Words Of Wisdom

Wisdom is when you reach higher, into the realms of consciousness and spiritto access a greater understanding of what's occurring in life.There are many things that trigger wisdom. Wisdom can come to you in words, pictures and colors~A wide variety of stimulus~ that triggers wisdom.

Embracing wisdom~is the first step in becoming a co-creator~to the world around you~Imaging yourself helping to create a new worldbased upon the wisdom of love, healing and compassion~Imagine people putting down their weapons, and seeing their so-called enemies for the first time as their brothers and sisters.Imagine this light quenching the fires of rage within each and every heart.

Imagine the power of love and wisdom inspiring peopleto create new ways for us to live together in harmony, compasion and prosperity.Imagine the force of love empowering leaders all over the world to create lasting peace agreements that ensures safety, respect, freedom,and prosperity to people everywhere.

Imagine that Divine peace, love, and light are the prevailing forces upon the earth forever and ever~Imagine reaching out our hands of love and friendship~to people around the globe~regardless of race, religion or nationality~ It is time for you and you and you~to take part in this powerful act of creation~The rhythm never ends, it only strengthens and expands.

This life force is within you~This life force is apart of you~You are apart of the spiral of evolution Eternal and everlasting~Each of you shall reach a certain level of awareness unhindered by the inadequacy of your language unhindered by the limitationsof the intellectual mind unhindered by the limitations of false beliefs~Our thoughts will connect thru universal consciousness~and an incredible healing will take placearound the world~Healing our beloved Earth Motherand all our relations~Unity of heart, mind and Spirit~we will blend our incredible gifts together~for healing~I see so many people hiding their identitiy and hiding their true powers because they live in stages of denial and unworthiness.

We have been brain washed to believe we are a powerless people and so many are awakening to the skills of Empowerment and also searching for answers and clues to their Higher or Divine Being.

Religion is a major structure of disempowering the people.and installing fear into the heart and mind thru manipulative brain washing and control.But the energies are rising and the earth mother groans under the weight of mis-abuse of her precious resources God's holy energy.The world's system that revolves around a material based structure of organized government is slowly crumbling~and the true people of light~ are now slowly returning~they are the ones who will step powerfully into the knowledge and wisdom of their ancient ancestral memories.

And they are the ones who will lead the people~ back to their heart energy. Back to the healing that must take place. There are many spiritual teachers and leaders who carry forth a higher level of truth.These beloved teachers are the ones who have embraced the powerful knowledge and wisdom of their ancient ancestral memories.They are the ones who will lead the people~back into their heart energy.Back to the healing that must take place~Healing of our beloved Earth Mother and all our relations~Many of these way showers, lightworkers and spiritual warriors have spent their entire lifetimes~searching, teaching, waiting~and hiding in the outskirts of humanity~ Waiting and searching for the wakeup call~The awakening process is faster for some~and slower for others who have become stuck within the illusion of the material world. But we are all evolving in ourown unique ways.We are the flowers that are turning into fruit of the Divine~Wisdom and knowledge are birthing forth a new way to survive~The energy that is coming to earth and to every single one of us, is coming to serve the greater good of the whole and to those of us who are being called to service,to serve humanity, it is our responsibility to share the unique gifts and talents that each of us has been given~To share the wisdom, to share our stories~ to share our prayers~to share our music~to share the love and truth that we hold for humanity~There will come to be~many messengers of the sacred and holy truth~Many warriors will join in the movement of light move into that which is sacred and holy~Seeking the wholeness of Spirit~is seeking and embracing Spiritual growth~ and acknowledging that you are a Divine Being of Light~Wholeness of spirit reflects forms of Empowerment~Connecting into your Spirit helps to reflect the creative potentialof your true God Reality~The Spirit of your Soulis apart of Creator~Explandant in the beauty of the Divine~Pull the energy into your body~Align with the Power Point~of your true God Reality~True wisdom reveals itself to those who take a few moments each day to sit in quiet reflection away from the hustle and bustle of busy thoughts and activities.

