Tuesday, February 5, 2008

How to Be a Classy Girl

Want to be a classy girl? Show you are a high-society lady material? Isn't that hard, you just need a little help, this article will help you. Read on, lady!

Steps

Have a sense of style. Being in fashion is a must. Try to read more fashion magazines and know what's hot and what's not at the moment. Create your own fashion and have your own style, because it's not right to wear something that just isn't you. It's often better to have a basic personal style than to always be chasing the latest "fad" look.

Have good taste in clothing: Be modest in clothing and avoid clothing of bad taste. Extremely low necklines, too short skirts, belly-bearing tops and revealing clothing can make a girl look like she does not respect her body and herself. Shirts with inappropriate sayings, logos or sexual innuendos can make a girl look like she's desperate for attention. Classy ladies are not desperate for attention.

Have good hygiene. Remember to always be clean; brush your teeth and bathe/shower. Being clean is important; being grubby isn't classy and isn't pleasing.
Speak calmly. This shows politeness. If you talk very loudly, it will seem that you're desperate for attention.

Never slouch. Having good posture is an important, and rare, trait.
Behave. It's fun to be in a party and dance a lot, but that's not always classy behavior. If you're at a party, the classy behavior is to socialize, but speak calmly, not monopolizing all the attention.

Develop conversation skills. Classy ladies don't talk about sexual immorality. They tend to talk about fashion, but they should also talk about intellectual topics (books, art, politics/current events) more.

Increase your vocabulary, and stay away from slang terms. Never swear or say racist comments.

Smile. Classy people must always seem to be in a good mood.

Be nice. If you're classy and want to be liked, you have to be nice, unless you want to be the snobby style of classy. But of course, it's much better to be liked by people, so being nice and treating others well helps.

Always be kind and friendly to the people serving you (waiters, etc.). If you really want to know who is well brought up and classy, look at how they treat their inferiors (the people below them on the social ladder), not their equals or superiors.

Tips

Be intelligent.
A classy girl should have good topics to talk about . So study about things that you find interesting and important for life. Read books and improve your vocabulary, and don't use the word "like" all the time; it's a sign of poor education and nervousness. People will admire you because you're smart and have confidence that may be very convenient to you.
Value your virtues. If you have any good skill or kind of talent, such as drawing, or dancing, singing or playing any musical instrument, do not hide it, work it. Let people see how good you are by exposing your pictures, or maybe playing a musical instrument in front of someone. If you're good at acting, look for a part in any play at theater.

Tattoos and Body Piercings- Appearances convey a strong message to others; you can be judged by an individual or right before an event that will play a prominent role in your future (e.g. a perspective employer, acquiring a higher position in a reputable company, etc.). Therefore, take careful consideration when deciding if it is a good ideal for you to get visible tattoos or body piercings. Even though a person’s outward appearance does not automatically show his or her true inner qualities, appearances can reflect how a person is willing to be perceived by the world. Also keep in mind that although tattoos and piercings are individual expressions, they can be permanent or difficult (even costly) to remove if you change your mind in the future. If you are in doubt about how tattoos and piercings may impact you in the future, forget about getting them and find other ways to show self expression, such as creating works of art, poetry, hobbies, etc.

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