And you'd like to make it easy for your man to know that being with you is much, much better thanever being apart, without convincing, arguing, orother unnecessary stress, then you need to read this:
What I'm going to share with you now could lead to the most important single decision you ever make in your love life.
Yes, even more important than saying "I do."
If you're open to it, what's in this email, and the other resources I include here for you to check out could literally "change your luck" for good.
Let's get started.
As a man, I hear and understand a lot of what you might call the "inside scoop" on what men think.
As a result, and after paying attention to this kind of stuff for the last several years... I've come to hear a few of the same things over and over from men and women about love, dating andrelationships.
One particularly fascinating aspect of this are the problems and complaints I keep hearing men share about relationships with women.
Now, why should this matter to you?
Well, because I'd assume that someday you'd like to have a real, loving, lasting relationship with you-know-who:
A real live man.
You've got a decision to make.
You can either keep feeling frustrated that things haven't gone your way, and annoyed that men don't get it, or get you, and that they are all messed up.
In that case, go ahead become the forever single "cat lady" who has 8 cats that sleep in her big empty bed.
You can choose to find out what's really going on with men and how it's totally possible for you to have a healthy and loving relationship with a bona-fide man.
These men are out there.
And for what it's worth, with all my experience I believe a great man is INSPIRED to be the right man by the right woman.
Just as a great female character in a favorite movie of mine says-
"The wrong men can make women "messy."
So the question is... how do you become thatwoman who simply inspires her man to be the greatlover and partner you want?
Here's a good place to start to answer this question.
There's one thing I've found that amazes me most about why men become restless, withdrawn and leave great women and working relationships.
And this one thing is something that women often UNDERESTIMATE when it comes to what keeps a man feeling that intense passion and desire to be with a woman, and make their relationship keep growing.
For the quick direct answer on why men will beso burning with passion at the start of your relationship, and then seem to lose interest... you need to check out the secrets about men I share in my "From Casual To Committed" program.
Discover WHY a man will feel certain he wantsan exclusive and committed relationship with you one month, then doubt if he wants a future at all the next.
And more importantly...
Learn WHAT to do about it so that your man hasthat burning desire to stay close to you and keepyour relationship growing.
Go here now to get the answers you need on why a man makes the decision to commit for thelong term with a woman, and how to set your manand your relationship up for this kind of growth:
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A GREAT RELATIONSHIP: LUCK OR SKILL?
I'd like to know what you believe about menand relationships.
There are really only two ways I see it.
You either believe that you're basically given a certain "luck" with men, and that you've eithergot it or you don't when it comes to true love?
You believe that it takes a certain set of "skills" to meet a great guy and make a realand lasting relationship work, and that, as an intellectually and emotionally intelligent woman, you can improve your own set of "skills."
Here's the thing...
If any part of you is still holding on to theidea that you have bad luck, and that you have been, and are destined to be unlucky, then I have to be honest.
All this really isn't for you, and I don't want you to waste your time or energy here.
You're not really ready to make a change in your life, because you still don't accept the simple fact that it is YOU and only you who holds the power to change things.
But if you believe that love and really amazingand exceptional relationships, like most other things in life, are created by the luck that happens when the right situation (man) intersectswith the right person who's ready... then keep reading.
You're going to get a lot out of this.
For most men, a lasting commitment isn't justa matter of choosing a woman and saying "Yes."
It takes a specific set of ongoing experiencesto get a man to keep opening up and to learn tolove and share more deeply as time goes on.
See... some women naturally understand whatthis "thing" is that I'm talking about and nevercome across some of the other common problems thatother women run into again and again with men andrelationships.
They have an actual SKILL that they useintuitively, which causes the men they're with toactually CHASE THEM and LEAD THEM into a committed and loving relationship.
Isn't that how it's "supposed" to be anyhow?
But as you may know all too well, it doesn'talways work this way for some women.
In fact, it only works this way with men if you know how to trigger specific emotions and responses inside a man.
And then keep those things going and alive in a long-term relationship.
Most women don't like to talk about it, andthey certainly don't like to admit it about
themselves... but there's a lot of women out there who just don't get how to do these things when it comes to men and relationships.
It's as though every woman is just supposedto know this stuff because she's female.
And while I believe that woman have many, manyamazing and natural gifts... not every woman in the world is born with the skill of knowing how toinspire a man in a long-term committedrelationship.
