Thursday, July 10, 2008

"Be Irresistable To Women"

Avoiding Women Seeing You as Just Another "Average" Guy

WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO GUYS THEY PERCEIVE AS AVERAGE.Remember, ATTRACTION doesn't make logical sense... Women don't say, "Oh, he's a kind,honest, loyal type of guy from a good family...AND THAT REALLY TURNS ME ON."Nope.Instead, women say things like:"He's sexy"... "There's chemistry between us"... "I really feel something for him"... etc.And also remember: If a woman feels a strong ATTRACTION for you, then the rest of the equation isn't as important. If she feels it, she'll go out of her way to find good reasons to be with you...even if you're not her "physical type".

On the other hand, no amount of gifts, favors,dinners, kindness, or a good family will make her feel ATTRACTION... at best these things can only make her feel a more "loyal" kind of love.So, if women don't like "average" guys and the most important thing is to make her feel ATTRACTION towards you, then how do you do it?I thought you'd never ask...Let's talk about the word "average" and what it REALLY means.

As far as women are concerned, and especially the ATTRACTIVE ones, men are EVERYWHERE. They're like cars. Every once in awhile one stands out and makes you say, "Oh, that one is nice."A lot of guys take this concept too far and say"Well, I'm not rich, and I'm not famous... so, no really hot woman is going to find me attractive."My experience and research has shown me thatwomen are far more ATTRACTED to things like attitude, confidence, body language, humor, etc.than looks or money. Sure, those things might INITIALLY get a woman's attention, and there are those women that will only settle for a rich or unusually handsome guy... but, this is the extreme minority.

In fact, it's very easy to be seen as "above average" if you know what women are looking for,and you know how to deliver.Remember the danger: If you are perceived as"average" early on, then a switch goes off in her mind, and the game will be over before it's even begun.So, let's do a little exercise...Let's figure out two things:

1) What most guys do that women see as "average",and...

2) What you can do to instantly be seen as "ABOVE average" and, most importantly, ATTRACTIVE.First, let's talk about what most guys do in most situations (more specifically, what most guys do WRONG). Here are some of the things that I've seen...If the setting is a bar or a club, most guys will either say, "Can I buy you a drink?", "Wanna dance?", or "Hey baby, how YOU doin'?"... or they do crass things like stare at women with wanting eyes or grab them as they walk by.If the setting is a public place, like maybe a woman working at a clothing store, a waitress, or some other similar high-traffic situation, most guys will ask a lame question like "Do you have aboyfriend?" or "Can I take you out sometime?"


These kinds of approaches can only result inyou being seen as another lame, average guy.Here are a few ideas to try instead...If you're in a bar or club setting, try asking a woman or a group of women THEIR OPINION onsomething. I personally like this one:"Hey, my friends and I were talking and we need a female perspective... What do you ladies think about this new trend of women being proud ofpaying their own way and buying their own things?"Women will usually ENTHUSIASTICALLY join into a conversation like this one.

I personally like this topic because it starts off by talking about women taking care of themselves in a positive light, which sets the stage for not having to pay for a lot of things right up front!)A quick note: Any conversation topic can beturned into flirting and there is a very special ART to this. If you want to learn how to really become a master of taking any conversation topic and turning it into ATTRACTION, then you really need to go and check this out right now:

If you're out in a public place, at a store where a woman is working or some other high-traffic place, you might try something like this:After chatting about whatever business you're doing there say, "Hey, are you single?"I love this question! It's such a shocker, and it says all the right things. Most guys say, "Doyou have a boyfriend?" which is the usual question. "Are you single?" is much more forward,and most women have to do a double take to thinkfor a moment.If she pauses, I say, "I'll take that as aYES...", which is pretty funny and usually gets a laugh.

In either of these cases, it's now time to getthe digits and get out. You already know that I'm not a fan of standing around and trying to keep a conversation going for any longer than you have to.So, after two or three minutes of small talk and general conversation, just go into the "3Minute Phone Number" close that you've learned in"Fire of Seduction" or in THIS article I wrote...Say,

It was nice talking to you, I'm going to get back to my friends... (or shopping, or whatever)" and as you turn away, turn back and say"Do you have email...?" etc.These two scenarios are obviously very simple,and also very easy. I've had guys say to me,"Well, there's nothing really that different aboutthose approaches."Ah, but there is.The most important difference is that you'redoing something COMPLETELY different than theother 47 guys who have approached her that day...and you also know EXACTLY what you're going to doand say as the conversation progresses.Of course, another thing you can do that will INSTANTLY separate you from the rest of the crowdis to use the idea of being "Playfully Arrogant", whichI teach in my eBook and audio course "Fire of Seduction."This very unique approach has helped many of my thousands of readers to dramatically increase their success with women... and to no longer be seen as AVERAGE by women.

If you haven't learned how to use the almost MAGICAL formula of being Playfully Arrogant, or any of the literally hundreds of other techniques I teach, then you really need to get yourself a copyof my eCourse.You can order it right now and a minute laterit will be in your possession.

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