Romeo: "You want me to kiss you again? Great!"

This torture, and not mercy: heaven is here,Where Juliet lives; and every cat and dog And little mouse, every unworthy thing,Live here in heaven and may look on her;But Romeo may not. Did my heart love till now?For swear it sight, For I never saw true beauty till this night. For you in my respect are all the world:Then how can it be said I am alone,When all the world is here to look on me?
Romeo and Juliet.

True Friendship is rare to find,so keep it once it crosses you...

Thoughts about love and friendship in our lives.

Without love and friendship there is no happiness. At our mother breast, we tasted not only milk but also love – just enough love to know that it was the only thing that could ever satisfy us and that we will miss it forever.

Friendship is one soul inhabiting two bodies. A life without love and friendship is a meaningless life. The meaning of life is, largely, given by love and friendship.

More recent thinkers point out the huge importance of friendship in our lives. Friendship is a treasure. Without it, life is a desert. The meaning of life is profoundly sustained by our webs of friendship. Friendship redoubles joys and cut grieves in halves. Nobody would choose to live without friends even if he had all the other good things of life.


Wednesday, April 30, 2008

"The Meaning of Love"


Love is any of a number of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection or profound oneness. Depending on context, love can have a wide variety of intended meanings. It is commonly conceived of romantically, as a deep, ineffable feeling of intense and tender attraction shared in passionate or intimate interpersonal and sexual relationships. Love can also be conceived of as Platonic love, religious love, familial love, and, more casually, anything considered strongly pleasurable, desirable, or preferred, including activities and foods.This diverse range of meanings in the singular word love is often contrasted with the plurality of Greek words for love, reflecting the concept's depth, versatility, and complexity.


The definition of love is the subject of considerable debate, enduring speculation, and thoughtful introspection. In ordinary use, love usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience felt by a person for another person. Love often involves caring for or identifying with a person or thing, including oneself (cf. narcissism). Dictionaries tend to define love as deep affection or fondness. In colloquial use, according to polled opinion, the most favored definitions of love involve altruism, selflessness, friendship, union, family, and bonding or connecting with another.

T
he different aspects of love can be roughly illustrated by comparing their corollaries and opposites. As a general expression of positive sentiment (a stronger form of like), love is commonly contrasted with hate (or neutral apathy); as a less sexual and more mutual and "pure" form of romantic attachment, love is commonly contrasted with lust; and as an interpersonal relationship with romantic overtones, love is commonly contrasted with friendship, although other connotations of love may be applied to close friendships as well.


The very existence of love is sometimes subject to debate. Some categorically reject the notion as false or meaningless.[citation needed] Others call it a recently-invented abstraction, sometimes dating the "invention" to courtly Europe during or after the Middle Ages.


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ultural differences make any universal definition of love difficult to establish. Expressions of love may include the love for a soul or mind, the love of laws and organizations, love for a body, love for nature, love of food, love of money, love for learning, love of power, love of fame, love for the respect of others, etc. Different people place varying degrees of importance on the kinds of love they receive. Love is essentially an abstract concept,[citation needed] easier to experience than to explain. Because of the complex and abstract nature of love, discourse on love is commonly reduced to a thought-terminating cliché, and there are a number of common proverbs regarding love, from Virgil's "Love conquers all" to The Beatles' "All you need is love".


Scientific views
Biology of love

B
iological models of sex tend to view love as a mammalian drive,[citation needed] much like hunger or thirst. Helen Fisher, a leading expert in the topic of love, divides the experience of love into three partly-overlapping stages: lust, attraction, and attachment.

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ust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating, and involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and estrogen. These effects rarely last more than a few weeks or months. Attraction is the more individualized and romantic desire for a specific candidate for mating, which develops out of lust as commitment to an individual mate forms. Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that as people fall in love, the brain consistently releases a certain set of chemicals, including dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin, which act similar to amphetamines, stimulating the brain's pleasure center and leading to side-effects such as an increased heart rate, loss of appetite and sleep, and an intense feeling of excitement. Research has indicated that this stage generally lasts from one and a half to three years.