We are what we focus upon and what we think.With our thoughts, we make our world.With our thoughts we can heal our world all it takes is focus, determination and will power~All number of things that we can create~We can manifest a world of love and light or stay in tuned with all the negativity that plagues our world just like a disease.Consciousness is part of a dynamic dance of cosmic energy~you must incorporate the new dance of energyinto your physical, mental, and emotional vehicles.Each of you is apart of this massive dance of energy~ This dance of energy is shedding seeds of cosmic awareness~And it is providing you with seeds of change~learn how to fertilize these seeds of thought~within your own mind.

The flowering of your inner knowledge and psychic senses are Divine tools~that will help you in accessing the new wisdom that is flowing onto this Earth.The energies that are assisting each of you during these changing times~Many of you are just beginning to turn on psychic abilities and gifts that will have a dramatic effect upon your world~Learn to honor yourself and embrace your abilities~Learn how to turn them on~Learn how to use them~Learn to honor your own truth~and have courage to stand strong within your Power~ And best of all~ enjoy the freedom you are claiming by know and embracing yourself ~“”as an empowered Being of Light”“~Embrace the potential of your creative and magnificent Being~Open yourself to greater understanding and awareness~that all life is sacred~and we must each play our part~in helping to create a better world of love and light~where darkness of control and manipulation~no longer hold us prisoner~in an insecure shell of a body that most of us call home~ What you make of your life is up to you.

You have all the tools and resources you need.What you do with them is up to you.The choice is yours.

Your answers lie within you.The answers to life's questions lie within you.All you need to do is look, listen, and trust.If you wish to eliminate fear, concentrate on courage.If you wish to eliminate lack, concentrate on abundance.If you wish to eliminate disease, concentrate on health stop focusing on any negativity that you may be holding~Begin to trust the passion that you feel.Begin to listen to the whispers of your soul and take small steps forward towards the goal and purpose of spiritual evolvement~Begin to claim the gifts of divine guidance that will help you begin to fulfill your destiny and your purpose~Begin to tap into the stream of love and intelligence that will direct you to the prosperity that you deserve~Begin to act upon the inner guidance that you receive.

Begin to align your mind with the mind of Divine Creation~You are the mysteryEmbrace that sacred mystery.You are the journey~Embrace that sacred journey~We are the flowers turning into fruit of the Divine~Wisdom and knowledge are birthing forth a new way to survive~A new way to shine~The energy that is coming to earth and to every single one of us, is coming to serve the greater good of the whole and to those of us who are being called to service,to serve humanity~it is our responsibilityto share the unique gifts and talents that each of us has been given~To share the wisdom, to share our stories~to share our prayers~to share our music~Make a commitment to take a few minutes each day in the coming week for solitary reflection.

Make this a completely quiet time free of noise and distraction.Use these few moments to connect with your spirit.You are the creator of your destiny~Begin to reclaim and step into your Powers~We are all apart of the Sacred Hoop of Life, where there is no ending and no beginning!

The purpose of sharing this at all, is the hope it may help you to build yourself a larger Spiritual container so that you can open up to accessing more a higher intelligence and perceptual awareness and to bring more love into your life to create a better world for you & your loved ones

Live your truth.Speak your truth in the light of day~and never let the words of outsiders discourage you in any way shape or form~

Choose to focus on anchoring this Divine and holy light~Always remember~that each of you is awakening and remembering how powerful you really are! Many of us have been assigned with specific parts to play~We are in service to raise Global Unity into the heartbeat of mother Earth and all humanity.

Accept your situation and realize you are where you are, doing what you are doing, for a specific reason. Realize that nothing is by chance, that you have certain lessons to learn and that the situation you are in has been given to you to enable you to learn those lessons as quickly as possible, so that you can move onward and upward along your spiritual path.

THE SIMPLE LIFE

Don't you think the world went and got way too complicated? Just think about it.


Five or more days of the week we all have to work at a job that we may not particularly enjoy. We have to pay taxes, save for retirement, and abide by countless laws. Because of the way humanity has been structuring the world, we need to do this for our survival. The complication of the world has affected the things we most value, our freedom and overall happiness in life.

