Thursday, July 24, 2008

"How To Seduce A Man"

How to Seduce Anyone (for Females)

edit] Steps

[edit] The Pose
Look in a mirror facing sideways when you are doing this. Stand up tall. Then tip your hips forward until your back/hips/butt/stomach area make an 's.' Your butt will be jutting out a little, but that's OK! Next, tip your chin slightly down, but only slightly! You do not want to go so far as to create a double chin. With your chin slightly down, look upwards; imagine looking up at someone through your eyelashes. Don't go to extremes though, you do not want to look evil. When you smile, push your lips out a little, slightly pucker them. Next, position your legs to be 'turned in' slightly. This is just rotating the legs from the hip socket in facing each other. Though, again, slightly! You don't want to force it, you will look like a duck! Keep your shoulders slightly back.

[edit] The Walk
Using The Pose step forward with one foot at a time, place one foot in front of the other. As you take a step forward, move the matching hip forward instead of side to side. As you walk your hips should be making a slight figure 8. Don't go to extremes, or you will look like Shakira with a wedgie. Try moving slowly. If you force your walk it will seem too childish. Be careful not to take stomping steps. Keep your feet as close to the ground as you can without dragging them.

The Look.

As you look at someone, first of all: be bold. Do not be shy and look away. Look directly in his eyes. Let him see you looking at him. Stare for a good 20 seconds if you have to. Walk past him, and while not quite facing him, when you know he is looking let the side of your mouth facing him turn up slightly at the corners and look out of the corner of your eye near him, not directly at him; maybe waist level right beside him.

When you look directly at someone, or talking to someone, let your eyes be deep. Let your emotion burn through them. Be penetrating. When you shift your gaze, do so slightly slower than normal, with your eyelashes slowly following your gaze slightly.

When you speak, move your eyebrows slightly, not overly as that can seem too animated. Smile intriguingly. Let your lips linger open for a second after you finish speaking, parted just enough to notice.

Hair.No matter your hair type, you can make it sexy. Let your hair fall in your eyes a little, let your hair partially cover an area of your face. This adds mystery to you and let's the man wanting more. Do not let your hair hide you though!

Curly hair
Make sure you have no frizz. After washing hair, brush through your hair. Let it dry to desired style: air or blow dry. Scrunch your hair to add glorious curl. Guys like hair with character. After hair is dry, use a hair serum, and put a dime sized amount on your fingers and run downwards through hair avoiding roots. Do not use too much, as it can make your hair look disgustingly greasy. Start with the smallest amount, you can always add more.

For thick hairUse a hair serum if you have frizz as mentioned above. Use a fine toothed comb and tease your roots in layers on the top of your head. To tease your hair, hold up sections of hair no more than and inch wide and under the hair comb towards the root from about and inch or two from the scalp vigorously. After you have teased to your preference, hairspray. It will not stay that way unless you do.

*For fine hair:
Follow instructions above, except tease hair all over your head. Also, try blow drying your hair upside down. Another tip: don't condition roots.

Your make up should not be dramatic at all. Always do a smoky eye. Despite you eye color and complexion, you can pull it off. Not all smoky eyes should be the basic black, grey, or brown.

Some colors to use are: plum, olive green, navy blue, gold, silver, copper, burgundy, rosy pink, or even if you want a punk look a bright color. Use thickening mascara, Maybelline 700x's mascara has worked the best. The key to your make-up is not to paint a new you, but to allow a natural, intriguing invitation for the man to see you. Think of shadows. They add depth.
Keep lips looking natural.

Use a foundation that matches your skin tone, and make sure you blend at the jaw. Use a subtle bronzer or shimmer to set. Using a dusty rose blush, use on your cheeks, along your cheekbones.

Make sure you blend it in though, make it look natural and subtle.

Spritz your favorite perfume in the air, one spray, in front of you and walk through it. Allow some to fall in your hair. Musky scents work the best. Fruity and floral scents are alright, but make sure you aim to please him, not another girlie-girl. Although, you should be in love with your perfume because you will be the one wearing it.