S
ince the lust and attraction stages are both considered temporary, a third stage is needed to account for long-term relationships. Attachment is the bonding which promotes relationships that last for many years, and even decades. Attachment is generally based on commitments such as marriage and children, or on mutual friendship based on things like shared interests. It has been linked to higher levels of the chemicals oxytocin and vasopressin than short-term relationships have.

Psychology of love
F
urther information: Human bonding

Psychology depicts love as a cognitive and social phenomenon. Psychologist Robert Sternberg formulated a triangular theory of love and argued that love has three different components: Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Intimacy is a form by which two people can share secrets and various details of their personal lives. Intimacy is usually shown in friendships and romantic love affairs. Commitment, on the other hand, is the expectation that the relationship is going to last forever. The last and most common form of love is sexual attraction and passion. Passionate love is shown in infatuation as well as romantic love. This led researchers such as Yela[citation needed] to further refine the model by separating Passion into two independents components: Erotic Passion and Romantic Passion.

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ollowing developments in electrical theories, such as Coulomb's law, which showed that positive and negative charges attract, analogs in human life were developed, such as "opposites attract". Over the last century, research on the nature of human mating, such as in evolutionary psychology, agree that pairs unite or attract to each other owing to a combination of opposites attract, e.g. people with dissimilar immune systems tend to attract, and likes attract, such as similarities of personality, character, views, etc. In recent years, various human bonding theories have been developed described in terms of attachments, ties, bonds, and or affinities.


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ome Western authorities disaggregate into two main components, the altruistic and the narcissistic. This view is represented in the works of Scott Peck, whose works in the field of applied psychology explored the definitions of love and evil. Peck maintains that love is a combination of the"'concern for the spiritual growth of another", and simple narcissism. In combination, love is an activity, not simply a feeling.



Tuesday, April 29, 2008

"Love"

Love is the word that makes one go into dreams of bliss and the word that can take one into pain. It all depends, how your love turned out.

If you were stabbed in the back, pain will be the result and if you got loyalty, it will be pleasure. When one looks at the scenes of destruction of one's love, when one revisits the places where love had blossomed, below the flowering trees, one goes in to the memories of the lost love.

It hurts and it hurts very badly. Similarly the love that enriches us can be invaluable. It gives a new breath, a new life.Love can give life and when lost, life may be lost. Call it addiction to love or whatever, love is a feeling that cannot be described in words. it has to be felt.

We hear about many break-ups and separations. What happened to the love that brought the couple together in the beginning? How can ex lovers talk of revenge? In love, there is no revenge. If your beloved stabs you in the back, you will not ask for revenge, because you loved and you still love.

As I have yet to talk to someone who stabbed the beloved, I don't know about his or her thinking, but it must be that of - how could I do this? Or may be they are so evil that they applaud themselves for their backstabbing!

Love is sublime. Love gives power.Love gives determination. In love, many lovers do what they could never dream of. Empires have been sacrificed for love. Battles have been fought for love. Love has ruled mankind since ages. Those who experience love are truly lucky.


Monday, April 28, 2008

"Love is more than a story"

"LoVe Is MorE tHan a StoRy"


Love is more than a story
It's greater than a myth
It reaches beyond distance
It forsakes time and infinity

Love entwines with imagination
In the mist of enchantment's realm
It pursues the dreams in our heart
It indulges the hope of our mind

Love can be as sweet and pure
As the arrival of newborn innocence
It saturates the depth of emotions
It cultivates the seeds of affection



Love possesses a unique fragrance
Which changes the scent of adoration
To rejuvenate the essence of it's gift
Thus, love is an everlasting aroma

Love lies immortal within the soul
It breathes through the spirit of life
It survives pain, lost, unfound destiny
It embraces warmth,feelings,gentle care

Love gained enhances it's hidden beauty
It strengthens an undeniable force
Love lost, is gathered together again
For love is to precious to waste