Everyday new fashion and technological advancements are introduced to us. They are then integrated into our lives and presented to us in a way that boosts our desire for them. Many people feel that as long as we are moving forward in technology it is a good thing, however, few ever question the necessity of these things in our lives.

If we have been living without many of these things for such a long time, why do we suddenly must have the latest item on the market?

Stuck in a state of materialism and consumerism, many people don't realize their desire for these things have been limiting their freedom. It takes money to obtain all the material things that we want, and so we have to give up much of our free time by working for someone to earn it.

The sad part about all of this is that we often spend most of our time trying to obtain and maintain these material things than we actually do enjoying them. We unconsciously become slaves to the very material objects we are striving to acquire. This leads to all sorts of unhappiness and stress that can shorten lives.


But what is the root cause of the materialism, consumerism and parasitism that is complicating our world? I believe it is the great desire for money and the practice of extreme capitalism. While money serves as a means of exchange, the increased want for it is what leads to the various methods humans have created for obtaining it.

This results to capitalizing on everything imaginable, including people's lives. These two elements have even complicated simple aspects of our lives such as love relationships. Nowadays you can't have romance without finance.

Now because our world has been complicated in so many ways, it is very difficult for a person to separate him or herself from it all if he or she wishes to do so. There are several basic physiological and safety needs that must be satisfied by having a home, food on your plate, and clothes on your back.

Due to the use of money and practice of capitalism these things are not easy to obtain and we are forced to participate in a system that has diminished our quality of life on several different planes. If humanity did not complicate the world so much, we would be able to live simpler lives filled with a greater level of happiness than we presently experience.

Time Is Priceless

Show of hands; which would you rather save – time
or money?

The majority of people in society at large will choose money.
But the truth is; how you spend your time is far more important than how you spend your money.
Lost money can be regained, but time, once it’s lost – it’s gone forever.
Money mistakes can be corrected; but time mistakes – apart from the grace of God – are made forever.
If you have a lot of money, but you have only two weeks to live, you are not a rich man.
But if you have time and no money, you can use your time to get money.
In fact, you can convert your time into just about anything you want.
God doesn’t really give us money – He gives us time and we convert it into money.
God doesn’t really give us friends – He gives us time and we convert it into friends.
God doesn’t really give us knowledge – He gives us time and we convert it into knowledge

What am I trying to say?

Your time is your most valuable resource; therefore you must guard it jealously
You must be wise and deliberate about how you use it
Look at Ephesians 5:15-17 again
15 Look carefully then how you walk! Watch your step. Use your head. Don’t live like ignorant people, but like wise people. Live purposefully and worthily and accurately, not as the unwise and witless, but as wise (sensible, intelligent people),
16 Making the very most of the time [buying up each opportunity], because the days are evil. Make the most of every chance you get. These are desperate times!


17 Therefore do not be vague and thoughtless and foolish , don’t lie carelessly, unthinkingly. Make sure you understand what the Master wants understanding and firmly grasping what the will of the Lord is.
Remember, every minute you live is an irreplaceable resource that is limited in supply.
Every minute you live is a gift from God; and you have the responsibility to maximise it.
Remember that life is short – no one has the luxury of living forever in this mortal state.
We are mortal and our life will eventually end.
And the more we appreciate the value of time, the wiser we become at using it.
If you want to know the value of . . .
One year . . . ask the student who failed the final exam
One month . . . ask the mother of a premature baby
One week . . . ask the editor of a weekly newspaper
One day . . . ask the daily wage earner who has six children
One hour . . . ask lovers who are waiting to meet
One minute . . . ask the passenger who missed the flight
One second . . . ask the person who survived the accident
One millisecond . . . ask the Olympic silver medallist

YOUR TIME IS PRECIOUS; YOUR TIME IS PRICELESS

Poet Carl Sandburg said; “Time is the most valuable coin in your life. You and you alone will determine how that coin will be spent. Be careful you do not let other people spend it for you”.
Now, because your time is precious; and it is limited in supply, you have to be very selective what you put in it.
And that brings me to the big issue of priorities.

