Saturday, December 1, 2007

Happiness is the greatest success that anyone can achieved.


Appreciation is an important source of positive energy in love. Yet, over time, things once appreciated with great delight tend to go unnoticed.When a relationship suffers negativity, it may be because there's not enough appreciation being shown. Reawaken your heart to the joy of making statements of appreciation each and every day -- like when you first met!Give a hug. Thank them for doing the expected. Say "Thanks for cooking" or "doing the dishes" or "driving" or for any normal thing they do. Say "I love you." Give a special little gift -- like a beautiful red rose -- or some other little thing you know they will enjoy!Ongoing small acts of appreciation are better than any single large act. Ongoing appreciation fuels the flame of love. Each individual small act of appreciation rekindles warmth and revitalizes your relationship.

SupportMost of us say we want to be involved in a "supportive" relationship. But what's the best way to support a partner?If they are upset, for instance, what should you do? Try to make them feel better? Try to reason with them or solve their problem? Tell them they shouldn't feel the way they do?Ironically, such efforts to "help" usually will upset them more. It comes across as invalidating.So, it's far better just to listen! The most supportive thing you can do is to really hear what your partner is saying. This helps them more than anything else.Remember to breathe. Realize there's nothing to solve. Nothing to fix. Nothing to correct. Maybe even nothing to say. Don't take anything personally.Just be there. And mostly be quiet. This is actually one of the greatest gifts you can give. It will be appreciated later.
Empowered by the gift of natural laws

All you have to do is acknowledge that within lies all knowledge. This is a gift of wisdom and intelligence. It is also an indication of mystical effects and understanding. This can achieve anything that we want. Be studious and persevering. Be is enchanting, deep, mysterious and have a unique talent for understanding people and their motives. Psychic and gifted in many areas of natural law.Knows when to make decisions, when to act and set plans in motion and how to be in complete control of your own destiny.Be a leader, not a follower.Exercise charm, grace and poise. See your gift of extra-ordinary understanding, compassion and humanitarian instincts.Have high ideals that aspires to achieve your planned goals.Be an excellent communicator and listener.You should know when to be quiet.Must understands the correct timing on when to plant seeds that will ultimately prosper. Should particularly cool, calm and collected.Be logical and rational and fair.Always apply a strong sense of justice.
"Forgiveness is the divine asset"





What according to you makes a relationship last a lifetime? Is it only love and understanding. Well it takes lot more than that to make a relationship work. And one of the most important aspect of it is the ability to forgive your partner. It takes a lot of courage to forgive and one who learns to forgive learns to love and make a relationship work. It is said "To err is human and to forgive is divine". How true it is. For only forgiveness can make you understand what love really is.When you forgive you do it for you, not for the other. Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself. It is not something you do for someone else. But it is something you do for yourself and in a way you give yourself peace of mind and it makes you a good person. Refusing to forgive by holding on to the anger, resentment and a sense of betrayal can make your own life miserable. There is nothing so bad that cannot be forgiven. So don't hold on to the anger and resentment but let go of it and you will be much happier in life.Healthy love relationship is not possible without forgiveness! If you have been hurt in your love relationship then it is not possible to enter into fresh relationships unless you have learnt to forgive. You cannot have a loving and rewarding relationship with anyone else, much less yourself, if you continue to hold on to things that happened in the past. Regardless of the situation, making peace with past love partners, your parents, children, your boss or anyone who you think may have "done you wrong" is the only way to improve your chances of a "healthy" relationship with yourself or anyone else for that matter! It is not possible to truly be present and available to a new relationship until you heal the hurt and upsets of the past. You can never live in the present and create a new and exciting future for yourself and your love partner if you always stay stuck in the past. Remember there is no future in the past and all the love awaits you in the future. Forgive and forget is a myth. You may never forget but you can choose to forgive and move on. With time the hurt and the pain will fade. Forgiveness cleanses your system of the poison that will surely worsen and cause sufferings and continued misery if not released. Don't poison your mind with resentment and anger. You cannot take the poison and expect someone else to die. Those who have wronged you will go on with their life and you will be the only one to continue to suffer. So learn to forgive and move on with your life. Remember you deserve to be happy.

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