Not every woman naturally "gets" how to keep things passionate and growing with a man more than a few months or so until the guy predictably pulls away or becomes distant and starts doubting things.
It's at this moment that, for some women, the wheels come off completely... and they have no idea what to do about it to get things back on track.
And this is when women most often feel hurt, unappreciated and start doing and saying thingsthat come from a "lesser" place inside them andultimately pulls their relationship apart.
These things usually include:
-Saying negative and critical things about the flaws they see in the man
-Feeling sad and down about themselves
-Constant worrying, analyzing and feeling bad which gives them a heavy negative energy aroundthe man
-Becoming angry and blaming a man for not loving them or treating them the way they expect
- And a whole slew of what I call "Convincing Behaviors" that only push the man farther away and kill the love and attraction he was feeling
So let me ask you a very simple question...
Which situation sounds better to you-
A) Being a woman who "gets" certain things about aman that, in turn, gives you the ability to understand what a man is doing and why... and foryou to be the kind of woman in a relationship thatwill make a man KNOW, with his FEELINGS andEMOTIONS, that he wants to be close and connected with you, and only you.
B) Being a woman who just doesn't understand where a man is coming from and why everything has to beso difficult... and sensing that a man isn't"there with you"... and not having a man who"feels it" for you on an intense-passionate-gut-reaction-emotional-gotta-be-with-her-or-else kindof level.
Which situation sounds better to you?
And which has a higher potential for "success"when it comes to a real, loving, and lastingrelationship?
Obviously, the first one.
But which situation can you honestly identify with more?
Unfortunately, if you're like lots of womenI've talked to about men, dating and relationships, then you identify more with the second situation.
Well, guess what?
I've got GOOD NEWS for you...
There's a simple "skill" you can learn and become great at with men that often means the difference between you experiencing more of the first situation above, instead of the second,
Best of all, contrary to popular belief, this skill is NOT something you have to be born with or else.
The truth is, ANY WOMAN can learn these skillswho is opening to learning about men.
And any woman can quickly begin improving her dating life, or her relationship with that onespecial man with this one skill.
And how do I know this?
Because I've helped literally thousands ofwomen do exactly this - transform their love lifefrom a difficult and painful uphill struggle to anoften effortless journey filled with more love and fulfillment than they ever had before.
Regardless of where they were at to begin with.
So what is this one essential skill among the many relationship skills?
It's the skill of creating ATTRACTION insidea man, and making your man feel that intenseemotion of ATTRACTION when he's with you.
ATTRACTION, HOW IT WORKS FOR MEN, AND HOW TO CREATE IT AND KEEP IT GOING
What is attraction, and how does it work whenit comes to men?
Before you read further, I'd like you to take aminute and think about what the word ATTRACTIONmeans to you.
By the way, I'm talking about the FEELING of attraction here and what creates or destroys it.
See if you can WRITE DOWN exactly what youthink the word ATTRACTION means. (The process ofwriting down your thoughts helps you to organizethem, and I also recommend that you keep a journalof your experiences as you improve in each area ofyour life).
There are no right or wrong answers here, sothink about it for a few minutes...
And ACTUALLY WRITE YOUR THOUGHTS DOWN.
OK, did you do that? Good.
So what did you come up with?
A lot of women seem to think that ATTRACTION is when one person wants what another person has.
Some think of ATTRACTION as the result of beinggood-looking or otherwise "attractive". In fact, Ithink a LOT of people confuse ATTRACTION with"being attractive."
When I think of the concept of ATTRACTION, Ithink of it primarily as an EMOTION.
In other words, ATTRACTION IS A FEELING that weeither feel, or we don't.
And there's not much of anything at all in between when it comes to a man being at a placewhere he's ready to be open, loving and COMMITTEDwith a woman... long-term.
It seems to me that attraction is actually moreof a COMBINATION of powerful experiences andbeliefs that come together to form a very, veryspecial and all powerful SUPER-EMOTION.
However you think about it, there is a process that happens between men and women that keeps them connecting - to get together both physically and emotionally in relationships.
In fact, think about this...
You are reading this right now, which is a miracle.
Think of the thousands upon thousands ofgenerations of ancestors that you have had... andthink about the fact that EACH ONE WAS ABLE TOFIND A PARTNER TO MATE WITH.
And then think about the fact that you were thesole winner in a race of five hundred MILLION orso sperm trying to get to the egg and burrow inside.