PRIORITIES

Priority simply means determining what comes before what.
From the word ‘prior’ which means ‘before’.
It means in the use of my time, one comes before two and two comes before three . . . and so on.
It means, my daily activities are on a queue – I attend to the most important thing first; and then the next most important thing – and so on.
It means everything is not equally important to me.
Not everything requires equal time attention and energy.
You can’t give the same amount of time, attention or energy to everything or everyone.
Some things require five minutes – don’t give those things one hour.
Some things require one hour – don’t give those things five minutes.
Same with people.

How do you know which things or people require five minutes versus one hour?

Priorities
The things that are most important should never be at the mercy of the things that are least important.
So, because you cannot do everything, be everywhere or please everybody; you have to choose.
Chinese author, Lin Yutang said; “Besides the noble art of getting things done, there is the noble art of leaving things undone. The wisdom of life consists in the elimination of the non-essentials.
Philosopher William James said; “The art of being wise is knowing what to overlook”.
How do you decide what to overlook?
Priorities

ESTABLISH YOUR PRIORITIES

Your priorities help you to determine how to spend your time
And the converse is true – the way you spend your time is a good indicator of your priorities
Have you ever found yourself thinking; “I need more time”?
Well, newsflash – you’re not going to get it!
No one gets more time
There are 24 hours in the day – that is 1,440 minutes – and everybody gets the same
The president doesn’t get more, the school janitor doesn’t get less.
So, what determines the value of our lives is the value of what we put into our time.
Since you cannot change time; you must change what you put in it.
If you want to change your life, you need to change your priorities.
If this year is going to be different from last year, then your priorities this year must be different from your priorities last year.

ESTABLISH YOUR PRIORITIES

And if you don’t establish your priorities, someone else will.
If you don’t decide how your day will be spent, someone else will.
Have you noticed that people who have nothing to do usually want to so it with you?
What are the benefits of establishing your priorities?
1. Priorities help you separate what is most important from what is least important.
2. Priorities liberate you from the tyranny of the urgent
Just because something is urgent doesn’t mean it is important
The simple question is: “What is the worst that will happen if I don’t attend to this thing?”
3. Priorities release you from the guilt of not doing everything
4. Priorities help you eliminate distractions
My Psychology professor used to say: “If you have two conflicting duties, one of them is not your duty”
And we added: “It is your pleasure”
5. Priorities help you obtain the highest return on the investment of your time
Any time you see people fulfil their dreams; any time you see people attain the highest level in their career, you can be sure that priorities have been very important to them

ESTABLISH YOUR PRIORITIES

Let me close by giving you a five step strategy for establishing your priorities

STEP 1: ARTICULATE THE GOALS

Three categories – yearly, weekly, daily
In order to do this, you need to create three lists
1. Write down the five most important things you want to achieve this year
It doesn’t have to be a permanent list - you can review it as the year unfolds, but start with a list
If you don’t have this first list, you have given your year the permission to unfold in a random fashion
My list for this year is to:
Practise the presence of God
Pursue wisdom
Promote my health
Produce extra wealth
Preach for transformation
2. Write down the five most important things you need to achieve this week
Now you may have more than five, but work from a list of five – the most important
Write down the five most important things you have to achieve today

STEP 2: ANSWER THE QUESTIONS

These answers will help you to determine what must be on your list and what number to assign to them
What are the four R’s
Reach, Required, Returns, Reward
1. Where do I want to reach?
This is the goal question
This year, this week, this day
2. What is required of me?
This is the duty question
This year, this week, today
What is required of me - as a spouse, as a parent, as an employee, as a team leader?
Remember, if you have two conflicting duties, one of them is not your duty
3. What will give me the greatest return?
This is the efficiency question
Very quickly you will find that some activities give you a greater return on the investment of your time and effort
Concentrate on those
This is also a way to determine your strengths
4. What will give me the greatest reward?
This is the fulfilment question
Reward of fulfilment, finances and favour

STEP 3: ASSIGN THE NUMBERS

Take a close look at your list of five and assign a priority number to each one
Which one must come first, second, third, fourth and fifth

STEP 4: ALLOCATE THE TIME

For example, for your yearly list, how many hours per week should you give to each item?
Same for your weekly and daily lists
But beyond allocating a timeframe for these, now allocate a specific time e.g. 8.00 to 9.00 p.m.

