Thursday, July 23, 2009

What Makes a Perfect Man?

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More than a few women have asked me what makes a perfect man?

My response... there is no such thing as a perfect man!

What there is, are great men!

Some women are under the mistaken impression that if they can find the "perfect man" life will be problem free forever!

The truth is, we are all human; we make mistakes, we are learning, growing, changing. We have our idiosyncrasies, issues, and difficulties.

What makes a great man is one who is willing to work toward greatness!

In other words, guys that are motivated to live a good life, who strive to be a good person, who are doing all they can to be a great individual are the great men!

Typically these guys are aware of their challenges, understand what it is that makes a good person, and work toward embracing goodness!

So ladies, do not think there is a "perfect" man. There are great men for sure! There are guys who are sincere, respectful, honest, caring, compassionate, committed, decent, and fabulous!

But if you are looking for a Prince Charming who will sweep you off your feet, carry you to a palace where you will live happily ever after, best stop reading fairy tales!

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