You are the result of, and represent, probably the most amazing, delicate and rare process ever.
One of the parts of this process that fascinates me is how each pair of your ancestors decided to get together with THAT PARTICULARPERSON at THAT PARTICULAR TIME.
Your ancestors chose each other over other potential mates or partners for specific reasons,qualities and characteristics.
Most of which have been passed to you.
Now, I know that some women might be upset thatI'm talking about this whole concept in such ananalytical and detached way...
If you're one of those women, stop reading now!
The point here is that there is a LOT to learn from the underlying "biological processes" thathave ultimately resulted in you being here rightnow.
After working, studying and observing things in this area for several years, and listening and working with women, it finally dawned on me thatATTRACTION WAS BASICALLY EVERYTHING.
If a man feels ATTRACTION for a woman, on adeep emotional level BEYOND PHYSICAL ATTRACTION,then nothing else really matters.
Not looks, age, nationality, wealth, religion,etc.
Not peer pressure from friends and family.
Not even where a man is in his own life, which he often uses as an excuse - such as where his career is, his personal income, that he needs his freedom, he's too young, he needs to "have hisfun" before he settles down... all that stuff.
None of it matters!
On the other hand, if a man DOESN'T feelATTRACTION for a woman, then nothing else matters in that case either!
You can't "talk" a man into feeling ATTRACTIONany more than you can "talk" a person who has justeaten a huge meal into feeling hungry.
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Unfortunately, some women try all the things they can think of that would work FOR THEM,
andtry and make a man feel a certain way about them inside.
Think back to the "Convincing Behaviors" I listed earlier.
A few examples of Convincing Behaviors are:
-Calling a man when he's not calling you aftera great date and showing your frustration with him (it's an indirect emotional ploy that a manwon't positively respond to)
-Becoming upset or demanding that a man doesn't want more from your relationship because it's beenhowever many weeks or months
-Becoming intimate and sexual with a man early on and telling, rather than asking him, that this "means" that you're exclusive
All of these things are about as likely to work as a creepy guy buying bottled "pheromones" to try and pick up women.
Now, what is it that all of the things aboveare missing?
I'll tell you.
One, they don't show any thinking through of how the man is going to feel when a woman does these things.
And two, they not only won't make a man feel attraction... they'll literally kill any kind of attraction a man WAS feeling before.
In short, here's where I'm going with this-
If you don't know how to create attractionwith a man, and you keep doing things that aredriven simply out of YOUR own feelings, emotions,fears, desires, etc... you're not likely to getvery far with a man.
If you can step outside yourself for long enough to understand a few of the things that are going to make him feel great, guess what?
Not only will you ATTRACT a man...
You'll also start getting all kinds of amazingthings back in return.
More more more!
Let me ask you... Do you know why men don't ALWAYS go for and marry the "best woman"? ("Best" meaning the woman who'sthe most generous, loving, patient, thoughtful, educated, successful, etc.)
It's the same reason why women don't go forthe "nicest" guy.
The reason men don't go for or stay with the better woman is that men aren't making theirchoices "logically."
They make their choices because of the way they are FEELING.
A woman can be honest, stable, attractive, and wonderful.
But a man won't want really want and need her unless she makes him FEEL the magical feelingsof ATTRACTION inside.
Think of ATTRACTION like a drug (which itreally is). If a man is under the influence of it,then he's gone. He'll do anything to get more.
If he's NOT under the influence, then YOU'REgone. Nothing you do will matter if he doesn't feel it.
If you doubt what I'm saying, ask the next 10SUPER-HOT men you see what they think of this.Read this newsletter to them, and watch theirreactions. You'll see.
OK, now that you've heard a little bit more ofmy personal perspective, I'd like you to look backinto your life and think about all thosesituations with men that made no sense at all...
Think about the men that you treatedwonderfully that passed you up and went on to the"bitchy" woman... and think about all the male"friends" you've had... the ones who told you theywanted a "nice girl"... but kept dating the samekind of neurotic "bad girl" who didn't have herlife together AT ALL.
Is it all making sense now?
They didn't keep feeling that INTENSE ATTRACTION for you that they might have had ataste of when you first met.
And as time went on and your relationship started to seem less certain, you were not onlydoing less of the things that connected you andyour man on the physical and emotional attraction level...
You were also actually doing the things thatkilled these attraction feelings altogether.