Sunday, April 27, 2008

"Shine my Love"


To oceans, to sailors, till heavens collide
A far travelling storm closing in
Waves crashing in and there's no where to hide
That's colder, there's nothing to win
Shine, shine on my way
And I will remember your love
Shine, shine on my way
And I will never fall out of love
An angel, a daughter, a gift from above
A brother with nothing to lose
I fight over nothing and nothing, but love
An ending in deep solitude
Shine, shine on my way
And I will remember your love
Shine, shine on my way
And I will never fall out of love
Tomorrow's here... I have no fear
Tomorrow's here...
Shine, shine on my way
And I will remember your love
Shine, shine on my way
And I will never fall out of love

"Shine my love..........
shine because no matter where u are,

"I'll always be with you"




"Always be my baby"


We were as one,babe
For a moment in time
And it seemed everlasting
That you would always be mine
Now you want to be free
So I'll let you fly
'Cause I known in my heart, babe
Our love will never die, no
You'll always be a part of me
I'am part of you indefinitely
Boy,don't you know you can't escape me
Ooh darling, 'cause you'll always be my baby
And we'll linger on
Time can't erase a feeling this strong
No way you're never gonna shake me
Ooh darling, 'cause you'll always be my baby

I ain't gonna cry, no
And I won't beg you to stay
If you're determined to leave boy
I will not stand in your way
But inevitably, you'll be back again
'Cause you know in your heart, babe
Our love will never end, no
You'll always be a part of me
I'am part of you indefinitely
Boy,don't you know you can't escape me
Ooh darling, 'cause you'll always be my baby
And we'll linger on
Time can't erase a feeling this strong
No way you're never gonna shake me
Ooh darling, 'cause you'll always be my baby
I know that you'll be back, boy
When your days and your night get a little bit colder
I know that you'll be right back, baby
Oh baby believe me
It's only a matter of time

You'll always be a part of me
I'am part of you indefinitely
Boy,don't you know you can't escape me
Ooh darling, 'cause you'll always be my baby
And we'll linger on
Time can't erase a feeling this strong
No way you're never gonna shake me
Ooh darling, 'cause you'll always be my baby
You'll always be a part of me
I'am part of you indefinitely
Boy,don't you know you can't escape me
Ooh darling, 'cause you'll always be my baby
And we'll linger on
Time can't erase a feeling this strong
No way you're never gonna shake me
Ooh darling, 'cause you'll always be


Tuesday, March 25, 2008

"LOVE & IT'S MEANING"


The word love has many different meanings in English, from something that gives a little pleasure ("I loved that meal") to something one would die for (ideals, family). It can describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love. Probably due to its psychological relevance, love is one of the most common themes in art and music.

Interpersonal love refers to love between human beings. It is a more potent sentiment than a simple liking for another. Unrequited love refers to those feelings of love which are not reciprocated. Interpersonal love is most closely associated with interpersonal relationships. Such love might exist between family members, friends, and couples. There are also a number of psychological disorders related to love, such as erotomania.

Interpersonal love

Some feelings that are often associated with interpersonal love:

Sexuality can be an important element in determining the shape of a relationship. While sexual attraction often establishes a new bond, sexual intention is considered undesirable or inappropriate in certain love bonds. In many religions and systems of ethics it is considered wrong to act on sexual desire for immediate family, for children, or outside of a committed relationship. However, there are many ways to express passionate love without sex. Affection, emotional intimacy and shared interests and experiences are common in friendships and kinships of all human beings.

Impersonal love

A person can be said to love a country, principle, or goal if they value it greatly and are deeply committed to it. Similarly, compassionate outreach and volunteer workers' 'love' of their cause may be borne not of interpersonal love, but impersonal love coupled with altruism and strong political convictions. People can also 'love' material objects, animals, or activities if they invest themselves in bonding their identity with that item. In these cases, if sexual passion is actually felt, is called paraphilia.