STEP 5: ADVANCE THE PROCESS

Take the first item on your daily list and start to work on it – and stay with it until it is completed
Then take the second item, then the third until all five are done
What if you only managed to finish item one?
No problem.

Then tomorrow, item two becomes your item one
Will this always happen the neat way you arranged it?
No – there will be interruptions and eventualities
But you will still achieve far more than if you did not establish your priorities
If you want to increase your focus this year, if you want to increase your productivity, if you want to become more effective, ESTABLISH YOUR PRIORITIES.

"VIRTUES THAT LEAD TO HAPPINESS"

---LOVE YOUR FAMILY
---SHOW GRATITUDE
---BE HUMBLE AND SHOW COMPASSION
---LOVE WHAT YOU DO
---BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
---SPEAK FAITH , SPEAK POSITIVELY
---LIVE WITH PASSION
---PURSUE KNOWLEDGE
---USE YOUR IMAGINATION
---SET REALISTIC GOALS
---TAKE ACTION
---COMMIT TO EXCELLENCE
---EMBRACE CHANGE
---FAIL FORWARD
---SEEK PEACE
---LIVE WITH INTEGRITY
---PERSEVERE

BUT SEEK YE FIRST THE KINGDOM OF GOD, AND HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS; AND ALL THESE THINGS SHALL BE ADDED UNTO YOU. MATTHEW6:33

"LIVE YOUR DREAM"

A dream won't do much for you until you do something for it. Yet the moment you begin to take action, that dream starts to become real.

It may very well take years to accomplish. Long before it is accomplished, though, it is adding value to your life.

For the value of your dream is not in possessing whatever it brings. The value is in reaching for it.

The value is in what you do to get yourself there. Because in that process, you fulfill your own unique destiny.

Right this very moment, you can reach out and touch the reality of your most treasured dream. That's because right this moment, you can act on that dream.

If you've been waiting, you've waited long enough. Today is the day to truly live your dream."LIVE YOUR DREAM" =)

International Model "Tommy Cupples"

Dreams become reality when you want, its up to you and nobody else to make those dreams come true, don't ever let someone tell you that you can't do something, instead let that push you harder to accomplish that dream.-Tommy Cupples

International Model "Vince Azzopardi"

Vince Azzopardi- im happy with my life, ive gone from a fat kid who was unpopular, living in Allenton without a penny to my name, to a international model living in milan working for armani... this status is a thanks to everyone who doubted me, as you spurred me on to succeed in my life.. the ones who supported me dont... need thanking, they already know i got mad love for them all....

Things We Can't Control

The idea of trusting the universe is a popular one these days, but many of us don’t know what this really means and we often have a hard time doing it. This is partly because the story of humankind is most often presented as a story about struggle, control, and survival, instead of one of trust and collaboration with the universe. Yet, in truth, we need to adhere to both ideas in this life.

On the one hand, there is much to be said about exerting control over our environment. We created shelter to protect ourselves from the elements. We hunted for animals and invented agriculture to feed ourselves. We built social infrastructures to protect ourselves and create community. This is how we survive and grow as a civilization. However, it is also clear that there are plenty of things that we cannot control, no matter how hard we try, and we often receive support from an unseen force – a universe that provides us with what we cannot provide for ourselves.

It is a good idea to take responsibility for the things in life that we can control or create. We work so we can feed, clothe, and shelter our loved ones and ourselves. We manifest our dreams and visions in physical form with hard work and forethought. But at a certain point, when have done all that we can, we must let go and allow the universe to take over. This requires trust.