The things you were trying to do to keep yourrelationship together were having the EXACT OPPOSITE EFFECT of what you wanted.
It's harsh to think about, but it's true.
If you don't do something to learn how tomake men feel ATTRACTION, and not just physicalattraction which won't last, then most likely,this is going to keep happening for you.
I have to point out one more thing. As Imentioned earlier, I think a lot of women confusethe idea of being "attractive" with the emotion called ATTRACTION.
You can make a man feel an INCREDIBLEATTRACTION, even though you're not what mostpeople would think of as "attractive".
But, of course, you have to know HOW.
The point is, that if you're not perfectlythin, "done-up" and "flawless" (and... who is!?),you can LEARN how to make men feel this wonderfulemotion called ATTRACTION.
It's a skill.
It's taken me YEARS to be able to even talk about this stuff in simple terms like this to make sense, and it's taken me the same time to figure out how a REAL woman, without giving herself away and wasting way too much of her time and energy, can make a man who hasn't seemed "ready" or "emotionally available", feel ATTRACTION in a way that will lead to a deep and lasting connection.
How, you ask, can this happen?
Well, you've read about avoiding the common and destructive behavior of trying to CONVINCE a manto feel any of these things "logically."
That's a part of it.
That's a small part of what NOT to do.
But there are several other pieces of the puzzle, from voice tone and body language, tosecrets of powerful and "opening" communication,to specific ways to respond and "challenge" a manto get him physically and emotionally engaged, and everything in between.
It's a system, and it all works together.
There are two KEY aspects of learning how to besuccessful with men, dating and relationships:
1) The "Inner Stuff"
2) The "Outer Stuff"
The "Inner Stuff" is all about learning how toTHINK and how to manage your thoughts, intentions,emotions and energy.
It's also about understanding how and whyattractive men feel that amazing emotion calledATTRACTION for some women, and not others.
The "Outer Stuff" is all of the how-to's: whatto say, when, how and why.
Which is more important?
Well, they're BOTH important.
But what I notice is that most women just wantthis whole "problem" of finding a great man andarriving in a close, secure, loving, lasting relationship, to go away.
They want to "arrive" into an unflinching lovewhere each person truly understands the other on a deep, deep level.
But the strange part is that they want to learn the "Outer Stuff" first because they believe that it's just a matter of saying the right things sothat there's love and understanding.
In other words, they want the female versionsof "pick-up" lines.
Except, the end goal isn't sex - like it oftenis for men with pick-up lines.
It's often wanting more of a deep, loving,lasting commitment built over-night.
Which leads us to the "Inner Stuff."
The REASON that the "Inner Stuff" is soimportant, is that attractive men don't judge youon what you can say about true love and how muchyou really want it in your life.
And just because a man talks to you, gets your phone number or email address, or takes you out on a date DOES NOT mean that he FEELS anything deep inside.
And even if you're in a relationship with a man, it doesn't mean he's feeling that "forever"feeling.
And here's where I draw an IMPORTANTdistinction for you.
There are 2 types of ATTRACTION a man can feel.
And for a man to become "serious" about awoman, he HAS to feel BOTH.
Men don't DECIDE to feel ATTRACTION for awoman.
ATTRACTION is something that happens on its own, for its own reasons.
Sure, it's relatively easy, in the grand scheme of things, for a man to feel "PHYSICAL ATTRACTION."
But having a man feel what I call "EMOTIONALATTRACTION" is a whole different story.
Earlier I mentioned that there's a reason why a man will commit himself emotionally to one woman, and not another?
This "other" kind of attraction is a BIG partof what's going on here.
The way to cause a man to feel ATTRACTION foryou is to UNDERSTAND how and why it works, andthen communicate in a way that makes it happenin a way that actually triggers the FEELING ofATTRACTION inside of a man on a deep emotional level.
In my ebook, I spend several full sectionsteaching the "Inner Stuff"... all those things that help you get the INSIDE together, so you will naturally pull the OUTSIDE (behavior and directcommunication) together.
Of course, I also pack in tons of specificsabout the "Outer Stuff" that men respond best toand that REALLY WORKS.
This stuff is CRITICAL to the quality of yourfuture love life and relationships.
I wouldn't have taken all the time, effort, andenergy to put this together unless I thought itwas important.
If you want to overcome your challenges andreally take your love life to the next level, thenyou owe it to yourself to check this out.
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