Do's & Don'ts:
-We should first focus on ourselves in what we really wanted in a relationship & what kind of partner are we looking for.
In my personal point of view all wanted to have a perfect lover means being perfect in everyway.The idealism of having a dream guy/girl is everyones dream.A gorgeous,smart,popular,having a perfect body & being rich this is the typical description of a perfect lover.
When i was still young i always focus to have a boyfriend who is good looking but as time goes by & my own experienced taught me that this is not all about the good looks.Because if you are already in the relationship the looks fades away not because of being old the thing is you two are used to seeing the same face everyday & being with the same person for a long time gets you bored.(this is one of the reasons why many man/woman don't commit themselves or if they had they used to cheat their partner by having another affair.)Because the physical attraction dies.This is a very poor foundation of a relationship.
I'm not saying that physical attraction is not important.For some people this is so important bec. we think that we always deserved better.I agree,beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.But don't just focus on physical attributes you should be also drawn to that person emotionally,i mean from the heart not the lust inside us.
It is a very important factor that you can communicate in the same level,i'm not telling that you should be on the same field or ground of occupation but you can communicate with the same interest.Intellectual attraction contributes a big part to keep your relationship burning & being smart is being sexy in the eyes of the opposite sex.This does not mean you need to be a nerd or geek.Just learn to communicate in very intellectual manner & it is how you bring your communication alive.
-learn to read between the lines.
-having a good sense of humor attracts,if you have this unique trait you are sexy in the eyes of the opposite sex.Don't try to imitate how others deliver because this will just makes you looked trying hard & it will just goes to be a turn-off instead attracting you will just looked ridiculous.