"Ways Of Love"

RULES ON LOVE

1. Do not fall in love everytime you fall in bed.
2. Learn to detach emotionally.
3. Sex does not equal commitment.
4. Do not revolve your entire life around him/her.
5. Addiction is bad for your heath.
6. Do not cling, act needy or demand.
7. Doormats are for your feet, NOT your heart.
8. It's OK to say NO.
9. Do not grill them, or their friends for information.
10. Master the art of LISTENING.
11. Treat him/her as you would your bestfriend.
12. Friendship creates long term love, and comes before sex.
13. Forget about fixing your partner. IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN.
14. Your choice of partner is a reflection of who you are and who you are not.
15.Enjoy the moment first. Live in the present.
16. Don't worry about the ex's, or start naming your future children.
17. Never read their journal or go through their paperwork.
18. If you have NO TRUST, you have NO RELATIONSHIP.
19. Allow space and freedom between you.
20. Do not always be available.
21. Calling frequently is a turn-off and signals insecurity, neediness and control.
22. Open your eyes to lies and cheating, OR close them, justify the bad behavior, and live with the consequences.
23. Little or no eye contact? Start walking away. They won't notice you are gone.
24. Anyone preoccupied with their physical appearance usually have very little or nothing to offer from within.
25. Look beyond the physical.
26. NEVER compromise your values.
27. DO NOT LOSE YOUR IDENTITY.

28. December-May relationships are great! However, seasons change and the May lover will sooner or later hear the call of Spring.
29. If someone really wants to be be with you, he/she will be.
30. If they ask to be just friends, be just that and look elsewhere for a love partner.
31. If they keep giving reasons for not calling, or say they are extremely busy, GET THE HINT and leave them alone.
32. DON'T EVER give up your friends for him/her.
33. IF YOUR PARTNER ONE DAY LEAVES YOU, BE SURE YOU HAVE FRIENDS, MONEY, A CAREER AND A LIFE OF YOUR OWN WHICH YOU NEVER GAVE UP. If you don't, who do you have to blame but yourself.