Back up. You're with your boyfriend but that doesn't mean he's thinking about a long-term commitment with you.
A man can have the most amazing experiences with a woman and still not commit to her in a way she wants. Men take their time when it comes to giving up their freedom.
I don't want to insult your intelligence, you have most likely gone through relationships with men and wonder about how strange they could be when it comes to relationships.
Like when they say they'll call..and don't.
Like when they sleep with you and don't call.
Like when they hang out with you, treat you like their girlfriend but still don't commit to you.
Like when they expect you to move in with them, act like a wife and not give you a ring.
Strange creatures.
And sometimes you gotta just leave them alone to figure out who they are and what they want.
If you've been seeing your man for a while and he hasn't brought up the idea of commitment, take a hike from him and disappear.
The less you are around, the more he'll think about you - that is if you meant anything to him at all.
Men who want commitment are consistent in their approach. They will want to be around you, make the time, do what they say they'll do and go the extra mile.
That kind of man is worthy of your attention, anything else and you've got an emotionally unavailable boy who just wants to have his cake and eat it too.
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