If you spray hardly any on, the guy will get a slight whiff, and subconsciously lean in for a stronger 'taste.'

[edit] The Clothes
Take whatever style you like and wear it confidently. Although, some styles that flatter you most and grab guys attention are surprisingly not what you see in fashion magazines but are: vintage, retro, Victorian, classy, sophisticated, and womanly styles. Choose colors that flatter you. Hold up different fabrics up to your face at a fabric store and ask a friend what colors look best on you. Mimic the ones that make your eyes pop in your clothing. A hint: the color of your eyes with always look good on you. Black is a good color as well, it lets your features stand out more, it doesn't distract from you. Black also adds mystery.
Keep things simple.
Anything too frilly or 'fruity' will turn a guy off. Do not show a lot of skin either. A low cut shirt is alright, but rather than skimpy clothing, wear tight clothing. You show what you have while still being covered and add mystery. The guy will automatically want to see more. If you show it all right away he may be satisfied right away in that moment, but what reason does he have to stick around? What more is there to see? Always keep something hidden to keep him coming for more.

Consider wearing pantyhose. Many women don't give hosiery a second thought, but it's a turn-on for nearly all men, and it will flatter your legs. Having him stare at your legs will give you a sense of power, too.

[edit] The Voice
Lower your voice slightly. A high pitched, loud voice will seem too immature. Don't talk too loud or fast. Instead, talk slowly and deliberately. Make sure though, that you don't let your voice be monotone.

Another tip: don't swear or cuss. If swear words are part of your daily vocabulary, they lose their severity. Do not refrain completely though, use them at appropriate times only. Only use them to add to the conversation, not to hold it together. Cussing makes you seem rough and unapproachable.

[edit] Movements

*To catch any guy's attention:
- Lick your lips slowly and deliberately.
- Suck on your finger subtly. Not like a thumb-sucking child though.
- When you lean over, let the smallest bit of your thong show. Do not let it show at other times.

Make sure the guy catches it, and let them know it was deliberate by smiling at them. (Don't show teeth when you smile.)

- When you pick up things, bend over without bending your knees. Let him take a look.
- When you want to talk, motion him over to follow you by the 'head beckoning motion.'
- In extreme cases, and when things are sexual, if the situation and setting are correct, do this: while sitting on a couch, or under a table, without looking at him, lift your foot up to rub against his member. This will turn any man on. Make sure you aren't wearing shoes. Also, use good judgement while using this technique as it can backfire.

[edit] Tips

Perfect 'The Walk.'
Perfect 'The Look.'
Perfect your hair.
Perfect your make-up.
Perfect your wardrobe.
Perfect your voice.
Perfect your movements.

[edit] Warnings

Do not be fake.

Do not lay everything on the table. Always reveal things slowly to him. If he knows everything, you will seem less interesting. By drawing things out, you seem to have more depth and appear more interesting. He will keep coming back trying to figure you out.

Please, do not get overly slutty. Be sophisticated, not trashy. What distinguishes a slut from a siren is class. You can do the same actions, but make sure it's done tastefully and with the sophistication.

Respect him.
Men naturally love being respected. They love being cared for. They love their egos being fed. Do not mother him though. Just listen and sympathize with him. Ask him questions about himself. Let him talk. He will love you forever if you listen to him. He may be saying one thing, but meaning something else. Watch him, observe him. Care about him, at least to some degree.

Don't be obsessive.
Do not allow more than one call a day unless he invites it. Same goes for unanswered e-mails. A conversation is one thing, but make sure it's two-sided.

Allow him to be independent.
Always give him a sense of freedom. Men hate, and I mean hate being trapped. Even though he may be open for commitment, let him see open skies still. You are not his keeper. Let him have alone time, or time with his buddies.

Don't suppress your values and morals. Be you.

Intelligence is a huge turn on. Especially when you are also sexy.
There is a fine line between being seductive and being a whore. Knowing where that line is helps.

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