It requires a trust that runs deeper than just expecting things to turn out the way we want them to. Sometimes they will, and sometimes they won’t. We develop equanimity and grace as we learn to trust that, with the guiding hand of the universe, life will unfold exactly the way it should. We are engaged in an ongoing relationship with a universe that responds to our thoughts and actions.

Honesty & Integrity

I want to talk for a minute; to be open with you. Something that is very important to me is integrity and honesty. I always strive to be as honest and open about myself as I can. Perhaps this is a throw-back to my Christian background and Jesus’ harsh stance against hypocrisy: the last thing I ever want is to be a hypocrite.

Anyone who has followed my blogs for a while has hopefully learned that each and every blog of mine is honest. It is a record of my honest opinions/thoughts/beliefs at the time of writing. I have never deleted a controversial blog, because I want to show that I have the integrity to stand by what I’ve written, and own any wrong calls I’ve made. I also don’t make a habit of deleting comments because I think that it also shows integrity that I allow opposing opinions to be there for all to see.

I’ve made a commitment to you and myself to try and write more positive and uplifting blogs. And I do want to do that, but I don’t want anyone thinking that I am always happy or that I put on a mask for the sake of proving a point. I’m sharing this with you because I want to continue to write whatever is on my mind and that includes when I am in a bad mood. I want you to know that I still stand by my commitment to spread positive ideas, but in order to show my integrity I feel it’s necessary for me to also show that I am human.

Plus, the greatest purpose my blogs serve is ultimately for my enjoyment. They are my therapy, my way of processing my thoughts and my way of providing further meaning to my life by spreading ideas I think will help make the world a better place. And I have learned so, so very much from the people who comment on my blogs. Thank you.

The Real Beauty Tips

"Time Tested Beauty Tips"

For attractive lips, speak words of kindness
For lovely eyes, seek out the good in people
For a slim figure, share your food with the hungry
For beautiful hair, let a child run his fingers through it once a day
For poise, walk with the knowledge you'll never walk alone...
People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed,
revived, reclaimed and redeemed...
Never throw out anybody.

Remember, if you ever need a helping hand,
you'll find one at the end of your arm.
As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands.
One for helping yourself, the other for helping others.

True beauty comes from within". Such a cliche' quote, but isn't it true. Anyone who's ever worked in customer service could testify to the validity of that quote. There was a time when I worked the refund desk at a retail outlet, and let me tell you...someone could be drop dead gorgeous. I would be all excited to help this beautiful person...then her true self would rise up!

I don't care how beautiful she is on the outside, enduring five minutes of a haughty, arrogant, cursing prima donna is enough to make any fairy tale princess uglier than the proverbial frog that she kissed in the first place!



When you are truly beautiful on the outside and the inside...well, that's a combination that can't be beat!

"The Best Revenge"

“The Best Revenge”

Unfinished,
As time goes on
(The business)
Will fade to black.
Heartbroken
(The Self) will mend.
Time still goes on, revenged or not~

Forgiveness,

The greatest key
To a heart
Broken in this

Reality,

Finally Free
Of chains that bind, a Release~

Love, kindness--
The best revenge.

Karma will
Be it's own fire,
Heaped upon
Their precious heads...

Moving forward- don't look back~

I'm Not That Girl

I won't be that girl



I don't want this to end.
This.
Whatever this is...


Everything happened exactly how it was supposed to.
Slowly.
Cautiously.
Moderately.
Safely.


I was so careful with you.
I followed all of the rules that society has set for us.
Tell me, where did I go wrong?
It isn't about the other girls.
I knew all along.
Just like you knew.
It was about being treated equally.
Having the same privileges.
Not having to hide my existance.
For once in my life, I stand up for myself.
What do I get?
"I'm upset for no reason."
"I'm being so immature."
"I'm acting like a child."
"I'm just so stupid."
Right?
Wrong.
I won't be that girl.
The girl that hides in the shadows.
Waiting...
Waiting...
Contemplating...

Wasting her life away waiting on you.
I won't be that girl.
I could very easily get you back.
You're only a phone call away.
But I refuse to do that.
I am not in the wrong here.
I've looked at it from every angle.
And...
I
didn't
do
this.


