Wednesday, November 5, 2008

"Identify A woman In Love"

How to Tell a Woman You Are in Love

You could be one of those people who get really scared of telling a woman that you love her. Especially if that woman is your friend. You are afraid of telling her thinking that if you told her you love her, she might never talk to you again and maybe end a very wonderful relationship that you had.

Bad news is, you might never get to know what the woman feels for you if you never get the guts to voice out your feeling. Be confident, tell her exactly what you feel. That is the only sure way of knowing what the woman feels for you. Here are a few tips you can use to tell a woman that you love her. I can almost tell you even if they do not love you back the way you want them to love you, you wont be risking your friendship with her.

Never rush a woman to give you an answer immediately after you drop the 'i love you' line. Give her a chance to think about it and to think about you too. In doing so, the woman will not make a mistake in terms of her true feelings. If she truly loves you, the woman will always come back to you.

The woman could have never thought of you as a romantic partner and it could be important that you give her time to ponder about this and determine wether she can like you romantically or what she feels for you is pure friendship and nothing else. After she gives you her answer, accept it. Even if you are disappointed with it, accept it in a nice way. That way, you will still remain friends long after you told her you loved her. And who knows, perhaps the way you took the answer could make her fall in love with you.

Be confident when you ask her out and when asking her to be your girlfriend. Women do not like men who are not confident. When telling her you love her, do not complicate by making it sound like a puzzle she needs to solve. That to her will only mean you did not want to tell her in the first place and you were secretly hoping she will not get what you are talking about. Be straight forward and say what you want and mean what you say.

When telling a woman you like her, do not dwell on her outward appearance. That will only show you love her for what she looks like and not as a person. We would all like to be liked as we are. Though looks matter a lot, women want to be love for being beautiful on the inside and then the outside. When telling a woman you like her, go straight ahead and tell her that you love her because of so many things, you can include the looks but trust me, if it came last, she would not really mind. Just don't forget to mention it all together or you will have a disaster on your hands.

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