To say that my heart's broken would be an understatement.
Nothing can be healed if you keep it covered up.


Well, I let my wounds out in the open and now they're infected.
I've ripped off the bandaid and it's completely in your hands now.

I won't go back on the promise I made to myself.
I won't beg for you to fix me.
I won't change my mind.
I won't wait for you.
I won't be that girl.

The State Of Ignorance

Disclaimer: This is not directed at any one person. More like the human race as a whole.

I have no hope for the human race. Intellectualism is dying. Nobody thinks anymore, they just merely cry with outrage at anything that makes their lives even remotely uncomfortable. Pleasure, that’s all this generation cares about. Whatever can make their lives easier. They don’t pay attention to the issues of the world, just what’s going to make them the happiest.

Each generation seems to be less intelligent then the one before it, less able to think for itself, more ignorant of the world around it. You can see it every day. Each freshman class that has come after mine seems to be worse than the last.

For example, my AP Literature teacher also teaches normal freshman classes. Looking at the way they paraphrase the works of Shakespeare are simply embarrassing. It’s clear they gave no effort at all into the thought of the greatest literary genius of all time. One of them even spelt Shakespeare and person wrong. Then refused to correct it when they were told the right way to spell it.

A Recipe Of A New You

Many people claim that they have the key to success in life, and if you follow their simple formula your problems will just disappear. Yet how many of them actually give you the results you are looking for? Following a new path can lead you only as far as you're willing to go with it, but eventually if the underlying problem isn't corrected and instead masked by other things, you'll regress.

However, we all have what it takes to make a permanent change in our lives. The ingredients are inside us and accessible. Anyone is able to transform themselves with enough know-how.

Promises

Promises

At the waters edge,
she waits each day,

for the one she loved
and loves still to this day.

To give up hope of his return,
is to concede to death,

for to live without him,
would be a life of despair...
the darkness would engulf her.

The crashing waves below,
sometimes to her they beckon,
promising sleep below their surface.

The blackbird cries,
an invitation to death;
promising sweet relief
of her unending anguish.

She gives herself a shake,
and lifts her head up high,
reminds herself of his love,
and of his promise to return.

My Husband (still missing in action "LoL")

Dear Mr. Husband Man,

Even though I don't know exactly who you'll be yet (I have my ideas), I think of you often. I wonder how you're living your life now. It matters to me, you know, because how you live your life now determines the kind of man you're becoming...and the kind of man I'll spend the rest of my life with. I know you’re out there. You might be the person right in front of my face. You might be someone I don’t know. Not yet anyway. I might be 86 by the time we meet, but at least we will have finally found each other. I can feel you if I shut my eyes tight enough. I know you will love me like no one ever has. I know you will understand me.

You’ll help me open myself up, let myself go. I think your patience will compliment my impulsiveness. You’ll be the calm to my storm and I to yours. Magic. It exists. I’ve seen it. Have you? Or have you just seen glimmers of it? You must believe in it though because you’re my future husband and that’s a job requirement – one of the reasons why I’ll love you so much. So…where are you? When are you going to pop into my life? How is it going to happen?

Will we ever even meet? I wonder what you’re doing right now?

It’s a Saturday.

You’re probably home. Working on something. I think you like to work a lot…or maybe you’ve finished working and you’re reading, writing or creating before you crawl into bed. Maybe you’re at work. Or maybe even (I can only hope), you’re dreaming of me as I am of you. I love you. Or at least I love the idea of you. I hope you love me. Or the idea of me. We should start loving each other now, because we’ll love each other forever.

Love, Someday, Always, Yours at heart, Your future wife,


G R E T Z E N

WHAT A TRUE FRIEND IS

Thought I'd share some of my favorite quotes about what a true friend is....

"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words"

"A real friend is the one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out"

"What is a friend? It is a person with whom you dare to be yourself."

"I believe that friends are quiet angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly"

"In prosperity our friends know us; in adversity we know our friends" (this is good and I can relate to it..I've had people who are around when things are going well, but disappear when I am going through tough times and need a friend to lean on)

"A true friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be somewhere else"

"Real friends are those who, when you've made a fool of yourself, don't feel that you've done a permanent job"

"When it hurts to look back, and you're too scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there"

"My best friend is the one who brings out the best in me"

"One Man's Dream"

Let me give all that I can, whenever I can, to all that I can. It is a simple plan for the remaining time here on this good earth. It is a cleansing of one's soul. When I have given all that I can, and loved all I that I can, it completes me.

My dream is for all people on Earth to have faith in a greater power than us. Every little thing around you is from a divine plan. Every storm in life is a lesson to be learned. Every smile and every tear is witnessed. The very moon was placed exactly in the right place in the heavens. One little shift of the moon and the oceans would overtake the land. The sun was placed exactly in the right place. One little shift of the sun and the entire world would be a desert.

Man only thinks he can control life around him. Man controls nothing. What he has tried to control, he has destroyed. I share with you these things that you already know. When we all go to bed at the end of the day no matter who you are, a king, a beggar, a president, a rich man, a poor man, a doctor, a mechanic, a teacher, a preacher, all lay their heads down and sometimes think what is this really all about? Is this all that there is? Is there more?

Yes there is more.......I believe with all of my being that there is more! This life with all it's beauty and also all it's hurting, is only but a step into the gates of forever and ever. So enjoy everything that is given to you, good and bad. And live each day like it is your last here on earth.

And remember to give something back, whenever you can. This is just my dream, what may be yours?

A Good Woman

A good woman is proud of herself. She respects herself and others. She is aware of who she is. She neither seeks definition from the person she is with, nor does she expect them to read her mind. She is quite capable or articulating her needs. A good woman is hopeful. She is strong enough to make all her dreams come true. She knows love, therefore she gives love. She recognizes that her love has value and must be reciprocated. If her love is taken for granted, it soon disappears. A good woman has a dash of inspiration, a dabble of endurance. She knows that she will, at times, have to inspire others to reach the full potential God gave them. A good woman knows her past, understands the present and move towards the future. A good woman knows God. She knows with God the world is her playground, but without God She will just be played. A good woman does not live in fear of her future because of her past. Instead,she understands that her life experiences merely lessons, meant to bring her closer to self knowledge and unconditional self love.

Da Perfect Guy- Hez Just not that In2 U

Isn't iit so funny from wen were little kidz our Parents try 2 fill our headz with fantasy's of how 1 daii wen we grow ^ we will hav dat king or Queen alwayz by or sidez!A girl will never forget the first boy she ever likes.We are all programmed to believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk that means he likes you.

But wat we dnt kno iiz dat not every1 will hav dat perfect person by their side. We r forced 2 thiink dat mayb 1 day afta all dat waitin n all dat heartbrake dat 1 speacial person will show ^!! WEll da truth iiz dat u shudnt waiit around waiitin 4 Mr. Right or Mrz.Right 2 cum 2 u!! Sum tiimez u g2 put urself out der 2 try new stuff n new pplz lolz!! Truth iiz u cud go out theiir n fiind dat person 2 b wiit or u cud sit at home waitin 4 dat 1 person 4 da rest of ur life. My advice 2 u iiz 2 go hav fun!!!
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Famous Quotes:

-"I had this guy leave me a voicemail at work, so I called him at home, and then he emailed me to my BlackBerry, and so I texted to his cell, and now you just have to go around checking all these different portals just to get rejected by seven different technologies."

-"Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule.

But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave.

And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, onlove your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope."

My Opinion- Da truth iz dat iif a guy really wants you he will go through anythiin just 2 b wiith you. so iif ur chasin dwn thiz boy den plz stop! Bcuz ur Just gonna end ^ heart broken n Alone! If he wantz u hell he will make iit happen! But wat do i kno im Single n Livin a Gud azz life Lol!!Lokiin 4 mister Right! If u want a betta advice Check out da movie> He's Just not that Into you!!